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What can I do if I'm a worthless piece of trash?
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>>18666767
Work on your self esteem issues.
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>>18666776
How do I do that?
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>>18666777
Do you know what age you live in? I'll give you a hint. The internet age. It's very accessible to find out how to increase your self esteem. Your lucky. No go one and fix your problems.
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Why do people always look at me like this when I talk? I'll think that what I'm talking about is completely normal but people still look at me like I'm fucking weird.
Another one I'll get all the time is "ohhhh kay" after I say something sometimes, or I've noticed a lot of girls talk to me in a really patronizing tone. Like they're talking to some poor little retarded kid or something. It's like they feel sorry for me or look down on me or something.
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>>18666659
If people look at you like that, it's because you're saying a lot of stupid shit or failing to pick up the social cues that they don't want to talk about what you're talking about with you
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Give us an example. I don't know what you're saying so you might be saying retarded shit and be completely oblivious to it.
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High-school?
If not, then it's probably assburgers because your missing some major social cues, aka fuck off.
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Is my life over if i'm 23 and only had sex with 3 girls ?(Only one of them was reasonably attractive.)
I'm so horny all the time and seeing all these pretty girls is driving me crazy. Soon i'll be past my prime, i'll be bald and too old for one night stands. Not that i ever had one though. I've sabotaged all of my opportunities to get girls and i'm slowly becoming bitter. Will i ever get rid of this sour feeling ?
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>>18666546
Man, I'm 22 and still virgin, you're not old yet. Stay confident and you'll eventually find a good girl
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>>18666546
>my life over if i'm 23 and only had sex with 3 girls
If that's your worst worry than you're doing pretty well in life.
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>only 3 girls
What's the most out of hand intercourse you've had? or the most painful sex you've had? be it male or female.
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>>18666539
that got out of hand/exaggerated*
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>>18666539
Missionary for the sole purpose of procreating. I feel naughty for even saying this.
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I had sex with a girl in downtown Toronto once on top of a 40+ story building. A man in a helicopter saw us and I came over the side. I really hope it landed on someone.
>Gf basically "cheated" on me
>Went to other state, made out with a dude
>Me finds out by accident, asks her wtf, lies and when she sees no escape admits it in an angry way, hangs up the phone and goes no contact for some months
>We don't see each other for a year or more
>I see her, she acts nice, even tries to give me bday presents.
>I reject dat shit cuz I think she's manipulating me
Lately i've been missing her a lot, dreamed with her last weeks and i'm really thinking about forgetting everything and see if we get back together.
Anyways there's a worm in my head saying "don't be stupid". And I want your opinion.
Thoughts?
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Don't be stupid.
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Don't be stupid.
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The worm knows
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I just turned 27, I'm male.
Brief story.
>Grew up to a single mother who was a waitress
>Never saw her much
>Got into drugs at 13
>Once I turned 16, I changed my life completely. (Lost 70 lbs, Quit smoking, quit drinking, Went to school, Got top marks, got a job)
>I decided at 16 that I wanted to go into some sort of science.
>Worked a LOT and got into college at 19.
>moved out on my own at 18, Worked multiple jobs at a time, while going to college
>27 now, a chemical engineering degree, 6 years in school, a coop with environment canada, and a coop in an oil field over two yars ago.
>I just graduated a few months ago, I had a bit of money to live off of while I apply to jobs
>Meet an okay girl in the meantime. I move in for a bit (Since june).
September is coming up now.
>Money is starting to dry up.
>I've applied to over 115 job positions, some not even related to my field.
>Girlfriend tells her family about me, and thinks I'm a loser that sits online all day. (i.e. her mother talks badly about me, and she's not interested in sex since we met.)
>I decided to go back to school for software engineering.
>I found a house today on Kijiji and I'm moving away from this girl.
I am not sure if it's a good Idea, I thought this was going to be it
I am scared for my future, and I feel like I'm giving up. I don't even know what to do at this point. Do I find low skill work? Should I go into engineering and use my money? Am I wasting my time. Any advice? I just feel awful right now. I don't even have a family to complain too.
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Fuck man i wish i knew what to tell you
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Sorry. This is a lot of jumbled up stuff. I honestly haven't been able to think straight.
The tl;dr; is that I feel like I've worked really hard to get where I am with no help from anyone. I feel like at this point everything's would be set and I could make a fair income. It's been months applying to jobs. And a girl i am with doesn't even like me that much and complains. I just feel like I haven't gotten anything. And I feel like giving up. I have no idea what I should do and I am now directionless.
