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Should have mentioned that I am interested in her obviously, but I dont see these as anything more. But something must be there for a my friend to think she is interested.

Cringe

pls

It can work, but your chances of success are a lot less

>>17120748
I feel like though whenever I get a girls number I fuck up bad, so it's kinda protecting me from that to an extent

>>17120423
That you don't even know the guy and you're already making assumptions about him. That shows your lack of empathy.

>>17120432
well he didn't show much empathy for my mother when we were growing up

Your point is right, i can understand what you feel but as long as it is not getting uncomfortable for you, you can let him to know you, or get close to you, maybe there can be a good relationship for two of you, not like a typical father-son but still can be worth on the other hand you are always to free to live your life, it is clear that you do not need father figure anymore and it is normal

>>17120397
I'm 23, unmarried, and I feel the same. I can't answer your question, but I am wondering the same thing. I suppose everyone's different though.

>>17120397
"One year"
"We do it a few times a year"

>>17120403
You know what I mean

Maybe I should have married someone more with bigger tits or something..

>I'm a lawyer guys, really!
No lawyer would make the basic mistake of not even posting where they're from, if they'd taken a moment to remember that law isn't the same everywhere at all.

>>17120376

>general legal advice

All K's require consideration, doesn't matter what jurisdiction you are in.

>>17120388
General legal advice ain't worth shit to the person asking for it. People who ask for legal advice want advice on their particular situation, not general principles of law that could be found in any textbook.

2. Simply because she can do better than a selfish bastard like you.

>>17120305
/thread

>>17120305

Please tell me how I am being selfish.
I'm not prohibiting her from going.

Why can I not even question the viability of our future together, knowing that LDR's fail so very often?

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>>17120270
She seems very confused and I don't know if I want to be a part of this kind of teenage girl bullshit, I'm way too old. All I wanted was to chill with someone I had stuff in common with and have fun. Thing is, she's changed her mind radically once before, and she has trouble making decisions, and this all happened during a fairly intense time at college re: workload.
My friends have told me to be prepared in case she approaches me again at the end of the course on Thursday, or at the end of year party when emotions run high. We've been friends for months and months. I know I need to tell her it isn't a good idea, but I know I'm going to think with my heart/dick and say yes and get hurt again.

I keep finding myself thinking about giving her the benefit of the doubt, it's a stressful time, she's younger than me, maybe she's just making bad decisions and acting stupid because she's stressed too. I keep thinking that it's the college, it's in a remote area, maybe that kind of thing has an effect, I could tell her we will talk the following week and then I can offer her an adult relationship rather than this soap opera shit, but then I could just walk away.

As angry as I am with her for how she behaved, I still have some kind of residual feelings that won't go away. I'm really hoping none of this comes to pass and she just stays away from me, it would be better for everyone, but despite her weird behaviour in the end, she clearly wanted a relationship with me.

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>>17120273
You guys probably think it's unlikely she's going to do anything, that I'm flattering myself, that she clearly isn't interested, but I told her she was special after she rejected me the first time and she admitted it rattled around in her brain for months ever since - "you kinda planted that idea in my head", she said.

Now, I was sad after she friendzoned me and I asked her friend if the girl was feeling alright because she looked terrible when I saw her. I get a text back from the girl instead, apologising but telling me "nothing happened" and there's "nothing to get over", then the bullshit about distance relationships (I never spoke to her about the future distance relationship, only to her friend) - and I'm really sad at this point and tell her about the adventures I wanted to go on with her, and asked if we could still go on them even if we aren't in a relationship (I'm going to be travelling near where she lives over the summer anyway) and I get a text back from her friend at that point saying "She's absolutely fine but wishes you would stop bothering her"

I take the hint, but then an hour later I get a text back saying

>"I don't know we'll see how things go"

After she rejected me the first time, and I told her she was special, she told me "hey ho you never know where the future will take you anyway"

This feels like the same kind of shit.

I'm just bumping one last time, I'm probably going to see her today and if she approaches me to say sorry I'm just going to tell her "Listen R***, shit happens, feelings change, I'll be your friend no mater what" - if she expresses regret, I'll tell her to contact me after college is over and we can talk it through, if she doesn't as I hope she doesn't, I'm off the hook.

