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So this girl at work started showing signs that she likes me. I'm 20 and have no experience with dating and all that junk. Whenever I talk to her i'm really awkward and say/do dumb shit and sped the rest of the day hating myself for being so socially retarded. We just started texting and unfortunately i'm really bad at texting new people. After texting a bit she said she was bored and I asked her if she wanted to do something and she said sure. I asked if she wanted to get some coffee or frozen yogurt or some gay shit like that. We went back and forth with a few ideas for what felt like an eternity and eventually she fell asleep (which sounds bad but I was talking to her earlier that day and she only had 3 hours of sleep the night before so i'm not super bummed about it). We texted a bit more today but I keep saying what I think are really cringy things and overall feel like i'm blowing it. Should I just walk into oncoming traffic now?
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>>18124622
She still talking to you? Then you still have a shot. If she stops, well, good riddance. Better luck next time.
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>>18124712
She is but probably not for long since I'm an awkward socially inept dork
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I have a question guys 2017-03-13 04:17:28 Post No.18124566
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I just found out that a girl i used to date had an abortion a couple months after we broke up. She claims it wasnt mine do you think there is a chance it was? Also i am madly i love with this girl but at the same time i wouldnt ever get back with her whats the best way to fall out of love?
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Even if you caused the abortion, what would that change?
I know getting over relationships is hard but the best way to move on is to distract yourself with something. Maybe focus on work or go out socializing. Pick up a new hobby and look at meetups for it in your area. Or do volunteer work, like taking the dogs of the animal shelter for a walk. There's a lot you can do and all of those experiences will make you grow as a person in some way.
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>>18124586
Well ive tried most of those things except the volunteer work. Its been three years and every realtionship i try i end up calling it pretty quickly cause i just feel like shit the whole time.
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>>18124586
I guess it wouldnt really change anything except maybe make me hate her for killing my potential child
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So if you and your gf of 4 years break up, you go no contact for 30 days, then send her a hope everything's well type message and get no response, what do you do?
She read it but didn't respond, it's been three days. Should I just take it as her saying she's not interested or should I ask her to meet up or something? Thanks
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>>18124552
She's your ex, why would you text her and why would she respond? Give her space and time to get over your relationship. It's over. Time to move on.
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>>18124552
Could have a thousand reasons why she chose not to respond and speculating why she made this decision is pointless. Fact is, she did. Respect that decision and don't be a needy faggot by texting her again. I don't even know how anone could think it's a good idea to react to a non-answer by asking that person to meet, especially if that person is your ex.
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>>18124578
Sigh it fucks with your head when you date someone for 4 years then they go cold. When emotions run high logic runs low.
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Is it bad that I don't have something to rave about? Earlier today my girlfriend was pouring over makeup, and commented that she can't remember anything that I have the same sort of passion for anything like she does. I know what she meant, and I know it could just be my innate fear of being boring, but I'm paranoid now.
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Just try new things my dude
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>passionate about makeup
>not boring
lmao im a girl and not even i like hearing about makeup. dont worry ur gf is just as boring as you but if you're that scared just get a hobby thats actually semi productive
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Hey /adv/ I wasn't sure where to go but long story short I'm in horribly desperate need of money. I have a job lined up but it doesn't start until May and my roommate has been covering me but he has a bunch of sudden expenses and I need to pay him back and start generating income very very soon.
I have been everywhere in my city looking for work and I have plenty of experience but it isn't happening. What do I do? I only need like $1,000 and selling everything I own wouldn't even come close.
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Sell your body.
Otherwise, apply at fast food chains and shit jobs etc?
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>>18124526
Work that minimum wage, you'll just need multiple jobs. You could always rip off homeless drug addicts. It seems to work too.
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>>18124526
Check Craigslist for labor gigs, might be able to help someone move on the weekend etc. Donate plasma, should be a facility if you live in a decent sized city. Are you a student? Those ideas are ifor you are, if not go to a temp agency and say that you are willing to work any job any time.
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Life advice from 4chan? Bold Strategy
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Alright guys, I need a couple of opinions.
I'm currently a 21 (almost 22) year old guy in the USA. I racked up about $15k in student debt, but decided college wasn't right for me. I've just been drifting for a couple years now.
