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>>18086392
Your friend is an idiot and an asshole, but so are you. Just couldn't wait to tell someone else while wagging that moralizing finger, right?

If your account is faithful to what happened, then she is blaming you for her actions. Even if you did make the first move, blocking you and refusing to discuss what happened--so that you can give your side of the story and apologize for your actions--is extremely childish. You are better off letting her believe what she wants and contact you when and if she wants. If she does contact you in the future as if this didn't happen, then I'd urge you to make a conversation where you both sit down and discuss how you feel about this mandatory before resuming the friendship.

>>18086398
I told him because I was worried and don't want her to drink anymore. She constantly does it.

She's a drama queen. Her friends validate her behavior in this way.

>>18086317
BREAK UP WITH HER NOW
DO IT NOW

>>18086321
she texted me: we need to talk. I think ill confront her by saying shes a drama queen and that if she doesnt like it, she just have to tell me.

Is it really okay for me as 20 year old be with a 15 year old?

So you calling yourself a pedo for a fucking year? If your that turned off just fucking drop her already.

>>18086194

You are not a pedo, but you should really be thinking about dating older girls. You can get in trouble and you should be more mature. A 15 or 16 year-old should bore you.

>>18086165
>My gf can be a silly goose. She doesn't trust her emotions
>Last night she texts me essentially saying its over because of her emotions and "You might not change."
>I am pretty buzzed and not thinking right. Usually I would realize she is just bring a silly goose and patpat her head.
>Being buzzed and on my pc I go o to facebook and end the relationship status without realizing what that symbolizes for her. Or how it might affect her.
>I dont use social media. It makes no sense to me. Literally social media retarded and drunk.
> She is hardcore on social media. Extremely popular and connected.
>She gets a shit storm because it broadcasts our relationship as over.
>She has to deactivate her FB because it is too much.
>I am buzzed and depressed. i pass out without even thinking how this might annoy her.
>Be me. Wake up today. Shes pissed. Thinks i did it on purpose.
I am firmly in the dog house.. so dang sad.

So there we go. I know I am really, REALLY stupid. In hindsight I understand what my mistake was. My post here is seeking any advice that might help me shorten my time in the dog house.. Being a guy is super difficult. So many hidden rules ;__;

You sound retarded.

You deserve it.

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2/2
Also she's 18
I turned 24 today...

Seems like she's setting you up for good old milking of the wallet. Not your dick though.

happy birthday you pathetic cancerous tripfag

also take note that when she needs money, she starts tinder whoring instead of actually looking for a job

Continuing from last thread:
How am I supposed to ask a guy why he is keeping me from getting close? What signs? things can I do to figure him out?
I know he's single and straight, but I can't figure out if he's keeping his distance because he is shy/has baggage/doesn't like me that way.

Is no-condom sex expected in long term relationships?

Girls & guys can answer

>>18085757
Of course it depends on the individual, but I'd say usually yes. Especially if by "longterm" you mean marriage and/or kids then of course.

Condoms are relatively bad BC, and their main function is STD prevention, so I'd assume that most couples trust each other enough to go without them. No condoms consequently kind of become a sign of intimacy and trust.

>>18085259
by being a stupid, valid over anaylzing fucking retard cunt. It's goddamn text it's not that deep. Maybe that's just how they type? You're typing out mountains of stupid shit the hell is the problem

vapid*

>>18085259
"I want to be validated, but anyone who validates me is a loser."

You might consider that you're not offering anything of value or interest back to others aside from attention (in the case of the guys who are oversharing because they think you're actually interested) or your pussy (in the case of your boyfriend).

>You see someone slip someone into a woman's drink
Lol

Anyway, I would pull the woman aside and let her know what you saw. If she's smart, she wouldn't be drinking that drink again anyway, but even if she's not, she doesn't deserve to be taken advantage of like that.

>>18084971

Alert the bartender immediately.

Drink it yourself so you can get fucked up! Just be careful not to get man raped.

>>18084666

>should i just kill myself

nah

>ive been majorly depresed over trivial shit

maybe dont do that from now on.

