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Friend told me they are cheating
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So, a friend of mine at work has confessed to me that she has been cheating on her husband for over 8 years. It gets worse because she also told me that the guy she's been fucking all these years has just confessed to her that he's very much in love with her. It's none of my concern really, but I feel horrible knowing this.
The both of them are married and have kids. They have also told each other that they won't leave their spouse.
I asked her if they'll continue the affair and she said they may. I told her to be careful and that she should end it, but I don't think she'll listen.
She says that they have been doing this for years and won't get caught, however I believe that now it's only a matter of time before they get caught since the confession has come to light.
It gets more complicated. I think I flooded you guys enough. If you want to know more I'll be happy to explain.
I guess I'm just looking for some insight. Again I feel bad knowing this information and I know it's none of my business... I just need to clear my head.
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>>17115817
I think you should tell him. It's clear she only cares about her own feelings so you don't need to worry about hers. Your friend deserves to know the truth. Esp. If she won't break it off.
It will destroy their marriage though likely
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Are the kids even her husband's then?
Are you the only one she's told? If not, you could probably anonymously tell the husband what's been going on and enjoy the shitstorm to come.
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Why do people even get fucking married? Fuck both of them.
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I left school with good grades i just didnt take any high level math i dropped them early in which i regret so much. Ive always been interested in computing science i took it in hs and done really well in it, but i heard that for comp sci you need to know alot of math, i only learnt basic algebra i didnt pay much attention to math but now i dont know if i should take comp sci or not due to me not knowing any high lvl math like calc etc. Any ComSci students here that can give adv
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You're probably going to have to upgrade your math at a college. It'll be called 'continued learning' or some shit. It's actually pretty great, I was always shitty at math as a kid, but when I took it as an adult I got A's in essentially everything.
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>>17115798
How do you do so well?
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>>17115801
I'm not sure if the material was easier, or if I just gave more effort in adulthood. But one way or the other, it was like night and day from when I was in highschool.
Hello, I'm looking to buy a new pair of over ear headphones. I mainly listen to electronic music (deep house, dnb) and my budget is limited at 250€.
I would use them mainly for travelling, but weight is no criteria. I would also use them with my iPhone. Quality bass and good noice cancelling are very important.
I'm definitely looking for a high end product. I am currently looking at the Sennheiser Momentum 2.0 and Beyerdynamic DT 880.
If this is the wrong board for asking please refer me to the correct one. Thanks in advance.
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>>17115745
>my budget is limited at 250€
Bro, they're headphones... Even 50€ would be ridiculous to me. This is black people level of carelessness here.
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Ath m50s are fantastic, have the best reviews, have lasted me two years even though I strain the cord
Just wonderful, really recommend. Also get velour pads, the default are shifty
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I have V-Moda M-100s for the build quality, design, and sound quality. They look amazing and are structured with metal parts for strength and come with a hard case for travel. With a quality portable amp (Fiio Q3 in my case) the sound quality is superb. Sennheisers or Audio Technicas may have better sound quality but lack portability protection.
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Do you ever get impulses to hurt or murder people in day-to-day life? Like when I'm just walking along I wonder what it would feel like to smash their head against the table they're sitting at, releasing all the pent-up soreness inside me.
You think that's like a disorder or something? I would never actually act on it but you know. But the urge is still there. Or fantasizing about murdering my neighbors. I would never be able to get away with it of course, everything is traceable, even shell casings you've filed have magnetic micro-prints left over.
Hopefully you guys have experienced similar stuff, right?
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>>17115738
Yes, when I was depressed
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>>17115740
Hmm, I am actually. I have never heard of that being a symptom though.
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When I was a teenager, depressed, and extremely alienated yes. But not anymore. Now I would never dream of it unless I was really, really pissed off.
I'm not one to suggest therapy but if you have these feelings then you probably should. Maybe try God, taoist philosophy, stuff like that
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How do you use OKCupid to get more interaction and dates? I'm on there and I'm not getting as many messages as I would like- what should I do?
People who have successfully gotten lots of dates from the website, what did you do? I am a guy btw.
Anyone have some good OkCupid tips?
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literrally no idea
I got like maybe 10 convo going in several months, which is SHIT
but at least one of them lead to hooking up
honestly it seems random as fuck
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>>17115743
bumping
can you guys just talk a little about your experiences on the site?
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My experience with dating sites is that unless you're a 10/10 model you wont be getting any messages back, or you won't be getting as many as you think you want.
For every message you send to a girl on there, there's 50+ guys who have messaged her, and there's 20 more guys there who have much more going on with their lives, not that they're much better than you, but they have things working in favor of them than you do.
Not the answer you wanted, but it's the one you're going to get. Online dating sites/apps have done so much to destroy the confidence of men that it's actually depressing if you stop and think about it for a second.
