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I really want to know what it's like to have my boobs played with, my nipples sucked and my pussy licked

Should I use tinder? I'm scared of strangers
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>>17297420
the best part about sex is being with somebody you trust enough to do that intimate shit to you

fucking a random is shit
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>>17297438
But I don't know how to get someone like that
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>>17297446
A lot of people don't. Just keep living, it'll happen.

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Need help with anger management.

Anyone got some tips or tricks to managing it? I ask because, while I don't necessarily argue with my partner, they always see me getting frustrated over even the smallest things. I don't want to think that's all I am, just a bundle of rage.

I've been told that anger issues are usually genetic, or because of what you've experienced when young, and I imagine that this is the case due to my father influencing with his own when I was young.

I've made some decent progress with it, recognizing that I shouldn't take myself so seriously, went for a few weeks without getting mad at anything, or at least not being verbal about it and calming myself in whatever ways I can think of, but in the end it seems I have a hairline trigger and can get pissed at even the stupidest shit. Maybe depression and stress is getting the better of me, but I don't just want to write it off as that. I want to make an active attempt to fix it.

tl;dr anyone tips for anger management when I'm already completely self aware of issues (ie. going to meetings won't fix anything)?
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Try working out when you get angry, saved a lot of people during middle school for me. The trick is taking the anger you feel and putting it to use in somewhat less destructive means. Like for me, instead of breaking something, I'd go and draw. An even more exciting example, I'd go and fuck something. Finding a release in something you enjoy will always be satisfying.
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Recoveryinternational.org

Training in anger management, self help, other stuff.
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>>17297419
leave 4chan will help anger

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If you stop talking to someone (an ex) and its been like 6 months and she hasn't tried to talk to instantiate contact at all, is it because shes not thinking about you/dosent care about you? or is it because she thinks you dont want to talk to her.
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>>17297414
The correct answer is that it doesn't matter; continue no-contact until you're no longer thinking of her
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If she broke it off, probably the former. If you did, or she has self esteem issues, then the latter.
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>>17297964
See, I initiated the no contact and she also has major self esteem issues so that makes me think it's the latter. However she stopped texting me first long before I initiated NC and a lot of our conversations have felt forced for a while. So that makes me think it's the former.

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Okay /adv/
I just went out to visit my buddy and I brought two joints with me to share. Him and his girl were there, whatever. So I light up the first one and we start passing it back and forth. The girl would not take it, but she lit up a cigarette. So my buddy and I keep passing the joints to each other until they are both gone. My buddy hit his girls cigarette a few times while we were still passing it. Welllllllll, an hour has went by, and I just found out that bitch had herpes. I couldn't see any sores, and my buddy had just met her last night. What are the odds I have herpes? And how will I know?
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Guy with oral herpes here. I have to leave soon, so just some quick notes:

1. the virus can still replicate and shed (in other words, it can still be contagious) even if no sores are visible.
2. it is possible to contract the virus and never show any symptoms.
3. if you will show symptoms, it will likely be in the coming weeks; however, it can happen anywhere from months to years after infection.
4. MOST IMPORTANTLY: it is very unlikely that you were infected.
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>>17297456
fpbp
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>>17297456
You forgot that OP most likely already has herpes since the vast majority of the population does.

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Anyone have tips for standing on your feet all day? Would double layering my socks help with compression? I have limited walking space at my temp post as a security detail, and have 2 more days of standing for 12 hours left. Any advice?
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>>17297382

Get some decent shoes. Get some insoles designed for standing all day. Take a moment to bend your knees and flex your toes when you have a chance.
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Restaurant shoes
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>>17297382
Quality shoes. Arch supports. Or good insoles. In time you'll get adjusted

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Hello. My name is Tellah. I'm trying to get revenge on this guy, Golbez, for killing my daughter. Does anyone know how I can learn the Meteor spell?
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Golbez dindu nothing wrong
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>>17297381
I beg to differ
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>>17297383
Go away, Zemus. No one likes you

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I am a part time student with a serve anxiety disorder and a couple of other disabilities. I originally went to school for graphic design and graduated but after finding work in my field I got very sick from constantly working around people and realized it would be too stressful of an environment for me.

For the summer I knew I was unable to work at a seasonal job but I wanted to make some extra money still so I could save up for equipment to start a photography business. I came up with a really cheeky funny name for my business idea; I decided to do dog walking and dog sitting because I knew it would not affect my health.

Sadly though after I started putting up signs after two weeks someone else in my area decided they liked my idea so much that they would make the same kind of business and copy my layout I created. I thought it was a bit odd but I did not mind the competition. A couple times I even noticed that their signs were falling down so I thought since I was tapping mine up I may as well tape up theirs because it is fair competition then.

Sadly the person was not as nice as me and they started causing a lot of trouble for me, they would rip down my signs and put theirs on top of mine everywhere. The first couple times it happened I thought nothing of it but now I am onto three weeks of them doing this kind of stuff.

I am not really sure as to what to do. The thing that frustrates me is I am unable to work like most people and I just wanted to be able to save up so I could be more independent; because I hate feeling weak the past year my disabilities have been a lot more noticeable.

