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I need advice/help with getting something removed from Facebook.
A page which I was a customer of wasn't happy with our transaction or lack there of because of their delayed shipping and decided to post my pic and slander me on their page to 34k people. Okay, fine that's their prerogative normally I would just brush it off. But the issue is they included pics from my photos that are normally hidde , I guess they must have really done some digging, that had me with my kid! My kid is only 9 and now is on this person's page which is aggressively attacking me.
Some important info. The page is not an English page and the post is not in English. I have reported the post with 3 accounts but the problem is that Facebook doesn't let you give a reason when you report, you can only select their own arbitrary report functions. I used the one that said this shows myself or my family in a bad light or something like that.
Some hours later I got a seemingly automated reply from fb saying they didn't think the post violated the community guidelines. At this point you can rate the service they gave you and send a reply so this was the first time I could explain tthe situation and what actually happened and why I want the post or just the pic of my kid removed. Have yet to receive a response from fb that was over 24 hours ago.
What can I do? After a lot of googling I found that maybe emailling abuse@facebook would work but I haven't got a reply from them.
I'm really lost at what to do. My country has shit laws for this kind of stuff so we can't use the law to make them take the pictures down. I feel like fb would take my side if they actually knew the situation but I can't find a way to speak to someone from there.
Please help.
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I'm gonna kill sambadeeeee
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That's weird that a business would do that. What kind of industry is it? Did you do anything to them other than cancelling the order?
I would continue to reach out to FB. In the mean time, message the business owner and (politely) request he remove the photo of your son. If they don't, are you in driving distance of the business?
I am not sure if I really understand this situation, to be honest..
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>>17297617
What did or didn't you purchase, OP?
Seems like you're freaking out over nothing. Just run of the mill internet stupidity that will be forgotten in a month
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There's a girl from work who likes me, but she has awful taste in television.
Should I go for it?
She's also a little chubby, but whatever - I can teach her good eating habits.
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I dunno my ex gf who I miss very much had bad taste in television but she was worth it.
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If having bad taste in television is your biggest concern with someone as a romantic partner then you're nuts not to go for them. My gf watches reality tv and shitty shows like survivor on a regular basis. I don't lambaste her with insults. I jokingly criticize her and she laughs it off - then I watch it with her and we joke about it.
Stop taking everything so seriously. There's more to life than tv you fucking chubby chaser.
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The tv thing is whatever. Tbh I'd see it as a positive as I have some hobbies and my last girlfriend wanted my attention and complained if I spent too much time working on them.
Don't get into a relationship planning to change someone though. That's womanly shit. You have to be ok with her being that chubby. If you're not, don't date her.
Women are terrible at losing weight anyway. They follow meme diets, yoyo about, complain it's not working, ask you for guidance, you give it to them, they ignore it, you ask them if they want to go for a bikeride and they brush it off.
Basically, you have to be ok with her as she is now, sexually. If you think she'd be better with exercise/surgery/a change in style you're a manipulative and/or settling cunt.
Find someone else if she's too fat for you.
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>on-and-off live with mom in condo for a year or 2
>she leaves, lets me live in it alone
>starting to notice a fuckton of bugs/spiders around both inside and out
When she and I lived here, I only remember 1 big instance of bugs and that was when she left our honey open and ants infested our food. After living alone, I've had 2 huge outbreaks of ants, though never near the kitchen; I asked her, and she said it's common that ants sneak in after rain en masse. I often see spiders and earwigs crawling around inside, and the occasional lone ant.
There's a small swamp in our backyard and I live in Michigan so naturally bugs are around. Should I be worried about my living habits if I'm regularly seeing like 4-5 spiders making webs inside, and a fuckton outside? Or is this normal? How should I handle lowering the bug count?
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>>17297590
Use an ant killer (I use ortho) around the exterior where you see ants coming into your home.
The easiest way to keep your home bug free is to keep it very clean and uncluttered and don't keep food out. Buy a vacuum cleaner.
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>>17297596
I haven't seen ants lately, moreso spiders and earwigs. Sometimes I do have a habit of leaving small leftovers on my desk for a day or 2, is that enough to draw bugs do you think? Or perhaps leaving fruits out as a centerpiece?
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>>17297613
Leaving food out is a bad idea. If you're getting earwigs in your home, make sure the perimeter is dry (why do you have a "small swamp" in your backyard?). You can also spray around the outside to discourage bugs from coming in through cracks around the foundation. I usually spray every five or six months and it keeps most ground bugs out.
