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Sad.
Tired.
I don't wanna do stuff.
I don't wanna go outside.
I don't wanna go to college.
I don't want to study.
I dont wanna exercise.
I don't wanna think about my future, I'm too young.
I just wanna jerk off and eat.
No hobbies. Vidyas are boring. Movies, series, music, anime... boring too.
I feel broken, I feel hurt. Yet I don't wanna help myself.
Becoming a zombie.
Send help.
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Same.
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Same
And it's my birthday.
Happy 26th anniversary...
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>>18670368
Happy birthday.
>>18670360
Being accompanied mitigates the pain, I guess.

Can I get some refutations against common arguments in support of taking down confederate statues, or just suggestions to defend the statue in a town hall debate? The one in my small town will be up for debate in a week or two, and I want to be ready to defend me some American culture and historical integrity.
Keep in mind I'm not trying to shit on the members or libtards of the opposing side, all that will do is make them go against my interests out of spite. I just want to refute their statements politely and bring a couple of well-sounded people to my side, if i can. I rather be professional in front of the people that actually have a say in the decision.

inb4 >>/pol/
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Confederates fought to preserve slavery. White America was built by the hands of African descendants stolen from their home land to do dirty work. There is no such thing as "American culture" that you're trying to defend because America is made of up thousands of different kinds of cultures and languages and origins and was never intended to be ruled by one. Whites are not an "elite race" and those statues deserve to be removed as Robert E. Lee even wanted the Confederate flags and symbols taken down in the end. It's a symbol of idiocy and disunity, not something a country should be defined by. You're a fucktard of the highest degree if you think there are any well-founded facts to offer for the Confederate side (which was defeated for a reason over 60 years ago). It's not spite to smack someone when they refuse to see you as an equal just because your skin color or religion or country of origin is different. That's what America is made of.
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I never understood why Americans want statues honouring losers. I thought you guys were about winning?
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>>18669687

The majority of us don't. It's just taking this long to finally eradicate the idiots that bred on the losing side.

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How do I get gf
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>>18669529
You don't. We do not get gfs, we are stuck here forever.
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>>18669529
u dont
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Top kek

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Lets get some positive vibes! Who in your life believes that you can make it!
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actually everybody i surround myself with.
i never even thought about that until now. nice to know.
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>>18669417
no one believes me
Not even I believe in me
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>>18669424

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my husband has a coworker who always sends him creepshots and vids of hot girls he sees, meets at the club or even fucks. yesterday he sent him a vid of the latest girl he smashed of her sleeping naked on the bed. he went all the way and got really into detail. he zoomed in right between her spread legs.

my husband always shows me the latest shit he sends him, that's how i know. i don't really know why he does that, maybe because he wants me to know why he has such vids on his phone.

anyways, somehow that last vid disturbed me. it was a really mean move and i feel sorry for that girl. ofc it's her own fault for sleeping with such a douchebag, but him spreading her nudes is really disrespectful.
and to be completely honest, it upsets me that this guy sends such vids to married men.
it might be stupid, but i fear that my husband suddenly feels the urge to "go party and fuck random bitches" again, if he sees what this idiot can pull on a regular basis (that girl was seriously hot and the coworker is some lanky pizza face...).

i fear the day he wants to invite my husband for a night out.
what should i do besides calming the fuck down and staying realistic?
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I'm going to give you the best advice anybody will ever give you about this.

Talk to the people in your life that are affecting you, not the internet. Tell him that it disturbs you and you think it's sick and rather than trying to boss him around as in "stop it or else!" Just tell him "the more of that shit you show me, and the more that I know you're looking at it, it makes me lose respect for you and that makes me sad.
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>>18669322
He raped that woman. She was asleep. Your husband watches rape videos of women being objectified. You think this is okay? Really?
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>>18669333
Pretty sure OP meant that he recorded her while she was sleeping, not that he was fucking her while she was asleep.

Also OP. Yes he shows you because he feels uneasy and he gives you an opening to tell him you're uncomfortable with it, and/or he alleviates his guilt by expressly making you complicit.

Worry less that he sent your man this video than about your husband having no issues being friends with a sex offender. It wasn't "her own fault for sleeping with such a douchebag", people can have wildly different sides and anyone can be unpleasantly surprised. Even then being naive is not comparable to abusing someone's good faith in you and spreading the footage to top it all off. It could ruin her life if that shit leaked and he doesn't care.