>shes the only thing ive ever genuinely cared about in life

no shes not. you'rej ust saying that to be dramatic. the fact that you emphasize her is probably why you consider the rest of your life trivial.

life isnt about girls or romance. this isn't an emo punk some from the mid 2000s.

>im going to live one more month to see if it gets better

how about you just make the affirmation to actually go make life worth living instead of expecting the universe to make you happy on its own.

>are there any flaws with this plan?

yes, its borderline retarded

>no shes not. you'rej ust saying that to be dramatic. the fact that you emphasize her is probably why you consider the rest of your life trivial.

No I'm genuinely not. I was basically /r9k most of my life. Life had never been better than when I was with her.

>yes, its borderline retarded
I presume the actual suicide part would succeed though? Hotel staff don't just barge into rooms like

>>18084686

>my life had never been better htan when i was with her

that doesn't make you any less delusional. you fell for the disney meme, boo hoo, stop insisitng that fairytales = happiness and you'll be fine.

>>18083856
by whoring yourself out between the ages 14 to 29, that's what most women do anyway.

>>18083856
Be valuable beside your looks.

>>18083870
The only thing of value a woman has is her looks though.

Probably.

>>18083855
Not necessarily, you could be just difficult to approach, not giving many signs, act cold and/or distant - the fact that you get dates online means that you are at least somewhat desirable.

Guys would bang you either way, they are easy

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>>18083606

>being able to code websites is like getting cheated on by your wife
>working in an office is like having gay sex.

>I could get a job if I wanted. I am capable. I am educated. I could get a job earning quite good money if I wanted to.

You sound like a Californian who is in deep denial about the state of their economy. Stay in California and overthrow your communist government instead of expecting the other 49 states to take you in as refugees while you demand the horrid system you fled from.

>>18083616
lmao, Phoenician here

Californians get out and take the Chicago trash with you

>>18083495

i did the same last year, it was actually quite interesting.

first off i got two really cute ones, loved it, so innocent and sweet.

second off, you learn a lot about mormonism. its like a modern reboot of the bible that fills in gods origin story.

basically god wanted children but theres a council that governs god and it says hes not allowed to have perfect children, so he has to create innocent children and force them to live as humans in order to become perfect before entering heaven.

when he sent adam and eve to the garden of eden he gave them two rules
1) procreate
2) dont eat dat fruit

but the only way to learn how to procreate was to eat that fruit. he purposely set it up so that they'd fail because it was the only way to introduce sin into his children and allow the human race to exist, so we can learn and develop and become more like god before entering heaven to hang out.

there's some other plot holes they fill in, but it also raises more questions as you can imagine.

the biggest issue is they ask for certain moral commitments like 'CAN YOU PROMISE US THAT IF YOU FEEL THE TUG OF THE LORD YOU'LL GIVE IN' which is a set up to later insist that you're feeling the tug of the lord and need to give in.

they have separate services for men and women though so its interesting to meet some more wholesome men and talk about mens issues and actually bond in a nice setting as opposed to what non religious circles do which is mostly pit men against each other i feel.

they are pretty open minded depending on the community. i live in los angeles so they were like 'we have members who go out and smoke pot every week, come in and ask for forgiveness, then go do it again, everyone sins its nbd just don't denounce god and dont kill'.

though in their rules they say you're not even allowed to drink coffee.

>>18083495
Kek this happended to me at school, although i pretended to be christian and just wasted their time asking them a bunch of meme questions

>>18083504
i've read up a lot about mormonism after i initially met them

i think the biggest beef I have of their church was that:
1. they disapprove homosexuality / pre-marital sex
2. they disapprove drugs
3. they disapprove foul language

i'm less well-versed on the theological side of things though. I'll probably avoid talking about origins of god / sin and adam and eve. It just becomes a matter of literature / archaeological accuracy at that point in my opinion

>>18083489
>I'm 19
Yes.

>>18083490
but why
isnt that the purest form of affection

>>18083496
What do you constitute as crush? A hot girl that you'd fuck or someone you have feelings for?

>>18083250

Naw mate. Let it go. No good can come of restoring contact.

She tried and failed to get a better man under her spell.

Now she's decided she wants you back.

Run like the wind.

>>18083266
Yeah but I also hooked up with some girls and realised that there was something lacking in those relations.