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>>18022593
>4chan is not your personal army

>>18022711
Um he asked how to deal with libel that's hurting his business not for you to do anything.

You could talk to a lawyer about it, wrongful defamation of name and libel hold up in court pretty well especially if it has negative impacts on your company

Only in the mirror

>>18022581
No. Never. Unless you are under 15 aka not a grown man

>>18022581
You might as well use an anime profile pic you cunt.

How long have you been together?

I suppose a reasonable person would only be considering breakup over this if you hadn't been together long.

Because honestly, in my current 6-year relationship after about 6 months of stability I was the same way. Let her live her life (gym/church/whatever) and enjoy the time together that works out for both of you. If she feels your relationship is stable, and is no longer all honeymoon-phase crazy, it makes sense she'd be acting this way.

I see my now-fiance every day. In our first year, I probably saw him 3-6 times a week. So yeah, visiting with someone I hadn't seen in a year or two was a bigger priority.

>>18022566
I mean.
You're there all the time, her friends are there once every few months and they can spend only limited time together.
If she doesn't have dinner with you today she can have dinner with you next week, she can't do the same with a friend who lives in another country.

It seems like you're overreacting.

>>18022573
>>18022576

Hi anons
Thamk you

We've been about a year (non-exclusive) and only be exclusive in maybe about a month.

Actually we just had a fight. I wait an hour for her for a date and i said that i just wanna leave (she hasnt arrive) and reschedule. I dont wanna see her that day but she insist.
Thing is her friend (the girl one) wanna come the day after and she wanna spend time with her, thats why she insist.

The thought of her prioritize her friends over me get the best of me and we blame each other.

I brought up that she prioritize her friends over me and her activity / work whatever, and she said dont talk about prioritize when i myself prioritize my own ego, and said im a drama.

With this little story, please let me know if im still overeacting, or maybe insecure / ego like she said.

I just feel like she has all control over this relationship and the only way for her to see me differently (appreciate me more) is to have distance with her (break up) and break free from the control

>>18022556
just ask her out, space is a meme women use for betas. If she likes you she will forget all about her problems in an instant

>>18022556

Either ask her out or if that scares you for some reason be really obvious without actually asking her. Given what you've said you could ask her exactly what you asked us. If she thinks it's weird to go on a date so close after a breakup or to Vday. Her reply should be plenty obvious if you can make a move or not.

>>18022561
>>18022572

I think it's probably worth giving a shot. We don't see each other often but we're both going to a friends movie-night this week. Guess I can try from there...

I'm not particularly good at this. I'm not even sure what to ask her to do. Any good first date ideas?

>>18022552
you just leave it at that and show you don't care about her bullshit, this makes her like you more because it establishes you as the man of the relationship.

>>18022553
this also ignore her bullshit shes just stressed and lashing out as women often do

>>18022552

with emotion its easy to find yourself in a lose-lose situation where there is no answer.

your choices are
>give in and apologize (then hope)
>argue about it (then hope)
>pretend nothings wrong (then hope).

thats it really. there is no guaranteed route. im confrontational. when someones in the wrong i like to explain why they are wrong. sometimes i wait a day then do it then and say 'i know times are tough, and you arent too busy sunday, so why dont i take you to do something extra fun'.

remember that even if they are mean and in the wrong, loving someone means helping them when they are struggling, and sometimes when someone is rude its BECAUSE they are struggling and need some comfort.

I'm 19, 4th grade of high.

>>18022549

I think the obvious answer is incest.

>>18022549
Act in a manner that makes her respect you and take on a role as a parental figure. If you're not man enough for that, don't beat her, regardless.

Ayy shawty u lookin fine af u wan sum fuk bby?

Would you like a ride in my lamborghini?

>>18022504
questions are worse than statements

tell him you're proud to be a whore.

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>>18022450
Have fun with your fucked up oxytocine receptors and failed marriage, """not a slut""".

>>18022450
>I've done some soulsearching and decided that I'm okay being a used up whore

Also, whores don't have a soul.

You say you've recently begun, so is it possible to quit? Honours isn't for everyone, my friend was literally getting 3-4 hours of sleep by the end of it, and that was par for the course. I don't mean to scare you, the point I'm trying to make is that it's just going to get worse, and you're barely coping now.

>>18022444
Yeah, I'm barely a week in, so quitting is an option. Right now it's more the fear of working impossibly hard, rather than it actually happening. I'm terrified that it will start getting worse and worse, and leave me a wreck who's another year older and with a piece of paper he has no intent to use.

But if I were to quit, I'd have no idea what to do after that.

If you're not going to use it, then what's the point? Don't study for the sake of studying

>But if I were to quit, I'd have no idea what to do after that.
Have you considered just working whatever job you can get until you work out what you want to do?