I have put 200 dollars into advertising now and this person just keeps copying my ideas and taking my stuff down I am not really sure what to do. This money I got from mowing lawns but I can only mow lawns so often.

I need help /adv/
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final bump for hope
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Someone please respond I am not sure what to do. Why is it people nature is so horrible and dishonest yet those are the people who survive. I feel pretty worthless stuff like this keeps happening to me. I want to leave something meaningful behind but what I am good at is deemed not needed or is belittled yet everyone steals my ideas but in a way they can deny stealing. How can I live if I am unable to work? I rather die than get money from the government.
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I don't know what advice to give you but I'm hoping someone can help you out. This makes me very sad.

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Currently a college student at a decent university majoring in English.

What career path, grad school, etc. would give me most *prestige* with the *least* amount of effort. Assume that I have good grades and everything, so I can apply and have a chance most places.

I also don't want to be broke.

inb4 stemlords "major in something useful like compsci"
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>>17297357
>What career path, grad school, etc. would give me most *prestige* with the *least* amount of effort.

Kill yourself. If you do then there is no need to work anymore and you can relax eternally.


>inb4 stemlords "major in something useful like compsci"

Best advice imo.
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>What career path, grad school, etc. would give me most *prestige* with the *least* amount of effort.

English majors, not even once.

Work at Starbucks with the rest of your ilk
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Write a book. Consider grad school for your PhD so you can get a teaching position in a college.

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My eyebrows look like this but less neat. The edges are fuzzy and have no real shape. Where do I start with grooming? How do I pluck without looking like a faggot afterwards?
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>>17297355
Post picture. I can count on one hand the guys I've seen that actually need to groom their brows. Generally, you should leave them alone.
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>>17297407

should i just leave them alone?
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>>17297421
Get on my level

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How do I get over being so nervous when talking to girls? Seriously every time I talk to one my mind goes completely blank and I can't thing of anything.
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>>17297346
Usually people say "imagine them in their underwear" but that would probably make it worse in your case.
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>>17297402
Haha, very funny. Seriously though this is a major problem in my life.
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>>17297346
Don't think of them as a girl, just think of them as a person. Also the more experience the better.

These past few days I just haven't been feeling all too well.
I feel empty and it's disheartening. I think it may be my depression setting in or maybe it's due to emotional exhaustion.
I've tried crying and trying to laugh and enjoy things but it all feels too forced.
Do any of you have advice on what it could be and what I could do to fix it?
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>>17297340
I feel this exact way quite often, OP
I take medicine for major depression but every now and then I still go through horrible, empty episodes
This probably doesn't help much but I figure if I can survive it then so can you OP
I'll never understand these feelings either
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I've been slowly working through these same feelings for the last year or so with my therapist and things are finally starting to look up.

I have quit drinking, quit my shit job, got a dietician, started practicing mindfulness, and work out 5 times a week and I'm finally getting results.
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What keeps me going is my addiction to YouTube. I watch all kinds of videos and can sit for hours upon hours watching them.

It's 9 PM and I feel like running, should I do this or is it a bad idea to run in the dark?

I'm thinking of carrying my phone in my hand and using my flashlight app to make sure that no one hits me, is this a good idea?
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>>17297336
just fucking do it damn
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>>17297336
where do you live?
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I normally go running after dark. Stick to well lit, fairly busy roads (run on the sidewalk, not the road ofc) and you're good.

So... I've always been a good kid; I've tried to complete homework, eat all of my dinner and get by in the real world with good grades. But... I have some issues. First of all, I'm an 18yr old girl, with some major social anxiety and depression issues. But.... I'm not as innocent as I'd first come off as. I have a minor gambling addiction, and... I'm a bit of a klepto. I also break rules behind my parents' backs; I.E: drinking, vaping, smoking pot, being overly sexually active, ect. However, this is sort of a plea for help. I either want to reform myself, or atleast be good at being bad, and getting away with it...

My major question is, does anyone have good tips for being a klepto?? I mean; It's either I recover, or continue to steal. Recently I got employed as a summer intern at my local Art's council, and I've already taken maybe 10$ worth or art supplies...
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Even if you are really 18, Underage ban.
Also, daddy issues.
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So I was talking with this cute girl last night over snapchat. Sending selfies and what not. Then she gives me her number last night and I don't know what to do never expected to get that far. My goal is to score a date but how do I initiate that
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>>17297301
well, she gave you her number so she already wants to talk to you more. This should be a smooth transition. Literally just text her and ask her out
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Send her a message or call her and ask her if she wants to go on a date.

Don't literally just say "go on a date", have a plan. Take her out for a picnic or go to the movies or whatever.
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>>17297301
Text her, idiot.

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Well guys I'm single again. Gf ended it last night saying we should just be friends. Cried myself to sleep.
Thinking about what to do now. At school right now (final year) and it's pretty hard not crying.
Cheer me up or not /adv/
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>>17297281
>>17297287
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>>17297281

>cried myself to sleep

Fix that shit first.

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