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>>17375617
Are they much younger than you and are you in your late 20s or 30s? It really depends as girls with issues like this tend to go for much older guys as a substitute.

Do you look rebellious or prim and proper? Its likely an appearance thing so maybe try a new look.

>>17375617
attracting them is one thing, recognizing up front they have daddy issues and rebuffing them another. Spot and avoid instead of spot and play your savior role.

>>17375595
Read My Big Toe by Thomas Campbell

>>17375595
>What keep you guys motivated?
Nothing.
> There's a path to follow?
There is, but it's indiferent.
>What's the meaning of all this?
There is no meaning.

Our lifes are just a death sentence. There is nothing especial here for us, there is nothing after this. We are like cheap products from China: dispensable.
Some people think there is a God watching for us, teaching us to be a better person and giving us a special place when all this end.
This is a beautifull way to improve their daily life, this bring warm into the hearth and (mostly) turn those people into very good citizens, but is just an illusion.

Look to the sky at night and see what we are.
The reality is: we are nothing.

>>17375599
I think this does a much better job
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rym5unx0ZCo

>>17375542
link to the test

>>17375549
http://www.personalityassessor.com/ipip300/

Go see a profesionnal. Neuroticism is not something that can be cured by reading a book.

Either you have cow licks, locks or you let them dry in an awkward position

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I had a similar problem for a while. If it starts out straight and curls as it dries, consider a stronger hair product. I use pic related, it holds really well and doesn't get all flaky over time like some of the other products do.

>>17375497
It's actually quite complicated. Applicants need to have the right visa to be able to work. You should look up the american visa processes.

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If he is on a student or tourist visa, no.

If you marry him, yes.

>>17375497
Presumably he would come on a tourist visa,which limits the length of his stay and specifically forbids working. If he married you, he could then apply for a green card (resident alien status). But because so many people try that route to get around the laws, he and you would be subject to rigorous investigation, and he would be in a limbo ( and perhaps even deported) while that was going on.

The only way for him to get a work visa is to have a job lined up before he moves, with the prospective US employer filling out all sorts of forms in advance.

>>17375487
Try out lots of things. Eventually you'll find something that sticks. Learn to play an instrument, try cooking, write, dance. there are so many things to do. The world is your oyster, my friend. No, the world is a buffet of experiences. Let out your belt a couple notches and get eating.

I got into music because I come from a family of musicians, so it's always felt pretty natural to me. As for cooking, I learned to do it out of necessity and now I love it. I also make jewelry because I got my ears pierced and one day found myself with several lengths of small chain, some pliers and a small ankh charm. I definitely like doing all of these things, but I don't know that I could consider any of these are career path for me right now. Then again I have a severe seizure disorder that keeps me from working right now, So I've kind of had to reconcile my identity with living in a capitalist society that places a lot of value on what you do for work.

Tldr just get out and do shit, also you may just fall into something because you have to

>>17375487
Its not about some passion that will land you a job at burger tsar's and a degree in mongolian basket literature. Find something you dont mind doing

Honestly? Meet other women, bud. And try to actively not think about her. Eventually you'll find another "perfect"woman. It's all part of the game.

You met her, so you can meet others that you'll like as much,or more, than her.

>>17375387
Meet more women and get more experience in life; time and experiences always put things in perspective.

The most important thing is to keep on doing something actively and not passively.

Good luck OP.

>>17375387
If it makes you feel better I'm in the same boat. I'll row with you buddy.

You're below low priority to them. Ditch 'em.

The world is stuffed to the gills with assholes, given how people change on a moment-to-moment basis and whatnot. But there's a lot of shitty people, it's fair to say, or at least, those people aren't getting back to you right now. It's normal for people who aren't really your friend, pretty much.

>>17375351
No, that's not normal from my experience

Fuck them

What man-vagina part of you is stopping you from answering your life's burning questions?

>>17375274
wat?

>>17375217
>And the buses don't run Sunday, which I always work.
Did you not think this through before moving where you're moving or something?

You could get more utility out of a car.

>>17375230
It's the cheapest place anywhere around. Everywhere else is easily $200+ extra a month.

r/atheism, /r9k/, and wizardchan are probably your best bets for promoting something like this.

>>17375153
When I lived in London I sort of pondered what others were doing, as it's a truly 24 hour city

Conversely, where I live now, after midnight, the roads are yours. Even the main roads. You can drive for miles around city roads and not see a single person
...I imagine I'm the last person left on Earth sometimes. So kind of the opposite

volunteer at the local charity store senpai, or something similar. retail environment with no real commitment.

>>17375131

hmmm volunteering might be a great idea. Not sure about the retail part, since I work in a store for my day job!

Any ideas that are more spontaneous, not requiring any planning ahead?

>>17375113
Thank you, spooky skeleton.
I wish the best for you, too.

>>17375113
Well your reading a board about advice. You are going to think people are doing bad. Don't stare into the abyss too long though.

Doot doot, thank you!

i'd say go for it

probably did. not sure what advice you're looking for tho'.

>>17375410
exactly.

What do you want to hear OP?