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I have been with the same man for going on 3 years. I have never cheated, nor have I felt tempted to.
He knows I am bisexual, and has been fine with me fooling around with other women in the past. Our first sexual experience together was a threesome with my best friend.
Lately, our sex doesn't satisfy me. I think about women constantly. I feel like an adolescent boy in an adult female's body. I wait until I he goes to sleep then I get myself off to porn.
What is wrong with me? I know I'm not a lesbian. Although I'm not attracted to any other men at the moment, I have been all my life. Every time he's inside me though it feels so redundant, and dull.
Inb4 "he's small" - he is rather large actually. Too large for us to engage in anal.
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>>17302021
Seems like you just got bored of him and sex with men. You'll probably feel the same way if you constantly had sex with women and no men. Try spicing it up with another threesome
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Has anyone experienced anything similar....? I know most people aren't bi. Hell, a lot of gay people don't even believe in bisexuality. I'd just like to get an idea of what is wrong with me. This has been going on for a month
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>>17302030
This was another issue I hoped to address. Other females do NOT like me. I am not ugly by any means - pretty average looking. Women were all over me 2 years ago, but since we all moved on with our lives I've gotten nothing, aside from a friend's girlfriend who likes to do stuff with me occasionally. At this point, pretty girls make me nervous. I think maybe they can sense that?
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BU (scholarship) or Columbia (debt)? 2016-06-28 07:28:43 Post No.17302020
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BU (scholarship) or Columbia (debt)?
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hey /adv/,
Got the college acceptances. The best schools I got into are Boston University and Columbia University. BU is offering a decent scholarship that will allow me to graduate with little or possibly no debt. Columbia on the other hand isn't offering anything, so if I go there I'm going to wind up with a ton of debt.
So the question is, is it worth going to Columbia even if it means going into debt? Does having the name on my resume mean that much more than BU that it will pay off?
Extra details, if they mean anything: my reach schools were Caltech and Columbia, my "fit" schools were Boston U, Kalamazoo, University of Iowa, and UC Santa Cruz, and my safety schools were Grove City College and Harding U (applied to those safeties to make my conservative family happy). I got into everything except Caltech. I had an A-/B+ average, high test scores, and lots of extracurriculars.
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What major?
If its a legit major, go to Columbia.
If its English, Philosophy or Sociology tier, BU.
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Anon, no matter what anyone tells you: You are not guaranteed a job once you get out of school. Unless Columbia has strong evidence to the contray of this, it is not worth the crippling debt. Being able to graduate with a degree and not be a slave to a crippling debt is worth far more than the fancy name on the degree.
Once you're out in the work force, your merits and achievements outside of school will weigh heavier anyway. I will say this though: If Columbia has a great reputation for the major you're are trying to achieve, then it is a risk you must consider, despite any claim of employment after.
Anything can happen between now and your senior year: Mono, death in family, injury, and not all of them warrant a refund for the semester. I say free education is the best option in my opinion and likely the opinion of every person who has graduated with a bachelor's or higher. Weigh carefully if you choose a path that ends with you starting in the hole.
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>>17302048
This is a good point, Columbia would be something of a gamble because if I find myself in debt, I'd basically be counting on the name power of Columbia to get me a good job and get me out of it.
I keep seeing all these people on the internet that say that they're 30 years old and kissless virgins
It just fucking scares me that I could once end up like those people
I'm really young and I know that people change but god damn it's just scary, it's not like I'm doing that good with women too right now
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>>17302000
Get fit. Read books. Acquire knowledge, both practical and theoretical. Try new things. Step outside your comfort zone.
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>>17302012
what kind of books?
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>>17302019
Classical ones, educational ones, manuals, shit you enjoy.
>planning to have sex
>talk about shaving (I prefer the shaved look anyways)
>shave and get razor burn
>suggestions online don't work
>"should go away in around 2 days" It's been 4.
It doesn't look the best. Any suggestions to limit the redness?
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>>17301984
Mine goes away after a day or two.
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>>17301984
Lotion.
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>>17301984
keep it moisturized and don't let your clothes rub too much, maybe your'e a bit more sensitive than usual.
If a week passes, go to a doctor.
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I've taken my birth control perfectly for over a year, but last month I had a problem with my prescription and had to start my new pack four days late. My husband and I had sex a few days into the new pack and he came inside of me. I usually start my period 2-3 days into the last (period) week of the pack, but I'm now on day 5 of that week and I still haven't officially started it (some spotting, but not as much as I usually do when I'm about to start). I took a pregnancy test on Saturday, but it was negative.
