relationship

You can't have a relationship without some degree of trust.

trust is really hard to repair but it's possible. But there also might be a reason you're struggling to believe her, a gut feeling yknow? It kinda comes down to whether you'd be happier with or without her, and making work whatever option you pick

>>18232230
You have to sit her down, and communicate ask her why she did it, tell her how it made you feel and so on.


You're taking a risk op, she's doing this 1 year in,

Ask her 'If we've only been together a year how can I trust you 5 years into the relationship?'

Ignore how she reacts emotionally and analyze her body language, is she maintaining eye contact when she says she won't do it?

She might be lying to herself. And it'll only end up wasting your time if you lost her 3 years in.


She legit cheated on you emotionally.

I see she broke your trust, gonna be hard to build it back, especially since she will have to prove herself now, and women don't like being put on the spotlight to prove anything.
So yeah, you two can work it out if you both really want it, otherwise you're postponing the end.

>>18232251
she legit hurt me. but she makes me feel bad for questioning her. even though i know i do have a right to not trust her.

>>18232251
thank you that is perfect

>>18232230
>i made her block them both.
if she wants to cheat, she will cheat. you can't "make" someone be faithful. in fact, 99% of the time it has the opposite of the intended affect.

>is this toxic?
Absolutely.

>should i leave?
DEFINITELY.

>>18232347
i know this is true. we have a lot of mutual friends. i don't want to see her with another guy, but i'm miserable with her. don't get me wrong we can have a good time but my gut instinct tells me not to trust her. idk. i'm being beta as hell right?

>>18232359
You know what you have to do, so just do it. Your life will be better for it; that's what counts.