>Have PhD in chemistry.
>Have 10k in savings.
>No debt.
>No dependents.
>Love of life is asexual.
>No idea how to progress.
>Goal: want all the money, women, and power.
How I do it?
You don't
>>17116473
Should have gone to med school.
Well, if the love of your life is asexual and you're not then I recommend that you reconsider that relationship and seek a more compatible partner. If someone tries you to shame you for that decision then shove a chemistry kit up their ass.
Is it normal to be embarrassed about meeting your bf/gf online?
Embarrassed? Of yourself? Them? The situation?
No. It's very common now.
Embarrassment is a vague feeling. Do you think you can describe in more details how it makes you feel? Is there something in particular that triggers the embarrassment? If you could change something that decreases the embarrassment, what would it be?
Is the dentist dude in the building?
Hi
I'm having mouth trouble.
I've had a filling a while ago on "right permanent mandibular canine 27" . The upper teeth do not bite down together very well on it.
Also the gum around the tooth is very inflamed, maybe ulcerated or worse. On flossing it can present a white nodule, as if blood isn't feeding the gum (but I'm not sure).
I'm flossing twice a day, using anti-septic mouth wash twice a day and keeping them meticulously clean.
A big lump has suddenly appeared beneath the gum over about 4 weeks. My mouth is going crazy.
I am seeing another dentist to try and clean this up but I've come to worry here too.
Will my jaw need removing?
>>17116443
>>17116418
Michael, it was a pleasure meeting you in passing some months back. Find a dentist in New York.
there's this company that i am dying to get into, and i realized i sent my resume and portfolio to the wrong email that was listed on their site...
should i send another to the correct email address? i've only realized it was wrong after a week that i applied.
>>17116420
should i tell them that i made a mistake or do i continue like it never happened? they haven't responded yet.
>>17116416
>>17116430
You dumbass, if you used the wrong email then they didn't get your first one. Just resend what you wrote the first time.
>>17116446
it was the wrong email in the sense that, it's still one of their company e-mails, but it was a general one instead of their career-oriented one.
i kind of figured they might've forwarded my email to the appropriate department, but the lack of response makes me think that they probably didn't get to it yet. (not even to reject me)
Is it ok to not say "I love you" to your partner?
I've been in a relationship for a year and a half.
We've said it before, but not so much over the last 6 months.
I wouldn't say it's a sign of the relationship breaking apart.
But I only ever say it if I feel I need reassurance, and when it's said back to me it feels forced and constructed. I doubt my own sincerity also.
Is it normal to avoid the phrase altogether?
>>17116394
no. its normal to say it the point where it means nothing anymore.
why does it even concern you? thats certainly not normal.
>>17116400
>why does it even concern you? thats certainly not normal
I reckon it's thought about by a lot of people.
What if I'm saying it when I don't mean it?
>>17116487
I'm not a scientist, but I believe if you say it when you don't mean it...it means you don't love them
What do you think of this tattoo?
>>17116376
trendy, hipster, pointless
Owl looks too evil, too angry.
Tryhard tattoo.
Each to their own but anything remotely 'badass' on a tattoo makes me cringe.
Does it have a deep and unique significance to you? Did an owl save your life? Are you joining an owl-themed street gang? Are you sexually attracted to owls?
How does one deal with a controlling mother? She literally forces me of my computer at 10 and when I said I'm going to watch game of thrones she had a hissy fit and made me go to my room. This is getting beyond a joke. Whenever I pull the 18 card she uses my house my rules bullshit. She never treats my Dad like this. Any ideas advice? I have clashed and won many arguments with her. I'm not a complete cuck. I just hate the controlling toxicity. She goes to bed at 10 but it shouldn't affect her in the slightest as I'm super quite.
>>17116330
>not happy at home, what do i do?
move out, even if you'll be dirt poor.
>>17116330
If she is treating you like a child then you are most likely acting like a child. If you are contributing to the home through house work, cash, or working hard at school, and she is still acting like the
Is, then you just need to move out, but I suspect you're just like a leech in the house, taking up hot water, space and bandwidth, contributing nothing and making it so you parents can't walk around naked and bang on the kitchen table like they did before your ungrateful ass was born.
>>17116334
Homie I haven't got shit all money. I'm piss poor. I'm in my last year of school so when I graduate I'm planning to go to college and rarely ever come back.
i dont like babys and i dont like toddlers, hell i dislike kids under 9 all together.
Its not that they cry or smell, i like dogs and other animals, i just dislike them simple as that.
I know i was a baby, im not advocating cruelty to babys. I know learning to speak is hard and cool and i know a baby is defensless and needs constant attention.
I dont want my own baby and i dont belive having your own baby changes te way you see babys because i know for a fact many parents hate their own babys and arent allowed to voice that, its also not based on my own childhood.
I dont sit around and think about how babys are awful and how we should get rid of them, my rejection for them happens as soon as i see one the same way you may feel about dogs or old people.
