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Started a new job and will be starting a new semester in two months.
Is it more appropriate to ask new people I will be meeting on a regular basis for their number or their facebook?
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Herpderpderp I'm soooooooo stupid
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Asking fellow hikkis, how do you deal with the loneliness?
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Do you have anyone to call, or text? Video Games sometimes helps.
Working.
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>>18123471
No one likes black weebs dude, of course I don't have friends, but I guess I can keep playing binding of isaac til I die, I have 1500 hours so far
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>>18123492
Wait. You're on a website full of retarded weeb faggots, and you could make a single friend?
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Should I ever get married/be in a relationship or be alone? 2017-03-13 05:01:59 Post No.18123418
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Should I ever get married/be in a relationship or be alone?
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It might sound like an easy question, but it isn't. I've been split for the longest time on whether I should ever have a relationship or not, or even if I should have children.
The reason is because my father was a mentally ill person, though functional enough, me being alive and functional is a miracle on its own. The fact the guy ever managed to make children is yet another miracle.
It doesn't come without its problems. There's something very bad in my genes which I only manage to control because my mother is a very good person. I believe I'm a good person because I have a lot of her in me.
Once again, myself being alive came with the price of how functional I am. I'm in college right now, which is a good proof of functionality, but I have very bad spatial awareness, I can't drive well, anything mechanical or where I'd have to manually work with something I usually mess up at first, and I have a lot of issues when it comes to relationships and people.
There's a lot in me that I don't want to pass to somebody else. A part of me don't want to have children for he sake of the child having my blood. My father was in a coma for the longest period due to his illness, and even though that hasn't happened to me, or anything really bad has, it's still in my genes and could be worse to my child. My child could grow to have schizophrenia, or other horrible mental illness which I didn't have (nor my dad), but that's where lightning stroke them same spot twice and I'm not counting on a third time.
Another part of me don't want to be alone and there's the issue that my mother wants grandchildren from me, which isn't easy either.
I think not having a child given all the issues she would have plus my incompetence on being able to make her happy would be the most selfless thing to do.
On the other hand, ignoring all that and bringing a child to the world without the problems in my blood would be bowing down to my ego instead of letting go.
What should I do? What would you do?
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>>18123418
Hello Anon. Sounds like you've got heavy stuff on your mind. It's not stupid to ask yourself these questions. Getting into a relationship and bringing another human life into the world is serious shit not to be taken lightly. Its good you recognize this already. Personally, I've always wanted to adopt children someday. I too have wondered about passing down my crappy genes to a biological child and not wanting that. Plus, I just think it's redundant to make another child when there are so many in the world already who need a home. Also, I've chosen adoption since most of the women in my family have almost died from giving birth.
The choice is up to you. Are you willing to work on yourself and take risks being in a relationship and raising a child, be it your biological or adopted child?
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How old are you anon?
Maybe you should avoid the ultimatums and leave things open for development.
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>>18123418
I wouldn't waste time thinking about it. Each relationship you have will change how you view things. You might decide you don't want marriage or kids then find someone you love more than anything will want them. Or in my situation you think you want them, and then are with someone who makes you question why and what's the point lol so yeah. Don't get too hung up on it
Should I even try dating a religious girl, being an atheist myself?
I can't take my neighbor out of my head, but I know her family is religious so there's a high chance she believes as well.
Your beliefs shape the way you see the world... the differences would show sooner or later.
You might think I'm a judgemental prick, but that's not what I mean.
What do you think? Have you been in this situation? Should I give it a chance?
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>>18123412
No i think you actually nailed it and you arent being a dick.
Its not even a matter of superiority or inferiority here, your world views are on totally different spectrums and your realities are in seperate dimensions.
Therell be problems.
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>>18123412
I'm fourteen months in without any issues. As long as you can find where the boundaries are and do not fucking touch the boundaries, you're good. She wants to pray before meals? Put your damn phone away and take your hat off. Just be respectful. It really isn't as big of an obstacle as most think it is.
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>>18123412
Who cares
If she's not muslim she'll just act and actually be a normal person
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Today I ended up coming home a bit early from work because of a migraine and i ended up catching my boyfriend taking nudes which is really fucking odd because we haven't sent nudes to eachother since the first year we were together. I asked him about it and he claimed it was just gonna be a surprise for me and actually legitimately seemed genuine so i really didn't think anything of it after that, but then a few hours ago i was trying to look up stuff for headaches and saw r/ladybonersgw in his history when typing in the url bar thingy. Obviously I was like wtf, so I go to it and see its for guys to post nudes and I'm fucking scared af at that point and seeing that he's still logged in (lol) i check his posts and yup. its EXACTLY what I thought. He had posts from fucking MONTHS ago. There was like a million different ones and i was fucking pissed so i immediately confront him and he gives me the it means nothing excuse blablabla and said shit like it's not like he actually slept with anyone. I felt so fucking hurt and got the fuck out of there and right now im at my friends house because i told him i need time to think.