I threw a birthday for my friend, got him an expensive turtle beach headset, and a $60 gift card to best buy. Yesterday for my birthday he gave me a hand shake saying happy birthday mate. Should I be fucking furious thats all I got.
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If you bought that shit just so he'd buy you shit on your birthday, then you're not a very good friend. The point of giving gifts is not expecting anything in return.
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No, unless you think the only reason to buy people gifts is to pressure them into upping the ante for your birthday. If you're not giving gifts as a way to show people how important they are to you, then you shouldn't bother. It's a gift, not a needlessly complicated IOU.
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Assuming im a bad friend for doing all that expecting shit in return. Does that change that fact it was dick move. Maybe I shouldnt have expected anything and it was my fault.
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I got fired from my old job for swearing in front of a customer. (Bitch threw a fit.)
What do I say in an interview if they ask me why I left my last job?
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You don't say anything, because you leave that job off your employment history.
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>>17297551
I was there for half a year. How do I explain six months with no job?
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>>17297555
You're going to have to decide which looks worse: your poor customer service skills, or no job for 6 months.
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So I'm currently attending a military training school and I had ran into a prior acquaintance from a previous military training center.
We had started talking a lot recently and I consider him one of my closest friends here... We're both the same rank, so that isn't an issue. Although we're in training status, we're both officers so there shouldn't be any problems having a relationship. We both graduate this August and we both live pretty far from each other.... so I guess that is one problem.
We hang out a lot together, we dance at the club together, get lunch and breakfast on the weekends, spend hours talking and listening to music in our cars... but neither of us have made a move yet.
How do I know if he likes me? I don't want things to be awkward if it doesnt work out or if he actually only sees me as a friend. It'll also be weird with our circle of friends... then it'll be weird if we ever hang out again or go on trips again!
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>>17297523
>How do I know if he likes me?
If he hasn't made a move yet, he probably doesn't. None of what you said indicates that he is either.
>inb4 he does XYZ too!
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>>17297523
Are you a fucking man OP?
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>>17297556
Yes cause there's absolutely no females in the military, right?
How do I go about pushing the envelope
What are some of the best majors to sign up to?
I want to go to uni soon and need some advice since I don't have any special skills or interests.
I would appreciate your help.
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>tell me how to make myself miserable
No one can tell you what to study. If you don't know, don't go.
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you don't have any interests? I find that hard to believe. what do you do for fun?
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>>17297522
Engineering
Computer Science
Accounting
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Thinking about getting a job being an Uber driver. Anyone have experience working for them? And if so how's the work/pay/hours/people? Live in Seattle btw.
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Plis respond.
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yeah its fucking chill dude, you just drive people around, in my area its just teens going to the mall and summer fairs n shit. and when someone tries to troll you to go to their place and cancel as soon as you get there, you already have their money so its a win on your side. but you have to have a decent car, godda be clean with air condition and a heater depending on where you live. the pay is really good. its also a ++ if you just like driving in general
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Expect to drive morning and evening and weekend nights if you want to maximize profits. On average of say pay is maybe a bit more than minimum wage, but just depends.
I've done about 50 rides and no crazy people yet, a lot more chill than you would expect.
If you have a decent car I'd say go for it.
Had my brother suggest it to me since he works in the Uber office here in Indianapolis. I've liked it so far.
I have decided these last few weeks will be my last. I have so many problems I can't list them all. I have already attempted suicide. I live for my dog(yeah I know it's crazy) I'm not attracted to him sexually though. He got in a fight out of self defense with a dog we just got. My mom chose that dog over my and we must get rid of him. So how should my last weeks be
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Dude. Get help. Talk to someone. Suicide is not a good solution. These shouldn't be your final weeks.
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Ok I will try
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Take all the money you own, buy a plane ticket to the farthest place you have the money for and start life over. If you're willing to end it all at least die in a far away land.
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What's a good voicemail greeting that's still professional, but not as bland as "this is Anon, leave message thanks"
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wud up my niggas u finna messege dem hit me up on my cell cuz i aint here n' shiet be sure to holla bak
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what's wrong with a bland voicemail message
it's voicemail, keep it simple
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>>17297501
"hello?................hello? I can't hear you, speak up, sorry i'm getting bad service, whatever just leave a message *beeep*"
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White collar employment with criminal record (misdemeanor DUI) 2016-06-27 02:21:51 Post No.17297470
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White collar employment with criminal record (misdemeanor DUI)
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What's up yall
Anyone have any experience in the workforce with a criminal record? A few months ago I got charged with DUI and also possession and paraphernalia. I got pulled over for expired plates (had the new plates in my car, hadn't screwed them on yet) and had weed on me. Although I blew a 0.000, the cop asked for a urine sample and I stupidly gave one and had weed in my system.
