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Best way to commit suicide?
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>>18025118
Depends if you wanna feel pain or not
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>>18025141
Go ahead and list whatever you can suggest
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>>18025118
Rope. You might not die immediately, but it's fairly simple to set up, the stuff is everywhere and once you've kicked the stool there's NO turning back, assuming you've set the noose up properly. It's what I'm going to use to go out.
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How to find husband who don't want or can't have children 2017-02-06 06:55:45 Post No.18025117
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How to find husband who don't want or can't have children
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I can't have children and I don't want to end someone's lineage, but I also don't want to be alone. But even if I ask everyone I meet if they want to have children they are likely to change their minds in the future.
I've been looking out for people who seem too dysfunctional for a family. It seems like the only way to be sure. I naturally gravitate to these people anyway because I'm dysfunctional myself and like to talk to people who can relate. I met a cute guy with chronic fatigue who said he can't handle children because of it, but unfortunately he can't handle girlfriends either for the same reason. So far people have tended to be either too dysfunctional to live with or functional enough that they might want to have children in the future, and the line in between is very thin indeed. Is there a better way to do this?
Adoption isn't an option.
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There are plenty of guys out there that are not dysfunctional with no interest in having chie. I am one of them.
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Do you live in Japan?
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It's not like men not interested in children gather in any one spot, or vice versa. All you can really do is make it clear what you're after and try to find someone who has a similar endgame.
>Adoption isn't an option.
There's kind of a big difference from not being able to have children, and not being interested in having kids to begin with. So I wouldn't just say you're not able to have kids, but to make it clear you don't want any.
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This is the shortest way I can tell this long ass story. Summary: I'm a 21/m, been in an almost 4 year relationship with a 21/f. Had a crush on a coworker, one night I acted on it and my life has obviously been a mess ever since.
Got closer with a coworker over 6 months until I started hanging out with them outside of work (in mutual friend groups). She was the best skiier of the group, so I ask to go just the two of us for an advanced ski day. Shenanigans. Ended up making out with her back at her place. Then came over again the next weekend, get boozed up and...kind of(?) half-asssedly(?) have sex. We have the super 50 shades of grey hots for each other, but I still have a gf who I'm NOT EVEN UNHAPPY with (obviously sex has gotten meh, but I like her...like a sister? Idk). Gf and I live together, share a pet, lives are connected so I feel like I'm a crazy idiot for wanting to throw it all away to dick down a sexy coworker. What now?
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>This is the shortest way I can tell this long ass story.
You could have told it shorter by leaving this part out.
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You right though.
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>>18025069
You should tell the truth.
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So, I never usually post on this board but I seriously need some advice here.
I broke up with my ex a pretty long time ago after I moved out of state, albeit with lots of unfinished business but I went about my life as normally as I could.
I got in a new relationship last year and its been pretty good despite a few rocky patches but recently (the last few days) my ex has been contacting me. Tonight we had a skype call, certain 'things' happened and now she really wants to fuck me again no strings attached and I want to fuck her too.
What do I do, /adv/? I've never cheated on anyone before and my head is a complete mess. I want nothing more than to fuck her again but I really don't want to be a bad person.
>TL;DR
>Broke up with ex
>Got a new girl
>Ex Recontacts me
>Now desperately want to fuck each others brains out
>What do?
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>>18025022
Don't do it.
First decide this,
Who do you want to be with?
If your answer is your gf then don't mess up a good thing by chasing your past for short satisfaction and potentially years of guilt and depression.
You risk her finding out sooner or later, the ex doing some crazy shit to stir the pot etc. You will ruin the relationship so if you want it to work out. Don't do it.
If your answer is the ex gf, then break up with your current gf. Nobody deserves to be cheated on. Don't be a dick op
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>>18025022
lol, don't. you're fucked up for even doing 'things' on Skype with her.
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If digits, you fuck your ex
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Hey adv i need your help
a gay friend has been telling me that he would be down to do freaky stuff with me but im straight. But im 100 percent sure im turning bi because of him. Should i do it or not
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If you are attracted to him, why not?
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>>18025020
not attracted to him
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>>18025024
Well unless you just want to try it to see whether you like it or not, don't.
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I need help, hopefully from someone who has been in my situation.
My gf and I both have never been in a relationship before and are both virgins. We have been together for a while (getting close to 2 years), we are both 23. I am extremely attached to her and like being around her.
