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Is it normal that my best friend is distancing herself from me cuz she got into a relationship a few weeks ago? I'm happy for her but at the same time I feel betrayed in some way. Should I tell her my thoughts? Am I just too sensitive or what? Is it because I'm a guy?
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>>16949876
Yes, it's normal. Yes, it's because you're a guy. Her guy is going to want more of her time and she's going to want to give it to him.
I used to have tons of single girl friends. Now that I'm married I've pretty much moved on from all those friendships. It's just something you trade in.
Whining to her about it won't change it. She's moved on, best you do too.
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Don't know about normal but I can see how it happens. You've not been betrayed. If you're really her friend you'll give her her space. Otherwise you're going to make her feel like she has to choose between you or her bf, and that's not fair to her.
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>>16949906
Sure it's fair, she'll just choose the bf. That's actually already happening/happened.
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How do I become a more confident speaker, socially and in front of strangers?
I find that I can look people in the eye almost steadily, but stammer a lot and trip myself up when I try to speak fluently.
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misaki was exactly right. for people with extreme confidence issues they must treat others with the utmost contempt.
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>>16949808
That only works with people my age.
With older people, I crumble.
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>>16949822
it works with older people to you just haven't perfected it. if anything it works better because you have the FUGGIN OLD PEOPLE card.
honestly dude, it was super fucking hard at first because i was the very shy and quiet kid but over the years ive learned that people fucking love it. for some reason their minds think that because you think you're better that means you ARE better and you'll have them start tiptoeiing around you and seeking you out more.
totally fucking bizarre but truth is stranger than fiction.
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Hey /adv/.
I'm pretty sure you guys get threads like this on the regular but this issue has been bothering me for quite some time.
I'm ugly. Incredibly ugly. So ugly to the point where the only way I could improve the way I look is by plastic surgery. This kind of shit has never gotten to me until recently. I've started noticing people making comments about how my round face, my ugly nose, my disgusting head shape and so on. It's even gone to the point where people just look at me in disgust and sometimes even "quietly" (not really) tell ask friends, "Why does he look like that?", "He is so ugly".
Obviously remarks like this make me incredibly self conscious about the way I look. I get so anxious around people which in turn causes me to over-think situations way too much and sperg out like a retard. I just wish I couldn't give a fuck what people thought of how I looked but its gotten to the point where whenever I go home I just stare at my mirror and constantly ask myself why am I so vile to look at.
so /adv/, how do I give less fucks?
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>>16949793
I have a weird-shaped face too and ppl look at me as though I were an alien. I just got used to it, altough it hurts sometimes. :/
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>>16949793
Post a pic, and then I'll give advice, and feedback. After that build-up, I feel like I'm being teased.
Do you plan on plastic surgery?
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It's only your ego associating itself with your appearance. The sad part is you haven't realized how much more you're worth than just your looks.
I'm sure you're a good hearted dude, just hold on to your virtues and work from there my dude. You're more than just your looks what what somebody has to say about them.
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It is not normal to push away the people you like, isn't it?
Pic not related.
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Yea if you're 10
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>>16949785
Depends.
When you like someone, you begin to trust them, thereby making yourself more vulnerable to them.
Sometimes, people who dislike this vulnerability isolate themselves in order to reduce the chances that their friend will betray them or hurt them.
This is common in people with anxiety.
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>>16949785
what exactly do you mean? Do you deliberately avoid and/or antagonize people you like.
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So I was always interested in Anime, and video games. It was a huge part of my childhood and growing up. I recently had a desire to become a voice actor for anime or video games but I have no idea where I can start or how to start it up. I checked all around my state (R.I) and I can't find anything or anyplace to start out at. I know its a long shot but does anyone know or how I can start a career like this?
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>>16949772
Bump
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>>16949805
Biddy bump bump
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Get started in drama/theater. Voice acting is still acting. Maybe get a portfolio going of voice samples? Look into auditions?
>ask grill to dance
>I'll think about it
Does that mean I fucked up /adv/?
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Wait for answer, if whe doesn't answer move on
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does she seem into you? if so she might be playing hard to get
otherwise, she's probably waiting for someone better to ask her
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Tell her its a 45 and not an LP, so make up your fucking mind quick.
