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College graduate with no experience.
Where can I find true entry-level jobs? All interviews I've had so far asked me about previous work experience.
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just keep applying, someone will settle for you eventually.
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>>17117210
What degree? And did you do any kind of interning/volunteering?
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>>17117262
>actually suggesting that OP should be a slave for a while.
fuck that. unpaid internships are frowned upon by recruiters because it shows you take no pride in what you do and don't believe that your own work is worth being paid for. Putting down a part time job as a fucking bank teller would look much better than some slave-labor internship.
OP, go apply to be a cashier or a bank teller at a bank/credit union. Cash handling is key in those jobs and policy knowledge is also something you will learn fast. Those skills come in handy in any other job.
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Why am I not in love with my girlfriend? She is crazy about me, we both have similar goals, we laugh at the same stupid stuff, she likes my favorite band, tells me how great I am, she's beautiful and cute and cares about my feelings when I'm down. She's nearly perfect, but I feel like spending time with her is a chore.
The only reason I can think of is how we rushed into sex. We've been dating for about a month and we started having oral sex 2-3 weeks in. She constantly wants sex, which is awesome in one way and exhausting in another. 3 days ago we had sex twice within a 5 hour timespan then in the morning she gave me head 3 times within 8 hours and then we had sex again later that night and when I came absolutely nothing came out. I can't keep up and it feels like every time I see her is a booty call. I want to be able to have fun with her and not spend most of the day muff diving to the point where my tounge is numb. Shes been with 4 other guys before meeting ne and (of course) says im the biggest and best but I want to be able to just cuddle or watch a movie without being expected to perform. It also feels slutty and thats a turn off for me. I'm a huge fucking faggot who is terrible about speaking up though.
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Yeah dude, she reallyyyyy wanted to give you those blowjobs, she totally wasn't simply doing it because she thought you might want those. Girls love giving blowjobs
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>>17117213
I do!!!
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>>17117213
No, I know she was dong it to try and make me happy but I didn't want to hurt her feelings and say I didn't want it then.
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I've taken a lot of mushrooms and I'm really really really scared of what's going to happen, I've tripped before and it was the biggest ordeal of my life
I can feel myself coming up I don't know if I can deal with this
Advice?
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I can't speak much about bad trips because I barely have any experience with psychedelics, but here goes
When I took a tab of acid, after six hours I was hungry so I went to my college cafeteria type place for some food. While I was there, I started getting nervous and paranoid. I could feel myself freaking out more and more, and I was terrified that I was going to freak out and cause a scene.
What made me calm down was that something in me sat my brain down and said "Look. This is in your head. You're getting scared because you're letting yourself get scared. You can control how this trip goes. You have the power to change how you feel, and you're not going to have a bad trip. You control this world." And then I did. I also got the fuck out of that cafeteria and went right back into my room
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Do you have anyone you can contact who can help you and care for you in case you have a really bad reaction? Just setting aside a contingency plan may help put your mind at ease.
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>>17117186
Either go out in nature or put on a movie, album or Vidya that makes you happy.
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Career advice, please 2016-05-07 03:20:50 Post No.17117166
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If someone gave you the possibility of having only ONE career of the following three, which would you choose?
Consider you are equally (and exceptionally talented) in all three:
1) Creator and writer of a new "South Park"-type cartoon on Netflix.
2) Successful novelist - Similar to James Patterson or Dan Brown (DaVinci code).
3) Fashion designer - Like Chanel or Balenciaga?
Which would you choose and why? It directly relates to several possibilities regarding my career.
Your input would be very helpful, since it is tough for me to decide which route to take.
Thanks!
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>>17117166
make more money if your deisgner shit takes off
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All three are shit.
Creative arts is dead.
Get your degree then join the military as an officer.
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>>17117166
Usually, advice works best when you're asking people who are experienced in the area you're asking advice for. Just asking random people "what sounds best" when the collective knowledge is zero isn't going to give you much insight on your decision.
I mean, what's the workload like for all those jobs? What are your honest prospects in each of those fields? What are the things you want from your work life? What do you want to achieve outside of work? Will those jobs interfere with outside aspirations? Are you willing to make the sacrifices to your personal life to work in these areas? If you're talented in all those areas, great; that's one less thing you have to ask yourself, but picking a job is more than just "what sounds fun?" and "what am I good at?"
A few friends commented on an old post on Facebook from 3 years ago. The post was about us hanging out.
One 'friend', who is a dropkick living on welfare, commented on the old post today 'Back when anon was a functioning human' (referring to me). I kinda dropped of his and the other friends radar because I've been busy with study (med).
Why would he comment it and what does he mean? I'm functioning better than he is. Is it rude what he wrote? Should I text/call him asking him to delete it? I'd comment in response to his comment on fb but I don't want it to blow up publicly on FB.
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FB can contact him to delete it if you report it as harassment.
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>>17117115
You can delete it yourself if it's your picture that he commented on, I believe.
