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Figure out what you want first. Then call him to apologize for not talking and tell him what you want. Why do you think it won't work with him?

>>17115663
Because I'm afraid I'll just sound like a typical girl and like I just wanted to play him. I always swore I wouldn't do this to anyone, wouldn't cut contact or ignore a guy and would respect him, but in the end I ended up doing what I promised myself I wouldn't do. I've reduced myself to the stereotypical bitch that plays with men's feelings and I'm worried that this is what he will see. That even though I went through a lot of bullshit recently it'll just seem like I lost feelings or found someone better.

And what if he's moved on and I just make contact for no reason but to make it all awkward?

>>17115737
Just ask him out or something

Look at it like this if there is any chance of it working out is better than you doing nothing and regretting it later

From a guy who had this done to him by a girl who liked me. You never know
She used to lock herself in the bathroom and cry in panic while i was waiting for her and after a while i stopped talking to her. I knew she was a fucked up assburger girl we understood each other
She came to me one day after 4 or more months and we went out, we talked like nothing happened the whole night and guess what happenes next

Tldr just do it
If it comes to the question why then be honest and tell him

Of course it's wrong. If she loves you, and your relationship is going well, it wont matter how attractive a guy is she'll turn him down.

Unless she's a shitty person, in which case you shouldn't be with her anyways.

>>17115575
I've seen guys (and girls too) in very healthy realtionships suddenly get cheated on, because the other partner got a really good opportunity.
It even happened to me once and I really, really thought she wasn't such a person and that she loved me.

>>17115568
It is obviously wrong.
You basically want to throw the perfect dude at your girlfriend (your personality, your "knowledge" of her and her interests and what she likes, and a hotter body) at her and see how she reacts.
A dude like that doesn't even exist. You just want her to cheat very hard, so you're justified for your stupid doubts.
It's, like, one of the most idiotic things you can ever possibly do.

the accent will probably help you get laid easier if you're into that, as long as you're decent looking.

Our countries are fairly comparable on most levels, with weather being a major difference. Where in Canada is your sister?

>>17115520
Shes not in canada. We are moving from aus to canada.

I think we are planning on moving to banff

>>17115531

Banff is a pretty small but beautiful place. If you're used to a bigger city it might be a bit of a shock though. Do you like outside activities?

you tell her you'll make it work, or you cut her out completely. nothing more, nothing less.

>>17115509
/thread

An hour away is nothing. I wouldn't even classify that as long distance. My parents live about the same distance and I see them all the time. In fact, I used to drive to work an hour away daily. She loves you but can't handle a serious relationship? That's code word for 'going to look for guys here, but we can still flirt and occasionally have sex'

Let in on details?

Living with parents? Shit job? Qualifications? etc.

>>17115444
Living with parents looking for a shit job and I'm not really qualified for much other than maybe being an administrative assistant

I just want to live in the ghetto with a small room in a big apartment or something

>>17115457
Country? What specific qualifications do you have? Can't just pull out some motivational shit out of nowhere bud lol

guys?

Well, the object is to become closer than friends. Meaning you know eachother better than anyone else.

>>17116009
Honestly the ideal relationship is a friendship. If he's truly attracted to you as a person and has you a friend, then you're lucky. Most people find that their relationships lose the friendship part and they see their partner as just a partner and not a friend.

>>17115363
Just show them a pic of the anime guy.

Weeaboo young Leo.

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>>17115375
agreed with that guy. i'm a haridresser, and it's always WAY better, if someone brings in a pic instead of trying to explain what he means... that never ends good.
find some more pics of similar hair that you like. the more the better. the hairdresser can see what's the common thing in all of them and can make sure to get you that.

btw, >>17115380
young leo is a good search term. doubt that a hairdresser will get what you mean, so stick to pics.

Is college entirely the same as University for burgers?
I am in University in Germany and could give advice

Go to the open house, you'll have a guided tour of the campus and buildings. It is similar to high school in the sense that you have classes to go to, essays to write, etc etc.

The classes you end up taking depends on what you decide to study in. I took Social Sciences so I did a wide variety of things. You can also usually pick complementary classes to fill in your schedule.

You sign up by applying to the college of your choice in the program you picked.

>>17115296
So if I want to be an architect what classes should I take?
Also how do I get help paying for college?

>>17115272
Sex.
The answer is always sex.

>>17115272
Do you like him ?

>>17115294
I really don't think it is. I... almost wish it was. I'm certainly not the most beautiful girl in the office, and he's also very settled with his partner, who is older than he is.

>>17115382
I like him very much. I like spending time with him. I am fortunate because my work quality is very high, so nobody could ever suggest that any of my new roles and responsibilities are because of my closeness to him, but I just don't want it to be a talking point.

Seems like the 'cheating' line for them is emotional. Physical sex doesn't matter as long as they love each other. I guess the guy you're seeing is polyamorous, and his partner thinks they're the only person he 'loves'.

SO yeah its kinda cheating but since the sex is okay with him I guess it's kinda whatever. Obviously his partner would be somewhere between devastated and uncomfortable if they found out.

>>17115256
>gays
>promiscuous

Color me surprised

>>17115275
Kek. This.

>>17115221
>I don't think men should do it no matter how horrible their nose is.
is this a troll thread? this has to be a troll thread.

if not...sooo it's ok for women to be vain but not men? come on now.

as to how to get over it, maybe try recognising that it's his body and he has a right to change it if he wants to.

I wish my biggest problem was that my husband wanted to make himself look better.

>>17115236
That's not once what she said. Stop pushing your agenda. So many guys on here bitch about girls who wear makeup. So it's suddenly not okay with her to feel uncomfortable with the same thing? Regardless o think it's both equally stupid but come on.

>>17115264
>I don't think men should do it
>men
They weren't pushing anything, this thread is bullshit and your comment was almost incomprehensible.

>>17115209
That's freaky, m80.

I jizz on my wife's back all the time and never seen anything like that.

>>17115209
I've heard of this. Some women actually do have allergic reactions to semen. Looks like she's one of them.

could be something you ate

>>17115166
I like to call condominiums "condoms" in casual conversation. Sometimes people just look at me weird and and don't correct me. Shit's hilarious.

>>17115166
Your money probably isn't making money in the bank so why not? How much are the condo fees and after you buy the condo how will you be able to afford the living expenses (condo fees, utilities, insurance, repairs/maintenance) if you aren't working?

>>17115211
I will work. I was a bit vague, but basically I quit my work to go spend three months with the wife. I've been back for three days only, but I've never had trouble finding work in my life.

>>17115151
hit the gym

>>17115151
I go to track days every now and then.
>> doing 200 is soothing.

>>17115151
become mma fighter

Holes in the condom? It happens.

>>17115144
Are you worried she's pregnant?

>>17115144
Are you sure you actually came inside and wasn't just hardcore precum?