Block him.

I dont know but I'm on the flip side of your situation right now.

I went out with this girl 3 times. The last time we went out was a month ago.

Only difference is we went out on dates and have had physical contact.

And I actually thought it might be headed to a relationship.

She still talks and cuts up with me, but won't tell me what exactly is going on.

So my suggestion to you is just be honest with him. Even if it hurts.

Because this girl drives me crazy and I wish she would just tell me whats up.

>>17120259
Sorry to hear that, anon!

My problem is that I AM honest, I answer his questions frankly, but he just thinks up more and more details that he wants me to explain. It's a bit exhausting explaining to him the emotional logistics of why I didn't find him good to date.

And he does this super annoying thing of pretending that I was interested in him, when I never was. He bumped into my father when we were hanging out, now he says that seemed planned. Is this normal rejected guy behavior? Because I am getting a bit upset now.

>>17120194
Jesus Christ, why have you not fucked the shit out of her yet? What's wrong with you?

>>17120194
I wouldn't look so deeply into it. She talking to you as she would talk to one of her girl friends.

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>>17120202
This.

Butthurt over nothing.

>>17120117
break up with her

>>17120117
you've been giving her to much freedom OP, put a tracker on her that'l show her whose boss.

Your husband is a faggot.

>>17120128
That is not nice Anon. Seriously though Anon please help. I am getting more and more frustrated each day.

>>17120116
Here's an idea. You spend mothers day with your mom and he spends it with his. Or have both of your mothers visit at the same time and all spend time together.

Well if you go through insurance it will go onto yojr drivers abstract for 7 years. So anytime you go to apply for csr insurance it will come up thay you had an accident and you were at fault, resulting in a higher premuim. In the same respect anytime you want a job that requires a clean record or to drive it will be on your abstract. I work at a taxi xompany and i see this all the time when taking new drivers and dealing with other insurances.

>>17120106
Thanks for the warning. I'm mainly asking to see if it'll be cheaper with insurance. I'm self employed so I don't really care about the job record check.

Does someone who knows about cars/car repairs know if I'm getting boned on the cost estimate? It seems like an awful lot for such a small hole

>>17120114
You are getting screwed. The estimate is probably to replace the entire bumper. They'll probably fix the dent and pocket the remainder. Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do about that.

Your professor could resent that and not give you the A (or even a good grade)

In what way is it guaranteed?

How is it guaranteed?

>>17120050

The professor grades by points from tests/one museum project. A = 180-200 points, and I have 184 already.

Depends on the college. Some will allow you to have them completely removed from your record, meaning you will have to start over. Or they won't, check with the administration to see if you can.
Why'd you fuck up OP?

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>>17120048
GPA isn't everything contrary to popular belief. What's more important is your experience and how good you are at socializing/networking. Within reason of course, you'll definitely need to put some more work in on your grade.

But considering it's your first year, I wouldn't worry about it mate. My first year I ended up failing majority of my classes and having to do repeats for all of them. Got my shit together during the summer and scored pretty well in year 2, ended up bagging an IBM internship during year 2's summer[not due to grades but due to me going all out with networking].

>>17120048
I just transferred from a community college to UCLA. If you have F's you can simply petition to retake the class and count the higher grade on your transcript. If you got C's your absolutely fucked. That's gonna hurt your GPA forever and will have to work harder to fix. The reason is that a C is considered passing, so you can't petition to remove it & it just shows that you understood the material and were a lazy fuck.

Next time shit gets bad, withdrawal from the course ( don't make it a habit) but keep up that GPA. It's the most important and determining item when it comes to transferring.

>>17120067
>GPA isn't everything contrary to popular belief
Yes it is. He's at a community college. GPA is the most important thing when it comes to transferring to a decent uni.

>>17120033
archived thread: >>17116833

i'd post a link to the chan but the spam filter won't let me.

>>17120033
>waterloo police
waterloo police if he's in england he can get a gun OP,