I don't want kids either, but wow, that was edgy. If you hate the 0-9 age range so much, adopt a ten year old if you want a kid.
Just know sooner or later you'll have to go through the clichéd "you're not my real dad!" crap, as though the guy who abandoned him is better than the guy who rescued him.
>>17116338
i admit it was edgy but you would be edgy too if you got pushed around a lot for having a different opinion ore taste.
edgy sometimes means pissed off
>>17116338
or wait for it...........not have kids
Is there anyway to give someone confidence? Is the saying "you have to love yourself before you can love anybody else" true?
>>17116287
no it isn't true. but if you're fucked in the head the relationship will probably end up a train wreck.
giving confidence is easy, you just.. welllm give confidence. it depends on the situation.
>'oh im never gonna find a gf, ive never had one before wah wah wah'
>no man you're a great guy, you have x and y and if you keeping doing z you're gonna keep bettering yourself and blah blah blah
>>17116287
You can give someone confidence by being authentic. But yes, it is true that we accept the love we think we're worthy of.
>>17116287
You can't do much if someone doesn't loves himself.
You can give them confidence but that's only temporary as their regular thoughts WILL come back.
You can help them reach that destination but no matter what it depends on them to actually fix their issues, which is sadly why a lot of times these people can't be on a relationship.
They can't truly love someone if they're stuck and they can't learn to appreciate themselves no matter what they're gonna think the relation is meant to end, that it won't last, that you should get away from her to save you the suffering of being with her, etc.
What's an alternative to suicide? For when you're sick of yourself, but also don't want to leave this earth?
>>17116271
improvement
thats about it besides just sticking with it
>>17116271
Reinvent yourself. You don't have to die to be reborn. It's not easy, but it's survivable.
>>17116278
/thread
We're pretty close and I know incest is bad but it's concent and she's 21 and it's legal over here so why not? Anyway I don't want her to think I'm weird for having a crush on her but she's irresistible and I don't know how to seduce her. Picture is her. The more advice I get the more pics of her I'll give.
first of all, is she okay with incest?
probably not
>>17116246
You should try and probably hang out with her often so you can slowly yet the waters and try and cope a feel . What's your level of relationship to her right now ?
>>17116288
Also , this is severely high risk high reward . If you fuck up and go to fast , look forward to being excommunicated from the family .
>extremely dominant and rough during sex (bdsm etc)
>gf loves it
>immediately after orgasm i hate myself & feel disappointed in her for enjoying it too
>melancholy emptiness feeling for a while afterwards
what the fuck is wrong with me? is this normal?
>is this normal?
no
>>17116236
Catholic school?
>>17116244
>no
ok thanks
>Catholic school?
wat
How can I become a dragon?
>>17116220
You have to consume dragon blood.
>>17116221
Where can I get dragon blood?
>>17116225
You'll have to find a dragon. I think they live in caves or atop mountains.
Ok, I am terrible at describing how I feel with words, so I apologize on the metaphors. I think my inability to describe is part of the problem I am about to put forward.
Ok. So basically I have a personality problem, but it's not like I'm bipolar or anything or have sudden mood swings. In fact I'm usually confident, happy, and sometimes stupid most of the time. I'm basically ENTJ, but I say stupid things because there's no filter within my brain, and I really wish I could not say those things, as it acts as a double edged sword - sometimes I burn or woo, or crash to the ground. Even as I write this I am getting the feeling I am about to describe.
I've seen maybe on anon ever share the same thing I feel, he called it "realizing (that your) consciousness". First, I would point out that I want to change, and that I accept personal responsibility for everything I do, but this is somewhat different.
You know the meme where the beta (I guess cucks today don't even bother to ask a girl out) talks to a girl and doesn't necessarily go autismo but afterword he's like "fuck why did I do any of that/ say any of that?"
Yeah, imagine if that applied to literally everything you did in your life. I feel like my body, including my intellect and personality, although quite good, are not my own. I'll try and use some metaphors again. You don't move your hand by saying "Hand, move to the left!', your hand just moves. That's exactly how I feel about everything in life, not just body movement. When I stare at math problems I don't think what to do, I just know it. (1/2)
>>17116178
You know how animals don't realize their reflection is them (but we, humans do)? That's also how I feel, like an animal who's life is dominated by instinct first, and perhaps prefrontal cortex some of the time. Thankfully, my base instinct isn't too bad, but I don't want to be an animal anymore. How can I, like I am now, realize that the reflection is me more and take hold of my life (metaphorically , not get a girl or get rich etc)?
Hopefully you understood something. I feel like writing is more closer to who I am than the words I speak because they involve more thinking and less spontaneity. If just one person said they also felt this way, I guess it that would be great too.
Bamp.
Are you still there, OP?
I think this is interesting read. Tell us more-- Have you ever gotten any real reactions from other people to your behaviour?
i legit have never met a girl with the same sense of humor as me do they even exist
Maybe your sense of humor sucks?
>>17116175
probably anon
>>17116171
Have you actually tried looking or you just expect a girl to fall from the skies?