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HOW DO I STOP BEING JUST A BACKGROUND CHARACTER
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Your always the main character in the story of your life
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Do you wear glasses? That could be the problem.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EW85eGmydEI
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>>17297004
Absolutely not.
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what's even the point of trying to learn something when you can't get better?
i have no skills or talent, and every time i try to get better at something i just fail and go right back to where i was. it makes me feel like i'm worse than anyone else, because they've all got shit they're good at and i've got nothing. my learning curve is literally a straight line.
it literally feels like improvement is impossible. is there any way out of this?
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>>17296924
are you a furry
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>>17296924
Talent is negligible. You just lack dedication. Mastery takes roughly 10000 hours. Want to learn an instrument? Practice properly for 3 hours every single day, in 10 years you will be good at it. Period. That's how it works, other people with talents and skills have already sunken the time in, you just need to start.
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>>17296924
there is no such thing as talent, you're just a lazy fuck that doesn't want to work towards anything so you're using that as an excuse.
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How do I find passion
I'm 26
Too late?
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That's so vague, what do you mean?
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>>17296939
How do I find passion? Something that I'm driven to do for it's own sake.
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>>17296919
https://youtu.be/6MBaFL7sCb8
You don't find passion, passion finds you.
You can't become passionate about something until you've put in effort and see results
Frustrating I know but it's not something that is easy to plan around
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I'm almost 29 F and I have never had a boyfriend. I don't think I'm particularly bad looking, but I've never had anyone so much as offer. I'm really social and I love going out, but it's always my friends that get hit on and I have to sit there as they go off for the night and ditch. I seriously think that I am broken, /adv. I don't know what to do
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>>17296908
I'll fug you if you want me to.
If you're fat that answers your question.
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>>17296908
Have you tried approaching people?
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>>17296908
You female? If you fat go for chubby chasers. I'm personally a chubby chaser myself
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I'm 20 and I've never had a relationship in my life and I feel like it's seriously made me emotionally unavailable. Even on a TALKING level, I can't get past the "small talk" stage with a guy because the idea of small talk is so pointless to me, I can't even think of what I'm supposed to say.
At this point I'd consider myself a hookup slut more than anything; I've made out/done touchy stuff with guys and I can flirt no problem but when it comes to actually COMMUNICATING with a guy who's interesting I'm cold and not very chatty. Not because I don't want to be, because I literally have no idea what to say.
For example, right in this moment, a guy who I hooked up with who's apparently really interested in me is trying to talk to me via social media and I have no idea what I should be doing. We're not past the small talk stage and I feel like I'm being an unresponsive cow. How do I fix this?
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bump for interest
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Do you have any friends?
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bump for interest
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My little brother is being catfished by this person for 3 months adn he wouldn't believe me. She said her name is Donna Joyce Montenegro originally from the Philippines but now recently moved to San Francisco. I traced her IP and it showed a Phillipine IP address. My little brother is crazy in love with this "woman" who is sending him these cute photos ans some nude ones. Anyone here familiar with the woman in the picture?
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Tried reverse searching these images?
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>>17296788
>I traced her IP and it showed a Phillipine IP address
How?
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my female friend's birthday is coming up, i want to get her something nice but im not really sure what to get her. she's not in to much except make up i guess but i don't want to get her something she doesn't want. any ideas?
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anyone?
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Maybe a makeup tutorial thing like at Mac they put it on you and you get to keep a product you like?
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Give her a Sephora or Ulta gift card.
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moving to LA in a couple months. I am 22 and I was wondering if you guys think is weird to live close to the ucla campus and hit on girls there/do college shit/bars? I feel like I missed out on the college experience and want to live close by to try to get a second chance. I just don't want to come off like some creepy older guy trying to stay young or whatever.
google maps says ride to work is 20 minutes from ucla. I hear about bad traffic, but leaving early in the morning doesn't sound so bad.
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Why not just go to a bar closer to your place? College bars aren't going to give you the 'college experience'
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dude if your 22 you will probably fot right in.
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>>17296522
how did you get enough money to move to la anon?
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Okay guys so what the hell is wrong with me
I went out clubbing last night, first time ever actually. I was told it would be an easy way to get over a breakup and that I should let loose. Got drunk enough that I vomited and also people were blurs. Texted like 3 female friends dirty stuff like I wanna be inside you and asking what they were wearing etc.
I don't consider myself very conservative or traditional, but when I woke up I just felt so incredibly disgusted with myself, because I got that drunk, the texts, dirty thoughts I had with people I felt absolutely nothing for, and I can remember doing stuff with but not sure exactly what with some girl at the club. Extremely strong anxiety, as in, for the first hours suicidal anxiety. In fact it just made me miss my ex more because fucking her and exes before her felt right and really good, while this just kinda felt like masturbating with a warm toy.
When in relationships I have sex about 2 to 6 times a day, and always very sexual with girlfriend, but I can't imagine one night stands for FWB type situations at all. I find both disgusting, whereas relationship sex is probably the best thing in the world for me.
