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i've been talking to this girl for a while. finally stop being beta and ask her over. she comes but she has a friend that's madly in love with me. it goes great for a couple of hours we cuddle and i kiss her and she tells me that we can't be together because it would devastate her friend. is it really because of that or does she really not want to be with me?
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>>18021695
I'm a total virgin, but in your position I'd play it cool and say it's ok but keep in touch with her. if she likes you she'll eventually give up this bullshit
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Man that really sucks I think you should try to get close to her again and become friends then ask her over and try to dick her down that might change her mind ;)
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>>18021701
: ty anon for the advice that's what i was thinking of doing i'll try not to let it get the best of me and hopefully she does cut the bullshit
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If a girl flakes on you three times in a row, and when you're trying to decide when to meet up then she's always busy on those days, then that basically means that she's not interested anymore and just wants me to stop bothering her, yeah? We always used to be able to arrange when to meet up straight-away, but not anymore.
We met on Tinder, have been having sex and hanging out recently more frequently. We always spend ages with one another, cuddle and chat lots afterwards, get food together. She's probably fucking other men instead or maybe she sensed that I wanted something more serious and was turned off by that? How do I make myself just treat her like an occasional booty-call and nothing more?
Do I just move on and find a new fuckbuddy, without getting emotionally attached this time? How do I do this?
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Tell her you feel like you're growing distant, then just ask her straight out if she's not interested anymore. What do you have to lose? If she's not, cut your losses and move on.
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>>18021658
It's weird, never wanted or planned on getting emotionally attached to a fuckbuddy.
It's probably because I've only ever had one-night stands before and she's the first person where we're actually talking loads, cuddling and being playful constantly.
I guess this is kinda normal and will just go away after I fuck more girls or find another fuckbuddy so that the current one isn't my only source of female attention/validation?
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stop being such a fucking beta and giving a fuckhole so much importance in your life
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I have two things I really want to do but I keep pushing them off as something I won't be able to do and its kinda depressing me. I do this alot with things and I usually find an excuse to not do it and fail in life. My two biggest things I want to do are
>Voice Acting
I love to watch anime, play games and whatever and i'd love to be apart of the community. The issue here is I have no idea how the hell to start a dream like this and be apart of the community, never mind even making a career out of it.
>Boxing
I've always been interested in boxing, I don't want to go pro hell I don't have any real intention of fighting, like maybe spar or a little but I want to learn the form, technique, and just alot of things about the sport. But I need ALOT of stamina and power to do it and I don't know if I'm able to get that amount needed.
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>>18021612
>voice acting
well you probably WONT make a career out of that. there isn't a huge market for it, and even then real life actors often double up.
but if its something you want to do, do it for fun. go to voiceactingalliance.com and check out hteir forums, they have fandubs and radioplays and everything under the sun.
audition for everything but before accepting a role ask if they have any other completed projects under their belt. everyone has to start somewhere but most people start and then never finish.
NEVER trust large scale projects, and if they have some success under the belts dont trust them to do more than the first few episodes. lots of people say they're going to do FULL SERIES DUBS! but never even do one episode let alone the full series. if your character isn't until later in the series, even more than just 4 episodes in, dont expect it to go anywhere, though auditioning cant hurt.
and finally, dont be afraid to create your own projects. even if you dont want to get into the intensity of dubbing an anime, you could always write an original radioplay, play your favorite roles, than cast others. its a lot easier than you think, and thanks to youtube you can actually get a not bad audience just by uploading it with a picture for visuals.
>boxing
my friend goes to a boxing gym, im not sure much that goes on there only went once but it was a lot of fun. first and foremost you'll want ssome lessons so ave some money, but after basics you just go and punch shit. im not sure how you go about finding people to spar with but if you're at a boxing gym you can always ask.
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>>18021633
Since im more interested in boxing since its more something I can actually do soon, do you know how much the class was? there is one near me that is 50 bucks a month which is kinda alot for me since I have a shit part time job, but if classes are alot then I might hold off on it
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>>18021647
?since its more something i can actually do soon
says who? if you have a mic you could start auditions literally tonight.
>do you know how much the class was
no idea, it varies from trainer to trainer, place to place. we live in la so probably expensive.
>50 bucks a month
for classes or the gym? sounds like a good deal regardless.
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I know I'm over reacting but I just reversed my car into a 2016 car which my friends girlfriend owns leaving two paint scratches about 4 inches in length. I only have €400in birthday card cash left to my name, will this cover the cost? I really don't want to have to ask my parents for this money.
pic unrelated, not actually photo of scratch.
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Buy some bondo and paint and fix it yourself.
You can get automotive paint in aerosol form if you look around.
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>>18021583
Confess. Throw yourself on their mercy. They might decide it's not worth bothering with. If it does have to be touched up, your insurance or theirs will cover most of it.
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>>18022406
This.
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Would it be weird to date a girl a year younger than me in uni?
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>>18021556
This is possibly the stupidest question that'll be asked on /adv/ all year and we're only in February
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>>18021572
would it tho
I fucked up. I lost the love of my life.
