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Do Chinese people hate whites?
Last night i went to one of those shitty chinese buffet restaurants with my friend and his gf. The ugly chinese lady at the counter was nice and friendly to them, but cold towards me. They are both mexican, and my friend is a manlet. I am white and 6'1".
Like, her smile disappeared when it was my turn to cash out, she pretty much snatched my credit card and threw it back at me. She made small talk with them but not me. It kind of bummed me out because i've been happy lately and friendly with everyone i come across. Not letting it get to me too much, but it was a bit of a bummer.
Was it racism, did she find me ugly, or was she intimidated by me? I have a gf who gets turned on by my mere presence. Some days she'll say she's not in the mood to talk dirty or do anytmhing sexual, but when i come over she can't resist me and starts breathing heavy and getting wet. Pretty much every time. And she's a qt. So i don't think my looks are repulsive.
But this Chinese woman was acting like i was a plague-carrying rat. It was pretty weird.
Starting to think the whole 'asians adore white men' is a huge meme and they prefer darkies.
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>>18671984
>Do Chinese people hate whites?
Listen.
We hate you.
You are too retarded to comprehend the fact that not every human of the same race / gender / whatever is the same.
Follow pic related.
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>>18671987
Not OP, just wanting to know what in the fuck you're talking about Ching Chong Dingdong. Learn engrish.
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I'm tired of being beta. What do?
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Find a way to flood your body with testosterone
It feels amazing, always ready, always good mood, jawline defines itself, women look up on you
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>>18671943
>go out, do sports, lift, move out of your babushka's basement, find a gurl, find some friends
>???
>done
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>>18671943
For me, it was understanding that I didn't have to be PC.
When my gf and I broke up I realized that I'm fine with being alone.
When I stopped dressing in graphic tees and started wearing my own shit.
Be comfortable with yourself. Do some lifting. Drink a beer. Get into a fight. Get so good that when Death comes for you and asks "Did you have a good time?" You can tell Death to fuck off and pass on.
48 Laws of Power and The Art of War helped me a lot too.
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Situation;
>be me, 9 years in military
>separating
>Mom lives in Michigan
>siblings are either on the west coast or overseas
>Decide to go to art school in Chicago
>semester starts next year
>know absolutely no one in Chicago
>last experience was boot camp
>using GI Bill
I know to avoid the South side at all costs. Other than that I'm shooting in the dark.
I would like some advice on places to live or to avoid and what to expect, but I could use all the info I can get.
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>>18671812
My advice is don't go to art school
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>>18671827
Yeah I get that a lot. Quite honestly it was the reason I joined. Art seems to be the only thing I'm good at that I want to pursue. But dammit I truly despise the art school environment. Perhaps my main motivation is to be close to my Mom and to get out of my plateau.
I'm still in the application process right now. but if it falls through, I may just take a contractor job and move back to Japan. In fact, I should just do that simultaneously.
But I'd still be worried about my mom. And international flights are not cheap.
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>>18671849
If you love art you will avoid art school. Save your money and self teach and study. If you do wind up going, say hi to the playwrights there for me....
SITUATION 1:
>sitting in the bus
>group of girls hop in, one of them looks at me, turns around to her friends and says "look at him!" excitedly
>i pretend to not hear it, keep looking out the window feeling good
How should I have acted in this situation?
SITUATION 2:
>just doing idle npc things waiting for class
>extremely extraverted girl keeps waving, trying to break the ice
>i want to say a few things but turn to stone instead
>she gives up
>overhear her talking to her friend: "what good is his looks, if we can't even chat?"
>feels bad man
How should I have acted in this situation?
SITUATION 3:
>in the subway
>standing across a beautiful, slightly chubby blonde
>get a raging boner
>noticed her noticing my boner and raising eyebrow like "huh, impressive"
>noticed her body language change
>just waited and did nothing
>feels like another wasted opportunity
How should I have acted in this situation?
SITUATION 4:
>accompanied my father to a meeting with his new foreign client
>me, my father, the foreigner client, another woman who is bilingual, another foreigner guy in the room
>just sitting there observing how people talk
>my father mentions me being his son
>bilingual woman turns, looking straight in the eye, hands pointed as if saying "behold"
>"what a handsome man"
>*blush like a tomato*
>"..t-thanks..."
>foreigner client is both impressed and suprised at me leaving the building emptyhanded
How should I have acted in this situation?