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Here is some back round
Ok so yesterday some pretty hot girl showed me her tits online and It was honestly kind of a wake up call, make me realize what a total faggot I was acting like, literally rejecting girls left and right for no dam fucking reason.
No to mention my insane Video game / 4chan/ internet addiction which I have just been starting to beat
Well I decided I would talk to my crush, and obviously when I stepped out of unicorn land I realized it will never happen because I have acted so dam Autistic for so long it just will probably never work let alone manage to talk to her without insane cringe levels of awkwardness
This also kind of put me in the girls shoes, like I just wanted some sexy time and if this girl was not giving it up there are hundred others who will and that is probably exactly what has been happening for a long time now with other girls (also kind of made me think my "crush" is probably a slut too)
O well this is a good time to look for a better "crush" and not be autistic and fuck it up with her
Problem is I am also about to go full on sperg mode with homework, need to raise F's to A's in 5 weeks again while also keeping up with work out schedule
The problem is the fact I probably will never get my crush is just a bit of a shock after living in unicorn land for so long before this girl snaped me put of it yesterday and i'm scared now that I will pretty much be doing work alone to catch up I might get a little depressed and relapse beck into video game/internet addiction and subsequently go back to being an Autist
Tl;Dr how do you work for long periods on end without any real friends or any real form of releaving stress since if I go play video games or come here again the cycle will start over and nothing will be fixed
How the fuck do I stay focused without breaking down, I want to grow up already, i'm tiered of being such and Austist
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>>17115709
get off 4chan
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>>17115785
How do you stay off 4chan though??.....
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>>17115813
Those who know the secret aren't here anymore
So it's a bit of a mystery
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How the fuck do you get noticed on dating sites?
I'm investing time and some money on this shit and barely get profile views, let alone any girl replying to my messages
what the fuck? I'm not even completely ugly
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>>17115702
Which site?
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Contrary to what you may think there's more to attraction then appearance. Your seemingly intense need to find someone itself can be a major turn off
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Dating sites are pretty tricky. You have to understand that for every girl there's probably 20 guys, and the girls are swamped with messages daily.
I have been friends with a trans girl for 4 years now, and over that time it developed into something more. But whenever we agree on actually being in a relationship, she loses interest in me because she thinks she may want to rather be with a girl instead. This has happened 4 times now. Me being the idiot that I am and the fact that I truly love her I let her back into my life. I am not the most mentally stable person and lets just say every time that this happens it isn't good for me. I know everyone here is just going to say to drop her but I don't know if I could really do that. I just wanted to type something out to try and get this pain out of my chest
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What? A trans person is being confusing and noncommittal? What a shock
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>>17115654
Gaycalleditsforyou.jpg
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>>17115654
So the guy you're interested in likes dressing up like a girl and is interested in girls?
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So my wife is gonna do an erotic photo shoot. Her sister is the photographer.
I'm looking forward to getting some high quality nudes/panty shots of my wife.
But I also am getting kinda hard at the thought of her stripping and posing for her sister. I really, really want to get a recording of the whole shoot so I can watch and hear them talking and going through it.
I feel like if I ask my wife to record it, she'll be awkward/reserved knowing she's being recorded. I feel like if I ask just the sister, it'll be creepy, and then the photographer might be more reserved. I feel like if I just set up a recorder myself, it'll be even creepier.
What seems like the best way to do it.
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If she's already going to be doing nude photos with her sister, why the heck would video make them awkward?
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>>17115636
My wife is shy. The sister is going to have to go all out to get her to relax enough to do a shoot, and there's a big difference between having a bunch of your pictures taken (and you can throw out the ones you don't like) and having your movements and voice recorded.
I'm not saying you're wrong, just playing devil's advocate.
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>>17115640
Well just ask them and if they said it will make them too nervous then don't do it. If they are okay with it, do it.
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If you was offered 500 dollars for a (somewhat sexual) encounter with an older man and he only puts up half the money and said that you get the other half when finished. Would anyone turn this down or proceed?
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Pay in full upfront or bust. You cant have that nig skimping on paying you.
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>>17115620
What does he want you to do?
Also, is he a respectable guy with a house/wife/job that you could ruin if he doesn't pay you?
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I would not consider it. However that's only because I don't currently need money and because it differs from my sexual orientation. If it matches your orientation and/or if you need the money badly then I can't judge you for considering it.
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So I've had this amazing girlfriend for 7 months. And throughout these seven months, I have been infatuated with her. I think about her all the time, and I wanted to be with her always. A couple days ago I started playing video games, and its just like suddenly I lost interest in her. Now I love her. I really do, and she's prefect for me. And I don't want to break up with her or anything! But its just kinda like I stopped feeling these strong emotions all of a sudden when I started playing vidya. What can I do? This is so weird...any help will be appreciated.