>tldr boyfriend camwhored on fucking reddit of all places and said im overreacting
I dont even know how to feel right now. Is he right? Am I just overreacting? I love him and weve been together for such a long time. What should i do?
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>>18123404
How mad would he be if he found out you were camwhoring? Also all it takes for one of these types of people to cheat is an attractive person in the same area hitting them up. "Hey I liked your pics! Wanna go grab a coffee somewhere?"
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>>18123404
Fucking leave girl. You're better than that. If he loved you he wouldn't have done it. He's gonna say anything he can to keep you but you saw the truth. It's the hardest thing you'll ever do but when you find a normal guy who does love you it will all be worth it! Wow what a pig
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You're not overreacting, especially because he lied to you, and disrespected you. No relationship can be happy without respect and trust.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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if a girl constantly dyes her hair, what does that mean to you?
is it a red flag or is it normal?
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>>18123387
1) It's just her style, she's a quirky manic pixie dream girl type and she's looking for someone who can handle her erratic moods
2) She's insecure and tries to make up for her face or body or personality with ~*special*~ hair
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>>18123387
Make your own thread, this a poor and thinly veiled non gender specific question.
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I'll try to make this short. I'm Canadian, 27 and lonely as shit. Three years ago, my 7-year relationship ended when my fiance cheated on me with a good friend of mine. Just like that, I lost 66% of the people I hang out with.
I've been struggling ever since, being distrustful of everyone, and feeling very alone. If those two were willing to treat me like that, then everyone could be. I tried to date but couldn't find anyone and the last 3 years have been absolutely miserable. Things got dark for a while, and probably would have stayed that way if it wasn't for recent events.
I met a girl on the internet, playing videogames. For the last 3 months, we've been spending a lot of time together, exclusively online. We have similar interests, she clearly is quite infatuated with me and me with her, and for a first time in the last few years I actually have someone in my life who makes me actually happy and is willing to spend a lot of time with me talking and playing games and watching stuff and we have lots of fun together. I've done my due diligence and I'm not getting catfished, I'm not sending any money anyway but I'm actually thinking about flying there when I can take two weeks to meet her.
Thing is, there's like a billion reasons why this wouldn't work, and arguably shouldn't work. To name a few problems: First, I'm not interested in flings and she's from Europe. Plus, long distance relationships rarely work, and it's quite a commitment. The odds of this succeeding are low, but they're even worse under the circumstances because... she's 16 (which is legal in both of our countries, but not sure if ethical).
I find myself in this strange situation where this feels like a long shot, it feels a bit wrong because of how young she is (and my regular dating range would usually be like 23-28), it seems like even if I entertain the possibility, it'll just fail eventually, but I want to give this a chance because it feels like it's all I have.
So wtf.
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>>18123352
Well anon I wrote a big response on why you shouldn't do it but then I saw the age difference. Honestly a few years wouldn't have been a big deal but
1. You're going to be called a pedo and get shamed by everyone you know
2. If she's ok with dating someone 9 years older than her is a 16 year old she has some huge fucking issues that will become apparent quickly if they are not already.
3. You're letting your loneliness and desperation idolize this chick because she's the first in awhile to give you this kind of attention.
Don't fucking do it anon. Don't be a retard.
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>>18123352
do. not. do. it.
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>>18123352
Don't do it, anon. Is this the guy you want to be? Really?
If you care that much about her, give her ~5 years. If you're both still single and friends, then consider it. But right now you're building a relationship on a shaky foundation and you're likely to do some serious damage to her.
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Found out my girlfriend cheated on me by making out with a guy at a rave while high on molly. I don't have any desire to break up with her and strangely am not that upset. Why?
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>>18123342
Because you were being cucked long before today.
>Dating a rave chick
>Dating a stoner/drug abuser
Does she also pop benzos and shoot heroin? You have fucking garbage tier choice in women if you ever date a raver and WILL be cheated on.
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>>18123342
>Found out my girlfriend cheated on me by making out with a guy at a rave while high on molly.
Sucks man.
>I don't have any desire to break up with her
Ok.
>strangely am not that upset
That is strange.
>Why?
I'm more curious as to why you thought asking a bunch of teenage virgin weebs for life advice was a good idea.