In the morning I'll find out if the prosecutor will give me any kind of plea deal. Hopefully it will be dropped to a reckless operation and the possession and paraphernalia are dismissed.
I have one more year of grad school for a social science with less than stellar career prospects, then I'm sure I'm really going to start feeling the effects of having a criminal record.
Should I just apply to PhD programs and put as many years between me and this crime as possible? Am I totally fucked for white collar employment? Am I going to have to do construction forever?
-Signed,
concerned Anon
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boomp
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>>17297470
Not a felony, so you don't even have to tell them, and you'll be fine.
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My little brother (17) seems to have few freinds, and no willingless to make them.
Should this concern me?
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>>17297463
Few friends? As in like a handful of good friends he is always socializing with or one weirdo he hangs out with every two weeks?
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>>17297482
No freinds I know of. I assume he has to have some casual friendships
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Yes probably unless he just wants to be like that. In 10 years if he still has not made any friends, he may regret everything.
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Adults with pacifiers? 2016-06-27 02:10:52 Post No.17297449
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Does anyone use pacifiers for stress relief?
Been really interested in getting one lately to use privately at home for anxiety. It's not a fetish, just seems very relaxing.
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I really need to leave 4chan.
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>>17297457
I'll lower the liferafts. Someone needs to go yell at the captain for not avoiding this, and now we are sinking because of his incompetence.
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It's bad for your teeth, much like tooth-grinding. Babies can get away with it on account of not having teeth yet.
Adv this has been eating me alive. I could write a book and give extra details but I will greentext it as short as possible
>hot girl works at coffee stand
>I flirt with and mess around with in general conversation whenever I see her
>we have mutual friend
>mutual friend tells me she called me cute
>I add her on a social media website, do not contact in any way.
>keep going through the stand
>one day she adds me on like 3 other social media a
>I send one snapchat as a joke that just says "who's this" even though I knew
>we talk and SHE sends her phone number to me
>I always respond and she will sometimes take hours to respond
>says I should blow her phone up and double text her because she gets busy and forgets
>I don't do that
>after about a week or so of fairly constant talking she just starts getting slower and slower with the replies
>we stop talking
>at the stand she says something like how we never talk unless she texts me, I call her out and tell her I texted her twice and she didn't respond
>she says she didn't remember that
>I didn't text her but snapchatted her a couple times with no answer
That's kind of the abbreviated story. She is incredibly hot and I'm not sure really where I fucked up. I was quite forward, even brought flowers and left them on her car because she hinted something about wanting flowers, I tried to hangout with her a couple times, sort of half assed joking around like "so when are we hanging out?" Is it because I just never actually asked her out? I'm not used to a girl being so forward and coming on to me like this, let alone one so hot. How the fuck do I fix this? Normally when a girl shows interest it's super natural and easy for me to move forward with stuff.
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Ugh these are the worst. Don't get hung up on her, OP. If she wants you she should work to have you.
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>>17297464
I mean I'm willing to try also, but everything I thought I knew about women would tell me she's not interested
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Op here, would still like some insight.
How the fuck do I get myself to cope with being alone? All of my friends that I would regularly hang out with have either gotten in a relationship or gotten distant probably because I'm a boring piece of shit. I just want a friend so I can go outside and do stuff. I hate doing things on my own because it just feels boring or pointless. Like, I would like to go hiking or just go out to eat or something but doing it alone doesn't really feel good to me. Is there a way to fully become independent. I feel like I've relied too much on people and I want to become mentally stronger so I feel great being on my own. I just hate being on my own at the moment. How do I do it?
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Forgot to add that I also don't want to get in a relationship because that seems pointless to me too. I just feel like I want a couple friends so I can do things with them comfortably like going outside. OP here ofc
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Start small. Go on a short hike alone first then increase the length and difficulty. You'll begin to feel more comfortable as time goes on.
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>>17297436
Basically this OP, the only way to tolerate being alone all the time is to take it day by day until the mind-numbingness becomes more comfortable than not being alone ever was.
The sensation probably won't ever change, though. You'll just grow to be attached to it, eventually.