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How do you deal with heartbreak? I got dumped by my gf of one year last week and I can't stop missing her.

She's already with someone else

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>should I fess up that I relapsed?

I relapsed on heroin and I feel really guilty about it. I live with my parents and work with my Dad, and I've missed three days of work because of this. They know something is up, they're not stupid. I've been going through withdrawals or something after I overdosed and have felt like toasted shit. Been sleeping and having horrible nightmares and night sweats etc.

Anyway it's all gone now and I have no intentions of using again. It just swallows my life up instantly and everything that is important to me goes to the wayside, and that's just not cool, and it's just a really miserable way to live.

Thing is, I think I would feel better if I admitted it, but the blowback may be more than I'm willing to deal with. I mean, they don't make it very easy to tell them shit like this, because they'll never bump my pay and will be constantly giving me a crooked eye no matter what I do. Plus it'll just hurt them, they'll get scared that I'll relapse again and die. Which is a legitimate fear (heroin is dangerous senpai)

wat should I do? I'm kind of torn here. I want to unload this shit and get this weight off my shoulders, but at the same time I don't want to deal with their shit

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Hey guys I never thought I would be in this position but I have found myself in a situation where I am having sex with an older woman. It's been going on for the past couple of months. A few days ago she expressed her feelings about wanting me to cum inside her.
While I would love to do it there's still a part of me that's terrified of getting her pregnant. Although she owns a house and has a nice car plus a nice job she is really bad with money so I really don't think she'd be trying to get pregnant. My gut is telling me not to do it. Should I take on for the team and do it?

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Male (24) Female (27) I have a girlfriend of 2 years, we have been LDR for these past two years I have visited her 4 times, within that timeframe, I was thinking about moving out to her. I recently sold my house, and prepared everything. Everything was going fantastic, and I even met her parents. They loved me, and invited me to go with them out to events in the future. On my last visit My girlfriend and I both went out and we looked at a bunch of apartments, and saw a few to our liking. The moment we went back to her home. (She still lives with her parents.) She then turned to me and said. "I don't want to move in with you, Could you move in by yourself, and we move forward with our relationship." My family is disowning me because they feel i'm making a bad decision about moving out to her. Later on that day she sat me down and said "This is all going to fast, My anxiety tells me in one part of my brain that I love you, and in my other part of my brain I don't, or I want to disappear sometimes." She started to cry, I comforted her and said she didn't need to move in with me right away it was just that I was finally closing the gap. Anyway a few days later, she calls me and wants alone time contemplating our relationship. She says she doesn't know what she wants.

Some backstory: I was a good friend of hers for about 5 years (I knew both her and her ex as they were dating.) She had a cheating ex boyfriend who I was also friends with, and I sat her down and told her about her boyfriend cheating on her with multiple women. Over the course of being friends for a few months after that she told me she had a crush on me, and wanted to be with me. We started to date, and thus here we are.

In the end I don't really know what to do. Shes hitting me with all these red flags, right before I move out to her.

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>forgot I signed up for the GRE
>tfw it's tomorrow

Jesus Christ what do

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What can i do in my pooptown on dates? Dont have much here, the only thing we can do is to walk and talking about daily crap, but this would be boring. Sports like basketball is a bad idea when im not wrong. Hell, I'm such a boring person and avoid the public so much

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Does going on one date with multiple other people, constitute dating others ?

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I have an issue, I broke up with a girl and his dad is threatening to kill me for real. The problem is that later on the relationship I found out who he was, some sort of landlord.

He doesn't know my family and we never met, there's the chance that it could be an empty threat but I'd rather not take the chances, in my country the police is part of the problem so not helping.

