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>>18124920
Did you mean "might not be" ?

Anyway, if you're almost done with your degree, do finish it. It's still a degree, good to have. Much better than no degree. And it's never too late to change careers, regardless of what your degree is.

>>18124960
Good advice.

That's neat you got the opportunity (& had the guts) to live abroad btw. I'm sure you learned lots.

If it's not something you like you can go back. Some of the credits will go towards your new degree at least. What will you degree be in out of curiosity? Do you know what you want to go for instead?

You're the liar here.
Deal with your own guilt.

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You reap what you sow, man. It's idiotically natural that you're so prone to project your untrustworthiness upon her. That's your guilt eating you from the inside, and I advise you to be honest with her about your past. She may ditch or be mad at you, or if she's a worse cunt than you, she might guilt trip you whenever possible, but that's the road of honesty for everyone who decides to walk on it.

>>18125232
>>18125214
Yeah, you're right I guess. At the time I didn't care, I don't really care about what I did to my ex, despite the fact I've probably hurt her beyond belief with what I did. I know I'm a dick, I usually take pride in it, I guess I'm dealing with the consequences of it.

>>18124906
Have you tried fucking bitches from different races?

etc

>>18124106
>>18124906
From the moment you take a word and a concept as true, you will never see what I around it. There is no happiness as the picture you make to yourself of it. Happiness is when you wonder if it exist.

Don't open your jaw so wide when you yawn next time, you're fine.

>>18124886
Yeah, I won't. Any idea what that was, though?

>>18124890
It's just a part of the Masseter muscle moving over the bone because you stretched your mouth too wide.

Hey I took 2 years off school after graduating high school maybe like myself you're not easy mentally. I don't feel the need anymore to play the catch up game. You need to make yourself happy yes school is important but not the end all be all.

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>>18124871
GO TO NURSING SCHOOL.

I graduated over the summer. Now work part time at a medical hospital (cardiac unit) and a psychatric hospital. I make 28$/HR at the hospital (they are cheap..hospitals usually pay more in my area) and 30$/HR at the psych hospital. I'm currently in my last semester to finish up my bachelors.

I do love my job. Helping other people gives you boost, and the job enables you to always learn. There are so many areas you can work too; home care, adolescents, children, geriatrics, community nursing, etc. You can even land a job working from home by being a tele nurse.

Eventually I want to go for my Nurse practitioner. You can easily make over 100,000$ a year where I live.

Also nurses have great hours. You can work days, evenings, nights, etc. many places also offer 12 hour shifts which is nice. Some of the prerecs for nursing school can be difficult, and the first year of nursing school is rough...but it's worth it! Dedicate your life to it now. You won't regret it.

The only negative I find with nursing is that often there's not enough staff. Especially at the hospital I work at....some states though have laws on nurse/patient ratio like in CA (can't be given more then 4 patients in the hospital). Feel free to ask me anything if you have any questions

>>18124871
>>18125028
Getting a nursing degree is pretty tough you have to take a fuckton of classes and most are pretty difficult. Know what you're getting into before you sign up anon

you do all the same things... just not smoke

seems boring to me also

>>18124837
why do you want to quit?

youve only been doing it for six months, thats not very long

its not like tobacco where its addictive, its not really going to fuck up your life

the only risks are your own problems. money, knowing how to be safe while high, having a weed card, actual smoking fumes (which you can just avoid by doing edibles), etc

I felt the same way. Was a hungry skele too.

There's no advice apart from "just go". That's really all there is to it. People there are so self involved in their own exercises that they won't pay you any mind.

I'm the only one that does dead lifts at my gym too. People legit just don't care at all. Everyone is there for the same reason.

Go late at night if your gym is one of those 24 hour places, or super early. Sometime when there's few people there just to ease your self into it. Then go when you feel like you should be going or when it works out with your schedule.

The first step is just going there. After like 4 minutes of doing your routine and looking around you'll notice that no one is paying attention to you.

>>18124747
Do reg parks beginner routine

>>18124747

It did feel awkward the first few times i went to a gym. You see all these people who know what they're doing, and who look like they have established themselves already and it makes you feel like an outsider.

The truth is, almost anyone who sees someone continuously in the gym will automatically have some respect for you, just for showing up. They also are too absorbed in their own workout to really give a rats ass about what you're doing.

I was worried about "gym etiquette" when i first went, but i eventually just put in some music and did my routine, and surprise, nothing embarrassing ever happened. I'm weak as fuck like you.

You can either look at the super buff people and get discouraged because you aren't there yet, or look at them and realize they were once weak like you, but manned up and got what they wanted.

Having said that, i have a home gym now. But not because i was afraid to go to the gym.

>>18124736
What the fuck does this even mean

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>>18124736
I want a guy with great looks, amazing gains, who is the CEO of a Fortune 500 company, is great at backrubs and a fantastic listener.

