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>>17119631
I don't get what you want advice on, you gave us your side of the story, you admitted you fucked up
>I rested my foot on the bathtub wall and it caved in easily. I shouldve told him but if I did we still would have refused to pay it and he would have ended the rent. When he found out he wanted me to give him 300 dollars to repair the damage the hole did.
You broke something, you didn't tell him, the damage carried on and affected other areas of the property.

If you rested your foot and it caved in, there might have been something that caused the damage e.g. mould.
As far as he knows, you booted the hole in it and stayed quiet, continuing to use the facilities which would have caused water to get into it.

tl;dr you fucked up and are at fault, the high court of /adv/ isn't going to help, appeal if you like, but you are in the wrong and will only incur more costs.
Next time report any faults that you find and don't leave other people's property fucked up.

>>17119631
I agree it's incredibly unlikely that crack is where the water came from that made that kind of water damage.

Has he already fixed it?

If not, test it yourself. That crack could only even collect water from a running shower, but then it would only get misted.

That looks like a hole from a continuous drip, is water dripping when the tub isn't even running? If so, it's the pipes.

Run the tub and see if any water drips down.

There should also be an access panel behind the plumbing (you may have to go to the opposite wall to get to it). If you look behind that you might see where the water's coming from. I'd bet it's a valve before it's that crack.


Unless maybe the whole tile was chipped off and water was flowing down the wall into the hole and you just popped the piece back in for the photo.

>>17119578
to clarify: she was 5 years older than me

>>17119578
pls respond

>>17119578
I dunno man.

Just replied to give the thread a bump.

Write faster nigger

>>17119571
The perp was someone i knew very well, and I've heard details about the case that have deeply disturbed me, not even knowing things like that existed. I will have to appear in court to give evidence as there is a lengthy trial ahead.

I am failing to see good in the world at all and feel completely doomed. I can't see any way out of the (relative) poverty we both live in, my job is damaging to my physical health, i smoke too many cigarettes as a coping mechanism for the cravings for drugs I experience every single day. I have no friends whatsoever, a couple of the guys I work with I get on well with but I keep contact with none of my peers or friends from school, college or that I met as a user. I see my baby siblings far too infrequently due to the distance between us, my lack of transportation and time due to working upwards of 60 hours a week.

I take very little pleasure in any social activities, I even find it hard talking to my partner a lot of the time. There's no doubt in my mind that I deeply love and care about him/her but it's hard to explain what is going on in my head without destroying any good feelings she's managed to develop about life. When I open up to her she cries, and I feel worse. When I'm closed she gets upset because I'm not being open, so there's fuck all I can do to with regards to it. She talks to me and I counsel her, which is extremely rewarding and she needs it but the more I hear the worse I feel about everything.

I would love children, biologically I feel that urge. Morally, rationally, I find it extremely hard to justify bringing more life onto this planet, doomed to the same fate of working their asses off, killing themselves with the poisons society has to offer and being born literally just to serve as machines to generate money for selfish scum. I can't justify having them.

What the hell is going on, why aren't there more insane people? How can we smile?

Trying to be as quick as possible, I'm fairly sure you've got the picture but if I've been too vague in places please ask. I really need some kind of way out of this situation.

>>17119521
>gf
>1 month
>my mother in law

You don't seem to understand what a mother in law is.

>>17119521
lol what the fuk am i reading

>>17119526
You are right, my mistake

>>17119505
No advice here OP, I'm just here to reinforce your belief you're a piece of shit. Good luck with life you fucking loser.

ah shit man. yeah talk to your roommate, let him know what happened. things are probably gonna be different between you two (and him and his crush), but hey man, every action has a consequence. good luck.

>>17119536
Woah he may be a huge piece of shit but I wouldn't say loser

>>17119484
Don't touch their hair. And be ready for the foul smell down there. They have different microbes which causes an unpleasant smell compared to other groups.

>>17119491
Oh damm really? Im actually curious about the microbe thing. Not op btw

>>17119484
Also, black women have the highest rate of STDS

http://www.cdc.gov/std/stats12/minorities.htm

>>17119466
>Is she stringing him along

Yes.

Now the question becomes; Do your instincts tell you that she is capable of cheating on you?

You're on a shitty situation. There's a simple way to solve, although you might not like it.

1 - Start talking to other girls as well. Don't cheat, just expand your social circle. Bonus points if you can get one interested
2 - go back to her and tell her she needs to make a choice. You can't be stringed along and risk wasting your time and feelings.
3 - cut contact until she makes up her mind

That's a huge red flag there. I advise you jump ship.

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>>17119425
Come on bitch don't think about the others, you are a beast, a FUCKING BEAST, NDERSTOOD?

>>17119425
>I'm so dumb and I know near nothing about the world because I've never had any real friends, I've always been a shut-in, and I'm too ashamed to ask stupid damn questions

This is a horribly self-destructive excuse mate. You live in an age where the world's knowledge is literally at your fucking fingertips. I'm a shut-in too, I use this time to L E A R N.

Google is your friend. Wikipedia is your friend. Neither of them will judge you.

There are no stupid questions. Nobody expects you to be a fountain of knowledge at 21.

Stop wasting your time complaining.

>>17119463
I guess you're right, I do use the Internet to look a lot of stuff up. Though I think they're only morsels compared to the amount of stuff I should know by now...

>>17119411
unless you're planning to never have a gf again i don't see why you should dump her. your cons are easily applicable to any partner ever.

>>17119411
If she makes more money why do always pay when you eat out. Why not try to balance it between you two?