If you want to know why he said that, message him on Facebook and ask him what's up
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>>17117123
Nah its my other friends post from 3 years ago, it literally just says 'hanging out with anon, friend and another friend'
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Eh is it harassment or rude though?
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My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship anymore and wants to focus on his career (that's just starting to pick up). He also doesn't have confidence in our relationship to be long distance.
We have dated for 1.5 years and lived together. Seems like a short time, but we progressed through a lot together.
He says he still loves me and just has to focus on himself now, but won't hesitate to come back if he realizes he made a mistake.
I am a wreck. I don't know what to do with my life. Everything has been falling apart for me this year, family and pets have died and now this.
Share stories with me about your healing please... Or thoughts about my situation
I want him back, /adv/....
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Would you want to be with someone who does not want to be with you?
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>>17117122
Reasonably, no.
For some reason I feel that he does want it, but it's not the right time for him.
I guess I just have hope.
And I was ready for the long haul with him.
It's hard to believe that someone who said they loved you the day before wants to cut everything off the next day.
Every detail of him is in my head and I am getting sick knowing I won't be able to be with him anymore
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Hi I'm back from a few months hiatus or so.
I'm there with you, dumped my toxic bf after an argument and was only recently able to get his shit out of my house. All those promises came magically crashing down. Now I'm fishing for a slave because I am not up to the love shit anymore.
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I want to get this off my chest, even anonymously. I don't know if I'm looking for advice but I'm new to 4chan and this seems like a place I could talk about this. I've never told anyone about this before so I still kinda nervous despite being anonymous.
I've had sexual relations with my younger sister for 15 years. I know some people here would call that a "win" but I've always felt incredibly bad about it, to the point where I thought that maybe I should of ended my life because of it. I feel as if I ruined her chance to have normal, loving sexual relationship with others she may care about one day. Just to be clear though, we both consented to it. I never touched her if she didn't feel like it.
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You'd be arrested and put in jail, if you ever told normal people.
She will one day. Enjoy your time free while you can
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>>17117089
This. I have extreme doubts she was of legal age to be engaging in these activities with you. You're right to feel bad, and it's going to catch up with you.
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Love is love, the bond between sibling is a love like no other. If you truly love her and she feels the same. Go to a state or cpuntry you can marry a relative, and make her a happy woman. She does not have to be your sister. You worry about ruining her chance to find true love with another man , but what if you are that man?
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Is it ok to obsess over a girl? Explain why. 2016-05-07 02:34:33 Post No.17117055
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Is it ok to obsess over a girl? Explain why.
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"Is it ok to obsess over a girl? Explain why"
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Obsession is unhealthy. It's not ok to obsess over anything. You shouldn't obsess over your pinky toe.
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Only if you are fucking her.
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>My father killed someone while serving in the army
>My grandpa revels in what he did in the call of duty
>My uncle killed a civilian in cold blood
>My older brother also killed in cold blood
>My cousin killed someone through "misadventure"
>Dad beat the shit out of me as a kid
>Took it as a character building experience
>Beat the shit out of him once I was big enough so my younger brothers wouldn't feel his wrath
>Fuckload of good that did
>I avoid violence
>But if it happens, I go above and beyond the necessary
>It's instinctive
>Weapons, biting, choking...
>I flip, become a different person
I resent my genetics. I want to be mild mannered. I try to be as soft as I can.
I'm scared to go to a doctor in case they either deem me a threat to society or castrate me.
I don't want to be a violent person. I don't want to one day, have a human being offend me and I react with ultimacy.
But I'm frightened because I have no means of interrupting the *Incident *Reaction chain.
How the fuck do I cheat genetics?
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It's too bad I just deleted all of my "neckbeards with katanas and edgy quotes" pictures
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Don't bottle it up, be more belligerant in your day-to-day.
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>>17117047
Go to a therapist anon, and remember that nothing is preordained because of your genetics. There is literally no reason to be afraid of going to a doctor, they can help you deal with your anger so that you won't hurt anyone (anymore). You can work on keeping your anger and physical violence under control, but you can do it a lot better if you have someone to help you
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>Just started dating girl about 3 weeks ago
>Found out she is a massive feminist
She didn't have any of the warnings signs either, natural hair color, no tattoos or piercings. Pretty cute, normal looking girl.
What do I do now? I'm 99% leaning towards dump. Is there any reason I shouldn't? I fucking despise feminists, and while she has yet to really put on display her feminist side, she showed a hint of it last night when we talked about video games.
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Just leave man, before she can get her rape tenticles in you. The longer you stay with her the more likely she is to accuse you of rape when the relationship inevitably goes sour.
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Get her to do a ffm threescore first.
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>>17117045
*threesome, stupid autocorrect
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Self-sabotaged my degree 3x, thinking about a 4th 2016-05-07 02:04:58 Post No.17116990
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Self-sabotaged my degree 3x, thinking about a 4th
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Half-way through electronic engineering I realised I didn't care about my life and didn't attend lectures or exams - thought I deserved to die homeless.