That's not even everything. Help me /adv/. What would a guy with the right personality do in these situations? I'm sick of feeling guilty for wasting my gifts.
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Assuming you're not lying your ass off, then yes, you are wasting your assets.
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holy shit
>huh,impressive
fuck off that didn't happen
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>>18671756
That's why I'm here. I am a bitch. Even my old friend told me: "You have a 5 year old girl in your head. Be more assertive." The other friends laughed and agreed.
>>18671760
That's what the facial expression said, mayne. Like the face you make when you're pleasantly suprised.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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Men, what would you think if your girlfriend was currently the lead in a local band?
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>>18671707
"Heh, I make her scream more than the band does"
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>>18671707
Depends on if this is a hobby or if she is trying to make it a lifestyle. First case is fine, second is a deal breaker
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Does anyone know a youtuber whos legit insane?
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Eugenia Cooney. Completely IGNORES her anorexia. Every stream she makes some acknoweledges it
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>>18671469
>Eugenia Cooney
Just googled her, not even that fappable.
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>been with this guy for 4 months now
>spend almost all of my free time with him
>things are fuckin great.jpg
>soon as he drops me home it's like we're not in a relationship
>little to no texts
>wtf.jpg
>anxiety kicks in and automatically assumes the worst
How do I tell him that I'd really fuckin appreciate if he'd text me more?? Like I get that he gets busy and we both have lives away from each other but even when I know he's not doing anything we still don't text, and when we do it's short and sweet and fucking BORING
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>>18671279
I'm in a similar boat, I think some guys are just like that sometimes. Or maybe he has something he wants to talk to you about that he can't get himself to ask, and its holding him back in those text conversations
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>>18671279
Men aren't conversationalists. We'd rather instill a feeling within you with a well thought out message than converse.
Don't fret. He's plausibly thinking about you often, but would rather express his love in person, and may not know how to articulate it.
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>>18671279
>spend almost all of my free time with him
You were given your allotted time and you acknowledge that he's busy. You admit that you do get texts albeit boring. What do you want exactly?
Whatever you may think they guy needs his space and alone time. Putting more pressure on him will just drive the two of you apart.
Work on your own insecurities before assuming the problem is with him.
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Femanon, and has only ever done hookups. What is the lines between "take me seriously" dressing, "I'm a prude" dressing, and "I catch every dick that crosses my path" dressing?
I've got my first first date this friday, and I'm hoping to go shopping for something that threads the needle of attractive/sexy, without being slut-mode.
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What's suitabe to wear on a date mainly depends on where you're going.
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You're a dumb stupid whore to begin with just go naked
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>>18671216
Depends on your body type and what you are doing on the date.
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I wanna look androgynous 2017-08-30 05:17:44 Post No.18671015
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I want to be more androgynous but idk how. I was born a girl but never felt like a woman. I've always felt kind of in between a woman and a man. Already have the short hair but what would make you say "damn that's a hot androgynous... Person" if you saw them on the street?
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>>18671015
That's a question that relies too much on the individual. For me, usually not much. I don't tend to find androgynous people attractive. I do enjoy muscle on girls, but the square jaw doesn't really do it for me. So unfortunately, there won't really be a catch-all answer for you. What does it for one person won't do it for another.
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>>18671015
If they are hot, they are hot. If you aren't pretty you will never be a "hot androgynous" person, you might be the "is that a girl or a guy" person, that people occasionally give a second look
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>>18671015
flat tummy, upper body strength.
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Hello /adv/, I have trouble getting to know people better and for the past 2 years I've worked towards being more extroverted, I know how to start conversations and address people, don't worry about texts unanswered and being myself and all that, however my last hurdle(so far) is knowing how to get to know somebody pretty well, as in what kind of questions should I ask someone when I meet them for the first time.
Of course I have to give back as much as I get when it comes to conversations but I am not sure what's the best way to know somebody without sounding/feeling like I'm interviewing them(I only ask about 1 question at a time but before I show them something I like or bring up something to talk to so it's not overwhelming or out of place) as I'm not usually somebody who asks many questions about somebody, hence this thread.
Any advice is appreciated
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>>18670999
>what's the best way to know somebody without sounding/feeling like I'm interviewing them
If you feel you are interviewing stop asking questions. If it isn't an interview the other person will pick up the conversation.
