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>Met this guy on Tinder
>Hit it off
>Start dating for about 2 months
>Find out his dad has cancer
>SUPER close to his dad
>As we date, I notice his interest decreases
>He quits work to take care of his dad full time
>Dad dies
>Guys interest very quickly decreases
>Guy breaks it off
"I'm not ready to commit to someone as nice as you because I've got too much going on in my life right now"
>I send him something along the lines of "I understand, but I cam here for you"
>No response
So what do, /adv? Should I give up on this guy? I really liked him...
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You're not improve to him. What more do you want to hear?
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>>17299548
I don't know. He had started to open up about it, but changed his mind then avoided talking about his dad at all.
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I had gf in similar situation. Ended up pretty nasty. Whatever is the reason of his, he has one, and he wants to stop. I /adv/ you follow it considering my exp.
>talk to gf about cuckold fantasies
>she says the idea is growing on her
>we keep talking about it
>she eventually says "babe we HAVE to do this"
>making plans now
fuck this feels so wrong but so right, did i fuck up?
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Cuckolding is hot as the bull not as the cuck stupid anon
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Can't say I've always wanted to do this with my wife too but she would lose her mind if I even hinted at it. Good luck bro. If I was going to do it I would do it with close friends if possible strangers is just weird in my opinion
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Oh I thought this was for swinging, bro cuckolding is weird man at least get to fuck another chick in exchange
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Is there such thing as tutoring over email / email lessons? That is, you teach someone some subject over email for some modest pay.
Does it actually work? If so, where should I start? What sites should I visit to learn more about it?
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>>17299445
I mean, if you only contact them via email, how is it different for them from studying by themselves, apart from the possibility of asking you questions, material on most subjects is usually more or less avaliable
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you can get skype tutoring. i am myself a languages tutor, but it depends on what you want to learn.
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>>17299445
Doesn't sound smart.
Also,
>2016
>using e-mail
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Should I stay or should I go? 2016-06-27 18:10:15 Post No.17299437
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Should I stay or should I go?
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I'm 25. Live at home. Parents legitimately hate me. I won't go into detail, but I'm extremely upset about something they did to the point of exploding.
What I want to do is leave without saying a word. I work for my dad, would like to quit. Would like to say fuck taking over the company.
But, maybe there's a more rational approach. I know they would never admit to doing what they did, so there's no point in trying to have an honest discussion.
What else is there, then? What should I do? I'm miserable right now and just want to leave.
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>>17299437
Fuck em.
But if you want to leave, make sure you have a back up plan that is not going to make you depend on others. (you can ask friends first of course)
Take this from a guy who did the same and all his friends were too busy to care at that moment.
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>>17299484
I think I have enough money to float me along until I get another job. If all else fails I can live out of my truck for a bit. I have a pretty valuable trade. Don't think it'd be too hard to find something
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>>17299437
what did they do ?
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Do you guys have an advice for a loser that falls in love with every girl that is being nice to me?
I've never been in a relationship, I'm almost 21 and i have serious problems with social skills.
To escape reality I listen to Alan Watts' lectures until I fall asleep. Thanks to that I'm still alive.
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I wish I had advice for you anon. I guess the normie way is to be cold as fuck and don't feel emotions until after you are officially dating the person.
>inb4 boner boy respect women stop worshipping women etc.
I wish advice on this board hadn't been reduced to memes
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>>17299429
Just stay friends with the girls you fall in love with and you will like them less over time and number of said friends as you allow yourself to see their shortcomings.
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I have the same problem. I think it's the depression and loneliness getting into you. Someone being nice to seems so rare, most people wont really care for you or something. You have understand that women are just people. Some are bitches, some are actually nice. It's way harder to find a girl that will go out of their way to treat you special unless you're some handsome alpha or something. People just want to be nice just because. Don't look too deep into it. Just take it into face value.
>>17299480
Jesus fuck do N-O-T FOLLOW this advice
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How do I deal with "chronic" procrastination?
Just a way to call it. I think it is actually not being able to get my shit together and focus. And working with a computer isn't easy because internet. It's like trying to work with a Nintendo.
Any tips?
Thanks in advance.
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>>17299412
same boat here, buddy. I got nothing.
My boss needs to manage me better or something, because I have no will power of my own.
Like, I do enough work to get by and not to raise any question.. But, I literally spend the majority of my day shitposting and browsing the web.
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>>17299412
Take some time, think about and address it tomorrow.
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>>17299412
Convince your doc to hook you up with ADD meds.