I got accepted for a Working Holiday Visa to New Zealand. However, as much as I'd like to go, I also would like to work towards something that will be worthwhile to my future. I feel like I am doing nothing in life. I would be there for a year, basically sightseeing and working oddjobs.
On the other hand, I'm considering joining the US Navy to get a steady check, and eventually get free education when I leave the service.
The dilemma: Should I spend another year of my life basically "doing nothing" in New Zealand (even though I'd enjoy it)? Or should I immediately start working towards my future and give up the opportunity to live in NZ for a year? I'm torn because the NZ WHV is once in a lifetime, and I could join the Navy whenever, really. But I feel like I've wasted enough time, etc.
What would you do in my shoes?
Thanks fellas.
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>>18124500
Go for the NZ option. Time enjoyed is not time wasted imo. Sure, you can get a proper job and start earning a steady income but you're only young once.
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>>18124529
That's sort of the mindset that is prevailing in me currently.
Sort of thinking that maybe it would help me decide what to do with my life, like new perspectives and all that.
Still, just feel like I'm lagging. Damn instilled peer pressure
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I'm talking to this girl who I think really likes me. She's very cute, smart, and every other guy basically goes for her so she's high value. She really does a lot to show me she likes me, and is actually fighting for MY attention. However, I smoke weed all the time and I'm busy, so I just find myself, I don't know, not replying most of the time. I do like her, but she's 18 and I'm 25 and I don't do the whole social media thing well.
I think she really wants me to make a move, but right now I don't even open her snaps unless I want to talk to her, which isn't all the time, and she seems to always want to talk. I dunno, maybe I'm just high again, but I don't understand why I'm not reciprocating more when a high value girl that everyone else including myself wants is basically showering me with attention...
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Cause you're high and lazy, you'd probably be up for anything if she came to your place.
So why not invite her?
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So what is your question?
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It sounds to me like you're not really into her, and you're forcing it because you know she's high-value. The fact that you're treating her with general guarded interest bordering on apathy is probably why she fights for your attention. If you are genuinely into her, make a move already. A couple days of stepping out of your comfort zone and hard work could equate to years, or even a lifetime of happiness.
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I search for android app to make online video broadcast. To i can start and have a link to give it on sites, like 4chan. And app must be fast. I will travel and want to make video broadcast when find/do something intersting.
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Sorry vor thread with gun nigga on pick, it was wrong translation.
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Help please. I will make videos and post it on 4chan
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Heeeeeeeeeeeey
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I've been lurking here for a long time, and I find that I feel comfortable talking here cause we're all anonymous and I know you guys can give me some frank advice.
Anyway, I've been having some trouble with my friend. We're both girls and are currently in college and we're really close, we've been friends since high school. For the past few months I noticed she's been changing, she's talking about God more and being actively religious. I'm happy for her cause she's my friend and she seems happy with what she's doing. As for me, I'm not really what you may call religious, even though my family is Catholic.
Lately and often, I'm getting irritated by her because she keeps trying to change me for the better. For example, every time I cuss, she always says to stop cussing. Recently, in a groupchat for our thesis, she told us to have more self-control and patience, I know that was directed at me because I asked her to divide the work already for our project.
It's getting really hard to spend time with her because she keeps trying to change me. It feels like I'm starting to hate her and I'm so pissed right now. Honestly, it hurts that she even wants to change me. What do you think I should do? I just want to cut her off from my life.
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"Susie, I'm really happy for you that you are finding so much comfort in your faith. But sometimes you get a little too public and - well - preachy about it, and I'm afraid that's going to make people less comfortable around you. Maybe you can enjoy your religion as a personal and private thing and not impose it on others."
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There's a few reasons I can think of why she's acting like that.
She's got the whole newbie enthusiasm going, where she can't shut up about something new and nice she experienced. This happens to most people and she'll likely mellow out after a while.
The other option is that she got into religion through retards who can't talk about anything but religion and have an urge to preach it 24/7. There's a difference between occasionally talking to your friends about religion because you think it might benefit them and constantly acting like you're on duty, having to recruit.
In this case the best you can do is tell her that she should tone it down a bit because it's annoying, no need to be soft about it.
Another possibility could be that she's become serious about religion and your values are very different, so she's trying to change you so you can keep being friends. I'm not here to make assumptions, but if your values contrast really hard with hers now there's a good chance that she'll drop the friendship.