>>17119417
I thought I might get a new gf in 3-5 years after my student loans are paid off and I've played all the videogames.

>>17119405
Are you in college now? If so, how many credits? You can automatically start at a slightly higher rank depending on your hours.
>0-29 hours = E1
>30-59 hours = E2
>60+ without completion = E3
>graduated = E4

>>17119577
not in college, but the contracts offered are for 0-7 (i immediately enter officer training)

>>17119589
What? You literally cannot be an officer without a degree (along with a direct commission, ROTC, or OCS).

>>17119397
death grip google it and stop fapping

>>17119404
I don't masterbate with a that tight grip, and I've tried to cut down my fapping to 1-2 times a week. Is this still to much?

>>17119404
Not always the case really. I suffer from a similar thing, never used a "death grip" and I masturbate really rarely. Even once didnt even touch my private parts in a month in an attempt to cum during sex, but nope. Came close a few times, but it just didnt happen.
Sex always ends up being something where I do my thing for about 30minutes, the girl says its starting to hurt, finish her off by hand and roll over to sleep.
The funny thing is that sex itself feels really good, but I just cant orgasm no matter what I do. Its probably a mental issue at this point and its what made me give up on sex aswell as relationships. Turns out Im happier without that stress, but any slight urge for sex or a relationship is turned off when I remember that its never going to be worth the hassle.

>>17119239
Why are you getting fired?

>>17119245
First job I was late one too many times.
Second job I wasn't meeting their quota.
Third Job, I applied to a place I had no experience in and the boss just hated me.

I realize I'm not very good at physical labor and I feel like I'm not good at anything.

>>17119239
Are you me? I'm about to drop out aswell any tips bro?

>>17119214
He will not get over this fast and the fact that you care shows there's still enough basic humanity left in you that you're not truly ready to off yourself.

If you really wanted to kill yourself, you wouldn't bother typing up a post on a Faroese whaling board. You would've fucking done it, no concern for those around you.

>>17119214
When I was a kid, third grade, I met my first friend in the new school district I moved to. I was friends with him from third grade until 11th grade when I changed schools. We would have sleepovers, play video games all night, this was over 25 years ago.

Anyways, I found out about 10 years ago he killed himself. Even though I didn't see him after 11th grade, I still think about him from time to time. It's still sad to me. He was a decent kid.

You're friend will likely not get over it and you'll hurt him emotionally.

>>17119214
Call the hotline.

We literally don't care.

>>17119130
>And is it likely that all my colleagues loathe me, including the ones I'm friends with?


If none of them would even tell you that they smell but went to their boss instead then...man, it sounds like you aren't actually friends with any of them. That sucks.

Also, lynx bodyspray will just make you smell of Lynx and whatever BO you happen to be reeking of.

Do you use deodorant in your actual armpits?

>>17119130
I'm in the same situation.

I work in a similar job and from the moment I start working til I leave for the day: I sweat non-stop. To the point that I have to take a gym bag with extra t-shirts and underwear to change into when my clothes become so soaked with sweat. It feels like I jumped into a pool (actually it's so bad one time someone asked me if I had jumped in a pool).

And, yes, I do get that very rancid sour smell after a few hours. THANKFULLY i only had a few coworkers that are never around me but if they were is imagine they wouldn't be too pleased with the smell!

So really I don't care, because theres nobody to complain. But for you I would just spray that Lynx stuff under your shirt every few hours to atleast mask the odor.

Best of luck!

>>17119152
Not OP but I wear deodorant every day.

That's not the smell I get. It's the sweat that smells so bad.

I always hate breaking up, especially if you are well acquainted with family of hers. The only good way to do it though is sit her down and say it. Be ready to explain (doesn't need to be real, just make sure it's non-negotiable or something she could promise to change) and be ready to fend off pleading, begging, crying and maybe violence. I always do it at home, some people suggest public places (to nip crying/screaming) but I think in a serious case like engagement more private is better. But make sure you do it, you will regret it forever otherwise.

Also wanna tell us the complications?

>>17119157
Here's the thing, she loves me. I can tell. But she has made me cut ties with my friends. She says it's because they're bad influences (my friends are either potheads or womanizers. But I do it for her because I'm a fucking idiot.) But she always doesn't seem to mind my best friend, let's call him Jeremy. Jeremy and I have been best friends for about seven years now. He's the guy who actually watched my life progress. Back when I had girl problems, he was there. Back when I had a soul crushing depression that no one else could understand, he was there. Back when I was at the lowest point of my life, he was there. Even when I finally got my shit together and became successful for my age, he was still there, he wasn't that fairweather friend that only stuck to you when he needed you, or only hung out with you when you're at your lowest, he never got jealous of my accomplishments. He was there with me. Hell, he even knew how I lost my virginity to a girl.

But one day, we started drinking. Just two guys drinking, not even at a titty bar, just a plain, honest-to-god bar. We were only out for two hours, but Jeremy just got back from an 8 hour trip and needed a place to stay for the night. My girlfriend, got mad (BECAUSE WE WENT OUT FOR TWO FUCKING HOURS. I'm still fucking confused up to this point) and threatened to make him leave. I felt insulted and started arguing with her. She started raising her voice, one thing lead to another and Jeremy overheard us fighting.

After we fought I saw Jeremy's last text and it said something to this effect "I'm gonna leave, bro. I don't want to get in between you two. Goodbye, man".

I just don't want a girl who wants me to cut ties with the people I love, especially someone who's actually been there for me during the worst and best parts of my life.

>>17119219
Sorry if I can;'t explain properly I'm actually drunk as I'm typing this. But if you have any questions just shoot away.