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My skin is usually never dry, because it's mostly oily. Recently, though, I've been having dry patches all over my face that flake, and I've never had this problem before. I tried putting on coconut oil, I didn't use some products that I thought dried my skin out, didn't take a shower to dry it out, exfoliated- and nothing worked. But I haven't been breaking out, either.
I've been 10% Benzoyl Peroxide cream overnight to prevent breakouts, and I have the feeling it also dries out my skin, but I have the fear that if I stop using it I'll break out again. I also use a mild cleanser in the morning and night, which I temporarily stopped using because it felt like it was burning my face.
Is it as simple as drinking more water? Or is it the stuff I'm using? Ech. I just don't want to flake everywhere.
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>>17299404
Utilize it to get a good career on filmsets, the machines they use for snow are super expensive, and you could help them out
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>>17299404
>10% Benzoyl Peroxide cream overnight
Yeah no shit your skin is dry. Either stop using this or try a lower concentration. You can also try using a moisturizer.
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>>17299404
Benzoyl peroxide is usually not recommended as this causes harm to skin.
Just use a good moisturizer OP, then you'll be fine. Go to the store and ask one of the chicks, they'll be able to help you out.
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I need job advice. A while ago, I posted here about being moved from my Safeway's Starbucks department to its bakery department. I fully understood why: my performance sucked. I simply wasn't performing my duties well enough. Now, though, I've been told that the bakery "wasn't a good fit for me, either," which again, obviously means that I wasn't doing well there. The thing is, I wasn't given feedback on how to improve, and was told by people in the department that I was doing a good job. The only issue I could see is that I wasn't working quickly enough. But I was given no feedback on this.
They've offered me (what I'm guessing is) one final chance as a courtesy clerk (bagger). I'm tempted to take it to hold me until the fall when more jobs open, but should I take my grievances up to my boss? I'm past caring about this job now, but I would like for him to encourage any workers who come after me to be given more usable feedback so that they can correct themselves quickly. Is that overstepping my bounds? My only other job was a lot more different and had no issues, so I never had to talk to my supervisor. So, my workplace etiquette IQ's a bit low.
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>>17299393
Well yes, ask your boss why you weren't "a good fit" in the bakery since the only feedback you got was that you were doing a good job.
If you know that you don't work quickly enough, do you know WHY you don't work quickly enough?
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>>17299448
I always knew that I could be at least a little faster, but I just figured it'd come to me in time. It only occurred to me that I could be a lot faster when one of the other workers who normally doesn't work the same shift I do mentioned it to me. She basically said, "If you don't pick up the pace, you're not going to last here long." I thought she was right and was planning to work a lot harder this week, but I wasn't given the chance. Now , I won't be allowed any further hours until I let them know if I want to take bagging.
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>>17299475
But I didn't answer the question. I've always been really meticulous, no matter what I do, but that means that I work a lot more slowly. That usually meant my work was a cut above the rest in school, but I guess I never learned to turn that off, especially when my work so far has been nothing but packaging bread.
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got 4 cavities. dentist wants to fill in each one on a separate appointment. wtf? is this normal?
his explanation is that they're each on a separate corner of my mouth so it'd be "uncomfortable" to do them all at once
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My dentist took 15-20 minutes per to fill in cavities I had. He's probably just trying to make sure he doesn't take too much time on one patient if he's a busy dentist with a good practice. Do you really want to sit through that anyway?
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>>17299391
Possibly. It might be more comfortable to at least do them on separate sides of your mouth (left in one session, then right in another, for example).
I would suggest that before permitting any drilling that you get an examination by another dentist. Don't say anything about having cavities, just see if the second one reports that you have four cavities and that they're all in the same places.
There's often no clear evidence of lack of a cavity in an x-ray and a LOT of dentists lie to try to make money because they know that once the drill & fill is done, there's going to be no definitive proof that they were lying.
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No, its a move to get more money since you pay for each appointment. His reasoning is to get money. Dentist will do that a lot, vets as well.
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I'm struggling with depression and motivation.
What's a good way to request pills by name, and not have the doc think you're a pill seeker?
Ritalin, or Adderall for example.
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1. Go to doctor
2. Talk about symptoms
3. Mention you've done some research on possible drugs that might help
4. Propose to doctor: "Would it be possible for me to try <drug> to see if it helps?"
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>>17299399
This pretty much.
Also try to consider pills that are actually used primarily in your condition, not pills that are fun and enjoyable to get high off of.
For example, at my next visit with my shrink, i've got a list of about 6 meds to talk about, starting with the venlafaxine + mirtazapine combo.