I've slowly cut off contact with people in my life before, because I changed and our way of thinking became too different, it happens. Tell her how you feel and see how it goes, that's the best bet you got.
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I search for android app to make online translations. To i can start and have a link to give it on sites, like 4chan. And app must be fast. I will travel and want to make OT if find/do something intersting.
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>>18124439
Most online apps do not translate well. They do literal translations. In most cases if will help you get your message across but due to sentence structure and the different rules in many languages it won't translate clearly.
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>>18124445
No, i meak video online, video broadcast. Bad englis. video broadcast in my lang is online translation lol
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>>18124462 - this is right question
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Alright advice, I'm gonna need some advice.
I've been dating my girlfriend for 9 months now. I've seriously completely lost interest in her and she is just getting ugly to me both inside and out. I've recently began sparking up a conversation with a girl I know from my college and she's really cute and is being flirtatious towards me. I've flirted with her back, I will admit. This has gone back and forth now for like a month. The thing I am asking advice for is if I should break up with my girlfriend and pursue this girl, or if I should continue flirting and see what happens down the road? Either way I want to break up with my current girlfriend but I don't want to be single for too long so I really want to make sure this other girl likes me and wants a relationship. I've been trying to weigh the pros and cons and finally figured it would be best to ask you guys for some advice. Any advice is appreciated and I will try my best to reply to any questions anyone may ask. Thank you.
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>>18124427
Stop being a pussy. Leave your current girlfriend if you aren't happy and loyal.
Don't use you current gf for security like a big fucking dumb baby. Aren't you a man?
Leave her now! Also why are you afraid of being single of awhile? Wow you ARE a big giant pussy. You sound like a very shitty boyfriend too.
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>>18124433
The reason I don't want to be single is because I don't really have anymore irl friends that I can fall back on. I unfriended all of them because of my current girlfriend because she didn't like them. I did everything for her and it's just not working out anymore. Doesn't make me a shitty boyfriend
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>>18124442
What makes you shitty is that you're staying with her while being unhappy. You're leading her on and that's bad for her emotional sanity.
You need to sit her down and talk to her about this. She will be hurt and cry but you can't avoid that. If you're unhappy you need to leave and move on. Just do it. What you're doing now isn't fair to anybody and it just makes you seem selfish. Take the plunge bro, don't live an unhappy life and lie to her about your feelings.
Since 10 years ago i feel like i lost my personality, and since then i've been unable to connect with people, other than very few online friends i never met before.
Most people around me i can't get past the "hi", "what time is it?" or those useless watercooler conversations.
If i try to push further, i feel like the other side is not feeling confortable or is trying to avoid me. Usually when i met them again, they do avoid me or pretend they never even see me before.
I'm not horrifying or a creep before you ask, i'm just unable to get past this phase.
Loliness kills me, yet i can't get away from it, and all the advice i get seems to not work at all.
What can i do? How do i do it? Help.
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I have the same problem and I'm eventually going to experiment with drugs while at parties or social places which might bring out a personality that I didn't know that I have and I would try to replicate it while sober.
Maybe this could help you out as well.
Granted, my problem might have more to do with being introverted than awkward
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>>18124446
Yeah i'm an introvert too, but i can't seem to make any connections whatsoever.
Even some introverts i know have a small circle of friends and do shit from time to time, i'm 6 months without leaving home for anything other than college or groceries.
It's like i'm out of touch. When i get the chance to talk to people it just doesn't go anywhere.
And honestly, i have no idea where to go from here.
I've been advised to ask people's questions and listen, just try with small talk and go up from there, being more open and all, but right at the beginning people act completely desinterested so i'm dead on arrival basically, cause i can't go anywhere from this.
Fuck...this is annoying...
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Try having ASPD and living wth it. I was on the mental road to being an antisocial piece of shit since I was 15.
Now I have a girlfriend with no other friends because I'm manipulative and argumentative. Kinda put me into an occupational hole as well.
Just waiting to die at this point.
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My past, and what to do with it. 2017-03-13 03:15:33 Post No.18124409
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Hey /adv/. There's not really a way to preface this, and it's long, but I'll keep it as short as I can and greentext it.
> Be me
> 17 when this event occurs.
> Land office summer internship, somehow.
> goin'gud.jpeg
> Be introduced to sexual creep in office.
