I'm trying to choose between two, soon to be completed apartments, one is on a 14th floor with windows facing west and north, the other is on a 22nd floor facing south. Which apartment should I go for? They pretty much tie in everything else.
Gonna need to see the view anon.
Initial reaction, sunsets are nicer then sunrises
>>18122634
>>18122615
Depends on what you prefer really. I've lived in two flats with south facing windows and it was fine until the midsummer sun blasted through for hours and you could have boiled an egg by putting it on a windowsill. Just based on that I'd say north/west windows are better. That sunset bonus is nice too.
Melbourne Ausfag here. Just got an interview with an employer who emailed me to say "Be at this address with your passport and police check."
Police check? I thought it was the responsibility of the employer to conduct those. Also, I've heard they're pretty expensive. Do I have to trundle down to the cop shop and get this myself?
>>18122581
Some employers do it to be nice, some are cheap and will make you do it. I would get it done right away though because they can take a week or two to come back
thanks for that. off to the bacon factory i go... on Labour Day...
I think I've had ADHD for the past five years. It came on suddenly when I was 17, and I'm 22 now with no improvement. I was very focused before it started.
Are there any medications I can take to fix me? Or is it all a meme?
It's a meme pay attention find out what's bothering you/why you can't focus and don't drug yourself into passivity
http://blog.naturalhealthyconcepts.com/2014/05/15/3-reasons-adhd-likely-fake-disorder/
Try Cannabis.
Honestly, how do I unfuck my shit up? Typical young person in US shit fucked up. Debt, bad grades, etc, what do I do?
>>18122536
Study do your homework, get good grades, get a good job, pay off debt. There is no simple fix. You want something then work for it
>>18122536
Debt? What kind of debt?
>credit cards
don't pay it
>bills/collections
don't pay it
>medical
don't pay it
>student loans
pay it
That's my system. Every seven years, I apply for a secured credit card, use it for a couple months to bolster my cred rating, and then spam every card company with apps and see how many cards I can get. Then I spend it all and never pay it back.
Phase 1: murder
Phase 2: suicide
Phase 3: ???
Phase 4: profit
Im trying to decide what i want to specialize in. Im an ivy grad stem major who spent a few years working at a ski resort out west, and im tired of making 10 dollars an hour. I was always good at biology/health science type fields so i am considering becoming an xray tech or maybe an ultrasound tech and using that to get into medical school. Im also good at numbers/math though, so im also thinking about getting a masters of finance. What is your advice guys?
>>18122478
Im an xray tech. Its a good job. Ask your local hospital if you can be intern for a day. You should get a good picture of what the job actually is.
>>18122521
What do u make an hr? Or salary?
I make fun of my friend because she is a cuckquean(?). Her boyfriend cheated on her long ago, he was dating another girl. And it made me really angry, so I told her to break up with him. She did but eventually they started dating again. Ever since I make fun of her telling her she is a cuck, that her boyfriend doesn't love her, and shit. She gets pissed and tells me I'm an asshole and I tell her 'well, sometimes the truth hurts'. Is what I'm doing okay? I think it's fucking humiliating to still date a guy who cheated on you, so I want to make her know how I feel about it every time I can. If she starts talking about him I'll tease her, I want her to find someone better than that jerk.
Are you a boy or a girl?
>>18122444
A grill
>>18122448
Then she deserves it.
I'm quite uncomfortable with some facets of my sexuality. Illegal facets. I have not been the victim of any sexual abuse in any way, so this is not cyclical. I want to cure this regardless and reclaim a healthy set of personal sexual coordinates. Therapy feels like the logical first step.
However going to a therapist and saying, for example, "I can't get hard to the idea of consensual sex" feels like a plea to get onto the sex offenders' register.
Pic unrelated. Just some edgy, hyperbolic image to reflect the trauma this question is putting me through.
Therapists actually have to keep your secrets from a legal point of view. And the reason you're finding help is actually rather honorable, but not at all unique. I'd find help from a -good- therapist (one that even specializes im sexual cases maybe, otherwise i'd look in the ocd/obsessive compulsive thoughts corner, if that's remotely the case with you). Maybe there's even some (anonymous) psych help hotline that can help you get the right therapist.
