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Are women who do yoga loose by default? Like what I'm getting at is are they all whores just trying to tighten up their vaginas to fool men into thinking they are virgins?
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You don't know much about yoga, do you?
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No, my girlfriend does yoga and she lost her virginity to me. She does it because she likes to be supple and to relax.
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>>17118018
Then tell me o autistic one
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I'm going to hang myself when I get home from work today
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I advise you not to do that.
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Don't.
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I'll take that into consideration
I've been seeing a girl for around 3 months, we're both early 20s
she is extremely shy and has self esteem/depression/anxiety issues
we were traveling on a vacation together for a few days that went really well and was fun
when we got back things got really weird
she told me about how she didn't understand why a guy like me would love her for more than sex and that she felt she didn't deserve somebody as good as me and that she was confused why I even liked her
then she opened up about her past, which included having sex with much older men in their 30s and 40s without any kind of relationship attached. she talked about how she fell hard in love with some of these men even though she knew they would never love her back
she started crying and talked about how nobody had ever understood her before me and that people only wanted her for sex, then thanking me for finally understanding her and making her feel like she wasnt alone for the first time ever
we started having sex, and then halfway through she started crying uncontrollably, we didn't finish
I spent an hour calming her down and she went back to her place
the next day she told me that she was feeling terrible
for some reason I feel terrible too. I can barely eat food
this morning, 2 days later I just texted her that the fact that she was having one night stands with older men really bothered me and that I couldnt not tell her that it bothered me then turned off my phone because I dont think I can talk to her right now
what is going on and what should I be doing
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Don't be hard on her. Probably her self esteem issues are eating her up and she may need some time to find herself. You could help her.
If you like her, let her know it, be there for her
She had a terrible emotional past so maybe it isnt easy for her too see it all good and with rainbows now
She needs time
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It's a shit situation. Your girl is obviously a mess and needs help, but I don't think she can really change or heal. Maybe when she's 50+ she'll calm down but it's not even sure.
I'm quite an old fag and have this obsession with hearing people's troubles and have talked with many many women from 15 to 50+ and those issues are life long.
You can be here for her for a while, she'll trust you that you love her but there'll be many crisis like this one and it'll eventually be too much for you.
Also maybe you just want to hear that but at 20 I wouldn't have wanted to stay with a girl that slept with a ton of guys especially older men, it feels disgusting.
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>>17117872
So much this. I know that sort of girl well OP. You can try to help, you can mean well, but the harsh reality is that some people can't be fixed how we wish they could.
She might eventually leave you at the drop of the hat as well. I'm assuming bipolar from the sounds of it. All the words in the world you reassure her with won't stick
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how do you deal with depression/phobia based around time?
time is moving so fast for me and i know it will only get faster. I'm going to be 30/40/50 before i know it it feels like.
so fast that i can't even enjoy my life
i'm not even enjoying being in my 20's because I"m just dreading going past my prime. it's all down hill from here. my physical ability, my sexual drive, my looks, it all goes down the toilet.
the worst of it is having to watch my gf age. She has a 10/10 body imo, but I'm worried that I'll stop finding her attractive as I age.
everyone keeps telling me to live in the moment but i just feel so stressed about wasting my life.
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shame bump
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>>17117648
Oldfag here. Idk why I experience time moving so quickly but I do, like I always have. And to make matters worse, I have lifelong depression, anxiety, ADD, bipolar disorder and Im autistic.
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There's literally nothing you can do about it bro.
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Does a man's stock really raise in his 30's? Or is that a meme bitter lonely guys tell themselves?
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Statistically, yes. It's pretty much undeniable.
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It can, but there's no guarantee. The reason they say that is because men are judged on more than just looks. Usually by the 30s guys are done with school and established in a career. They have generally become proficient at hobbies, or have interesting pastimes. If you're just a NEET or all you do is play video games, then no, you'll still be a loser in the eyes of many women.
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>>17116743
I'm 31 and I can deny it.
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You know the drill
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To the anon who changed his/her answer from yes to no when i told my story, the reason i struggle with the attentionwhore is because i need someone to focus on to make me forget the blandness of life.
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>>17116322
I hate you M, you've hurt me like no other and you're making me insane, you keep telling me you love me yet you're not with me.
Yet I can't stop liking you, I hate it so much.
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>>17116344
Mrs. I. P. ???
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><Random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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how do i find a qt english speaker gf ?
As a foreigner, what can i do to make myself more appealing ?
Do girls love specific accents ? wich ones ?
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>>17116273
>how do i find a qt english speaker gf ?
By talking to girls in English.
>As a foreigner, what can i do to make myself more appealing ?
The same things every other guy does to make himself more appealing.
>Do girls love specific accents ? wich ones ?
Girls are not a hivemind, so no. Girls do not love specific accents.
Some girls do, and which ones varies from girl to girl.
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This one is for short girls.