Is there any possible way I could be pregnant?
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>>17301979
No.
Take another test in a few days to soothe your anxiety.
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>>17301979
>Is there any possible way I could be pregnant?
Of course you fucking can. No form of BC is 100% effective, and the fact that you fucked up taking it just makes it even less effective. You shouldn't be having children if you actually think that there is absolutely no chance that you can get pregnant while on BC
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>>17301988
I didn't mean to fuck up taking it, my number of refills ran out (I didn't know until I tried to call it in), and I couldn't get in contact with the doctor who prescribed it to me because the phone number and doctor on file was wrong. During that whole four day gap I was trying to find another doctor to prescribe it for me.
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Is my husband lying to me about his coworker? I'm 99% sure he's lying about it and secretly fantasizes about her. She just started last Monday and he also stopped talking to me about work the same day. He usually tells me the stuff going on, it's a small but popular deli shop and the coworkers always have drama, plus he just likes to vent cause I know them and vice versa, he's been there 3 years. I knew a new lady started but he "didn't see her face" when I asked what she looked like. He also started going into work earlier that week. So I go to see him with our 3 month old infant on Friday, and she was there, and fuckme she is cute with a nice body. When I arrived I had to ask her if she knew where he was, his name's Peter, and she turned around as he came by and giggled at him "I thought she said where's the beer lolol." He drinks a lot but didn't laugh back and announced me as his wife n baby to her which made her shut up.. still, she thought they were cozy enough. Come to find out on trash run he asked her her story etc, she's 2 yrs younger and has a boyfriend, so he says. The strange thing was he said he showed her pictures of our baby, but when I came by with the baby he invited all the other women over (they're all fat and old) and not her. She made no move to come over either. He says she's not cute and he only talks to her about work shit, yet made the observations her head is flat and she has a mustache? She didn't tho. She has olive skin, light green eyes, thick but shaped nice eyebrows and long straight dark hair. Average sized with medium boobs and big hips. 7 or 8 I'd say. And thinks they're friends? Since we had the baby he says he's not interested in sex with anyone, but jerked off in the shower instead of doing me even though I haven't been mean or unavailable. I lost the baby weight immediately and look good. Says he hasn't gone solo in 3 weeks but I don't trust him because the girl he says isn't cute IS.
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If I was your husband and if I knew you get this worked up over nothing, I'd also preffer to say "no" over "yes she's cute" and probably start and argument with you.
Just trust him, even if he finds her 'ok', it's no reason to feel jealousy, and its no reason to think your husband will start fancing someone else, He's with YOU, and a co-worker will definitely not change that. Plus, this situation still seems pretty fresh, so, just try to be more understanding and trusting.
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And it doesn't make sense to me because he's been a lot more distant, and showed her baby pictures! But wouldn't invite her to see the real thing! He said she's annoying because she's slow. This whole thing is fucking with my head, how much attention he's already given her and taken from me, and her stupid giggly attention to him. I don't know what to think but it hurts
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He probably finds her attractive, and that's it. He likely know you'll get worked up about it, hence his looking for flaws to keep you from freaking out like you're doing.
>Turned 23 about a month ago
>Dropped out of college about a month ago
What do? I want to be a web programmer, but I'm not sure If I should just try to be self-taught and get better with experience, or start a new school and take even more years out of my life. My parents insist that I can be nothing with school, which I don't think I can 100% agree with, but I don't have the confidence to be good without studies, they insist people literally don't consider you for jobs because of it.
Any advice would be fine.
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>>17301966
No one's going to hire you if you're self taught unless you have a ton of experience. By a ton of experience, I mean more than the time required to get a qualification in it.
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>>17301966
It depends on where you live OP, but where I am from it is pretty much what your parents say. You wont even get considered for an interview without a degree.
It's not so much about actual skills (you can become a competent programmer on your own), but more as a "certificate" HR and recruiters use in order to filter out unfit candidates. It's also about what companies try to sell to their clients, many consultant firms have a MSc as a requirement not because the job requires it at all, but because their clients want it and they can charge more per hour.
So you should just man up and see it through.
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Thanks, I guess I'll have to make it work, probably will study/work part time. I just wanted to have some opinions.