>I have trouble getting to know people better
Don't force it. Learn to enjoy your own company first.
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>>18670999
Asking someone questions is not the only way to get to know someone. Someones personality is not a collection of facts. My advice is that you try to share an experience to get to know someone. Go bowling, see a movie, an art exhibition, an amusement park whatever you think is suitable with the person.
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>>18670999
1. the book power of now by eckhart tolle helps you to be more happy with yourself alone. this is important. a person who loves himself can also loves others better, but isn't sad when he is alone.
2. there are some people who are just social robots (like you and me) who just are not good (at the beginning) to talk with no people. you just have to force it (don't listen to >>18671080). Motion creates Emotion. If you do not feel like talking to strangers, talk to some strangers and at some moment you will realize that it gives you pleasure. This is called being in state. When you are in the right state (after talking to 5 strangers maybe (always different for every person)) then you enjoy it and want to talk to more people.
3. you can ask 100 questions. do not fear to make people creeped out. it sometimes happens anyway. just go to the next person. see every person as a possibility to learn how to become got with people.
4. 99.999% people who enjoy talking, enjoy talking about themselves, so become a good listener. don't just say: "aww, sweet, something similar happened to me lately", but listen more closely than anybody else. ask question like: "how precisely? , "why exactly?", ...
5. talk to strangers. if you only talk to people you know, you will not get enough experience . talking to strangers has a really positive effect, they just rate you for the one experience you had with them. some friends that you had for 10 years will not see that you improved in talking with people and they will treat you as you were before. For me, my old friends saw me as a loser and they were and still are quite disrespectful towards me. It took a lot of new friends to realize that.
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Why is reading so hard? 2017-08-30 02:48:48 Post No.18670699
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So I'm 20 years old and I'm far from stupid, or at least I think. Last time I checked my IQ was above 130 and I don't have any form of autism or dyslexia.
When I try to read a book, I can't understand around 80% of the content. I have to re read sentences at least 5 to 7 times before I can make sense of what's written. I have no problems with understanding words, but when words are put together in a sentence my mind just goes blank and nothing seems to go in.
Also my mind tends to drift off a lot when I read too. I really want to start reading because there's a lot of books I want to read but I just can't seem to read without A) understanding what the fuck's being written. And B) my mind just drifting off and start thinking about something else.
Does anyone else experience this? The only answer I can come up with is that I'm a fucking moron.
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Future teacher fag here, if it makes you feel any better OP I'm taking a class in college about how to teach high schooler's to read because currently the average 10th grader in the US has the reading level of a 6th grader.
Anyway, I relate a lot to the whole "have to read 5-7 times" thing, because I have AD/HD. I can read the words, they just have no meaning because my mind wanders without me realizing it. You sound like textbook AD/HD on that front. Might give that a run through with your doctor. Medication was the answer for me.
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>>18670699
I suck at reading. From personal experiece, reading outloud to practice really helps. I am slow to start but get faster as I practice, and since I can hear myself make mistakes I can improve and engage as I go. Good luck.
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This.
I have the same issue anon. In terms of reading I am fairly good, I don't stutter or have problems pronouncing words like most of the people in my class I've heard read.
But sometimes when I'm reading a few paragraphs I come to the realization that I have absolutely no idea what I just read, I have to go back and reread to make sense.
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Breast reduction surgery 2017-08-30 01:58:29 Post No.18670562
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What are you thoughts on breast reduction surgery for women?
Do you think it's necessary enough to warrant a surgical operation for women to reduce their breast? Should the unwanted symptoms of having large breasts be alleviated through non-invasive ways (exercise, physical therapy, proper fitted clothing)? Is the psychology of a woman interested in reduction justified (social stigma, unwanted looks and attention)? Would you persuade a woman to avoid the surgery or for?
And in one last final question I would like to ask a hypothetical scenario: If a woman, interested in the surgery, was stranded on an island with no other human beings on sight, but through a machine she was allowed to perform the surgery would she still do it? Assuming living priorities such as food, water and shelter are already fulfilled and any post-operation complications can be dealt with by the machine.
I ask this because my girlfriend is interested in getting the surgery.
I've posted this before, but I've been told this would've been a better place to post this.
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TLDR
Personal preference anon
If someone is uncomfortable with large breasts, they may benefit from the procedure.