> I'm the age of consent at this time, but I'm straight, he's 40-something, and he's a manipulative creep.
> Keeps trying to groom me, acts like pedo piece of shit.
> Probably a pedo as well.
> While he never touched me, he keeps violating my space/emotional state with his bullshit.
> inb4shutupsjwfag.png
> Things like insisting we go on a "men's only" journey to a tropical island. Says I can't tell anyone about him, won't be near me when my boss is around.
> I swear I can see this nasty, predatory look in his eye from day one.
> I freak out, and convince myself that telling the authorities will only fuck myself more.
> After all, I had ZERO hard evidence, and you can't really afford to be wrong when you accuse someone of sexual harassment.
> He keeps pushing the envelope, and subtly intimidates me to the point where I just can't stand up to him.
> This shit goes on for 4 weeks, I can't handle the feeling of being hunted down anymore. The feeling of being totally emasculated.
> I start acting weird, my social skills and self-esteem are basically non-existent.
> Begin stealing mum and pop's liquor, drinking like a parched horse near every night.
> Somehow get away with all this shit.
> Brain breaks, decide the only way out is to kill him.
> I end up making a whole elaborate plot, mentally drilling myself on what to do 24/7.
> Research serial killers, make notes on what they did right, what they did wrong.
> Get home from work and begin making poison, for his coffee break during lunch.
> All my details would be too long to write here, but I think there's a slim chance I could've gotten away with it.
> While making poison, sanity returns.
> whatthefuckamidoing.mov
> Feels bad, man.
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Part 2 here.
> Work ends and I move away from creepy bastard.
> Still fucked up about it though, the fact that I CHOSE to be an animal like him, that it was so quick and easy to turn into whatever that was.
> Spend summer gaining weight, not interested in girls like I used to be, totally hating myself.
> Self hatred caused me to drink a shit ton during senior year, get a strong psychological dependence of it.
> Also give near zero shits at school or about future.
> Too ashamed to tell parents or any school counselor. Only a handful of school friends know my story.
> Finally tell people what happened to me, they forgive me. I stop drinking for good.
> Start gap year, and while my family forgives and loves me, I still despise myself.
> Do missions/humanitarian work, go from a boy to a man.
> Begin to forgive myself, have actual confidence, and friends I can really trust.
> I feel okay telling people what happened, and how I got out of it.
> normiegetoutreeeeee.avi
> Be now.
> Back at home, waiting for college apps to come in, jobs etc.
> My life seems to be going places, but this shit still pops up in my head from time to time. Still hurts.
> Still don't like what I did, and what everyone around me is apparently capable of becoming.
My final and true question is: Is this normal, after all I've seen and done, to still feel the hurt this caused me? Do I ever get over it? Or should I just get over myself?
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tldr nothing happened
great story anon, what the fuck are you even complaining about?
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>>18124409
It's called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
A soldier doesn't have to have been in actual combat to be shaken by the danger of it, and you don't actually have to have been abused or murderous to be legitimately shaken by being so close to the edge.
Right now you are more disturbed by feeling guilty about having been traumatized than by the memories of the traumas themselves. You feel you're weak for not having taken it all in stride.
But it WAS a big deal, and there's nothing weak about being affected by it.
You might benefit from a little short-term therapy, just to help you forgive yourself for something that needs no forgiveness.
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My girlfriend just got beaten again by her mother. It's not the first time it's happened. She texted me an hour ago saying she couldnt eat and was having hallucinations in school. I cant let this keep happening, especially because she's suicidal and being beaten emotionally fucks her up.
Please help.
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bump for desperation..
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>>18124408
How old is your girlfriend?
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>>18124431
15, i'm 16. had no idea where else to go to ask..
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What do i do if i really, really like a guy and he likes me back, but his super nice childhood friend who is also my friend secretly likes him since they were kids? She didnt tell me she likes him, but you can tell she does.
Is it mean if i date him? We've been talking for 2 months now.
I really think he likes me too, his family even invited my family over for dinner just to get to know us (asians).
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>>18124394
-He's known her forever and hasn't made a move.
-He knows you and is spending time with you.
It seems to me that he has made his choice and that you aren't betraying the other girl at all.
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>>18124514
Yeah, he doesn't like her like that. Thanks for the advice.
>>18124541
Yes. I'm not lying though (?)