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Things started to get weird next day. I was always asking my male friend to come swimming with me, and he always refused. She said she wants to go, and he suddenly changed his mind.

But then i get like the biggest slap in my face i could ever get. I jump into a pool, start swimming and just geniuenly do my workout. But whenever i'm around i realise my guy friend spills the shit that he knows i'm uncomfortable with (i.e. when i had a mental breakdown because i was depressed), and goes at me for whatever reason. I didn't know what's going on, so i just focused on my training. A moment after they went to jacuzzi because reasons, but i kept doing my stuff. After i finished i went to them, and i immedietaly they slap me with "and you ruined the atmosphere" And basically proceed to both go at me. At that moment i started to feel weird and uncomfortable, and said that i need to leave. Since my female friend came with me, they too had to leave. So we get in our cars, and my guy friend says "maybe we hang out some more, why do you need to go now?" I told him i have to go to uni, and said that if they wanna hang out i have no problem with it, but he will have to drive her home. And what happened after was like the biggest slap i could get from a "friend" She looks at me, takes her bag out of my car, throws lazy "see you" and jumps into his car. At that moment i felt like i wasn't even their friend, but some random third wheel they didn't even want to have around. And now all they wanna talk to me about is eachother, while i'm sitting here barely doing ok after my breakup.

I don't even know what to think. I'm mad at myself that i didn't see it sooner. I feel betrayed by the people that i trusted. Right now, i am seriously concerned if they didn't insist and pressure me on breaking up just so they would feel better themselves. I feel like lost three people i thought were close to me in a span of 2 weeks. I don't know what to do anymore.

You are way better off without those two in your life. Your ex I'm not so sure, only you know if it was a good relationship that was poisoned by those two. Some people can't stand anything good happening to anyone but them. The description of your friendship and the situations you are in together creeps me out. Gives me an unnatural and sinister vibe. Cut those two out of your life. Focus on yourself for a while, and when you are ready talk to your ex about all the circumstances of your breakup, if she'll listen.

>>18125467
Well i basically know what's going on right now. He will chase her tail, and while doing so he will shit on our friendship like he did before (i've forgiven him twice already), and just realised i was her god damn confidence boost. I'm dropping that, don't know how it's gonna go with my ex. If things go downhill i'll just take a break and focus on myself.

I fell for the STEM meme when I graduated HS. Accepted a full scholarship to study engineering. Spent 6 years in undergrad miserable.

Don't do something that simply isn't you. If you have no real ability and don't particularly like it, you'll just waste a lot of time struggling to nowhere near as good as you need to be in order to actually be successful.

Your energy is almost always better spent cultivating strengths when it comes to your job.

>>18125398

No, don't be a sperg.

You have to do this shit for the next 47 years of your life or so.

Don't do something you hate just so you can have money. When you come home at the end of the day, and you're too exhausted and mentally drained to use it, then what's the point?

No problem if you actually like math. Just do something you won't fucking despise.

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>>18125374

>When my friends bring female to my house or other house they ignore me and than i am crying and than the female is happy like she won

What the fuck are you talking about?

Rope+Tall Chair+Knot

All your problems will be solved and you'll get to be an hero.

I don't think so
Not like there was any legally binding document saying specifically what he was going to spend money on
Honestly dude when it comes to money do NOT trust your family. You already knew she was going to spend your share too, why would you let her? Don't be nice about money.

>>18125375
That's sort of what I thought.
She was paying it to me, just in chunks. I got over half of it, but I didn't see THIS coming. But you're fucking right though. I should hounded her ass over it.

>lost 12k of my inheritance

The way youre telling this story implies she has money left. Nigga dont put your dick in her shit and get what she owes you from her.

That all said court is unnecessary and shes more than likely just lying her ass off. Bitch could just issue a chargeback fuck court

>>18125356
Keep your head down and get your degree. After that fuck around all you want but for fucks sake don't throw away all your time/effort/money spent on college when you're so close to finishing.