What measures should I take? , weapons are easily available here but I can only afford knives, should I change my routine? Carry a combat knife? Another problem is that contract killers and hitmen are pretty cheap around here, but not enough so I could hire one...
Suggestions are welcome

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> Be me yesterday (wednesday)
> Be with friends
> Discussing when to hang out
> Say I already have plans on Saturday
> One friend tries to change plans to include himself
> Presumptuous, but an innocent mistake
> Don't really want him tagging along for this one
> Try to tell him this, accidentally insult him b/c am socially incompetent
> We argue
> Eventually agree to hang out on Friday
> Remember today (thursday) I already had plans for Friday
> goddammit.jpg

What do? He's a good friend and while he was kind of a jerk, it wasn't on purpose. The original plan was to go to a party being held by a non-mutual friend, so it'd be weird to bring him along.

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So me and my girlfriend been together for 4 months now. I'm her first serious boyfriend, first kiss including sex, and I treat her really good she even says before me she used to have low self esteem but feel its getting better.

And she's said nice things about me, like how much she loves me, she wouldn't change me for the world etc, I do cute things for her too.

But she ended the relationship out of nowhere the other week and I didn't know why. She just kept giving me excuses. I seen her today and this is how it went down

>Me: Soooo
>Her: What did you wanna talk about
>I think you know
>No I don't...
>I want you to be with me again
>I can't it's too hard
>What is?
>Everything

I stand up and face her, and she starts sobbing, I knew she was guilty of something. She admitted to me she kissed a guy friend of hers. How she couldn't help it because of the close bond they have. I told her wtf, she says he leans in then I can't reject it. She told me she's kissed him twice but nothing more.

I felt sick, but I told her I'm willing to forgive her but she needs to pull her head out her ass, and tell him you got a boyfriend, and she just tells me 'its not that easy'. Then when I said so what about the close bond we have, are we just nothing anymore? And she says "I'm not saying that".

then she started crying and stormed off, I tried to stop her, grab her and she said no because I knew you would want me back let me go LET ME GOOO she screamed, then I did.

What do I do? I really am willing to forgive her, she is just inexperienced, I'm her first real boyfriend, but I told her if she ever wants to be with me she needs to sort out her priorities but she just says "It's not that easy".

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Hey guys I just need advice on how to last longer without cumming. I've only ever had sex with my gf once (we were both virgins) and I was embarrassed oh how quickly I came.

Any tips to over come (pun not intended) this?

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Hey /adv/. I have a dilemma.
I'm 23, at a dead end job, and I don't know what to do in life. I've been thinking about joining the military to help me gather some scope on what I want to do. Assuming I don't get blown away by a bomb, I think it could workout. Thoughts?

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I am a 20 year old girl. I have never had a boyfriend and I'm a virgin. this partly because I am socially retarded and kind of lazy. I don't really care much about the boyfriend bit but I do want to get laid. I am not that confident and I am afraid that my inexperience would be off putting. What do I do? How do I go about this?

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We recently broke up for a third time. Both two times we broke up because she wasn't into me much. Last time she said that she is finally sure that she wants to be with me and that it is for real this time, but after two months she started ignoring me and then said to give her some time because she has a lot of going on (nothing serious actually) and that she is depressed. So I didn't bother her, checked once to see how she is doing. And after all problems she told me that made her nervous passed by, she stil didn't text me that she is ready. So I messaged her
>Should I still wait for you
>I thought that you moved on
>Well I guess I should from now on
>I'll miss you
>You are dead to me
>Noh

I mean I tried to be nice to her while we were still in touch but she would often start to harrass and ignore me and never told that she loves me.

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I meet a girl that's without a doubt the coolest girl I've ever met. (same interests, same religion, etc.) Knowing her a few weeks I ask her out, she says that she isn't looking for a relationship. I continue to talk to her for the next few months while I'm back home for summer. We have good conversations and she seems interested in what I have to say. I move back to school, in the town where she lives, and I ask her to hang out. She still says that she isn't looking for a relationship, but we still talk like normal. I really don't want to move on since there has literally never been another girl that I have ever been as interested in before. What do I do?