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>>17299383
Just smoke weed, it'll clear that right up.
>tfw smoking 75 cigarettes a day
anyone here managed to quit smoking?
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>>17299327
20 bucks worth of cigarettes a day? damn bruh.
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something something buy car
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>>17299332
36 dollars a day
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Lets say there's this thing that me and this girl I am dating (N) was supposed to keep secret from her brother (K) and her brother's best friend (H).
I end of telling this thing to a female friend of mine (A) as she has kept her promise of not telling secrets before. Without me knowing, she goes and tells H (they used to date) who tells K.
The next day, K and the H question me about the thing and I could tell I couldn't get away with lying (just gut instinct + they made sly threats and I pussied out) so I told them the truth. K tells me to stay away from N.
I tell N about what happened and she flips out and gets pissed. At this point I didn't know that A had broken my trust and spilled the beans. I feel like I fucked up big time.
A week goes by with no contact with N and I found out about A breaking my trust. I get pretty angry about it and feel like I've ruined my chances with N.
It's been a week and a half since this whole thing has started (2 days since I found out about A telling H). N is currently on work experience this week and her placement is 1 minute away from my house. I was thinking of just running into N as she finishes and is walking home tomorrow and explaining everything about how A told H, who told K before I spilled the beans myself and try to rekindle things, but I'm scarred she will just walk right past me and act like i'm invisible.
Should I just man up and do it tomorrow? Should I wait longer? Should I wait for her to contact me (extremely unlikely)?
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>>17299311
What the fuck is the "thing"?
I have no fuckimg clue if you don't give me an idea of how intense this actual situation is
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>>17299324
My bad, I explained this wrong. The 'thing' is the fact that me and her were dating. Everyone on the outside just though we were friends.
Should I kiss her. We have been all over each other multiple times and randomly held hands. But have never kissed. We are both married btw, which is why I have been reluctant to kiss her, I worry that she will draw the line there and then things will be awkward. However I have always been overly cautious with women and lost out on a few opportunities because of it. I have smacked her ass and rubbed her legs inconspicuously and she responded by holding my hand with our spouses walking in front of us. Whenever we part ways she always gives me full contact hugs... pelvises touching. Do you think that kissing her would be too risky and that she would draw the line there and then things will be awkward. Don't give me the terrible person for being married speech I don't care came here for advice not to talk to jimmeny cricket.
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>>17299300
Introduce it in a passive way that can be answered easily
"You keep this up, and you're going to get us both in trouble" when she starts getting physical with you. If she keeps it up, that's an invitation to push the limits and show how far you're willing to take your relationship with her.
Given you're both involved, it'll make it easier than just one of you taking the risk. You both have something to lose.
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Are you man enough to cheat on your spouse?
Then go for it. You wouldn't want another missed opportunity, would you? She's already holding hands, that mean she must want you to deepthroat her. You clearly have no respect for your spouse, why not?
-Jimmeny Cricket
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>>17299300
Do it.
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In love and can't have them 2016-06-27 17:04:54 Post No.17299295
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In love and can't have them
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Best way to get over being in love with someone and not being able to have them? How about if you still have to see them from time to time.
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Read Ovid's Cures for Love and call back in a week.
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>>17299301
I'm not one for poetry.
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If you really loved this person, you'd care more for his or her happiness. The language you use reflected your selfish desire, whereas love is selfless. You have an infatuation, not love, for this person.
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tl;dr : living together advice
> be me
> be 27yo bi male and feeling dead inside
>didn't consider suicide as an option for a few years now though
>gf broke up with me a year ago
>had 3 relationships since that but they weren't feeling like the real thing and lasted 1 to 2 months
>don't feel like i can be attracted to someone anymore but still miss the tenderness
> have this lesbian best friend since I'm 17
>been in medschool together
>from our 21 to 23 didn't really talk since she was doing drugs and partying all the time
>move abroad and end up working in the same hospital in a big european city
>very close again get drunk together on a monthly basis and see each other at least 2 times a week
>both experience the "dead inside but still horny" feeling
>she dates a girl abroad and they meet on a monthly basis
>she's like a sister to me
>i can't cope with the loneliness anymore and she said she feels the same
>we're considering being flatmates
I hated having a flatmate in medschool, especially because of chores
Now we could pay for someone to do it, and big flats with 2 bathrooms are affordable
She's ok with my cat
How much of a bad idea is it?
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bonus:
this game is made by Yandy Liang. Creepy illuminati slut.
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