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>23
>shitty $14.30 an hour factory job til school next semester
>Trying to get a different job for $15.50 right now i hate it so much
>3rd shift, 11 pm-7 am
>Sunday-thursday
>On mandatory OT for weeks and weeks
>My fucking work week is 11 pm sunday-7 am saturday
>My boss is a fucking asshole
>Tells us that we have mandatory overtime this weekend
I come in wearing a jimi hendrix hoodie every day so it'll probably be pretty obvious that i'm not a religious person, but can I get away with saying that friday is a religious observance for me and that I can't come in? I'm so fucking sick of this shit. I'm not even going to get into why I hate this job but its fucking awful.
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>>16949753
Aren't there laws around this?
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>>16949766
Not in Wisconsin, a "Right to work" state, thank you scott walker.
They can make me come in on easter too, I haven't asked yet, but I think that we have to
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>>16949766
Also, no unions, thank you scott walker.
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TL;DR I shit my pants and need to get away with it.
Last night I went for a drink with friends. I was wasted and was wearing my housemate's expensive leather jacket (she's a gal, it was ironic)
I don't do vodka or Jaegar because it fucks my stomach up but in drunken stupor accepted any and every shot, leading to
an absolute anal eruption. I managed to get to the bathroom in time, but I made a huge mess, it was all over my clothes and
all up the back of my friend's leather jacket. I sneaked out the bar without being seen and made it home without any
further accidents.
Problem is, the jacket is in my room (in a black bin bag) and I can't sneak it out the house to the bins without passing my housemate's rooms
or the kitchen/living room. They'll smell it as I go by. I can't leave it in my room either because it's smelling more and more like shit in here.
How do I get it out of here? I can't throw it out the window. I need to get away with this but I can't wait anymore, the stench is foul.
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>>16949733
Hide it somewhere until your roommate leaves the house and then go and throw it in the garbage bin, tell her you lost it and buy her a new one when you get money.
Only thing i can think of right now.
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>>16949733
man up and clean it.
Get antibac wipes and go to town
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>>16949767
I have promised to buy her a new one, at least. She's convinced I lost it at the bar or on the way home, so she's asked me to go look for it.
I'm worried that I wasn't as crafty about shitting myself as I drunkenly thought I was and if I play along and call the bar, they might remember me. A web of lies is growing and I don't wanna be known as the guy who shits himself.
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I have never been late or called out before, only today. I donated blood at the Red Cross and I had a pretty nasty reaction to it. I threw up, sweated, fainted twice, etc. all over one pint of blood loss.
I called my boss and told her I am probably too sick to make it (I work at an airport and am on my feet at the check in for 5-6 hours at a time, no break in between).
I feel like she is mad at me. I WANT to go in, and I don't go out of my way to fuck things up, but I feel like I just got hit by a truck and I know that the airport is very hot, has lots of lights, and lots of people. I just can't do it today.
Do you think she will get over this? Should I just get over it and go in so she'll see that I'm sick? Even the thought of the commute makes me sick.
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She's probably annoyed right now because it's an inconvenience. It means she'll have to figure out how to run things smoothly without a worker. It's a natural response.
She'll get over it.
Stop being a dweeb.
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>>16949695
This, pretty much. Maybe there's noone on-call that she can request right now, because he/she called in sick as well? Lots of possibilities, don't worry about it. You are sick and can't work, you called in advance, not your problem anymore.
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>>16949689
Here is how bosses work if they are normal and not openly an asshole.
>You call, boss will be like oh...ok thats fine
>Hangout and your boss will be naturally flustered trying to fill your slot
>Get kinda mad but not because of you but because of herself and not being able to fix a small issue that should be foreseeable to happen once in a while
>If she is a normal person she will get confused with the emotions and blame you but never say anything
>This will pass in a day so next time you go in it'll be fine
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Can anyone here help me to choose headphones?
Not professional ones.
I seek headphones which
>have mic
>would last at least 2 years
>comfortable for big head
>have ok audio quality
>no external sound card needed
>are cheaper than 90$
>primary used with PC for multimedia
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>no sound card needed
>ok audio quality
pick one.
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Sorry can't help. Just want to say you should buy mic and headphones separately. You'll get much higher quality products (and therefore better value) this way.
In any case I hope someone can provide the answer you're looking for
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>>16949653
Well, my ears aren't musical enough for advanced stuff.