However, due to the fact that she is my first, I am starting to have an issue with lusting after other women. She is not a sexual girl, and I thought I could deal with it since I am happy with her. My friends have said I'm dating a bit below my league. I don't believe in leagues, so I didn't care.
I've been really curious and into bdsm and really rough stuff, but my GF is not into it. I keep fantasizing with being with kinkier and hotter women. I am afraid this will only get worse with time, as I'm afraid I'm wasting my youth on holding out for my gf.
I have no way of realizing what I have, because I have nothing to compare it to. I am much happier now than I was when I was single, but how do I know that my gf is someone I should settle down with?
If I mention opening up the relationship I could scare or off, and the urge for me to cheat has just gotten stronger.
I have talked to her about not having sex, and she isn't budging. That is just how she is. Since we have been together for a while, I am in a situation where we are both dependent on each other financially. So I cannot just up and leave if (even if I wanted to)
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>but how do I know that my gf is someone I should settle down with?
By having sex.
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>>18025019
Like I said, she's not a very sexual person. I've been pushing it. Even then I have no way of comparing it to a typical girl.
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There is no such thing as truly sexless. Just truly unattracted to the person in front of them.
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How to stop helping people(sort of) 2017-02-06 06:02:33 Post No.18024996
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How to stop helping people(sort of)
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2017-02-06 06:02:33
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So, how do I stop trying really hard to help other people, at the expence of my personal life?
People did fuck me over several times, and I am fully aware that allowing others to sit on your neck is a really, really bad idea, but I simply cannot stop. I just forget that instead of doing someone a solid I can, say, do something important for my life, like studying or staying home while sick, for example.
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Ugh, people pleasers. On the surface it appears that you want to make people happy, when in reality, you are only concerned with their reactions towards you.
Get a fucking self help book, there are hundreds. Go to the library, grab 5 or 6 and skim through them until you spot something that resonates with you.
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>>18025003
Not really, I think. I take no pleasure in doing any of this, and generally don't get even a "thank you". That's why this is a problem.
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I use to be like you OP. I got over it and you will to. It'll take some deprogramming.
You don't owe anybody anything. You feel obligated to do things for others and that needs to stop. This will take practice, months, maybe years.
The first few times you choose yourself over another it will feel weird and wrong (maybe because of how you were raised). It's not. It only feels that way because that is currently your "normal." The more often you choose your own happiness the easier it will get.
>But what about altruism, etc...
That's fine and good, but that's NOT what this issue is. (This was difficult for me to get over) This issue is you are a doormat. You allow this to happen because you have low self respect. Once you start standing up for yourself people will begin to call you "selfish" because those people are assholes and they can't take advantage of you any longer. Anyone who treats you this way isn't a friend and you should drop them.
I lost all my "friends" when I started standing up for myself. It was fucking brutal but the next set of friends I made were lifelong ones.
>I take no pleasure in doing any of this
Once you gain self respect you'll feel good about helping others because then it's your choice, not some bullshit obligation.
What is the most beautiful thing in the material universe?
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the naked body of the woman you love, who loves you in return
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>>18024986
Very man-centric view there asshole
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>>18024988
I was going to make an edited, special snowflake tumbler appropriate version of this but I'm too lazy and you should just kys
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Is it possible to have all the personality disorders?
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>>18024972
You can umbrella them under just being a psychopath.. my exgirlfriend is a psychopath and she definitely has hints of all the cluster b disorders
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Maybe, but your image doesn't have anything /k/ in it.
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Is it me or did some group of assholes just get together one day to say "let's make a classification system to more efficiently bully the kinds of people we don't like by convincing them that they have some illness"
All the people who believe in this kind of stuff seem highly suggestible
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My girlfriend told me tonight that she was molested by a family member as a teenager. Its made me feel less attracted to her and now all of her cute quirks seem like red flags. Am I wrong for this?
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It's not wrong to think differently about her quirks; that's just human. But she opened up to you about something that probably really hurts to admit, which means she trusts you, and you should honor that.
The main thing I would watch out for is emotional manipulation- abused people sometimes mirror the behavior of their abusers in an attempt to regain some sort of power. If she ever tries to do that, shut that shit down quick.
Otherwise, just stay strong. She couldn't help that it happened to her and you shouldn't judge her for it. Just know that if the relationship doesn't work out, it's not your fault.
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>how dare you break up with this hundred story pitfall!
