So I've always been attracted to my wife's sister since my wife and I got together when we were 16. I absolutely love and adore my wife. We have 2 children together and couldn't be a stronger couple.
My wife's sister is married to a fucking scum bag piece of shit. They recently had twins together and she moved in with my in-laws for the past year. Over the past year he refuses to get a job he lives at home with his parents and maybe visits the twins twice a month. I think its only to hold onto her.
Well the living situation is changing and she is talking about going back to him. Even though she constantly talks about leaving him/ ask's why didn't keep her from marrying him. Recently she has told us that she only is going back to him because she doesn't know what else to do. She also says she is afraid of him going through the courts for custody of the children he doesn't want.
I love the twins as if they were my own/ wish they were. I love my sister in law as if she was my own. I guess what im asking is how could I or should I bring this up to my wife and her sister.
I dont want to loose either one of them.
And I dont want my sister in law to be hurt anymore.
Further reading,
Me and my wife are 26 now been together since we where 16 she was my first and I hers. We have 2 children together 2 and 6 mo. When I say we been together 10 years I mean "everyday" for the past 10 years. I couldn't imagine my self with out her by my side till the day I die. But in the last year I really gotten close to my S.I.L and couldn't imagine life without her either.
Is it a hopeless cause or could this work out.
P.s
I suck at writing.
Y want to have a relationship with yr sister in law or just inform her??
There's no way he's going to get custody. Men are already on the short end of that stick because they're men, and with his job history and such he wouldn't have much to show.
Convince her to leave this guy first before spilling out your feelings. Telling either that you want to bang her during this time would be some bad timing.
So youre in love with your wife and in love with your wife's sister?
How do I join the Canadian army if the list of my mental issues is as long as God's cock? Let me rephrase that: it's so long, even God's cock can't compare.
French foreign legion. You should already have a leg up, eh?
>>17114757
Can we see the mental issues you have? or just some of the more pressing ones?
>>17114772
Depression and I had one psychotic episode. Those are the highlights of my cray-cray career.
Need some suggestions on what I can do to improve my looks, I've been in a huge overhaul for the past year and what not and my looks still aren't up to what I think they should be, so I need some honesty
>>17114733
>>17114733
A year ago, so I've changed a bit
>>17114733
Shave. You look like a hobo.
Hey guys im about to go to uni and I'm planning to completely leave/forget my friends(like 2) from highschool and I'm just trying to figure out a way to vanish so it's not as awkward like delete chats, block numbers etc.. So should I do this? and how should I go about it?
No, don't do that. Your friends will support you and even give you hope/a place to stay if you need it.
Unless they're shit friends. If they're shit friends then hell yeah delete that shit.
>>17114695
They're toxic and constantly call me stupid and generally take advantage of me, I dealt with it cause I had no friends.
>>17114681
How far away are you going? As long as they aren't within driving distance why does it matter?
I think my boyfriend might be a serial killer. We started dating at the start of last semester because he's a math whiz and I kept asking him for advice, and we ended up spending so much time together I got to find out he's not a very snarky, non-apologetic personality without the annoying bravado attached to it. I made a move to ask him out, and he seemed genuinely shocked. He even asked, "Do you think this is a good idea?" At the time I thought it was some kind of joke, but now I'm worried.
See, he doesn't DO anything. That is, if I ask him to take me to an art show, or a cooking class or whatever, he'll go willingly, and he always excels at whatever activity I take him to, from reciting poetry to wall climbing. But he never asks me if I want to do something. He never seems to have any plans, he doesn't hold any interests, he just seems to be engaged whenever you interact with him, like he's a human Furby.
He doesn't want to have sex, which I find highly disturbing. I "walked" in on him in the bathroom to try and get things started, and he is well-equipped downstairs, plus I've seen him get hard-ons before so I know it has nothing to do with his male sexuality. I have considered he's not attracted to me, personally, but he doesn't even stare at other girls that I KNOW are hot. It's like he's unaware of other people around him, or he doesn't care.
I asked him once what his goal in life is, and he said he has none. And yet for some reason he still goes to school, he still goes to the gym, he takes care of his home so very meticulously, and yet he tells me he doesn't care.
Is there a handbook for this kind of behavior? I can't for the life of me understand how he operates, and I'm growing more and more worried as time passes.
Aspergers.
Or he might be asexual.
Introverted.
He sounds like a creep though.
>>17114675
If he was a serial killer (which he's not btw)
He would appear very charming and have a whole back story
Sorry anon, but you fell for actual autism
>>17114675
Dammit, I was expecting a box full of ears or something.
You know you don't literally mean serial killer. Why would you be so rude to sufferers of sociopathy?
Sorry I'm a bit of an aspie, but what would make a more appropriate profile pic out of these?