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>>18670562
Yes, the island girl would get the surgery. It sounds like you aren't being very sympathetic, OP. I'm sure your gf has explained the physical reasons one would want a breast reduction in addition to the psychological - why aren't you listening to her?
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>>18670577
Yeah, but I think discomfort could be alleviated in different methods.
>>18670578
I've been listening. I think you'll understand better once I tell the story.
Ok so here's the story.
We've been together for a little over 1 year. Both in our mid-20's and in America. She has a very busy work schedule and I am in school. We see each other a lot and we are happy, I think. However, she mentioned that she wants to do the surgery and I was kind of shocked. She mentioned this once early on when we were dating, but I never figured that she was serious and she never brought it up either so it came out of nowhere. We both had very serious career-oriented dates coming up so we decided to put the issue on hold until those dates. Mine has finally past and her's is at the end of September. That's when we have to decide how we're going to do this. Usually we talk about our issues right away, or at least within a week, so this is unusual in our relationship. And that's because this is going to decide whether or not I'm going to stay with her.
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Anti-depressant withdraw? 2017-08-30 01:07:49 Post No.18670434
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Anti-depressant withdraw?
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I recently stopped taking my Anti depressants and now my brain feels like hot garbage. Will this last forever what should I do?
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Self bump
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I was on Zoloft and I had to taper that shit until I was able to come off it completely. It was still really hard, because it felt like my brain was splitting into two.
If you stopped cold turkey then you're into one hell of a ride. The good news is that the withdrawal symptoms are gonna go away eventually. The bad news is that you're probably gonna feel worse than before you started the meds. (At least thats what happened to me.)
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>>18670434
I hope your doc know about it and supports it.
Also good job on posting which pills you are taking. Do you have at least 70 IQ?
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Looking to start dating, need advice. 26 year old, white(German, Italian, Irish) American male.
Background: Just got a job that Im proud of. They are giving me so much PTO, flex hours, and paying for me to get my masters when I want to(i think it was implied to do so). They are training me to take over for a senior level position(86-115k for my size company) the guy is retiring from. They are also giving me free training for any other courses I want to take to help the company.
SO I no longer feel like shit about myself.
I never dated in the past, because I felt like shit about myself and have nothing to offer a girl. If all goes well I will end up having a lot to offer.
The dating part...
I was going to try online, OKC, Tinder(yeah i want to just get laid too), and POF.
The biggest hurdle I have here I think is my height, Im only 5'6. My face has a model tier defined jaw line, my body is fit, and my skin looks really good. The height thing is like a death sentence though, has me worried.
What's the advice for this?
My height doesn't bother me much, but I know women are serious about it.
What kind of girls Im looking for?
There a lot of asian, latina and indian girls in my area since i live near a major city. Would they be open to someone like me? A lot of the white girls go interracial, so I kind of don't even want to waste my time with them. I don't find many black girls attractive, it's hard to find ones I do.
Advice for this?
What else can I do to maximize my dating potential? Everything helps, finding someone that finds me attractive is going to be harder than anything I've career and school wise for me.
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dude I'm drunk as fuck right now and literally just be confident in yourself that's all that fucking matters, find a girl who like you for who you fucking are
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>>18670127
thanks, but im looking for something a little more specific and detailed approach to this.
You're kind of telling me the equivalent of do what makes you happy. But if what makes me happy is basket weaving, well my employment and prospect earnings are just very poor.
I tend to take a more practical, think it through then act approach to life.
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self bump, cause i really need help
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Husband's 'true colors' 2017-08-29 09:31:37 Post No.18669787
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Recently married. I'm worried my husband's recent behavior is actually his 'true colors' coming out.
>lived together for two years
>got married a month ago
>my doggo runs in excited and gives him a little snip on the arm
>he immediately goes into a rage, yelling at the dog, holding its snout and dragging it out to the backyard
>he says it's justified because it drew a bit of blood (he was wearing a sweater)
I've never seen him act this way, so I'm really concerned. Any femanons want to weigh in?
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>>18669787
>poorly trained dog literally bites the guy so hard it draws blood trough a thick shirt like a sweater
He needs to train that shit my man
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>>18669787
I think you'll need more instances of this behavior occurring before you have anything to be worried about. Maybe he was just having a really stressful day and snapped when he was bitten.
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>>18669787
you should apologize to him for not training your dog not to bite people. Then promise you will train your dog and ask him to let you keep it in the house.