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you should do what "alphas" do : have a purpose to your life and work towards it, socialize a lot, improve yourself, exercise, etc

>>18024054
how do I overcome anxiety?

Audio hypnosis will not work, I can guarantee you that.

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>fucking your coworker
>thinking this can go well

Ehh it's college, give it a shot virgin boy

>>18023994
This.

It's absolutely going to make shit awkward eventually, but who cares? Hit it anyway.

-Good heartedness (not even kidding; it's my number-one appreciated trait in others)
-Friendliness
-Intelligence
-Psychological depth
-Decency/sense of honor
-Emotional intelligence

>>18023916
being their own person and not trying to be someone else

"All men ... are NOT created equal! Some are born swifter afoot, some with greater beauty, some are born into poverty and others born sick and feeble. Both in birth and upbringing, in sheer scope of ability every human is inherently different; Yes that is why people discriminate against one another, which is why there is struggle, competition and the unfaltering march of progress. Inequality is not wrong, equality is. What of the E.U. which made equality a right? Rabble politics by a popularity contest. The Chinese Federation with its equal distribution of wealth? A nation of lazy dullards. But not our beloved Britannia, we fight, we compete, evolution is continuous. Britannia alone moves forward, advancing steadily into the future. Even the death of my son, Clovis, demonstrates Britannia's unswerving commitment to progress. We will fight on, we shall struggle, compete, plunder and dominate, and in the end, the future shall be ours.

>>18023883
I'll never understand people that are literally controlled by their genitals. If it goes bad, you could lose your job, destroy your reputation, and possibly even go to prison. If it goes well, you get to blow your load. It really doesn't take a genius to know you shouldn't touch her

>>18023904
Weak minded people my man.

Like how some animals will just fuck anything they can, OP has no impulse control. He's not going very far in life

>>18023883
She's just going through puberty and sexually flexing just to see what will happen and get excited at the fact that boys are taking interest in her.

I did this too when I was a teen. Not with older guys but with my male peers.

It's the equivalent of a teenage boy finding porn. Harmless. Experimental. Self pleasing.


Don't do it. She doesn't like you. She likes the idea of boys liking her. This is because she is still a child. Just now, a child with boobs.

Yes, mediocre, yes

Fabulous way to get an okay paying stable and boring job

No. Study a hard science or mathematics or something while learning an extra language if you want in undergrad. You can get an MBA later.

>>18023907
Actually ignore the MBA comment, they're wastes of money too.

OK, and?

>>18023881
Should I break up with her?

>>18023871
>Thoughts?
I think you need to evaluate why you are jumping from relationship to relationship, especially if you can't handle helping someone when they are hurt.

Not the best analogy but I know what you're talking about. Seems like as soon as you finally get good at picking up girls they want you to be "the one" and you become the stereotypical asshole that just wants sex.

>>18023844

What? By that analogy, it sounds like you are saying women don't know how to play the game. Or am I missing something?

Also, if your statement is "All women are/do X", then you are already wrong.

>>18023863
99% of women and males don't know how the game works.

most women simply wait to pick a hot guy when he try to pick her.

why do you think women complain males are too dumb to understand her advances?

>>18023745
Yeah. Just pretend that your head is an orange, and you want to peel yourself or else you'll go rotten

Acid is intense anon, however it is one of the most beautiful and worthwhile experiences you can ever have. Make sure you are with people you trust, and you have a good set when you drop. When you trip you will lose all control of the situation, and you won't care, so make sure you either have a sitter or have a good set so that you can ride it out. Get a little weed and smoke it during the come down, or you won't be able to sleep for like 48 hours lol. Have fun, and don't be afraid to take a break from your friends for a bit to rly go into your own head and trip out

I wouldn't do it first desu. Tripping rly takes a toll on your seratonin production so it's generally agreed upon that a 2 week break should be the minimum between trips. Acid is very psychologically stressful, and it can lead to serious mental exhaustion if you aren't careful. Lucy is a beautiful mistress, but she must be treated with respect

>>18023722

Dude, you are 19. Dating apps are for older people that have no other choice. Try going out more.

>>18023722
Think of baseball. Just get it over with.

>>18023722
>What do
Not the transvestite. That's what.

What is wrong with that? I took cover from the world doing a PhD...

>>18023641
What are his plans and what field is he studying in ?

>>18023641

Listen, you can say how you feel, sure. Just be ready to have an open and honest conversation. Don't go looking for a fight. You don't KNOW what he is doing, you THINK you know what he is doing. Let him explain if he wants to and, well, have an adult conversation.

>>18023585

Depends on the woman. If she's into one night stands she might think your closed minded. Those that don't will reflect your decision. It's not rocket science.

However I was the same way as you until I turned 23 and didn't feel like missing out on life and tried one night stands. Sometimes nice, sometimes not. You just need to figure out if you don't do it because you're scared or not.

Either way, judging people for their preferences is something only garbage-tier people do. Take that as you will.

>>18023594
I don't have one night stands because people can be weird and one night isn't enough time to figure out if someone is nuts or not. I don't know how women aren't more scared of one night stands. Some dude could lie about his name, impregnate you and then flee.

Or if you are a dude, a girl could invite you over for the one night and murder you after you rail her.

Am I just being paranoid?

>>18023638
Because most girls don't go in thinking they're gonna have a one night stand. They like to be 'convinced' to do it so the blame doesn't fall to them. It's that the dude was just too charming and she couldn't resist.

Not that guy btw.

>>18023540
Man or woman?

>>18023595
I'm a man and so is the other person. It is a romantic thing though

>>18023540
In that case you probably are. On a scale of 1-10 how capable would you be to see him walk away from the relationship?

>>18023515
Are you in pain?

>>18023543
well, not severely. comparable to diarrhea? i don't think there's anything dangerous happening. just my body getting rid of the material i has built up and me going trough a hormonal rollercoaster, but i am not sure if i should inform my obgyn since i want to try to get pregnant asap (meaning, him checking if i should use bc next cycle for my body to adjust or if i can try again).

>>18023550
Well I can't answer that, what's stopping you from going?

>>18023499
the thing is worth 900ish dollars, which is why I realize I might not be thinking clearly on this matter; which is why I came here before i say anything either way to him.

You aren't being unreasonable, he's being greedy. He knew full well what you meant, and shouldn't have agreed if he wanted this arrangement.

>>18023499
thats incredibly douchey and selfish, you should probably dump him. this incident is indicative of a deep character flaw

you're extremely retarded if you cannot see the difference between 'rape roleplaying' and actual rape. Sex is power and rape is so too. Women like to be dominated by men in sex but ONLY WITH THEIR CONSENT. Rape roleplaying is therefore not actual rape and the two things are hardly comparable

Also it is well known people develop a love/hate relationship with past traumas, i.e. war vets being addicted to violent movies/video games, as a pathological way of coping with these past traumas (see for example Stockholm syndrome)

Anyway, it is pretty scary you are so obsessed with this. As if you are planning to do something and already trying to find some justifications for it. I have reported this post to the FBI

>>18023485
It's like how someone can be into S&M and still not be okay with getting punched in the face by a random stranger in a bar.
Pseudo rape/rough sex is the feeling like you're not in control while secretly being in control. For rape victims, re-enacting the rape while actally being able to stop what is happening at any time can be helpful in moving past the trauma

>>18023503
And this anon is right, fix your brain asshole