Tried googling more about this but couldn't really find much. What is wrong with me, am I just a faggot?
Legitimately terrified of getting drunk again simply because I want to avoid that heavy anxiety. Should I just completely drop the idea of parties and casual sex since it doesn't seem to be for me, or is there a way I can enjoy what others think is amazing without feeling sick?
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>>17296509
Congratulations, you've learned that "just get laid" is terrible advice for getting over a breakup.
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Your problem is you have too much self-respect.
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>>17296511
Even if it wasn't to let go of ex, I am still sure I would have felt just as bad minus the missing her pussy more
I thought only women experienced this
maybe i have pussy and im lesbian
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So tomorrow I'm going to ask out this girl.
>Met her 3 weeks ago
>See her a few times a week since
>We talk a bit here and there nothing serious, but I never get the opportunity to ask her out because I always see her when I'm with a pack of friends, and its her work so I don't want to make things awkward
>But I think she is waiting for me to ask her out because she was eyeballing me hard the other day and watching to see if I checked out other girls, and she always comes to talk to me
So how do you ask a girl out, at her work place without making it super weird for her? Pretty much everyone agrees that she is into me at this point.
Its a coffee place. You serve yourself, or if you order food they bring it to you. So I'm thinking of going into tomorrow alone when I know it'll be slow, with the intention of asking her out.
All the girls I've ever dated I met online, never had to straight up ask someone in person if they'd like to go out. She has a kind of awkward personality, but is really damn cute and pretty sassy.
Any tips on how not to fuck this up?
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halp
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>>17296372
>Any tips on how not to fuck this up?
Not really. The key to asking a girl out in any situation is building a report and then using that report to make her comfortable. On top of that, of course, she has to actually like you.
If you've concluded that she likes you then all you have to do is use the back and fourth you already have to your advantage. My suggestion is to not just walk up and ask her out. If she feels like she's being put on the spot she might turn you down on principal even if she wants to say yes.
Strike up a conversation. Chat, smile, laugh a little, let her get comfortable and when you see an opportunity, go for it.
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So I talked to a buddy of mine and he said under no circumstances should I ask a girl out at her work. Is this the case even if she goes out of her way to speak to you while working, and multiple people agree she is into me?
This is the kind of girl where if I don't at least ask, I'm going to fucking hate myself.
Has anyone here dealt with having two roommates and only space in the garage for three cars?
My roommate just finally bought a car after nearly two years of living here. It's a used car, not as nice as mine and my roommate's cars... We really don't want to park outside all the time and expose our cars to the elements. I'm sure he doesn't want to either, but... Yeah.
Do I just tell him that my other roommate and I had first dibs on the garage and he'll have to wait for a space to open up?
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>>17296346
Space for two cars, I meant... Not 3.
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>>17296346
First come first serve.
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>>17296346
Yeah, we pretty much just said if the garage is free, use it. If it's full, park on the street
Where should I take a girl out on a first date. We've know each other for awhile but have never gone on a date.
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It doesn't have to be serious. Grab a coffee, go to a park.
I've read sokewhere that taking them somewhere like an ice skating rink would create positive memories of you afterwards and make an impression. Don't know how true that is.
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not op, but what if we live in a shit city where there are really few things to do
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>>17296850
OP here, same situation. We live in a small town with nothing to do.
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What are the red flags I should look for when meeting someone new?
>almost all of her friends are guys
>abusive past relationships, or abusive childhood in general
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>>17295956
I never understood why the
>almost all her friends are guys
is a red flag.
I have a lot of guy friends, and I always did, since childhood. What's wrong with it?
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>>17295956
I dated one, had daddy issues. She wants to be dominated and be treated like a "princess." It's not bad, but that is what most likely going in her head.
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>>17295963
At least in my experience, this usually means she's a drama queen that can't get along with other girls.
I'm not saying this automatically implies it, but for me personally this is what I've seen happen.
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How do you allow yourself to be vulnerable and develop a truly deeper bond with a male friend?
Seems like a good starting point before women
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>>17295897
Fight him for the title of Hokage
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>>17295897
Can't you just acknowledge out loud, not even to yourself, that you love him and this isn't gonna end up in you furiously sucking his dick?
Must you rush that "-AS A FRIEND, OF COURSE, HAHA!" otherwise it automatically means you like it up your bum?
It's not like every breath you take is a test of your manhood or sexual orientation. Just start saying what you mean and mean what you say.
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>>17296846
Oh absolutely I love him, I know that
I guess I want to show that and feel comfortable enough to be open and caring with someone I love, who is a friend
Any guy here have experience with varicocele veins? About a week now my balls havent been feeling normal, mostly the left one.
I made a doc appt for wednesday worried as fuck if it's cancer...
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>>17295854
Bump
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It's not likely to be cancer.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Varicocele
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>>17295854
It is more likely just snoo.