The hedgehog one. It doesn't have you making a "I forgot to wipe my ass" expression and it doesn't have Ja'Quan Jenkins in it.
My high school has a week where seniors sell themselves to other students and the students get to dress up the seniors on Friday. The kid who bought me plans to dress me up in a very tight dress. How do I go all day without having an erection in class?
A pair of kitchen shears will work wonders
You could learn how to tuck but then that might either make you look like you've done this before or that you're very unendowed.
>>17114651
rock the boner proudly.
or ducktape it between your legs.
I vote for #1
Is 2 months in a relationship too early to say I love you ?
Bonus question: In your experience, how long is it until is it appropriately considered to say "I Love you"?
Bonus question: What's the earliest a partner has said it to you ?
>>17114608
Love is unconditional. Would you do ANYTHING for them and expect nothing in return? Are you selfless? Would you clean up their crap if they poo on the floor and still feel the same about them? Lust is not love.
>What's the earliest a partner has said it to you ?
Said it to me, about 4-5 months in, I don't know if she really loved me or the idea of loving someone that accepted her and treated her well.
>>17114619
I'm withwith anon, love is unconditional but is sometimes unrequited.
My first serious partner said it to me about 5 months in.
>>17114608
depends.
my first boyfriend actually said it about 2 months in. it felt right because we spent everyday together since we started dating.
my current said it in about 3 months... kinda made me worry at the time because i thought he said it too easily and i didn't think he knew me well enough to say that genuinely. met on tinder, and with the distance and everything... we've only met once at the time. (though we did text everyday and pretty much pour our hearts out) but now it's all good; he's been true to his word and shows how much he thinks about me and loves me everyday.
i don't mind waiting a year or so to hear that as long as they mean it. take that as you will, but essentially, the more you understand them and accept their flaws and stuff, the more meaning and weight it carries.
>be me, 22 still living with parents
>toxic environment that I hate
>only make $1500 a month
>student loans take out $260/month
>live in LA, so rent would be $500/month at bare minimum
>hover around $2000 in bank account due to expenses and my parents charging me rent
Any tips on getting out of here ASAP? Besides, obviously, getting a better job. I NEED to keep this job to get enough experience to move onto another, at least a year. No upward mobility but may get a small raise or something
Join military
How much are you paying to your parents ?
>>17114603
>rent in LA
>500 a month minimum
Hahaha
Need some advice bros. In a decent relationship with gf, but feel compelled to cheat. Hooked up with (pic related) at the end of last semester while gf was abroad, feeling the urge to hit her up to do it again. What do?
You're a cheating scumfuck piece of shit. There's only one thing to do.
>>17114576
Thanks senpai :^)
>>17114573
>but feel compelled to cheat
Why don't you become single so you don't subject your gf to emotional harm?
Girlfriend was upset at her mom and was talking to me about it. She seemed fine for a bit so then I told her I had to go finish up some homework. She gets mad at me and tells me that she wants me to stay because she was upset. I'm like okay that's fine my bad I didn't realize you were still upset. She gets mad at me and tells me that I was supposed to ask her if she was still upset before I left and she hangs up the phone on me. She then calms down but right after downloading the okcupid app. She called me and told me she was being over dramatic and that she downloaded the okcupid app to make me upset and that she just wanted to tell me.
Been dating almost 2 years... This used to happen a lot before but I left her over it one time and she took me back pleading that she'll change. Last time this happened (trying to get me jealous because she was mad) was like almost a year ago.
What do I do /adv/? Forgive? Forget? All she did was download the Okcupid app. I'm just scared she'll get back to her old ways of being a bitch because she used to ruin me. After she changed she was perfect but not she did this today.
Holy fuck tell her to fuck off. Selfish bitch doesn't even understand you have to finish homework and then she calls you back threatening to cheat? Bitch has brain problems, who would want to stay with that?
>>17114548
She never changed, she just temporarily changed her behavior. People don't actually change. Either she's looking to replace you or she's looking to manipulate you.
Sounds like a manipulative bitch to me OP. I'd drop her.
>>17114554
It's my first ever relationship... She used to drain me when she did this before but I was really infatuated. Over time I got tired of it so I just started ignoring the fuck out of her.
I feel like shit right now. It was going so good and I thought she wasn't crazy anymore.
I've discovered my vore fetish accidentally on a video, i felt something strange when saw a video where some furry character ate another one, that was just for fun, but i felt something strange about that, so i discovered my vore fetish after that.
time ago i was at furry hentai, but now with vore fetish i barely fell furry porn arousing, also, I'm very selective about how my vore fantasies are, i don't like human-related vore, enjoy only soft vore, i fell vore with digestion way more arousing than vore without digestion,
as a prefer fatal vore more than, non-fatal vore, but i ok with any 2 of these 2.