>be me
>august 2015
>depressed about breaking up with first gf back in 2013
> see new girl
>She's the most beautiful creature I've ever laid eyes on. I'm obsessed
> She's talking to this other guy, I pretend not to care, and talk to another girl for a while
> guy stops talking to her, I move in.
>get her number after a day of talking, after a week of non stop talking I ask her out
>I think we'd make a cute couple, let's make a cute couple.
>She's everything I ever dreamed of, clever, funny, pure, and adorable.
> smooth sailing until August 2016
>I thought I didn't love her, so I break up with her. God, I've never been more wrong.
>instantly regret decision, but it takes over a month to get back together.
>this time it's not so smooth.
>parents were divorcing and putting me in the middle of their arguments.
>She's stressed too because of a new school year
>I'd get upset at small things she did like ignore me for her friends.
>that would make her unhappy.
>the bumps eventually smoothed out.
>until Monday that is, i said she looked like a dork and she refused to kiss me, which made me mad since I was just teasing her.
>on Tuesday we have another fight
>It was ugly
>our mutual friend has bad breath, so I say she doesn't have bad breath, she's just ugly, referencing the old spongebob episode.
>She hits me, and my self defense mechanism kicks in
>I say "If you ever touch me in a violent way again I will crush your throat like an insect."
>bad idea
> we don't talk until lunch, where we talk about us
> I decide to let her take a break and decide if she wants to go on with the relationship
>we don't even communicate afher that, until Thursday
>I write a note telling her to make up her mind since the uncertainty is killing me.
>we talk, and she decides to call it quits for good.
> haven't talked or seen her since
What do I do? Should I call her tomorrow? I need her, guys. I have no idea what to do without her. She was my everything.
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>>18021538
>I say "If you ever touch me in a violent way again I will crush your throat like an insect."
>tfw guys like this can have gfs and I can't
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>crush your throat like an insect
lol wtf
.. what is wrong with you.. life is not a 1980's independent film.
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>>18021554
I know, it just came out. I regret it so much
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In a relationship, we're both young. But she had sex at age 14 or so, with one guy, once, and it was alcohol related and she felt abused. I know I should be her biggest ally and I am and I do my very best but it just makes me mad for no good reason at all. I wanted to marry a virgin. It's incredibly selfish in some ways, I know, but it's been on my mind nonstop for months. I'm a virgin, we've been together for a long time. She's my best friend and I restructured my life to make hers better and I really do want to put a ring on it but theres that one issue that's making me feel pretty shitty, much more than it should. Can someone talk me through it, give some input. Just needed it to get off my chest, I guess. Thanks for your time, bless you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-X5OUn_3y0
here's a good tune in exchange for your troubles.
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You're unhappy because you feel that she didn't share her first special moment with you. Don't treat her virginity as a prize and you'll be better off for it. She hated her first time, so you're in luck. Fuck her well and she'll always think you're a god compared to the other person.
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give it time. don't feel bad about yourself, the way you feel is very understandable
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>>18021474
thanks man, I'll try.
>>18021522
thanks, I'm gonna remember that. It's so unimportant in the grand scheme of things and I think there are more important things I need to work on.
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Urgent situation
Been texting this girl for about a week I met at a party and she'd told me she'd be free this Tuesday so we could hang out. Fastforward to today and she asks if I'm free to hang out today at her place around 9 after I get off work. Like a dumbass, I accept because I've been wanting to hang out with this gal - but I jerked off twice yesterday so my libido is rock bottom. Now I don't expect her to want to suck my cock on the first date but in the event that she wants to I'm going to be in a VERY embarrassing situation, plus I'm 90% sure I have performance anxiety. Should I cancel on her and tell her I'm tired? I do have to get up early for work tomorrow and I can use that to my advantage. Or do I just go, hope she doesn't want to get freaky, and enjoy each other's company? I just don't want to embarrass myself.
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>>18021448
>jerked off twice yesterday
>libido is rock bottom
Well, your libido is a little weird OP. In any case, you could just be totally honest about it and hope that it ends up like some comedic romcom. Maybe, just maybe, both of you can laugh it off. If that doesn't work out then you should probably just forget about her and consider having a performance doctor check out your libido.
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Depends on the girl I'd say. If she isn't a thot she either won't try or will understand. Besides you should always decline the first time my dude.
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>>18021504
>you should always decline the first time
This is a new rule to me, what's the logic to that?
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18, still live at home. Was making out as I thought no one was home, left the door open and my mom walked by. She glanced and kept walking.
wtf. Freaking out a bit, don't really know what to think because I've never told her I'm gay and I always have been pretty straight-acting.
At most I think she said to me once "Oh he looks pretty handsome right anon?" during a movie once when I was like 14 or something.
what to do?
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>>18021419
Say that it wasn't a sexual kiss and you were just saying goodbye.
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>>18021423
we were sitting on my bed hugging each other during.
maybe play it off as an experimental thing?
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>>18021419
Your parents know.
