What day do you usually give out chocolates? Growing my family never celebrated any holidays and this year I'm spending my Easter with a friends family. My friend said he and his family will get me chocolates but I want to give them some too. I would ask my friend but it's embarrassing for me.
>>16948394
Sunday bro
Google, faggot.
I have nothing to say to women I want to talk to. It's such a bogus situation. Like I want to say "I would like to get to know you better". But that sounds creepy to just randomly say.
I am 25 and never had a girlfriend because of this. Why has fate been this cruel? What does it feel like to have a girl like you back?
I am sure no girl has ever liked me more than a friend. What a horrendous feeling.
I don't think that's creepy. I do think it makes it clear you are romantically interested, but that's not a bad thing at all.
We fucking love to talk about ourselves, so you could always go that route. Don't compliment face/body/hair at first, that IS creepy. Compliment dress or shirt or whatever seems tactful (i.e. compliment a unique top, not a generic one or one that shows a mile of tiddy). Go from there. Ask her about herself. I love that shit. If I like you, I'll ask you about you, but if you want to break the ice, let me ramble about me.
>>16948352
>I have nothing to say to women I want to talk to. It's such a bogus situation.
You need to meet them in situations where there are things to talk about. This is what makes clubs -the kind whete you meet to practice and discuss common interests, not the kind you dance in- and conventions such good places to meet people. Same goes for classes, as long as they're not part of a school curriculum. Even museums and bookstores can work well.
The rule of thumb is this: if she HAS to be there it's bad, if she WANTS to be there it's good, and when in doubt, assume it's bad.
>Like I want to say "I would like to get to know you better". But that sounds creepy to just randomly say.
You put it at the end of your first conversation. That's the non-creepy way to say it. In fact, it's the only non-creepy way to say it: no sooner, no later.
I hate going to clubs. Also, let me ask you guys some ethics questions. I work at a university as a research specialist. All I do really is gather data about university demographics in the area and analyze it. i have no impact on grades or anything.
Is it unethical for me to date women who are students here? Assuming the girl is close to my age and not like a freshman or something.
This is probably the wrong site to ask but here goes
What do you live for? I'm not particularly depressed, but I've recently finished university and without a structured feeling of progress, I feel lost. I'm not religious, I don't have much in the way of hobbies, I'm not close to anyone, I don't really want kids, I'm emotionally distant so relationships don't really work for me.
I don't really know what I'm doing. I feel like I just live so that I don't die. Work for money, buy food/pay rent/etc, repeat. What keeps you going?
Like I said, not talking about stopping suicide, just motivation that moves you forward.
I feel this way all the time.
Medication helps.
>>16948353
I'm on Zoloft. I also drink. Been meaning to find a weed guy too.
>>16948350
Nothing anymore, but that's what happens when you invest in people.
>be me
>19 yo female
>in love with a friend even tho he has a girl
>keep fantasizing about him and feeling guilty for wanting him even tho he already has someone
>I've been feeling this way a whole year it doesn't wanna stop
what do i do
>>16948284
Get away from him.
>>16948289
I can't. He's my friend. We also are in all classes together
>>16948284
Find another guy.
Meeting other women and spending time with them has always helped me move on.
Sure the first guy you meet may be lame as fuck, but give him a chance and he'll either grow on you, or you just find another guy. Keep repeating until you meet your new Prince Charming.
Don't get sucked into the "I want him because I can't have him" logic
Girls, any experience with Gynefix?
>>16948247
No.
Yes. Good and bad ones. Got one and then couldn't make the follow up check in time. Never felt or saw anything weird but yeah i got pregnant and the ultrasound showed that the iud has vanished. I still got a new one ( i had to have an abortion cause i was on heavy medication, which was the reason for an iud in the first place). Now this one is in since a year. No complains this time besides light spotting for up to 14 days.
>>16948247
Wat the fuk. Nope my husband had vasectomies.
Fell asleep at my night time security job I was planning to quit next week
Well first time I napped for 45 minutes so I figure I might as well quit now so they dont bother me
How many weeks notice SHOULD I give?
>>16948226
What ever notice you planned to give next week, plus an extra week
>>16948226
Why quit shit happens?
Next time don't nap?
Honestly I do grave and its hell if I don't catch a nap sometimes.
15 min goes a long way.
>>16948280
I was gonna quit next week either way
They'll likely give me a warning but I'd rather not deal with that so I'll just say three weeks notice since I was gonna go with two weeks originally
So I got up early this morning, felt fine, no problems. I ate some breakfast - cereal and toast, then walked to work. All of a sudden while walking I got dizzy and the world started spinning and I had to just head back, I couldn't walk straight. When I got home I drank a lot of water and went to bed.
I'm still lying here now. I have never been hungover before - whenever I have gone drinking I have always felt fine the next day. Maybe there's always a little bit of a delayed reaction where I can sometimes feel a bit tired and rough later in the morning, but I was actually worried I was going to faint or something this morning.