But I did feel obligated to try the year again, to not waste a college opportunity that billions would kill for.
When family found out, they put me in much-needed therapy and set me to try a third time, which I also fucked up.
Another college accepted me and I can only confirm if I know I'll succeed - can't let the debt increase.
But if I delay I'm wasting another year at 24yo, I can't do anything without a degree etc.
Still psychologically unfit for a degree, and still doing it out of guilt - I have this fantasy of researching world-saving AIs that'll redeem my failures and investments from my wealthy parents.
[I know I'm lucky as fuck and if I could die and switch places with anyone who'd fucking appreciate my opportunities, I would]
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You will build a world-saving AI that will make everything worth it. I believe in you anon.
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Diagnosis : Depression
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EE is a fucking shitty degree. Can you see yourself doing anything else?
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I caught my gf stripper lying to me about going to a customers house, I confronted her, she said it was just lapdances for money, I come to find out months later that it was full on BDSM (him beating the shit out of her) and her masturbating to daddy daughter porn afterwards. She was a victim of sexual abuse as a child. I left, to take some time away, she then fucked the guy saying that she believed we were done anyway.
Now she's playing mind games on me saying she doesn't know whether or not she wants me back. Even though she drunk dialed me one night telling me the other man is disgusting.
I know I was a dumbass for trusting her that much but I feel like I'm going to hate women and the BDSM community forever because of this. I just can't take the feeling that she would go behind my back with a rich man doing this while we were intimate.
Is a healthy happy relationship even possible after this?
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no anon, i think you already knew that answer though. you're just looking for someone out there to tell you otherwise, because you have this feeling in your heart that still loves her. the logical side of your brain knows the answer.
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>>17116936
>gf stripper
Ok anon hold on
You knew this was coming
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>>17116945
I think I know her answer and that she doesn't want to be together and rather be with this rich sadist over me cause I'm blue collar.
Just can't shake the feeling of the one that got away and that she is a sweet girl, who has issues. I feel like the whole BDSM stuff is just totally unhealthy for her, especially when her abuse coincides with her BDSM fantasies.
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I am going to fish soon with some friends and need to get a good pole to go freshwater fishing with. There are alot of types apparently I didn't know about. Basically my question is what is a good and decently cheap fishing rod for freshwater fishing?
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Just get a rod with a reel and not a button.
You hold the reel bar back, and then throw. It'll cast out the lure.
Trust me, mate, fishing is 40% waiting, 50% drinking, and only 10% dealing with the actual fishing part.
It's great.
You get drunk as hell with buds while something may happen.
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>>17116924
Probably won't be able to get drunk we are going at 8am and I unfortunately have to drive
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>>17116967
It's fishing.
You will get drunk.
That's how it works.
If you're driving, then you're the loser bitch they've designated to not enjoy the experience.
Fishing is essentially waiting.
If you're not drinking, what's the point?
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I need tomorrow off work to go to an event with friends and I organised a shift swap with another friend but my manager intervened and cancelled it.
This means my work place now knows I need tomorrow off, so if were to call in sick, that would be under heavy scrutiny and I'm pretty indispensable but I'm not sure how far they could go. They would be massively pissed off for a while anyway.
As a internet-dweller, I don't get loads of opportunities to attend social gatherings.
If I give in and just go to work, I will probably extremely annoyed at every customer and never forgive myself for selling my enjoyment to Walmart.
Can I get around this?
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>>17116910
why did the manager cancelled?
And it sounds you're screwed
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>>17116910
Go, get fired, wait a month and re apply. Your boss can fire you but likely has no say on who the company hires
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>>17116914
the manager thinks the person i swapped shifts with could not work in the department that i work in
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>been talking with a girl after one of my classes throughout the semester
>brought up going to school's art museum this past Tuesday
>got her number yesterday
>saw her in class again today and she seemed to be giving me the eyes
>talked to her after class (she left class before me and was waiting on a bench outside the building and waved at me so we talked)
>invited me to an underground noise concert thing
>went
>her roommate/friend came with her
>I rode the bus there because I don't have my car at uni
>she took her scooter with her roommate
>they decide to leave and ask if I'm going to stay longer
>told them that I was since they didn't seem like they were going to invite me
>girl tells me thanks for meeting her and good luck on my exams
>gives me a side hug (little awkward)
>go to the bathroom and head out
>they still aren't gone
>walk past them without acknowledging them (kinda embarrassed)
>they see me and say bye and I say bye too
What should I do now? I was thinking I'd wait until tomorrow to text her and see if she wants to go to the school's art museum Tuesday afternoon, but texting so soon might seem desperate.
Should I send her a text today? Or would that come across as desperate too?
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I can't believe I have to share a board with you.
Die.
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>>17116870
What did I do?
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>>17116866
Just text her what you told us. That you felt awkward and insulted she gave you a side hug and went to the bathroom without inviting you. Girls like honesty.