If he wasn't sending your husband videos of women like this he would probably be sending him regular porn - or some other friend would. Other women exist and he will have friends who live it up and have one night stands, that's just a fact of life. I think your priorities are way off here honestly.

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>Best friend of 15 years' and I get an apartment together

>Best friend gets a girlfriend about 2 months into the lease

>Best friend's girlfriend is super controlling, domineering, manipulative... also ultra liberal, attends protest marches in the city etc

>Best friend's girlfriend found out through my best friend I like Trump

>immediate change in attitude, cold towards me, actively manipulates him against me, blames everything wrong on me, best friend and his girlfriend no longer hang out with me and my girlfriend, but will hang out with our other mutual friends

>Best friend's girlfriend talked to my girlfriend and tried to get her to break up with me because I like Trump

>Lease is up, I'm moving out, best friend no longer talking to me

Not a troll. Would appreciate some kind words.
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Your friend and his girlfriend are both losers, covfefe. Sad!
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>>18669043
He was never your friend in the first place bud. The saying "bros before hoes" comes into play here.
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>>18669053

Thanks man. Fuck girlfriends.

Alright, so I'm 18 and 5ft6, and while I do think I started puberty later than most, I doubt I will grow any more.

How do I still maintain self-esteem while living with the knowledge that women are viscerally repulsed by my stature, and men will simultaneously pity and disparage me? How can I possibly have any confidence to speak of at this height?

I'm off to University in a year, and I know how much of an ordeal it will be for me as far as women go; so how do I fortify myself to be able to deal with all the mockery and rejection I will have to endure?
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>>18668557
I've dated a guy your height, I know guys shorter than you with girlfriends. It is not a life sentence.

Find pride in other things other than your looks.
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Stop giving a fuck. If you were tall you'd just find something else to be insecure about. Acquire currency and fuck bitches, the best way.
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>>18668560
>I know guys shorter than you with girlfriends.
Yeah, but it's rare. Like how some people with facial disfugurements have girlfriends.

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I'm currently a college freshman in Europe, I plan on majoring in CS, and perhaps math — either as a second major or minor. I'm genuinely interested in both subjects.
What should be my course of action and what are my options (excluding entrepreneurship) if my main goal is to make a lot of money?
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Be a corporate drone at an F500 company, enjoy your boring as fuck life.
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>>18668400
"Corporate drone" isn't a job.
I don't care if you think it's boring, why do you give a fuck what I want to do with my life?
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It's honestly too early for you to worry about it too much. Whatever you have in mind now for the future, it's very likely you will have changed your mind by the time you get closer to graduating.

i've suffered from nearly constant suicidal ideation for a decade now.

god i need a way out. any advice, can't be a lot of money because i have none. i'm so fucking tired of having nothing and no one and no fucking reason.
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this might not be the most optimistic of posts but I thoroughly believe in assisted suicide. there are many ways to end your life while preserving your dignity, pic related.

that being said i'm sure I don't need to tell you not to be hasty. you've probably heard that all your life. Most people will tell you not to kill yourself out of self obligated morality without knowing the full extent of your suffering. Though credit should be given to those who actually care.

The point is that you must consider your options. If you're going to kill yourself don't do it while intoxicated. do it with a level head, be conscious of your actions so that you can minimize as many emotional factors as possible.

Don't half ass it though. either go through with it or find yourself a purpose. that's what I do. it doesn't even need to be some grand spectacle, I just fuck around and do challenge runs of dark souls all day. i'll probably kill myself at 50 when my eyes turn to shit, but i've been preparing for a while now. good luck friend.
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>>18668007
That's really fucked, dude. There is no way to kill yourself while preserving your dignity. The act of suicide is probably the most selfish way you can die.
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>>18668007
>i'm sure I don't need to tell you not to be hasty
nope i've put close to 15 years of thought into this.

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Looking for advice on online dating. I'm a girl so I'm not too worried about getting no bites, but I honestly have no idea what to expect. I've already set up an OKCupid profile, but I was wondering if anyone had some opinions on the best sites to use (looking for relationship material, not hookups). Is maybe /soc/ an option too (I think I'd get along with a channer better than anyone else). How much do people usually chat with each other before they make a date? Should I respond to everyone who contacts me out of courtesy, or should I just ignore the ones that I don't find attractive? Is there a statute of limitations on responding to messages people send me? Is it disrespectful to be chatting up mutliple potential matches at the same time? If I'm not hitting it off with someone I'm talking to how do I gently let them know I'm not interested? Am I in any danger going on dates with strangers I've never met face-to-face? Should I be upfront about the fact that I'm a virgin who's never been in a relationship and make that info available on my profile, or should I reveal to people later after getting to know them? I tend to be pretty self-depricating, and I don't really want to advertise a persona that I won't be able to live up to, but should I keep self-deprication off my profile or is it fine for a girl? And how common is it for girls to be doing the hunting on these sites? I'm really shy so independantly contacting men scares the shit out of me.