I am looking for guidance, motivation, or comments. Idk.
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>>18666342
Well if the girl doesnt like you just drop her off and remember that living is pain.
Gl
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>36 years old
>abused as a child
>abusive stepfather committed suicide when I was 13
>no friends
>no job
>no girl
>self-loathing
>hatred for successful, happy people
Sitting atop a tall building. The view is grand. I think I'd float for about seven seconds from this height. I would not be missed in the slightest.
How do I turn this feeling around? I've never known happiness. I've been in love before but I lost it because I didn't want to give her any kids. Working a regular job is worse than death. I'm not meant to be here, I'm sure of it.
I don't even know what I'm asking. I've never posted on /adv/ before. Does it get better, anons? Does it...? v_v
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Oh, well. See you, space cowboys. I tried.
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Dont kys
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>>18666229
no u_u
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Looking for people to chat with.
Send discord names in a reply if you want to chat.
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>>18666219
Never
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>>18666232
Kms
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>>18666232
Tnx for the fap doe
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Hey /adv/ recently my drug dealers girlfriend broke up with him but I have been good friends with both of them. I asked her about it and if she wanted to hangout sometime and she said sure. What do I say to her when I'm hanging out with her to get her in a relationship with me without seeming like a creep? I can post text logs if needed.
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>>18666201
You dont.
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>>18666223
Elaborate?
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Find a new drug dealer, not even because he'll do anything, but just to have some dignity and respect.
Proceed to pine over a girl who has most likely banged people to get high
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>Hey anon let's worry about how you'll get a job and care for yourself.
What a pathetic survivalship trap. In reality you should be caring about your biology like: brain, personality, genes, potential, extroverted socializing/benevolence ratio. Then economy comes second.
You know what's even worse? When the idiot who sabotaged you for life(both your brain and your money) acts like he didndu nuthing and pretends to help you or shift the blame on you.
Everyone thinks you can become anything you want simply by acting different and consciously molding your thoughts till it becomes embedded in your nature/subconscious.
In reality you can't. You fall in 1 archetype and regardLESS of what's happening in your life, how you're treated, etc. you will ALWAYS BUT ALWAYS think the same way, behave the same way, react the same way, process the same way. You'd have to physically modify your dna/brain in order to become a new person. People cannnot literally change into someone new. It's the same personality/archetype, but with different attitudes and a different mentality, which can be theoritically changed in 5 minutes, but not practiced naturally and developed naturally.
So I find it funny that nobody considers suicide and murder of degenerates as a good thing. I find hilarious when a destructive idiot goes unreported for ages when in fact the government loves murdering degenerates.
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Reads like an angry 13 year old atheist desu not anybodys fault but your own that you're a worthless sack of shit
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I'm bumping this thread in the hopes that you say more insane shit
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Fuck you.
At least with money you can somehow exist.
What do I have being a socially dead neet in a piss poor senpai? Nothing.
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Hi /adv/ I'm a student/soon to be ex-student in the UK. I've been rethinking my life and choices recently and have been thinking about changing my studies and moving far away.
I was thinking either the US or Asia but US probably has more opportunities, I wanted to ask, how can I find jobs/internships in the US that would accommodate me, I don't have a full degree and finding a job here hasn't been the easiest of tasks.
I need a fresh start and want to know how I can move to the US and what I should know/need before doing so. I know visa's are important for sure but I really need advice and I have no one
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You can't just move to another country because you're too shit to make the best out of your current country. You have to have a reason for the other country to take you.
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Also the UK is one of the richest countries on Earth if you can't make it here moving somewhere else won't make much of a difference all you can do is change your lifestyle and move to a better area of the UK
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>>18665817
This is true of almost every country, including the UK and the US:
You can't just show up. You need a visa.
A tourist visa limits your stay and forbids working
A student visa can only be applied for after a US school accepts you. It limits your stay to while you're in school and forbids more than part-time work
A work visa can't be applied for until you have a solid job offer from a US company, and they have to fill out lots of paperwork to confirm that you're not stealing a job from a citizen. It is limited to while you work for that company.
There are other visas, for special situations you won't qualify for
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So I'm currently taking medication to treat anxiety depression and ADHD. Long story short I didn't get my prescription refilled and I'm in "withdrawals" from the anti depressant/anxiety meds, making me be generally anxious and really down.
None of my friends know about my condition/these meds. I've been talking to this girl and we were warming up to each other and then with this I've been acting weird the past week or so, though I've been trying to hide it obviously you can only do so much.