OP lets be friends and go hiking someplace trancy. I wanna have a nomad phase too. For real though

>>18125356
>I want to travel through different countries even though I'm socially retarded and don't have the money. And if none of that works I want to become a monk or a priest.

Wait for the three month and AFTER that do what you have planned.

As well, if you go for the monastery, at first live there for a while as a voluntary helper for food and a bed, to see if you actually can stand it.

>>18125323
Were you close to her dad? if not, then no.

>>18125323

You have to decide that on your own. I think now is a particularly emotionally vulnerable time for her right now so you have to tread carefully but damn, dude, if my dad suddenly died I'd like to think that the people in my life, even exes, could maybe put aside our bullshit for just a moment to help prop me up for an afternoon. It would suck, for me personally, to get a "Hey I know your dad just died but our relationship didn't work out so you're on your own."

No one wants to go to a funeral, anon, especially her. She doesn't want to go a thousand times more than you don't want to go but I dunno, dude. If it were me I feel like I could put aside relationship bullshit for an afternoon to just be there for someone I cared for. I'm super close to my dad so maybe I'm being a bit biased.

>>18125330

>Were you close to her dad? if not, then no.

We don't go to funerals for the dead, anon. We go for the living.

>>18125323
Just go and take it with a grain of salt, if you bring her comfort she will never forget it, and if it all goes to shit you have every right to never speak a word with her.

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>>18125322

>>18125341
They did a lot of fillings for me in the past and I suspect not all of them were necessary. Now I'm going to my first cleaning/checkup in a while and I'm sure they're going to tell me I have more even though I brush after every meal and floss every day. I know it's tinfoil hat shit but yeah.

>>18125364
Get a second opinion?

>>18125313
run

You dine, you dash, and keep the fuck away from the place...

>>18125313
1. call someone, if nobody can come help,
2. apologize right away, not after your meal, and ask what you can do to compesnate for the mistake you made

>>18125299
cant take the post seriously with the expanding brain meme

one of my friends tried it out
his experience is that it was absolutely not a viable system

you need to follow the schedule extremely strictly, there is no room for error, there isn't "okay i'll put off the next sleep phase by 15 minutes, i need to finish this other thing first", you will crash and ruin the point of it if you mess up the schedule by even a little bit

Depends on why you are thinking of switching.

I tried it because I have trouble falling asleep and I thought maybe this could fix it. It didn't fix it and instead I just had trouble falling asleep multiple times a day. Aside from that I was tired and it severely impacted my ability to do things because I had to make sure I was at home so I could attempt to sleep at a certain time.

TL:DR shit sucks don't do it.

Why do you want to kill yourself?

>>18125295
>I have tried to kill myself multiple times

That's just attention whoring. Stop being a pussy with your glorified cries for help. There are so many surefire ways to get the job done that it's inconceivable to fail multiple times.

Either fucking do it, go get help, or get on with life and stop trying to make your pain everyone else's problem. No one cares.

You have low self-esteem my friend.

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Because you know deep down you'll be as kawaii as they are

>tfw you'll never be a qt 3.14

>>18125294
Explain?

>ask to borrow from friend or family
>sell stuff like old games
>job

Look for someone who needs manual labor for a weekend job

>>18125275
You can sell your body, and in fact you can make more than 50 dollars.

Find a friend you know that likes you a little more than normal. Tell him if he pays you will let him do whatever he wants to you.

take the device you are using right now, to a pawn shop. you will get a loan for 50 bucks. then get a job. any job. there are a lot of five bucks an hour jobs available for people who look normal and act normal.

>post a thread on /adv/
>no answer

i feel absolutely socially inapt

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>>18125273
Do it already, you fucking pussy.

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>>18125273

If your entire sense of self can be crumbled by two people not liking you then you weren't worth liking in the first place.

Geosciences probably has better future jobs.

>>18125247
Economy is pretty dank

>>18125225
Blotter paper helps.
Erowid experience reports.

>>18125225

So you're basically asking what do you do when your depression is caused by being a giant faggot?

Get off the internet and find hobby other than stroking your dick with a bunch of edgy teenage faux-nihilists.

>>18125225
/r/nhilism