I honestly wonder what do you think when you're approached or you see a guy who is 6'4 because a lot of short and tiny girls seem a bit intimidated by it.
stupid question but im really interested in getting some answers
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I'm trying to figure what the fuck happened to me as a person, I met a lot of people who I thought we're my friends and they left me in the dust, one of my friends took my girl and now they both said I abused her and shit, I'm starting to fade away from my good friends, I mean my grades are perfectly fine but wtf is my life nowadays it went from be exciting to the same repeating bullshit, why is life hard to get? Am I dying for this life? Idk I'm in a deep hole but I'm still swinging man. (Yall probably gonna say you're toooo young)
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>>17119376
Kill yourself
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I am in my 1st year of uni and I have one month before this semester's final exams start. Is one month enough to start studying for them or am I fucked?
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Why didn't you study before?
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>>17119280
I was being lazy.
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>>17119232
yeah if you study day and night, you'll at least pass. first year can't be that hard.
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>you must have at least 2 years of experience to be considered for this entry level position
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>>17119201
That's to weed out the blacks.
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>>17119206
How?
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link me the job listing OP, let me see what you're talking about
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/adv/ I want to be like other guys and not think twice about fucking some random girl, but there's always something mentally stopping me.. how do I get over this?
Is it because I'm a virgin? Will losing my virginity make random casual sex easier to go through?
Like right now if I'm even close to sleeping with a girl, I go through the mental process of figuring out whether we fit together and whether there will be a future, if I don't see one then I dont bang her
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Leveling up in a game is a process of doing things to gain "experience" and the more "experience" you gain, the higher level and stronger you become.
This is a literal translation from real life, to build character and personality in real life you need to experience things. Losing your virginity is a form of experience in regards to "thinking about fucking random girls".
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I feel ya.
And honestly the "random" girls you have sex with are essentially prostitutes that you don't have to pay.
But like prostitutes they give sex out to who knows how many other guys so you have a legitimate concern, my friend.
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>>17119161
>Like right now if I'm even close to sleeping with a girl, I go through the mental process of figuring out whether we fit together and whether there will be a future, if I don't see one then I dont bang her
There's nothing wrong with that.
Some guys like casual sex, others don't.
Just personal preference.
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Is getting into debt the only way to work abroad? 2016-05-07 17:57:39 Post No.17119121
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Is getting into debt the only way to work abroad?
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>24 years old and live in England
>Have 20k in savings
>Applied and got accepted into engineering degree programs starting September
>Have traveled and stayed in America for 3 months in the past with friends
>Ultimately wish to move to US/CA permanently
While I'm at school I will be getting zero funding from family and will be amassing huge amounts of debt. My goal is to move to the US and it seems like there is no way to get there without having a degree and getting an employer to sponsor you which is difficult in of itself. I'd much prefer to save my money and have no debt but be able to make it over there with an income, but I don't see how this is possible without a greencard marriage, which is not an option.
Do I really have to get myself into huge amounts of debt to be eligible for skilled visas?
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>>17119121
sorry to burst your bubble on this but no employer will sponsor you as a recent graduate, it is extremely costly and time consuming for the employer (taking 3-5 YEARS) and they need to prove to the government that they tried to find an american for that position but couldn't. Obviously as a recent graduate with no experience that would not happen.
Your only option to moving to America if you don't have family there is a greencard marriage.
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>>17119306
>no employer will sponsor you as a recent graduate, it is extremely costly and time consuming for the employer (taking 3-5 YEARS)
They seem to be totally fine employing indians and chinese
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>>17119326
That's because they work for so little (the shameless bastards) it's still profitable to pay for their sponsorship due to the savings in wages.
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http://www.personalitypage.com/INTP.html
No matter the mood I keep testing as an INTP. Reading the description, it sounds like the ultimate sexless beta. I don't want to be an ultimate sexless beta. What do?
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Nah, ISFP is the ultimate sexless beta. It's all a whole bunch of whining and NO ONE UNDERSTANDS ME BAHHHHHH.
INTPs are good in my book. You just gotta get over the fact that the world is pretty fucked up and you can't change much in it.
Once you get past that it'll be easier to make relationships/get pussy.
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stop paying attention to pseudoscience
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Yeah, I wouldn't put too much stock into those tests, OP.
I test differently daily, and depending on who's test I take. Pretty much the only consistent result I can derive is that I'm introverted, and I may or may not have a brain.
Truly some mind-boggling revelations.
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One of my friends has some copycat syndrome going on. Anything I do, say, like, or wear, she must do/like the same. Recent example being the yesterday I dyed my hair blonde, and today she also dyed it blonde. If I got a tattoo on my face that said "niggers" she'd probably do it too.
Girl's even trying to hit on my boyfriend and attempting to "steal" him so she can become an even more accurate doppelganger.
This started about 3 months after I met her. At first I didn't have the heart to tell her off, since she's the kind of person to kill herself if you give her critism. Very senstive and depressed.
How do I deal with this without making her commit harakiri? I don't want to be responsible for her death or some shit.
Sorry for the verbal vomit.
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>the yesterday
fuck me in the ass I hate English
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Make out with her and create a paradox, its the only logical choice.
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>>17119060
give her to me
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>people tell me 'Go outside'
>I went outside
Now what?
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>Don stepped outside
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>>17119039
Go back inside and return to begging dickheads on 4chan to dripfeed you the rest of your life, instruction by instruction.
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>>17119039
eat grass.