(THE QUESTIONS) about this, i having several problems to accept my vore fetish, due to:
I find fatal vore way more arousing than non-fatal vore, but i don't agree with the idea of dying to it, so i try to imagine even after the digestion, the prey can come back by its own desire (the conscientious keep after the digestion) or with magic, but don't seems it is working, i just have the same strange feeling about it, i don't want to accept the concept of dying, but as my favorite kind of final it is a bit hard.
also, i having questions about getting rid or not from this fetish, i know it's a really weird fetish, and seeing some kinds of vore that i don't like makes possible for me know what you guys without this fetish feel, i know how it seems gross, and i miss a lot that furry fetish (with sexual acts), so, i don't want it to become the ONLY REALLY arousing kind of "porn", but i don't really want to get rid of it, i trying to keep a balance between my fetishes, but how vore it's completely new for me (around 3 weeks) i think i could give it some months to make it more common and controllable, also seeing some furry porn to don't lose a true kind of porn, but i fear that it could make me more addictive than now about this fetish making me don't feel attraction to others kinds of porn anymore, what i mean is, these questions are driving to crazy.
PS: sry grammar
...you're fuckin' weird
>>17114543
God, all of my this.
you are mentally ill, stop watching bizarre anthro porn (or any porn) and take up a nice hobby like hiking
i have a crush on this girl, we always talk and do some things together(ive known her for like 4-5 months now), today she texted me saying she had a dream about me,then went on to say how she hates when guys chat to her on facebook, but said i am an exception... i suffer from slight depression and a bit of social anxiety so i am very hesitant.
despite having no real relationship experience atm, this is a definite yes.
>>17114527
She's expressing an interest. Be a confident person and ask her out. Have a specific place and time in mind and don't be put off if that doesn't work. Suggest another time, same place and let her pick the time.
If she says no to both, then she's not interested.
>>17114534
>this is a definite yes
No. It's a probable "yes," but I was in basically that situation, and it turns out that no, she wasn't interested in me in that way.
So, OP, if you're not an otherwise desirable guy, then I wouldn't bother trying.
Or "lower my standards"
I'm terrible and hot girls don't like me. Average girls don't like me.
Everyone I know says I'm creepy as fuck, online and in real life. I have very few friends and hate myself and I'm just so shitty and toxic all the time but a man can't help his nature. I work in a factory and don't have much money. My face is ugly as shit. I have been working out and making progress on my body but fat loss and lifting isn't going to fix my face.
So basically I'll never be the sexy rich "good personality" guy any girls want. I do have plans to go into a 2 year program that will get me a better job but it'll be at least 2 years before I can even afford to start, and time to work on my body. I'm 24 and don't really want to delay my first relationship for several more years, it's shameful enough as it is.
Fat girls like me though. They jump my bones everywhere I go and I always react harshly to shut them up, because that's fucking disgusting. But now as a lonely grown adult virgin I can see that they're the only ones I'll ever be good enough for. I can look at fat naked girls online all day and it does nothing for me, how do I mentally train myself to get into this? You can say "lower your standards" all you want but if I can't get hard it's not gonna happen. How do I fix this?
>>17114488
man, i mean physical attraction is important but you want to focus on people's character and personality if you want anything to last...
i guess i'm a fairly attractive femanon. my friends and family always rail on me for having "weird taste" in boyfriends because they don't fit the 6'+, rich, gorgeous, and successful profile that i should be dating. i mean, it's not like i can't get those types; i've dated the models, lawyers, and athletes and whatnot, and honestly, they were nice people too. but the most passionate relationships i've had were with guys who were pretty unfortunate in both appearance and status and whatnot lol.
in the end, i date the guys i do because i see potential in how much they're willing to be a true partner; which means loyalty, respect, kindness and honesty. that's what's most important to me. i can't help but find their imperfections endearing if i hadn't already found it charming in the first place; especially with the way they look at me like i'm the best thing in the world and how they'll do anything to make me smile... really melts my heart.
so op, maybe try to give those girls who may have the ability to be a great partner a chance. you might fall in love with their extra curves or something lol. or alternatively, you can become the person the attractive people you want wants to be with. there's always a pay-off or balance in these sort of things.
my current boyfriend is pretty poor, is missing a tooth (wears a fake one in its place), is under 6' tall, and is pretty out of shape. but man, do i love him to death and i am so grateful and happy to have such a selfless and sweet person... thanks op, now i gotta tell him how much i love him again lol.
Character and personality are much more important.
>>17114558
This made me cringe.
I have constipation. What are some foods that'll make me shit?
coffee then cold water immediately after
Greens
Spinach, broccoli, celery. Get some roughage in there to clean you out.
>>17114473
Apples and figs do it for me.