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>>17115619
>7 months
haha. just take it easy, OP. unless you're a high schooler, 7 months is still very early in the relationship
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>>17115695
I mean I don't plan on doing anything, but I'm just confused as to how I can suddenly just be 100% into her and then only like 40% the next day yknow? I want that undying love and admiration for her to never leave.
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>>17115783
Honeymoon phase is probably wearing off. Happens to pretty much every couple at some point.
What causes you to talk in your sleep?
My roommate has mentioned on multiple occassions that I talk in my sleep. He says it sounds like I'm having conversations with people, and sometimes I laugh as well. The other day he said when I was sleeping I was listing off numbers. At first he thought I was talking to him but he realized I was just sleep talking again.
I've noticed I can remember some of my dreams very accurately, whereas my roomate says he can hardly remember any of his at all. What causes this to differ from person to person?
Also, how can I stop talking in my sleep? I don't want future roommates to think I'm weird.
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It's not weird, it's a common thing a lot of people do so don't worry about it.
As far as why, I can only guess it's how your brain doesn't completely freeze your body during sleep as its meant to (to keep you from sleepwalking and hurting yourself). Sleepwalkers have it much worse. I don't think there's a cure for either thing, and it's just how your brain manages your body during sleep, keeping you slightly...unfrozen.
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>>17115595
When you close your eyes and you go to sleep
And it's down to the sound of a heartbeat
I can hear the things that you're dreaming about
When you open up your heart and the truth comes out
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>The other day he said when I was sleeping I was listing off numbers
He should note the numbers and use them to create a deadly game where you kill aliens.
Why are men really so afraid of other dicks? I'm bisexual, I don't understand what the fuck is going on; it's a dick.
My best friend and I got offered another threesome the other night. I don't know why, but women want to fuck us at the same time a lot. The problem is my buddy is scared shitless about being the same room as my erect dick. My dick is at the upper end of average and he's average (played lots of sports together), so there's no crazy size difference and neither of us have anything scary going on in our pants. He has apologized to me multiple times. I don't pressure him; he feels badly; these girls are attractive; he knows and is cool with me liking men too so he knows he's the only one in the room with the issue. I asked him if he's scared of me touching him or fucking with him. He specifically told me no, it was nothing like that, he knows I would never do anything like that. He just has overwhelming anxiety over erect dicks.
This isn't limited to my buddy. I've had a few threesomes and foursomes in the past and each time guys were either so anxious they couldn't get off or they at least needed a while to get over it.
Why are men so afraid of other erect dicks being in the room?
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Are you fucking stupid?
You're bisexual. Straight guys don't like dicks, because they're straight. Not everyone is as gay as you. Then again, all those guys having the uncool threesome with you are partly gay as well
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I don't give a shit.
Just keep that shit out of my face.
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>>17115586
You're half gay, you wouldn't understand.
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I'm really confused about approaching this girl. 2016-05-06 17:37:49 Post No.17115584
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I'm really confused about approaching this girl.
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We've known each other for more than two months now. We share the same dorm building and we go to same classes at uni. Totally on random we went to bar together two months ago and since than we just knew that we are perfect together. We are having laughs and can talk for hours. We are pretty much the same in every aspect.
I know she feels the same way about me, we talk about everything we feel and it's like we are in relationship without all the intimate things right now. This wednesday we went to our comfy bar and as the night progressed I told her that it's not going to be better with anyone else ever again she looked me in the eyes and just nodded. She always smiles at me when we see each other during the day at dorm. Last week she texted me out of a blue while she was chilling in park with her friend that it'd be really nice if I was there...the thing is that when we met she told me that she had a girlfriend for two years and a guy for a period before her, but to this day it ain't clear to me if she is just lesbian or bi.
It's hard for me to make first moves, and now it's even harder. She doesn't even give me any physical indications...I now definitely know that I'm in love with her and seriously doubt that there'll be a better match for me.
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;_;
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>>17115584
>I like girl but havent made first moves please help ;_;
Every single day on here, and every single time the answer is the same. Man up and make the first move. Worst case scenario is you get rejected and you can move on faster from it. An even worst scenario than what I just stated is you keep typing out all these paragraphs about how great you think she is, and she eventually gets a boyfriend who had the balls to do what you didn't have to do for months.
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>>17115837
I'm a pussy I know.
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Alright /adv/, need some help here.
Be me:
>18, white generic kid
>Have a lot of friends at school, on a good tone with everyone
>Go home from school
>No one talks to me anymore
>No one wants to hang out with me
>Never get invited to parties
>Never get invited to birthdays
>Feel more lonely than ever
It's been going on for a while now, and it's tearing me down emotionally.
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ask them if they want to hang out
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Stop having 'school friends' and start making stronger bonds with people. You'll find the same shit as you get older, with 'work friends'. You get along with the people, but that's about as far as it goes. You have to put yourself out there to make better friends, because as it is it sounds like people think you're fine but don't feel strongly enough to see you outside of school
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You're not a white generic kid. White is never generic, you're special.