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Being a virgin and not masturbating doesn't mean it's painful to have sex. Tell her to go and see her doctor, she probably has vaginisumus
>inb4 she's too shy to talk to her doctor about it

She's fucking tons of other men bwhind your back and by thw time she lets you do it, her pussy too sore.

>>18020943
This. Unless you've just been trying to jam it into her with no lube or warmup.

>>18020917
Do it.
/guy who actually did it

>>18020917
even though you met her on an anime imageboard, remember that she is a filthy inferior 3d woman
she doesn't deserve you
only the beauty and purity of 2d waifus is worthy

>>18020921

tell story

>>18020875
looks like a great spot to display your dragon dildo collection

>>18020875
My bedroom is kinda empty too. bumping for decorating advice.

>>18020875
Books?

>>18020862

Update all your java, adobe, windows and other programs that are callling for it

Who is your internet service provider that can be a huge part of it

>>18020862
Stop watching so much goddamn midget porn

Porn is porn. Real life is real life.

I find beastiality fucking hot as hell and love to masturbate to it.
But I'd NEVER participate in it.

Some things are just fantasies/appealing to watch, though you'd have no interest in putting yourself in those shoes.

>>18020852
Based on what you described, you're a heterosexual with gay fantasies, but only when you're aroused. You otherwise have no meaningful attraction towards men. It seems to me that you just find dicks attractive rather than men themselves.

With that being said, it ultimately doesn't fucking matter. You don't need to understand your sexuality if the stigmatization isn't something that'll negatively impact your life. Just keep doing whatever you want to do.

How much porn do you watch?

Bumping for hopeful -A ):

I'll read it, where is it?

>>18020905
It's on my email, I'll share it with you.

It's google email though.

Try >>>/out/

They usually have a career thread.

>>18020788
Former groundskeeper here.
>Being a groundskeeper
>Physically easy.
Pick one.
Warning you now.

>>18020788
Arborist here

Being a groundsman isn't easy my dude, climbing isn't easy either.

You might feel fine after a week but 6 months of 50 hour weeks and you'll feel it

>>18020770
Nobody will give a shit.

Literally no one will notice that youre alone faggot. Get drunk and talk to drunker whores and maybe itll give you temporary pleasure in the hell hole that your lonely life must be

Im in the same thoughts.
I wonder if i want to get on the subway with a bunch of drunk obnoxious people, or if i should stay home, drink my australian white wine and sob over being phatetic.

Neither of the options seem very apealing.

Oh this is gonna be gr8

Don't regret growing up, while you may feel tainted that does not mean you are lesser. Instead of wanting to feel like a child again, look for something that sparks your heart. Look for a romantic love instead of sexual kind, look for a new sport that you can emotionally invest in or take up watching soap operas. It's not about reverting back to a child, it's about find the wonderment in life /AGAIN/, everyone has this problem at some point in their life. :)

Things are seldom as bad as they seem. Try backpacking through some third world areas, do some volunteer work. You'll gain a new perspective.

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Go to church. Or something similar. No need to go full born again bible thumping christian but after I went through the edgy atheism phase in my teens I kinda went back to religion for spiritual relief i guess and it helped me a lot with similar problems.

Doesn't have to be church though, try buddhism for example, that's what I dabble in, although I also go to church from time to time and read the bible, i can't explain it, it just works for me. I recommend you read about zen buddhism, it's a sort of "back to the roots" kind of buddhism where they decided to ditch all the superficial rituals that were created over the years and focus on the basic teachings of buddha which are pretty simple. Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind is a great and really short book on it so try it out, you can find the pdf if you google it.

Also pic related is the basic buddhist meditation, it works although you have to do it regularly and the improvements set in progressively over a longer time so don't give up after one week. It also doesn't require any actual belief in buddhism or reciting any prayers, it's pretty much like an excercise for the mind, helps you clear your mind and control and focus your thoughts.

What are your reasons for being unsuccessful?

>>18020674
6 years experience with Linux Systems Administration but stuck for 3 years in Windows role because people with Linux Systems Adminstration jobs refuse to hire.

Being underpaid at my monotonous workplace

Having to stay with my parents because they're unemployed due to their age and people refuse to hire them because of their age. As a result I have no savings because half of my monthly paycheck goes towards rent and gas and electric.

Everyone in my family and friend network refuse to help or ignores me when I try to get ahead.

>>18020708
>Having to stay with my parents because they're unemployed due to their age and people refuse to hire them because of their age. As a result I have no savings because half of my monthly paycheck goes towards rent and gas and electric.

Oh yeah, so far I have to stay for them for at least two years because no one want to hire my parents, not even Walmart because they're over 50. But so many people either see it as normal and spout platitudes or see it as not normal and tell me to just abandon them. And how am I supposed to abandon them if section 8 is practically non-existent everywhere.

Don't something like 75% of new eateries fail within the first year?

Your pic is super related lol, but seriously, owning a business is a huge hastle. If it is your passion then go for it, but it will be a full time job (maybe upwards of 12/13 hours a day depending) so be aware that it won't be like living beside a lake and fishing for a living.

Not only do you need culinary know-how, you also need to know about business management. Most places fail because they can't get their management right.

there is no objective meaning. what you're experiencing is just a mental/emotional state. when it changes, you'll be less bothered and maybe more interested in "monkey things."

also stop being reductionist it's dumb and annoying

>>18020642
It doesn't feel like a temporary state. It's always humming in the background as I go about my day and try and stave off the "what now" feeling. It's more quiet sometimes, but it always returns

>>18020621
4. vidya
5. drugs
6. seek a genuine sense of fulfillment by setting meaningful goals for yourself and striving to achieve them

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Bump

Read The power of habit by Charles Duhigg to start with

>>18020843
Will do, ty for the recommendation.

>>18020607
Stuff is NOT great. When there's no sex, this is not a positive relationship. PLUS the sex isn't even good or varied either?

You can try talking to her, but here's what will happen. She will cry, and things will get marginally better for a short time. But you've just put off the inevitable.

She's either not into sex or not into you or both. Get out now. If you want to be nice, tell her why BUT DO NOT TAKE HER BACK WHEN SHE PROMISES TO CHANGE. Otherwise, don't tell her why.

I'm a femanon. Believe me on this.

Have a serious conversation, not after an attempt of getting her to have sex
Ask her how she feels and thinks about it

>>18020650
Thanks for the insight.
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