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So my sister just told me that there's time/days when I'm seemingly happy and talkative, then some time later I'll be quiet and look grumpy. Mind you I had a resting bitch face so people might think I'm aggressive even though I'm not. I just don't want to talk.
But what my sister just told me scared me. I'm having a mood swing disorder thing or am I having bipolar?
It's really scare me since I'm depressed for like 5 years already.
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happy and talkative does not equal manic. You need to observe your reactions and behaviour. Ask your sister to have a better look. Check how long the "swings" last. Then go the doctor. We can't diagnose you here and I would also not trust a psychiatrist who gives you a diagnosis after one appointment.
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>>18021390
This. Manic features are PRESSURED SPEECH, #1, disorganized thinking, diminished need for sleep, and irrational irritability. It does not mean "happy" or even "good", it means "pathological amounts of excitement in the brain", which can make you feel light as a by-product but don't always. It's also hereditary, so if you dont know someone in your family who has had it you almost certainly don't have it.
t. bipolar-1 person
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>>18021360
Some days you are in a good mood and some days in a bad?
Pretty. Fucking. Normal.
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alright /adv/
From the file, I think you already know what this is about.
I am at my wits fuckin end with this website. I recently switched computers and have now lost access to exhentai. I've tried cookie editors, plugins, logging into ehentai, all that bullshit; but none of it is working.
For a short while, exhentai would prompt a login that when I pressed the button it would just send me back to the login page, but now its back to being just the panda
what in the name of fuck do I do, if there is anything I can do
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>>18021331
Yeah this is an easy fix
All you have to do is wait for your account on ehentai to be about a week old or so. For some reason the account can be recently made for it to work.
You'll have to make a new account and log in from that one after a week
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>>18021367
for some reason the account *can't* be made recently
Sorry my typos are just horrible today
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do you remember your user and password?
if yes, delete every extension you added. go to this link [ https://forums.e-hentai.org/index.php?act=Login&CODE=00 ] and log in use your credentials.
If you are able to login successfully you should be able to go to xhentai too.
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I got drunk at a party and made out with a girl for the first time, she seems to really like me too. I feel dirty now, and I'm still a virgin (M 19).
Even worse, this girl I kinda think may like me found out about it, but she either doesn't care or is pretty good about hiding it. Did I fuck up? Did I waste my first kiss?
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>>18021325
>this girl I kinda think THAT may like me found out about it
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>>18021325
>Did I waste my first kiss?
If you enjoyed it then no
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>>18021325
>Even worse, this girl I kinda think may like me found out about it,
Lol, no. You're probably fine, Underage b&. She probably doesn't know or care.
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How do I meet Korean girls? I'll be 6month at KNU in korea and I'd like to know if there is a popular dating app there or something else I should do to meet them. Also, general advice about staying in korea ?
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>>18021292
isnt there in korea these places were you sit in a table have a drink and have a "traffic light" that indicates whether you want to meet new people or youre fine?
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>>18021295
That sound interesting, hope they speak english though
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>>18021292
Go take dance classes. Lots of girls there, less guys. Also it seems pretty popular in Korea but the internet can give you a somewhat warped view of reality so I might be wrong on that.
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I've recently turned down sex with some "normal girls". I've gone to escorts lately and found that I enjoy it more than dealing with normal girls for various reasons, and one of them is because I know that normal girls are way more likely to have unprotected sex than higher end call girls. I understand that it's possible to get various STDs even when using condoms, but since escorts force their clients to use them whereas normal girls are generally very unlikely to use them at all I imagine being with an escort is actually somewhat safer. Also escorts don't expect you to go down on them, and I don't want to get gonorrhea in my throat or find out a girl is on her period and now I've got HIV. I've seen girls get fucked IRL by multiple dudes without condoms various times, they don't even ask if they have condoms on them. On the other hand, every time I've been with an escort they had condoms with them and made sure that I was wearing one.
Is this a somewhat realistic way of looking at safe sex?
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Use condoms when fucking normal girls and don't do oral unless she's your gf
You'll be fine
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>>18021262
Man... i wish prostitution was legal.
Like honestly who does it benifet that hookers are illegal?
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I don't have statistics to back up my claims, but I don't think your reason is correct. A prostitute will have sex way more often than most girls and with WAAAY more partners, so their likelihood of catching an STD should be much higher, even if they wear condoms.
And I imagine most people who have casual sex would also wear condoms.
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Need /adv/. Got a girl pregnant in a hook up from pof. She scoffed at me for using condoms and said they were not necessary. Just messaged me a few days ago to tell me she's pregnant. I don't want to be saddled with child support because i was duped into thinking she was on the pill. Does she have a recourse if the only thing she knows about me is a phone number and maybe a first name?
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>>18021244
If that is truly all she knows you may want to ditch your number.
Next time don't trust humans so willingly
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>>18021244
She is likely bluffing, because it takes at least two weeks to get a positive pregnancy test, but just in case change your phone number, and deactivate all social media for a few months.
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>>18021244
Your good, change your number(or block hers) and block her on POF.
Always use a nickname when fun juggling and never pastry the busicut unless your sure you got a bass on the line...