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Do you make a pro/con list? Do you break up spontaneously? Do you wait until they fuck up somehow so you have an excuse to do so?

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What do you guys do to take your mind off a heavy breakup/heartache? I can't fuel myself with hatred because neither of us dislike each other. Working and exercise haven't done anything for me. At most it'll take my mind off the issues for an hour or two while I'm busy, but eventually I'll get into a routine of what I'm doing and my mind wanders while I subconsciously do my job/exercise.
I avoid all areas that I know I could arouse my memory of her, and it seemed to be working for a few days, I was thinking less and less, but the second I saw something related to her I was back into a fucked up style of thinking that resulted in repeating the process from day one.

tl;dr how do you take your mind off a breakup/heartbreak if working and exercise don't work?

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>be me
>21 year old college student
>gay
>autistic (literally)
>severe anxiety
>perverted
>only somewhat smart

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I have nightmares, they are keeping me up at night. Only one of them is enough to make me awake up and be on the verge of cry. Whether this was about myself (Seeing my little brother crying alone while I watched) or just an abstractive nightmare without direct relations to my life. (a long inhuman body staring at me in my house)
How can I enjoy sleeping ? How do I stop dreaming this ?
I would have loved getting a psychoanalysis but i'm too poor.

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I have a dream to drop every responsibility I have, grab my clothes, leave my wife, and drive across America to live somewhere else and try a different job. I need advice on what I should/shouldn't take and how hard would it be? I have no money btw

>pic unrelated

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>18
>male.
>Bipolar 2 with extreme social anxiety.
>been diagnosed
>if you want to chat my kik is: 666exodus666

Hey, I need advice. I have BPD and I have been noticing I have been traveling inword. Not caring about people, losing interest in things I like to do, isolating myself ecr. I just want to know why is this happening. I guess its the fact that the only friend I have barely talks to me. I had acquaintance and messages them and no tell in months. I dont think I'm that bothersome but half the time I think I'm just a nuisance. I want friends and people one minute and I don't care the next, what do I do

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Okay senpai, so last weekend i slept with my primary school crush..

I NEVER foresaw these events occurring, and whats more, apparently she is actually into me.

The fucked up thing is this weird fucking gut feeling that has been churning inside of me all week long, i'm pretty naturally intuitive as a person and can usually articulate my emotions pretty well however i have NO clue on how to describe this feeling it's making me feel SICK. i even have been going to bed early and keeping myself overly occupied just so i don't think about it/her.

I find everything about her completely attractive.

Why is something that should be a positive emotion feel like some sort of sickness..?

WHAT IS HAPPENING.?

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Hey guys, a bit of a story.
So my internet has been completely shit lately. My provider is Comcast, I know they are shit but they are the only one available in my neighborhood.

So instead of dealing with shitty wireless I decided to use an ethernet cable. At the time, though, the only way to do so was to connect the router through my brother's room across the hall, then into my room and into my computer. Though it was a bit of a hassle and I had to re-arrange my room, it worked fantastically. I had zero lag at all, the internet was as fast as it should be.

Recently, a worker from Comcast came and installed an "internet" wire in my room. I'm not sure of the technical name, but its a white wire that connects into the router, which then connects through the ethernet cable into my computer.
This hasn't been working so well. The internet itself, when browsing 4chan and youtube and such, has been alright- but when I try to play a game, like Overwatch, every single match becomes extremely laggy. I'm not sure if its just the game, but it this has been going on for several days now. I really just want to be able to play.

I just ordered a new router and it will come in soon. Do you think switching it out will solve the problem? I'm doubtful because... well it worked so well before when I had it connected through my brothers room. Now that it doesn't work even though the router is literally on top of my computer doesn't make any sense?

Is there anything else I can do?

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Spiderman thread

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Hello /adv/

I have a problem. My neck and shoulders feel uncomfortable at like all times. I get up and stretch all the time, but the uncomfortableness remains. What do I do?

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Hello just looking for a little insight on this thing going on with this girl. I am unsure if there is a genuine interest or she is just leading me on for attention.

So basically we have gone out quite a bit and by gone out I mean go to the movies, chill at her house my house, go out to eat sit in my car and talk till like 4 in the morning on multiple occasions so we do quite a bit together just me and her.

The only thing that makes me think she may not be interested is due to the fact that she very rarely initiates anything. I do all that and yes I hear that men are suppose to do the initiating when it comes to conversations dates etc. but I believe that if someone does have an interest then they would initiate things as well due to the fact that they wanna spend their time with you, not the other way around.

Another thing that erks me is that we have talked about becoming an item but she seems to want to know me more before going to that. We have been hanging out for a little more than 2 months now so maybe that is a legitimate reason. That or she just wants to let me down easy but not feel bad about it by leaving some glimpse of hope for me. Idk but I'm just unsure of it all.

So what do you guys think?

If you need more info to go on just ask.

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How long do you have to take birth control pills for before you can "do it"?

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I have a crush. We're very close friends. She knows I'm interested in her but won't make a move.
I have sex with other girls now and then.
Am I a scumbag?

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I applied for some jobs online. One of them called me back half an hour after I submitted my application and scheduled me an interview.
It's an outbound sales role. What does this mean? Are they fucking desperate?

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hey /adv/ I dont do this often but I am very lost and confused right now and I need help.

>Start dating a cute coworker from place of work, different department, so were not giving eachother crap
>She gets pregnant, I freak out, she see's me freak out
>we smooth things over, and start making plans going forward
>Her mother dies 3 days after we get fixed, this is on a sunday
>I see her and tell her I am going to be there for both her and the child, open my heart to her and tell her I will be there to support her as much as I can, none of this being related to the mother
That was on Friday
>Tell her on Sunday I would like to talk to her for more than the 30 minutes our lunch breaks allow
>she seems to be ignoring me and I dont know why, and I am losing my sleep and appetite over her

What do I do from here? give her space? try talking to her? I dont know where to go from here and I am rapidly becoming depressed