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well according to highly rigorous and peer reviewed research from okcupid, black woman/white man relationships are the strongest and happiest

are you in college? go on a study abroad to africa and get a wife that way. US citizenship is way attractive to most people outside of north america.

>>17120066
I'm from Eu + I want to live in Africa someday

Black girl here. Definitely more loyal, less fussy, respectful, affectionate, nerdy, fun,upbeat. I play tabletop and video games with my white boyfriend.

We are very happy and almost never ever fight. Both of our parents have been married to their SO 30+ Years, we will be married soon.

Go for it! The statistics are correct!

Other people are always wrong.

>>17120024
A little bit of column A and a little bit of column B

>Do I lack empathy or are people just too sensitive?

Being empathetic means understanding people that aren't like you. Even if someone is oversensitive you should be able to empathize with them.

>>17119998
sure why not

Do it. She might be interested too. Why else would she ask?

Are you in 3rd grade?
Don't tell her you like her, and don't tell her you like someone else.

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The more you try to force it, the less charismatic you are. Be okay with your nature and don't try to change it too much except for actual virtue.

You don't have to talk a lot. In fact, people often think quieter people are the wisest given they don't say enough to fuck up.

Think about this and just be comfortable as yourself in public

take a speech class.

>>17119961
>introverted

Yeah more like you're a socially retarded fucking bitch amirite

>>17119928
Maybe you should use this rare opportunity to not fap for a week and next time be more gentle.

You will most likely just make it worse if you try to apply any kind of balsam or cream for skin.

>>17119928
R?

go to the doctor

That wasn't a long post. Unless, like your picture and last sentence, your post was cut off and there was more to add

appreciated*

>>17119923
I thought I had more to say, but I suppose that was all

What is it I need to do to unfuck this situation I am in

>>17119880
Lock that shit up

>>17119880
This is my advice. A PS4 is not a life upgrade.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLalvNDcHIs

Therapy is probably the best option. Forgiveness and letting go are extremely difficult things to do especially when you want to continue being around the person. I spent 5 years with someone who verbally abused me constantly and went to therapy for a year and a half. Things have improved a lot but I still get angry and resentful at times even though I haven't seen them for over 2 years.

You could also try talking to him about the things he did. Maybe his past contributed to his actions and you would feel better knowing the reasons why those things happened. Has he ever apologized for his past behavior?

>>17119877

It's difficult to talk to him about the past. He gets angry extremely easily, and when he does there is absolutely no reasoning with him. I kind of prefer not to bring it up, because we seem to get along now, he doesn't treat me as he used to. He apologized, but it was so often it felt like a currency he paid so he could treat me like shit beforehand. I don't know why, he never treated my older brother and sister like that. I don't know why he didn't like me.

>>17119883
The fact that you were singled out does make it a lot more difficult. I can understand why you wouldn't want to talk to him about it.

I think that forcing yourself to go on fishing trips with him is a bit self-destructive. If you dread these meetings, you are probably just building more resentment.

You may just need to figure out what offers you relief with your feelings in this. For me, it was venting about my ex, telling fucked up stories, over and over and over. It made me feel better because the way people would react would make me feel like I was justified in my feelings, since my ex would constantly downplay my emotions.

Talking on here is probably a good start. I think you may need to figure out what bothers you the most about this, like I did with what I said above, and find strategies that allow you to work towards healing that wound. I hope that makes sense.

if you feel fine you feel fine. thats really it. there isnt really a 'hangover' for shrooms or anything

>>17119846
Maybe.
It all depends on the circumstances. Sometimes a trip feels like its fading only to come back with a vengeance, so i don't really recommend it. Usually you clear your schedule for this sort of thing.

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Fucking cow-poster

finance or accounting

You could get your Ph.D in physics and become a quant and join the two comma club pretty easily.

>>17119798
Holy shit baking jobs suck dont do this there is a 100% chance you're not going to end up on wall street

You want to get rid of all your established friends because they may freak out about you liking a trans person? A person you might, as you get to know them better, not end up liking at all?

That's a life gamble, OP.

>Or should get away from him because Ill never really love him for HIM?
I think you already know the answer.
If you don't love the person for who they are, just startstart walking and stop wasting each other's time.

>>17119787
Well if she was a female before you're still straight, biologically.

Tell them that talking to a psychiatrist and taking medication will help prevent their skull from exploding.

Females are something like 65% less likely to commit violent acts than men. And that's females 18-25. Females 25-32 it's even lower, and 32-45 lower than that.

Get your friend help but your chances of being murdered by her are WAY less than the chances of YOU murdering her, especially if you're a male 18-25.

>>17119773
"Hey, so you know how your head is exploding? Well I know a great guy for that!..."

Therapy is just something that can potentially help. There are many ways to approach depression. Therapy is a vague word that covers many things. If you mean speaking with a therapist then it is not necessarily the answer and it will not necessarily work.

No.
You can beat it at chess.
You can beat it in a vidya.
You can corner it outside the bar it goes to every friday to sunday nights.

>>17119743
therapy in what form?
> talking to some one
> working out
> doing something

>>17119742
if you guys weren't particularly close, i think it'll be ok to just appear glum to fit in the funeral's atmosphere. maybe tell closer family members generic stuff like "he's in a better place now" if they ask for your emotional support or something.

just be polite. no one is expecting you to trip over your shoes, bawling your eyes out for someone you didn't know too well.

You need to fake going to the bathroom and vigorously cut onions. I guarantee that it works.

>>17119754
Alright, thanks.

You can't. The anchors are already destroyed. Best solution is probably just to spray it with penetrating oil and see if you can't loosen it with pliers, or just chop it off.

Better take another look at yourself. If you want to fix things, then you have a problem. First it's a tiny metal piece, then a person, them a marriage, how further are you going to take this?

>>17119713
If one hinge only worked could it still hold up the screen?