Every person needs a right one for their case, obviously. But in yours I'd hate to see you get bummed out over some incompetent douchebag while you're willing to look into this. I've been discouraged by quite a few therapists myself until I got a good one. I'm a eurofag and my choice will always be to get a psychiatrist, simply because they went to uni instead of college and usually did some doctorates/specialities in specific areas. Can't get stuck with some new age mindfulness hippie who teaches you about "thoughts are clouds you have to send away" or something.
Good luck anon!
Dunno wtf happened there.
>>18122429
Are you British or European?
>>18122406
If you think a therapist is going to change your sexual procivities then I have some bad news for you...
Any ideas for a IT-startup?
Dating for Muslims in Europe.
Why are some programs/apps free? What's in it for them?
I wanna download Grammarly but it sounds a little sketchy. Any ideas?
Usually it's ads.
Other times it's just that they start with releasing a free version to gain users fast.
In the app industry companies are valued on the number of active users they have.
Many active users means easier to acquire new capital for expansion.
Usually startups want to promote "viral spreading" over social media. Like what happened unintentionally with flappy bird for example.
Hope this answers your question.
>>18122363
you mean like firefox, chrome, thunderbird, gimp, blender, linux, bsd, .... ?
>>18122379
Thanks, anon.
>>18122390
I don't know anything that isn't Linux or the first two, but yeah, for example I guess?
I am one semester away from earning my masters degree in psychology. The problem is I just had the realization that I HATE people. I hate interacting with them, talking to them, being around them. I've worked to hard, and to long to get this far. What should I do?
use your profession to learn about your clients. then lead them down dark path. good luck m8
Probably use some of the insight you've gained to work through it. Hating people isn't very healthy in the long run.
>>18122358
To be honest, I could probably use your help here >>18122361 since I could probably help you with your problem in return too, or at least give u some insight.
How do I find fulfillment under capitalism with regards to working?
Develop a skill that allows you to be a sole proprietor.
See things in terms of creating value for people (i.e. reducing their suffering or increasing their enjoyment or whatever).
So I have a problem. I'm very ok with my body and my sexuality. I like my Vag and I like my dicks, but always feminine. Problem is I always feel self conscious telling girlfriends this. (never actually met anyone with a penis I'd like to date yet)
I also like a butt ton of weird stuff, like I would really really like to have my arse fucked by a partner who loves me. Then after they are done flip them over and do the same to them.
I'd also like to fuck in latex at least once. Full on, all covering stuff.
Also like to do it in a fursuit. Shit like that, I'm weird.
I'd also rather weirdly like to fuck someone hard while they have chaos and Slaanesh symbols painted on them (I R nerd....)
Problem is outside of the bedroom I don't want this stuff. I just want a normal relationship with a down to earth person who will respect me and not be needy.
The problem I am having is that its so hard to tell if a potential partner will be into some kinky shit.
I had a problem with my previous girlfriend, we got on well and it was great....but when i tried to broach the subject about spicing things up (anal, Bjs etc.) she was completely against it. Kind of killed it for me as it just showed me she was completely against compromising. (I pushed something "normal" first, to see). Really turned me off her when she started berating me about even asking.
I don't have any trouble flirting or being charming, its just....I don't know if I should be upfront about being into kinky shit, or do what I did before and try and ease them into it? (I'm pretty sure I could convince someone open minded, she was quite shy and prudish)
>>18122288
Fuck me
>>18122288
you just cant fuck a girl and tell her right in the moment '' pls put this latex suit ''
some kink need to be discuss with your partner before,
>how to bring the conversation ?
just talk about fantasies, tell her what you would like to try and go about this point, she might be open mind or not, this is her choose and you cant force heré
>>18122288
Men have more kink than women. There are women that will be into the shit you will, just keep in mind that it will be a MUCH MUCH smaller % than women who are not.