Looking for the best I can get with distributed sound card. So I could tell the difference between 70$ headphones and 10$ headphones at least.
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how do i stop feeling fear/anxiety? My dreamjob require to stay calm under stressful situations, what do? When i am nervous i know i cant focus and think clearly, i make stupid decisions when i am nervous.
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Same here.
I don't know why I'm also like this but I've been red pilled about shit so hard I know how shitty everything is and I'm also a fat unhealthy slob who can't run away or hide. And my country has liberal self defense laws so it doesn't help me feel any more safe than before.
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Practive and experience will help, but you have to start somewhere.
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Been there.
If you're insecure about yourself, do martial arts (or box) dude! It grants you confidence, endurance, serenity & being in a good shape. You'll be respected.
Improve your body-language.
And if you feel less competent than others intellectually, read about the field you're longing to work at, talk to experts, don't leave any unanswered questions!
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So do girls actually like to have their butts licked? I've gone down on my gf a lot and we both like doing that but she's kind of shy about her body and I could see her being weirded out if I ask her. I see threads on /b/ about how chicks love it but I don't know if they are just a bunch of weirdos or if girls really do dig that. Obviously she'd need to be clean but do enough girls like it that it's even worth asking? Should I just wait for her to ask me to do it if she wants it? Can anyone tell me what's supposedly so great about it? I don't mind giving it a try, I guess I want to know if it's worth bringing it up.
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Definitely don't ask her you autist. Just slowly go lower and lower when you're going down on her. If she doesn't want it, she'll tell you, or move her body away.
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My boyfriend is crazy about eating pussy and always wants to eat my ass. It feels good, but I'm so insecure it's not worth it for me. Butts smell like butts. I don't care if you shower with crazy soap and give yourself a chanel no5 enema, give it 10 minutes it smells like an ass.
He doesn't mind, but I do.
I suggest talking to her about it. Ask her if she'd be willing to give it a try, no pressure, to see if the both of you like it.
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A woman doesn't feel any particular sensation when having her ass licked and I say it as a woman who has experienced that
I need your help, /adv/
I recently returned to college after a four year hiatus. Because of my academic standing, I was required to enroll in 5 classes in order to receive financial aid. I'm also working a full time job. Needless to say I'm feeling very overwhelmed and I'm beginning to wonder if I should continue to pursue my degree. What should I do /adv/?
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>>16949588
I went back to college when I was 26.
I was a FT student, and I was working FT. The kicker? School was an hour commute.
Persevere. The end-result is worth it. You will adjust, I promise you, but it will take time.
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>>16949811
fuck. that.
i started college again at 22 after dropping out at 19. both time at community college, I also have an hour commute and but the classes i have are 3 fucking hours long due to it being a trade associates. 5 classes would be hell.
honestly i would look at starting with associates, maybe even just a cert and moving from there. if you're gonna do a 4 year degree no sense in burning out at the start.
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>>16949825
and yeah i have a fulltime job too but that's just way too much.
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How do i become asexual without losing testosterone?
My brain tells me women are nothing more than overgrown adipose tissue but my penis tells me the opposite. I feel like my life would be much better off without having sexual thoughts.
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you don't.
Also: women have their own brains, lol
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>>16949578
Become a monk, rising above thine earthly desires.
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>>16949578
Retire to a monastery. There you do nothing but work, pray/meditate, and reject the flesh all day. You'll grow in wisdom and peace of mind at the expense of excitement, ambition, and pleasure.
I hope you aren't stupid enough to think you can just turn off the enjoyment of some bodily pleasures while still enjoying others.
I had a fight with my girlfriend, and i don't know if i am in the wrong and i am over-exaggerating.
Or my feelings are understandable and i need to figure out out to deal with it.
So, she had a photo session, and uploaded pictures to facebook without a top, but with body-paint (pic related).
i asked her before-hand not to do it. but she said it's too late, they already did the thing and now she's not gonna tell them not to upload it.
I know this might not seem like a big deal. but in my mind, i see her exposing herself, and it really bothers me.
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I'm really hoping to some outside opinion, because i don't know who to talk with about this
and i haven't talked with her for a week now because of this
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>>16949544
so...is that her photo?
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>>16949544
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>>16949544
Is she a model ?
An artist ?
Is this a hobby, something she does regularly ?
Is it for friends, or is she payed for it ?