If you know him, please tell him to contact me immediately.

Stop browsing /fit/, the autism is killing your brain cells.

>>18124716
sorry forgot to say l left my charger and cant charge it

Reduce computer brightness as low as possible, and make the desktop wallpaper empty black.

Close as many background programs as possible. Anything that might eat up memory, turn off or get rid of (like tons of internet tabs). make sure there's nothing extraneous running in the tray. You can even go into the task manager to be as thorough as possible.

Keep the computer cool to reduce fan usage. Change the sleep settings so it turns off after just a couple minutes of inactivity.

And then work hard and fast.

>>18124745
Also see if it has a power saver mode under battery settings. Turn this on if it does.

>>18124703
edit: used to be disgusted by penises

>>18124703
> great man (like Putin or Bill Gates)
I don't think they're all that great but seriously just go out and suck a dick dude don't think about it being gay just think about it as sex

>>18124703

Sexuality is a spectrum, it's not black and white. Have fun exploring your sexuality, good luck!

>>18124700
Thats funny, my friends all talk about films, books, games, music, etc. Get better friends. I'd go to a magic tournament to meet people into talking about more than relationships.

The girls I know never shut up about their boyfriends/relationahip shit. I have no female friends, I don't mix well with them if I'm not dating.

>>18124706

Well when I hang out with these new people, it's almost always a guy's night out, the problem is these are usually opportunities they use to cheat or go to strip clubs and say "Okay guys if anyone ask we are a restaurant or hanging out at so and so's house."

My problem is, is this the norm? Is this what guys really just do? They don't want to get together and do anything except look for more "conquest"? I know I'm not into that, if I want to go hook up I go out alone and I don't have a girlfriend and would never cheat. I feel like I just have to go along with this nonsense or be left out in the dust.

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Obviously not, if nothing sexual happened and you aren't catching the feels for this guy, then I fail to see what you're doing wrong.
Tell this boyfriend of yours that he needs to get a life and if he's so mad, then he should read to sleep.

>>18124683

How did he only find this after 10 years? Don't you two live together at this point?

It's not cheating, but I understand why your partner would feel somewhat deceived. Have you asked your SO to read you to bed? Have you tried audiobooks? It's totally cool to speak extensively to online friends, but it is odd that you'd see this online person as /the/ crutch to get you to sleep every night. Seems intimate that this dude is literally better than medicine for you.

>>18124668
First of all get some gains. You may be attractive, but do slut randos really want a toby McGuire look alike or do they want a Brad pitt fightclub? Next of all stuff your crotch. I know it sounds weird, but even the smartest of dump skanks cant resist a compitent and formidable bulge. You will have their vags raining before you even talk to them. Also dont be afraid to get creative with your story. Make up shit about how you seeved as a missionary in south america and nursed severeal sick children/puppies back to life. 1 more thing always hide your power level. About 90% of women age 21-27 are libtard cucks. So make sure if politics come up not to go ssj2 over killary's scandals and trump supporting shit. Do this and you will be drowning in random sloppy used roast beef.

>>18124713
This doesn't really help me, I'm not asking for how to fuck sluts, I know how to do that. I just don't want to be by myself when I go to do it, so I need new friends.

>>18124668
Go by youself, get a little drunk first and start chatting girls up. If they ask, say you lost your friends you came with so you can avoid any awkward feelings about going alone.
Hopefully, you can make a few friends and start getting invited out to parties and get a core group that you can go out with a few times a week.

>>18124643
FAU?

or Nova?

Either way, good luck. I suggest really trying hard to get to know people your first year.

You'll be fine, Boca is a nice city, if a bit bourgeois

t. FAU alum

>>18124750
FAU
I don't know about Boca though. I feel like it's just a step down and a smaller world compared to where I live
Very bourgeois and uninteresting. Or I'm just stupid.

its all part of growing up, dont worry. wait till you get to the part where you forget what you were working towards all along, its my personal favourite.

>>18124634
Well if you want to make more money and find a better job there's a saying "The more you learn, the more you earn." If you're any good with computers I suggest getting a few certifications such as A+ and Network+. Get a help-desk position and advance through your IT career. Alternatively you can get an Associates in IT. Either way IT is one of the biggest growing industries, good pay, and one of the few industries where you can get by without a degree (thats changing though.)

Gotta start learning something marketable though. Sooner rather than later.

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Some asshat is probably going to say, "gamble thousands of dollars in college, at least it helps the economy". Assuming everyone in the world went to college and had the degrees everyone swears you're nothing without, 90% of the population would still have to humble themselves and work the menial jobs.

Truth is, if you're at this point and you don't know what to do, while everyone else with money DOES, it's life's subtle way of telling you, "you're going to collect trash for a living".

Someone has to do it and it's better to give all the shitty jobs to people who don't know what they want as opposed to handing them the position they dream of and watching them fail.