Consider a compromise, like what is the minimum required for a stable partner? Fursuits maybe for extra credit, but what is the realistic MINIMUM. That is a partner you will go for.
Also keep in mind that in a stable loving relationship, you'll lose desire for a lot of kink.
What to eat and drink to stay in good mental condition? What is good for our brain?
>>18122284
That's kind of a broad question. In general you wanna balanced diet.
Vegetables, fruits, meat/eggs/vegan substitute, whole grains and water.
You want vegetables because they are good source of nutrients/vitamins.
Greens and a mixture of vegetables is preferable.
Sulforaphane (found in broccoli/broccoli sprouts/kale) has been shown to be really beneficial so you might wanna get that in there.
Get a blender and make your life way easier. You can just shove vegetables you would've never eaten otherwise in there.
Meat is important for protein, but you can get that from other stuff too. Mainly you wanna get omega 3 fatty acids.
Fish and eggs are high in omega-3's and I believe hemp seeds are too if you're vegan.
Talk about fats come up a lot when talking about meat. Let's clear that up.
Saturated fats are fine for you unless you have a certain gene that makes it more difficult for you body to digest them.
There has been some propaganda that they are bad for you but it's wrong.
Things that have trans fats (margarine, etc.) are bad for you.
When you have grains, you should try to stay away from simple carbohydrates.
They spike your insulin levels and can cause insulin insensitivity.
Whole grains and vegetables are considered complex carbohydrates.
Your body can't break them down as quickly has simple carbs (i think) so you avoid spiking your insulin levels.
For the love of god don't have sugar. Men should only have like 35 grams of sugar and a soda has twice that i believe?
It's the hardest to cut but makes a huge difference. Coffee? Use stevia.
It's the only good substitute. Since splenda and the others are bad for you. (I don't exactly know why.)
Check to make sure there isn't high fructose corn syrup in your shit.
Stores hide it in everything.
>>18122388
>Meat is important for protein
Not really, it's just the laziest way to get it. And no, plant proteins are not "incomplete proteins", they just have a different ratio in aminoacids allthough there are plant foods like soy that have a "complete profile". And it's not difficult to reach the requeriments without meat, if you're eating enough calories you probably get enough proteins too.
Everything else is fine tho, but I would suggest adding an algal oil to supplement the DHA part of omega-3 if they decide for a vegan diet. Flax, chia and hemp seeds are fine but they only provide ALA which is not efficiently converted by some people.
>>18122284
Read the book "Super Foods for Dummies" thank me alter ;)
Hey guys my GF is into degradation in bed. Problem is im starting to run out of ideas.
Does anyone here have any clever degradation acts? Stuff to say etc.
Im thinking of shoving my finger up her butt and telling her how much her parents are disappointed in her (her parents hate me)
Im also thinking of tying her up and watching me pee in a bowl then have her lap up the piss while shes tied up but im not sure if that goes too far.
Psychological stuff is where she really gets off tho, and kinda running out of steam in terms of just calling a slut etc.
Put a leash on her and walk her around on all fours, maybe even outside, maybe have her pee outside on all fours on a leash.
Give her a pet name, like rex or fifi and insist that thats what shes called now
Discuss a scene with her before you do it so you know what the limits are. Planning>spontaneity
Hi all, quick question. Got a midterm tomorrow, but I'm quite unprepared. Need to make notes for several chapters and review lecture notes.
Should I pull an all-nighter, get minimal sleep, and write the test? Or sleep early, wake up early, and study until my test? Test is at 1:30 pm.
Don't underestimate the energy sleep can give you. Or just skip classes until you exam, so you learn now before sleep, maybe internalizing the information in your wet dreams.
But we all kniw you should start applying for you-know-what-jobs.
>>18122274
I have several interviews to med school m80 so please don't h80.
>>18122278
Ain't worth jackshit without degree.
Jokes aside, skip all classes tomorrow, study now so you have at least some information anchored in your memory.
I have an interview for an apprenticeship tomorrow. Let's share our meme magic in order to succeed.