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>>18123404
How mad would he be if he found out you were camwhoring? Also all it takes for one of these types of people to cheat is an attractive person in the same area hitting them up. "Hey I liked your pics! Wanna go grab a coffee somewhere?"

>>18123404
Fucking leave girl. You're better than that. If he loved you he wouldn't have done it. He's gonna say anything he can to keep you but you saw the truth. It's the hardest thing you'll ever do but when you find a normal guy who does love you it will all be worth it! Wow what a pig

You're not overreacting, especially because he lied to you, and disrespected you. No relationship can be happy without respect and trust.

>>18123404
As someone who is pretty sexually depraved, I can understand your boyfriend's position. I'm sure he loves you, but these animal instincts are almost too much to resist... It's a habit more than anything, and a bad one at that. Watching porn and browsing camehore pages just enables that addiction.

I have posted in dick rate threads and I also have a girlfriend. I'm not proud of it, but whenever I enter into that horny state of mind, my gf isn't even in the equation. In fact, all rational thinking is put to the side. Once I get off, I regain my sense of rationality, as that burning sense of shame kicks in. It's shameful and degrading, but incredibly addicting at the same time. I love my girlfriend a lot, but it's so hard to go back after enabling myself over and over again.

If your bf doesn't love you, then there's really no point. But if he does and you want to give him another chance, then it is time that he climbs out of this pit that he has dug himself into. One thing I have to say is that it's not easy.

>>18123468
You shouldn't make excuses for him or yourself. That shit is wrong and a huge betrayal when you're in a relationship. And it's even more sad to see it's a struggle for some people. Man up. Be a better partner. These mistakes were a choice. Your choice.

>>18123404
theres a reason why its called lady boners.. he wants to fuck other women but cant.

>>18123494
Yep

>>18123494
At the same time, it's good to see both sides of the story. You've seen one side, and now I'm showing you the other. They're not excuses, because I'm not asking for forgiveness, and I'm not trying to justify my actions. I'm just describing why I did them.

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>>18123404
Now you see, the problem isn't even the fact that he camwhored.
He used fucking reddit. Time to ABORT

Personally I think the bigger issue is that he lied to you. That is not OK.

>>18123404
You're over reacting.

Hes clearly in love with himself and loves to show himself off. He gets a thrill from it. Most likely he isnt chatting with anyone either. "Most likely"

You need to look more into it *WITHOUT* getting angry and freaking out.

Go back to the house. Talk to him. Let him explain himself. Then you explain why you freaked out and why it scares you. Talk it out. Everything will be fine OP.

Its not the end of the world though. Sounds like hes just incredo vain. I bet he stares at himself in the mirror more than you do.

>>18124737
It could also be the exact opposite. Similar thing happened in my friend circle, though the guy actually sent nudes to girls he knew personally. In his case, it was pretty much the need for constant approval because of insecurity. Still, if you can't feel loved and appreciated enough by your partner, you have to end it.

>>18123494
>That shit is wrong and a huge betrayal when you're in a relationship.

So watching Porn to you is Cheating? Because basically that is what it is.

>>18124777
>DARING TO HAVE SEXUAL DESIRE FOR ANYTHING BESIDES ME IN A RELATIONSHIP

OMG HOW DARE YOU FUCK YOU D R O P P E D

t. /r9k/ virgins who believe in the 'sanctitty of marriage'

he lied because he felt he was betraying you

I'm a guy and I think betrayal from a female partner is bad. this is also bad

>>18123404
You got your answer in the first few posts.

let's see the nudes :^}

>>18123468
Can I just say, if my boyfriend posted his dick on /soc/ or something because he got off on it, I could probably understand. I might be bothered but I could probably accept it, maybe even be amused by it.
But the thing is, if he lied about it and I had to find out, it would totally shatter trust in him and ruin the relationship. What else has he lied about? What else is he lying about right now? What lies will he tell in the future? It will never fucking end, as long as you stay with him.

The fact that he lied at all means it's over afaik.

>>18124895
Oh, also the fact that he isn't even apologetic about it is a huge red flag?

>It's not like I slept with anyone
The fact that he even brought it up means he probably did lmao