I had found a letter my ex girlfriend had written to me when

Sending an ex an old love letter is a fucked-up thing to do.

I also don't understand why you sent it to her. You say you sent it "for her to do it I guess" but I have no idea what that means.

Also, what kind of relationship have you had with her since you've broken up? Are you on speaking terms? Why did the relationship end?

>>18131107
Speaking terms but seldom. No need to text or chat much anymore that we're not together

I sent it because I didn't want to be the one to throw it out. She spent time and emotion on it. It just didn't feel right if I'd done so

>>18131081
Sounds like a fucked up way to get her back or at least get her attention again.

>>18131149
Agreed. If he didn't want to throw it out, why not just throw it in a shoebox and hold onto it for a while?

>>18131145
When you break up with someone and are thereafter on speaking terms but not friendly terms, you are absolutely not expected to return sentimental things like love letters. All it does it bring up memories which may be painful or intense. I'd apologise. Tell her you didn't think about what kind of an emotional reaction she might have.