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>>18024982
I dont know what kind of form that manipulation would take, but ill keep an eye out
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Erectile Disfunction? 2017-02-06 05:36:46 Post No.18024938
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Hey all,
I'm almost 25 years old (young as shit), but every time I'm with a new girl I can never get my dick to work the first time we try to have sex. Luckily for me I'm not a one night stand person, so usually the girl I shack up ends up being my girlfriend. So, been with this new girl for a few weeks now, and we've had full sex twice, but attempted sex a few more times and no matter what I do I just can't get it up. I don't know why and it's really starting to piss me off. She's fucking gorgeous too, and she's starting to worry that it's her and I'm assuring her it isn't.
What the hell can I do? I don't jerk off that much, and when I do it is to porn. But again it's only twice or so a week. I can obviously try cutting down on that, but still. This is really starting to bother me.
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>>18024938
Don't jerk to porn, jerk it to imagining having sex with the girl
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>>18024938
You on the anti-depressants? 'Cause that'll kill your weiner
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I had a similar issue. My therapist says I'm too hard on myself. I put sex on a pedestal. I made having sex an accomplishment (lost my virginity at 27) instead of treating it as what it is, play.
Sex is play. Just have fun.
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How do I make myself not feel anything and make it easy for me to not be pissed off my pathetic neckbeard brother who stays with me?
That brother of mine has been annoying me since the day he was born and still does to this day because he's a manchild who is forced to stay with me because he recently got fired from his job.
My therapist told me the best way for me to not get pissed at him is to not feel anything around me and with that, I can completely ignore everything.
Can anyone give me tips on this?
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What does he do to make you so upset?
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>>18025337
He generally annoys me the hell off by shouting out anything he wants and making weird noises, he also loves insulting me and doing some random shit just to appease him and if I don't do it, he beats me up.
He also loves to shock me just because he wants to.
He is like that little brother who never grew up but turned into a bully towards everyone.
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>>18024911
Find him a cheap apartment. Pay his first month's rent for him. Throw him out.
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I'm so fucking lonely. I have no friends and never had a girlfriend at 24. The girl I ever got close to recently moved away to another state with her family. We only dated for maybe 3 months. It was so fun, but now I'm a loner again. If it wasn't for her taking the initiative to talk to me, I never would have opened up to her. It took me forever for me to even get comfortable around her. I just want friends. I'm too awkward and anxious to even open up to anyone.
Please tell me how I can start opening up to people? I feel so anxious just talking to someone and I just let them do all the talking.
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You have to try. It's going to suck for the beginning, but you must letting trying
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Step 1: stop fucking crying
Step 2: be high energy
Step 3: do high energy things
Step 4: share your energy with the world around you
Step 5: don't marry the first one who sucks your dick. Better yet, don't marry.
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>never had a girlfriend
>dated girl
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>had a fight with gf
>she says "let's not talk for a while" (has happened before)
>if I agree it means I don't care
>this time I was not having any of her bullshit and just said "okay"
>it's been four days
>this time she is 1000% in the wrong, other times I might have also been at fault
What should I do?
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>>18024903
>Your gf has been a passive aggressive little shit
Why are you with her again?
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>>18024910
Women are either outright bitches or passive aggressive once provoked. She just happens to be the latter.
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>>18024910
>has been
has been behaving like a...*
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I didn't know where else to put this.
How dangerous is it exactly to work around plastic?
I ask because I work in a factory that manufactures items out of recycled plastic. I am placed in the extrusion line where I dump the ground up bits into an auger that carries it into a mixer, then a crammer, then the extruder itself where it melts it all at about 400 degrees. These parts are cooled in water.
I try to keep away from the fumes and have fans blowing to keep the worst of it away. I recently got a pair of goggles, a respirator and wear gloves. On top of that, I wear a hat, long sleeve clothing and pants.
It wasn't until recently had I been informed about the potential dangers that plastic holds and how ingesting it in anyway can cause cancer, endocrine disruption, sexual dysfunction, etc.
Anything more I can do? Am I set to work with all this protection? Am I being too paranoid?
Thanks in advance.
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>>18024886
Wanna know why firefighters used to die a lot after they finished their job? They'd take their masks off after a fire was done burning.
The fumes from plastic would work their way through their bodies kill them in their sleep when they went home. Plastic burns some bad shit, OP. It can't be stressed enough that you're not breathing in even a bit of that shit.
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>>18024886
Find out exactly what kind of plastic.
Google "[kind] exposure dangers"
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>>18025479
From what I know, its a lot of different kinds of plastic that's been shipped from various companies.