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My friend had a psychosis episode where he apperently heard and saw and heard things that wasn't there.
He spent some weeks in a mental institution, but is back now. He is the same guy as before, only quieter. He was quiet before, but now he is more, and I noticed big scars on his arms.
I don't know how to handle this, how to treat him. He is one of my best friends, and I want to help him somehow. Help.
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>heard and saw and heard things
>mfw I can't write
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>>17301900
>how can i help him?
Ask him, OP. Not random strangers on a forum for discussing taiwanese tapestry.
I'm an ex-cutter myself. I don't want to talk about it, not even to my closest friends. But I don't mind them just asking so I can tell them that.
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>>17301934
I am afraid to ask him. What of he doesn't even remember the episode?
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I want to have sex with this girl that i have not talked to in a while. Should i ask her to hang out and ask her in person? Or should i just ask over text or on the phone? Also and polite ways I could ask or anything?
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Can anyone actually do the middle top row position?
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>>17301856
I would give it a shot. maybe if you lean back far enough. so any advice?
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>>17301863
But dicks aren't u-shaped so I just don't understand how it's possible
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Is it a good idea to ask girls out when you don't have a car?
I have been waiting to ask this girl out that I work with, but our shifts haven't been matching up unfortunately. A couple days ago I got in a car accident, insurance covered it, it's all good, i had to take my car to the shop and it won't be ready for at least a week.
Is it lame to have her pick me up if we end up doing something? what should I do? I don't really want to wait because things are getting pretty good between us and I don't want to wait until our schedules match up again.
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>>17301808
Do you live in a major city where it's normal to not have a car? Also what's your age?
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>>17301808
>Is it lame to have her pick me up if we end up doing something?
If you haven't really interacted with her before and you initiated, it might be awkward. If you're that concerned you could take a bus/train/taxi/etc., do something at your place, or do within reasonable walking distance from where you live.
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>>17301808
Men need cars so you can pick up and drop bitches off
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Is it workable in reality, to just buy a plane ticket and move to Europe and start over from the bottom?
If that's too far fetched, maybe still in the USA, where can a person just go and find a job on the spot, along with it being a place with lots of young people
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If you have some spare cash to last you a week or two, untill you find a job, then why not? There are a lot of circumstances like what you have studied, how much spare money do you have, do you have a specific country in Europe in mind etc. In some places it's easy to find a job in specific industries, overall it's kinda hard to find another unskilled job.... If to can freelance Eastern Europe is the place. It's cheap, it's fun, it's crazy and you if you can make good money with your laptop, yoy can live a very good life here. If you can't freelance, but have studied IT, it's the same deal. If you are in some other girls, it's better in the West.
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You make it sound like working visas and permits aren't a necessary thing.
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What board should I visit to talk about podcasts?
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It depends on the subject of the podcasts
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>>17301818
Pretty much this, podcasts could be about anything, so sure there is some board interested about it.
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>>17301787
Which one?
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God damn it /adv/, what do I do since I fucked up
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That seems like a pretty light thing, desu, I wouldnt pay too much attentino to it.
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send her a picture of ur dik
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>>17301781
You sure? She hasn't replied at all, but then again you might be right since I overreact a lot, I'll probably text her tomorrow
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How do you deal with a lack of Cultural Identity leading to constant depression?
>Born in south east asia
>Half white, half asian
>Always been an outcast because of descent
>Move to Australia, always the outcast because of race
>Move to Canada as adult, no connection or love for any culture
I feel like I'm perpetually lost and just wishing I was somewhere I could feel proud, but don't feel like I belong anywhere. I wish I had roots in "better" asian culture, with pure blood and an identity I could be proud of.
I want tradition, not poutine!
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My mom is half Nam half whitey she just strongly identifies as Vietnamese but she looks like a white woman.
Pick a side and stick with it.
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>>17301774
>17301774
Bro. Half white half asians should be their own race. I heard this from halfsies myself.
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Race mixing should be a crime by the way
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Rip away at me, 4Chan.
I'm getting evicted with my child on the 1st and I have nothing and no one to rely on. I'm at my wits end and I'm losing it over here. I don't know what to expect or where to go, it's not about me anymore and I have nothing to go by anymore. Can't an hero because I don't want the kid's life to be hell but it seems like that will be the case regardless. Break me
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>>17301768
How old is the child ?
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Can't stay with family until you get back on your feet?
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