Found out my girlfriend cheated on me by making out with a guy at a rave while high on molly. I don't have any desire to break up with her and strangely am not that upset. Why?
>>18123342
Because you were being cucked long before today.
>Dating a rave chick
>Dating a stoner/drug abuser
Does she also pop benzos and shoot heroin? You have fucking garbage tier choice in women if you ever date a raver and WILL be cheated on.
>>18123342
>Found out my girlfriend cheated on me by making out with a guy at a rave while high on molly.
Sucks man.
>I don't have any desire to break up with her
Ok.
>strangely am not that upset
That is strange.
>Why?
I'm more curious as to why you thought asking a bunch of teenage virgin weebs for life advice was a good idea.
>>18123342
If she was honest with you and treated it as a mistake, or deliberate poor decision, you can choose to move on. People fall short all the time, a guy might watch porn while in a relationship or girls uploading nudes, a girl might run into dick pics online or get hit on by persistent guys irl. All you can hope for sometimes is that the experience changes the person for the better once they realize the damage it's doing to them, and those they care about, and distsnce themselves from trouble.
>>18123347
Pretty much this. You shat the bed by even entertaining a girl like that as relationship material and now you're sleeping in it.
>>18123357
>watching porn is the same as going to a rave high and making out with a stranger
>>18123365
But watching porn knowing it bothers your partner is. For exp, plenty of girls have come on /adv/ complaining their bf's have a porn addiction and their sex life is dying because of it.
What I'm saying though, is that even though you give yourself the illusion that you're a goodie goodie, you ain't, no one is perfect, people fuck up.
All you can hope for is that they change for the better and don't fuck up so badly that it destroys the relationship.
>>18123365
So because theres a screen in front of the girl its not cheating?
>>18123342
>and strangely am not that upset. Why?
You might be a cuckold fetishist. I'd suggest your gf tries a steady diet of blacks cocks to see how you react.
>>18123375
Well gee anon, it sure is nice that porn can ask for my number and then hit me up later on or I might be out getting food and run into the same porn I was watching earlier, or maybe I'll be at a popular bar drinking and the same porn will see me and come strike up a conversation.
I see now, you're right, they both clearly have the same potential repercussions
When I found out I was mad, but also I hadn't seen her in a while so I was also just fucking horny and we had sex. Is that weird?
>>18123383
Not really..
I hope though, for your sake, it was a first and last time deal.
>>18123381
No, it can't.
But porn can corrupt.
>>18123342
So strange to hear this on 4chan because a girl in one of my classes described herself as being in this exact same situation... Same person?
>his gf goes on raves
She did things much worse than that.
>>18123393
The girl cheated on her boyfriend at a rave while high?
>>18123396
Yes
OP, maybe you subconciously thought already that the relationship is a dead end, and if this have gone on for a couple more months you would have broken up anyways?
I think if it doesn't affect you at all you don't actually love her in a 100% way. Maybe you like her as a friend but it's not the real deal. Nothing bad about this, OP. You should just look deeply inside you and check what you truly feel.
Thats like sticking your arm into Pirahna infested waters and not expecting to be bit.
>>18123342
Because you're a cuck