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>>18123342
If she was honest with you and treated it as a mistake, or deliberate poor decision, you can choose to move on. People fall short all the time, a guy might watch porn while in a relationship or girls uploading nudes, a girl might run into dick pics online or get hit on by persistent guys irl. All you can hope for sometimes is that the experience changes the person for the better once they realize the damage it's doing to them, and those they care about, and distsnce themselves from trouble.
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I need to iron clothes and i dont have one how do i do? Do i actually have to buy one?
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>>18123341
Wash it and put it in the dryer, but take it out as soon as it's done drying. It will be wrinkle-free.
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>>18123653
Or take wrinkled clothes and through them in the dryer for a few minutes.
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>>18123341
Do it medieval style. Heat up a flat piece of metal with a handle. Have a spray bottle handy near by, and use it like you would just a regular clothes iron.
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Is it possible to slip sleeping pills in my parents drinks or will they taste it? They literally don't sleep I mean literally up 24/7 I've never seen them sleep. I've seen them take small naps but I've literally never seen them sleep a whole night. They take like 2 small naps and that's it during the day and they are in my shit all day every day. 6 am 3 am morning day night they are. I just need a break from them.
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what kind of drinks?
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>>18123317
Alcohol they drink 24/7
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>>18123314
>being so autistic and paranoid you think your parents don't sleep so they can monitor you
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Flight experience for younger brother
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I am not sure if it's worth it but I am interested in giving my younger brother (15) an experience of a life time. I wanted to save money to allow him to be the passenger of a L39 fighter jet for an hour where they will do all sorts of acrobatics and will even get to pilot it for a short period of time. I wouldn't say he is the most passionate about aircrafts in general but he has a great interest and enjoys watching WW2 aircrafts flybys with me. The price is pretty steep (almost 6k$ CAD) but I need some opinions. It would be in 1 year so he would be close to 17 and eligible to fly.
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>>18123312
>will even get to pilot it for a short period of time
Unlikely.
Aside from that it may be a very interesting and unique experience for him but there are other things you could look into.
Over here that amount of money would be enough for him to get his license to fly sailplanes and even go on some flights (alone). If he aspires to become a pilot later in life that experience would help him a lot - and even when he won't its still a nice hobby.
Pilot Anon here so fire away if you have other questions desu
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>>18124184
That's what was written in the description anyway. I would assume that the pilot would give partial control of the aircraft or do very basic manoeuvers. I don't think a pilot lisence would interest him. I mean flying is fun but you can't have a fighter jet experience in civilian aircrafts.
Also, I have been wondering how hard is it to fly? Like all the theory and stuff to learn? I am interested in becoming a fighter jrt pilot so I'm just poking around the idea
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>>18123312
McDonalds has an airforce?
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My gf and I were laying in bed and I asked her if she was thinking about anything, she said yes but she didn't want to share because she felt like it was unimportant. I said okay but also let her know that it makes me unhappy to know that she's keeping things from me no matter how small but I won't force her to share. I left the bedroom and am now laying on the couch unhappy, I fee like if it isn't that important and she knows it makes me unhappy that she's hiding it then it should be easy to just say what it is. Am I wrong? Am I being overly sensitive
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>>18123311
Yes. This is petty; chances are you're in a down mood for whatever reason and got set off.
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Yes and yes
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>>18123311
Very over sensitive.
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Online college student at a decent school but I never read my textbooks. I'm in my third year and pass all my classes with good grades (3.4 GPA), but I'm worried. I feel like I'm learning and I'm obviously doing well enough, but I feel like I'm weaseling my way through or something.
Majoring in business administration if relevant.
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>>18123274
>majoring in business administration
"Business" majors are "Gender Studies" majors for men. You're fucked.
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>>18123281
Thanks for shitbump. Pretty sure I could've posted any major in the world and some retard would still say
>lol that's a meme study!
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>>18123291
But it is. You cannot COMPETE with PAJEET.
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What jobs are looking for people to hire that are willing to pay $15-20/hr full time? In america, specifically philadelphia
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Factory jobs usually start out around that range. Maybe check that out? You don't usually need background in the industry either
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>>18123243
>can't use a basic job site
>thinks he deserves 15 dollars an hour
What's that? in the distance? Hark! It's the sound of dishes! Dishes that need to be washed! Go, son! Your local Wendy's needs you!
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>>18123248
or door to door mail man.
op not many jobs hire at that rate unless they are careers.
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>I'm a sad NEET virgin
>I like this girl, how do I get her
>She friendzoned me
>She dumped me
>Should I dump her?
>I want to kill myself
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>>She friendzoned me
>>She dumped me
>>Should I dump her?
wat
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>>18123233
These are the kinds of problems people have.
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>people looking for advice on common life problems on an advice forum
Wow