Last night I finished off a bottle of scotch - there wasn't much to it, like 3 glasses worth, then I had a fourth from a new one. I guess I drank that quite quickly though i.e. within 10-15 minutes... Or, I think I possibly drank most of that in about the same length of time as the song "Free Bird" by Lynyrd Skynyrd. I remember listening to it shirtless and having a few then going to bed and having the last one and falling asleep.
I don't usually do that kind of stupid stuff but I was really upset at the time so I just kind of went for it.
Anyone have any advice? I have never been genuinely hung over before, I usually drink responsibly, so I am trying to drink water as much as I can. Maybe I should go eat something
>>16948199
It could be Amata.
>>16948218
What is Amata? The Roman mythological Queen of Latins?
>>16948225
Nothing What is Amata with you?
Hello /adv/. So there's a girl who wanna sleepover at my place for 2 nights next week. Her friend was originally planning to come, but she cancelled it coz of some reasons. She doesn't seem to mind coming alone and just be together with me. She also told me that she's not gonna tell her parents that she's sleeping over at my place. Is this a sign that she want my D? The thing is, she's a hardcore christian girl. So I'm quite confused.
What in the world makes you think she's interested in you?
>>16948157
>she wants to stay at your place by herself
>she's not telling her parents
>"does she want the D"
chances are pretty good
>>16948200
Or, you know, the more sensible explanation is that her parents wouldn't approve of her staying over at a guy's house if she's a Christian.
Jesus Christ, why do guys take everything as a sign of interest?
My teacher wears the same filthy clothes everyday and smells horrible and he constantly tells all the students that they neet to wash and smell bad (Even when they don't)
He's been at this for 10 years.
He makes the other teachers panic and has made it there obsession aswell.
What do I do /adv/?
Thanks.
Nothing.
He has problems that only he can solve. You making a thing of it isn't going to help anyone else, because it's not going to make him change. Probably just drive him deeper into whatever he is in.
>>16948137
This. There have been people like you in the past, and there will be people like you in the future. You're not going to change anything
>>16948135
Leave a bar of soap on his desk. Or a stick of deodorant in a gift wrap with his name on it. Dont tell anyone it was you faggot. Itll sink (stink ;) ) in
Hey /adv, I have a stupid question. I make music since a few years but recently I starded to release some tunes on a label and being played on the radio.
Problem is my name start with a simplification of Head to Hed and ppl make typos nearly everyday.
It's Hedxxxxx and they write Headxxxxxx
>On the posters in town there's typos.
>On the mastering the sound engineering send back there's typos.
>On the internet articles there's typos.
>On soundcloud previews the label guys upload there's typos.
Do you think changing name would be relevant ? I'm not a native english speaker so I have troubles making up my mind.
PS:I'm not a big artist I am newfag semi-pro
pic not related
It's not too late to change your name.
Are there any other musicians just called Hed? Why don't you just go by that? or maybe just one x.
>>16948136
The x are for letters that I don't want to write for privacy reasons.
Imagine my name is something like HedHunter and ppl write HeadHunter
>>16948136
Never heard of Hed Kandi? Huge dance/disco label.
I spent the last year not going to school. My parents paid for me to live in an apartment in another state thinking I was going to college and I dropped out long ago.
Now my dad's asking for my tax info so he can file for his exemptions or whatever the fuck it is. I don't know what to do. I'm totally fucked. I have to tell him the truth but I wish there was a way for me to just get rid of all this anxiety I've been feeling for the past couple days and just tell him. But honestly I don't deserve to feel ok about this, I deserve to be anxious and nervous and I deserve to kill myself.
I deserve to die. I wasted my parents money and I lied to them, I am worthless. I feel lower than scum.
Why am I even posting this here, I do not deserve advice, there is no advice to give. I just need to tell them. I just need to tell them. Fuck why can't I do it.
did you have a good time though?
If you truly hate your parents and want them to suffer, go ahead with killing yourself. Otherwise, you're just trying to escape having to deal with it. It's not that what you did should be punishable by death, it's just another way to not face up to it. "Deserving" to kill yourself means deserving no consequences, and just causing more issues for other people.
...because what you need is a mild brain washing so you don't feel too bad about it, and even end up thinking it was a good idea.
Then plan the best way to weasel around the truth when you own up,
so you slowly meld the two realities ...
(your dad's nonsense with the actual truth and the bullcrap you're gonna tell).
...and with this tactic, you should sorta get there in the end without too many bumps. Where all realities converge with least fuss.
Hi guys, beta cuck here.
In about a year or so, I plan to switch from air national guard to active duty and was wondering if I should finance a vehicle. I currently have $9000 in my savings and wanted to get a 5 year loan for a $14000 vehicle. I make, on average, $1600 a month. Rent is cheap, well maintained diet, income also coming in from attending college (not included in what I make), but my current car is taking a dump on me and I have thought about a new vehicle.
