First time here but need advice quick. How do I deal with the

>>18043807
It depends on what you did and how bad it was.

>>18043811
Got pressured into cheating... I can't tell my girlfriend because it'll wreck her self esteem. I really love her and it's eating me alive.

>>18043818
What do you mean you got pressured into cheating?

>>18043818
tbqh I really don't really see any options other than
1. Tell her
2. Leave her without telling her why
3. Stay with her and deal with the utter guilt that you're a piece of shit.

>>18043827
It wasn't physical and my girlfriend is long distance. But she just like convinced me it'd be fine and to exchange pics

>>18043830
This anon's right. If you really loved your gf as much as you say, you probably wouldn't have cheated on her.

>>18043839
I just wanna make things right I already deleted some social media I'm really trying to change

How do you anons deal with guilt knowing you'll change? Or not make the same mistake again? I don't wanna lose her... I don't see a point to living without her honestly...

just tell her you fucking moron

you know thats the only answer, dont beat around the bush looking for other solutions when you already know what you have to do

either let it eat you from the inside, learn to be ok with cheating, leave her, or tell her

those are literally your only options

>>18043922
How do you feel about me doing some charity work and volunteer stuff to make up for what I did? Fuck I might even like it

>>18043832
wait everything you did was exchange pics with some other person?

>>18043925
>gf finds out you cheated on her
>explain how you helped old people or planted a tree so its ok
>she still leaves
>???

just apologize and dont do it again m8 (if shes ok with it)

>>18043939
Yea... We're both long distance never met

>>18043987
you must be 18 or older to post here

>>18043998
I am 18 pal. Ever met a beta before

Go meet her and apologize in person, tell her what it means to you that you are forgiven. The rest is really not up to you.

>>18044003
Dude, you're fucking retarded. Why is advice filled with facebook tier idiots like this?