Btw where do you live and what are you studying, if you don't mind me asking?

Can you talk to whoever you're doing the project for and explain the situation and that you're not going to meet the deadline?

>>18022389
They know, they told us to meet the deadline anyway. I said it wasn't possible and they stopped replying to that email.

Hey anon, I feel your pain. I'm doing my university honours this year, and that continuing sword hanging over your head is hard to deal with. For me it's always worrying about my grades, and messing it up.

Is the job absolutely essentual for you to have, or if you left it would you be okay financially for a while? I'm not an expert, but a lot of your symptoms sound like clinical depression.

Also I talked with the guy on the phone after we talked in person and we talked about the other stuff we are trying to do and he said we'd talk more tomorrow [the guy this text conversation is referencing]

>>18022373

>Can anyone translate this for me?

No. Not only did your post not make any sense whatsoever, we don't know you or the person you were talking with.

Figure this shit out on your own. We're not mind readers.

>>18022386
Basically there's this guy that has a lot of connections and wants to make money off clubs house shows and parties, I only care about parties, don't care about money, drugs, or alcohol, [what I want is girls because the only place I can pull is parties, haven't told him this though]
He seems hesitant to do much with parties, doesn't understand why I care so much, but has promised to help me with them, finding them, making them, etc

We hung out before we started talking about all of this but tonight we had a kind of heavy conversation about stuff like me getting my own place to host and us going to other college towns for them and stuff like that, he seems to be confused by how much I want to party but again he seems to be grudgingly willing to help me

I'm also really good at making connections with people, I can bring in guys that want to host house shows, frat guys that need a DJ (me and this guy know one), etc etc

Its weird how good I am at networking but yet I have 0 ability to pull girls outside of parties

>18
Come back when you're older. I don't mean that in a other-people-are-older-and-still-virgins-stop-complaining way, I mean that you're still a kid and you're still developing and maturing and that while you may feel like you're miles behind your peers, it's really not that unusual at your age.

>>18022361
Most normal people lose it when they're 15-16. I'm literally the only person I know who hasn't already had sex. 18 is considered late now.
>you're still developing and maturing
Sure, but what does that have to do with anything?

>>18022365
I promise you, there are plenty of people who haven't lose their virginities by 18, and won't lose it for a few years. Not to mention, teenagers are great at exaggerating and making shit up

>Sure, but what does that have to do with anything?
It means that you might not have developed as much as other people have and therefore aren't in the same place they are, and it's perfectly normal.

Study physics and realize that the universe is just a bunch of a fields interacting in a non-compact topological void. Then you'll forget whatever you were worried about.

>>18022346
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>>18022336
Convert to Satanism

I really like it when my boyfriend asks me what my kinks are and just does them instead of asking anons on the internet what they're into and assuming I'll like it too.

>>18022285
I did ask, which is why I decided to ask this question to begin with. She didnt really go into detail on what she wanted me to do. It was a sorta broad/vague. Obviously I'm going to run any ideas I get by her and gauge her opinion before I actually do anything.

>>18022285
This is bs you need to take initiative that is exactly what she wants.

The key is that you really need to do what you want and communicate that to her while you do it.

Pointers:
>Your bodyweight on her. Don't be afraid to push her into the matress while you fuck her
>hair pulling. Grab it like a high pony tail in your hand and use it, plus a hand on her shoulder, to pull her onto your dick while you fuck her. (Having one leg up and a bit forward will help with balance and control.)
>be grunty. I know it will feel awkward but she clearly wants a big manly man. Be a little grunty in your dirty talk and see if she responds. I know, you would think it's gross and awkward but it isn't.
>call her your pretty little princess. She may want to be abused but chances are she wants to be dominated but still adored. Mix all this dominant shit with a weird combo of pampering and you will make her squirm. Remember: mean actions, lovely words (but still from a position of power)
>take initiative with position changes. Tell her where you want her and move her body how you like it the whole time telling her you want it just like that. And 'that's perfect, good girl.' After she does something right.

Bonus: after it all goes well and you finish ask her if she wants to try some daddy talk. Say you aren't into incest but there's something about getting called daddy that really turns you on, and you want to see what it's like to pepper a bit of that into your dirty talk.
Don't call her daughter or anything just say sweety, princess or baby.

Best of luck, mate.

>>18022267
>I'm a guy but never really fully understood why society doesn't want guys to look feminine
Go away, look up what 'feminine' means, come back here and tell us all about how much of a retard you are.

>>18022271
Is it just to do with jealousy from other guys if one guy looks too pretty?

>>18022267
Please google "bogdanoffs" before contemplating surgery.