Is it smart to finance a 2013 hybrid vehicle with 60,000 miles on it, or should I just finance a new car, around the same price, but without any of the comfortable amenities I'd prefer?
>>16948099
Never buy anything you can't pay in full for.
Cars are a depreciating asset, cheap and reliable is ideal but a good service record account for a lot as well. What sort of mileage do you normally do in a year? D
>>16948099
>Hi guys, beta cuck here.
soo i just got my new printer already setup and all,printed some pictures fine and all but there's a problem, i can't print gifs it wont let me,everytime i print them its a picture how do i make it so it moves,got any ideas????
*Facepalm*
You can't fix stupid.
This isn't Harry Potter, we can't print moving pictures.
Anon double *Facepalm* im being sarcastic,you really think theres someone that stupid out there?
>21
>no problems at all, not even with money
>feel absolutely nothing
>bought cocaine
>done cocaine
>not impressed, overrated
>contemplating about suicide
>started feeling like a faggot because of it, i am kinda ashamed of me
>thinking of methods of dying but without the people around me knowing I heroed, like making some shit and getting shot
>feeling a bigger faggot than before
>will do some more coke in 5 mins - anyway i think is some shitty stuff
>thefuck is wrong with me?
pic related, also general drug thread, post your story, i am bored
Could I have the coke then if you didn't like it? I never got to try it, though pretty sure I'd prefer adderall anyway since it lasts longer. But snorting things is fun, I like the burn for whatever reason.
Anyway drugs don't really fix depression. Coke won't give you any answers. I've tried psychedelics and any life meaning I came up with was pretty simple and stupid once sober. Why would you go with coke if you're depressed? Stimulants are just going to make you overthink things faster and more efficiently.
>>16948072
Honestly, there's three options if you don't like nose. The first is that you have some kind of mechanical (can't think of a better word for it) in your brain that prevents you from feeling pleasure in general. It won't be a mental issue, because that's not how coke works.
Option two is that you've bought a bag of shit. Unless you're in a country where its grown I can promise you that nose isn't pure, regardless of what your dealer told you. They'll come all this crap about "oh it's 92%" or "got some 98% breh so it's £ 20 extra", but certainly in Europe the stuff you buy at retail level will be between 10% - 15% cocaine and the rest is filler, usually a mix of either pharmaceuticals or other street drugs and inert powder. It's not unheard of for people to sell "nose" that doesn't actually have any cocaine in it at all, because if you've never had it before, or even if you've just never has good nose before, as long as it looks about right and gets you some kind of a hit you won't know the difference.
As an aside to that, I went on holiday to Peru once and nearly fucking died the first night. You can buy a huge uncrushed crystal, maybe 10g, for the price of a beer, and of course it's absolutley pure. In my nievity I didn't realise it was 10x stronger than what I'm used to and railed about half a g in one go. Not pleasant.
Option 3 is that you're just not doing enough. This will depend on your tolerance and the purity of what you have, but it's generally better to split a g in to 4/5 lines and be as high as a giraffe's eyebrows for an hour and a half than it is to do tiny little ones over the course of a whole night and just feel like you've had too much coffee.
yeah, don't know about that.
I got dumped yesterday. I am not in love with her or some shit like that, its just that i'm feeling used(i know, what the fuck?), just like a lil'bitch. And frustrated.
So about a 5 months ago I made a new group of friends through a girl I work with. We got close and she started bringing me along on casual outings with them. They're all pretty nice and I enjoy the time we spend together. There's one guy, we'll call him T, who she considers her best friend. They've been close for years and years and years.
Recently I've gotten much closer with the girl. And it's suddenly created a lot of tension in the group. It's obvious to anyone looking in that T wants to be with this girl. And I can tell that he's started becoming miserable when I'm around (Which lately has been nearly every day). He's super nice and would never say anything to anyone, always wants everyone to be happy, but I feel awful about it. Whenever she gives me any sort of special attention I can see his face drop, and it makes me feel like I can't enjoy my time with her, or accept the attention she gives and it makes me come across as distant to her, which I don't want
Is there any way I can fix this? Putting myself in his shoes I can totally understand and relate to how he feels, and I'm not sure there's anything someone else could that would make me feel better about it. So I'm stumped
he is a beta male and needs to be taken advantage of. fuck the girl and when youre done snapchat him a post sex picture and caption it: lmao just destroyed this slut. then the next day go up to him and punch him in the stomach and steal his lunch money
It's his own fault for not making a move on her. You can't tip toe round this girl because one of her friends is a beta faggot.
If she's into you I say bang her.
Tell her to wise up and deal with the situation instead of pretending there's no problem. It's not fair to you or the beta for her to keep this up.