So the problem / question is we have cooled way off since then between us, what is likely the situation here? Any potential anything with this girl is now ruined because of a fuck up with medications? Due to the medication my memory is shot so I don't remember what was/might have been said/done to cause her to ghost from my life so it's a confusing and fucky situation that I'm in.
Insights, advice? Questions?
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>>18665396
>adhd
Adhd is untreatable. Hyperactivity means you will have harder time your whole life to concentrate for longer periods of time. Pharmacies will gladly sell you the shit, but the only real solution is to learn yourself how to cope with it. The sooner you understand this, the better. Probably thank your mon for drinking alcohol when she was pregnant.
>anxiety
Everybody has anxiety. Again you deal with this by growing up and either realizing that talking with strangers is no big deal or finding copibg mechanism. Psycholog with CBT will help you more than any addictive pills.
As far as your gf goes, pic related. Simply talk to her.
And remember, your illnesses are huge bussiness. They dont want to treat your illnesses, only minimize symptoms and milk all cash from you or your goverment. Adhd is huge fad, same with anxiety. You are just another meek boy (probably raised by single mother) and somebody forgot to tell you that life is tough shit and nobody will ever help you.
Peace.
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>>18665427
My family has a history of adhd, depression, and anxiety. And not sure hurr durr nervousness you're describing. And I appreciate the thoughts, thankfully I am in therapy and it helps a lot, and medication makes it even more manageable, the downside being this situation where now it became unmanageable and messed with my life.
And she's not my gf, we aren't close and don't talk like that, but it was growing into something and it'd be a shame to have that either and die because of something like this. And I wish I could talk to her about it, but I haven't gotten to the part in my therapy where I can open up to my own family much less an acquaintance/friend.
And nope, raised by both until mental issues took my mom's life then raised by just my dad. I don't know why I'm sharing this, it's irrelevant.
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>>18665427
>durr muh cbt
i tried this shit. it's a meme. it didn't help my anxiety or adhd.
but you're right. coping with it is helpful when you take a break from the drug to build tolerance again.
/adv I need your help
I've been growing this sucker out for 2 months now and I don't know whether I should keep it or get rid of it. I don't want it to grow into a neckbeard.
Give it to me straight.
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>>18664138
shave that nasty shit off your face.
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you need an electric beard trimmer with attachments and shape it
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Change of heart about rejection.
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A girl who rejected me a week ago told me today she changed her mind and that she likes me.
She told me last week we were just friends but today she said she realised she fucked up and she would probably never find a guy as nice as me again.
I told her I would think about it because I don't know what the fuck to do.
I still like her, it is only been a week so the healing process is still on going but on the other hand she was chasing some other dude and her sudden change of mind has me suspicious.
My theory is the other guy told her to fuck off and I was her backup plan.
Although maybe she did actually have a change of heart.
Should I say yes or no?
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I would personally say no.
But that's only because I'm not a beta-cuck.
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>>18664061
no if you dont want to be dumped in a week
yes if you want to have fun for a week
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>>18664061
If you like her say yes but don't expect too much.
I just realized I will never get over my father's death and resent God/Christianity for it (and probably forever will) as I was once a Christian and now feel betrayed/forsaken by God for having left my solid trust in him, that my father would overcome his illness. He didn't. He died and left me in a traumatic state for a long time and I have abandoned religion/prayer/faith/hope since.
I have so many great things in front of me still however yet the void and trauma left in me by my father's sudden death only allows me to live my life "half way" never being able to fully enjoy time and experiences with the remaining members of my family.
I realize how stupid I may sound "boo hoo I hate a made up being for targeting my family and ripping us apart by stealing away my father" but that is the situation at hand and well, how does the rest of /adv/ deal with losing loved ones? And what are some steps I can take to get over this?
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Bumping because I haven't got over it and it's been years. I just became colder, rotten and detached. Empty mostly, but I guess that's one way of surviving too.
Some people become stronger, others angry
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>>18681561
>colder, rotten, detached, empty, angry
That's right where I am/have been for ages. Stuck. Sorry we're in the same boat.
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>>18681552
>how does the rest of /adv/ deal with losing loved ones
I see death as just another "stage", whether I continue to exist or not, it does not really matter. Not existing is roughly the same as sleeping - off you go and 8 hours had passed and you have no idea how. It's okay. I think that it is kinda pointless to mourn something that ultimately happens to all of us one day.
>what are some steps I can take to get over this?
How long has it been since your father died ? I think that you should just wait, it will go away on its own.