If anyone has just general advice on how to get the most out of this shit from experience please let me in on it. Any stories about online dating that are relavent or just interesting are also welcome.
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Rule number 1: Just don't.
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>>18667951
Don't date online? I've never had much luck finding people offline, though. I'm lonely, I want a good man who will love and fuck me.
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>>18667947
post a selfie

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NEET general.

I posted this yesterday, but no one gave a fuck... I guess I'll post one last time and see if any of you NEETs care.

I'm not a NEET anymore. I'm making this thread because I remember thinking: "if and when I get a job, I'll tell the NEET general that things CAN and DO change". And so here I am, writing this.

I was in uni when I got health issues, so I went back home. I lived with my mom at the time, in a small, poor town. After some months, doctors discovered I had HL, and I had to do therapy for a year. After that, I got depressed, and sat at home alone most of the day, most days, for some 4-5 years, barely doing anything, only trying to learn the things I liked (computer in general), sometimes trying to think how to get out of my shitty situation, but not doing much else. I was ashamed of being myself.

After reading some random stuff and processing it for a while, I thought: "I guess there is no other way to fix myself but to start small. I'll find something to do, keep doing it, have some patience, get some money and, from there, rebuild my life." So I started selling small, cheap stuff, and fixing computers/phones. I posted ads on facebook (there are some rather big sales groups), told my friends about it, and got some replies. Meanwhile, I made a website to learn about webdev, applied to some dev jobs and got some replies, but didn't get hired. Then some friends told me about a job, to which I applied... And I got hired. I'm still at it, 8 months later. It's been great. I've also saved some money.

I don't feel lke a good example to imitate. But still, this doesn't mean shit. Life isn't fair, nor it is a linear experience. I've suffered some shit, nothing saved me from having to endure that suffering. Shit happens, that's reality. Try to learn from it, and from others, and do something with that. Even in the worst situation, you CAN do something for yourself. Some people WILL help you.

So, get up and do it.
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>>18667648
Thanks
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>>18667648
I'll add some stuff:

If you want me to give you tips or help you with something, just ask.

English is not my first language, so excuse me if I made a mistake.

> I don't feel lke a good example to imitate.
I suppose this will sound sort of arrogant, but... I'm stubborn, kinda lucky, smart (according to people who know me, and judging by the things I've managed to do), and not bad looking (racism *IS* a reality). I guess this did help me... Which is why I don't feel like a good example.

BUT, I've been poor most of my life. Things changed for good only a couple of months ago. And it was a rather long process to try to change myself..

>inb4 made up BS
Go fuck yourself.

>>18667660
You are welcome.
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finally an advice thread on an advice board

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Write letters, vent your frustrations, confess your sins, let it all out /adv/
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>>18667250
She finally deleted the pictures of us off her social media. And she's been dating her new boyfriend for over a month now.

I don't know what this feeling is. I feel sad. But happy at the same time. I told them congrats on their status update. Not really much I could say. She hates me. I know she does.

I hope he treats her right. And I hope she treats him better than she treated me. I hope she can be happy. I really loved her. And it fucking hurts to see her happier with someone than me. But atleast shes happier. Thats all that matters.

I just miss her so much.

If anyone is going through something similar. Check this song out. Its a fucking knife to the heart.
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>>18667267
Damn, is the new boyfriend black at least?
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I want to talk with you but I don't want to be the one to initiate the conversation because I've been doing it a lot lately. If you care to talk with me, you will message me yourself. The problem is that you don't and it's making me sad.

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Have you ever ghosted or blocked someone?

How did you feel afterwards, did you end up getting back in touch?
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Never again
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>>18667091
ya, I just stopped talking to him on Christmas actually.

between us as friends I was always the punching bag and stepping stool to make him seem much more interesting. anyone who'd hang around with us would have this shared joke that everyone no matter how shit they were, was always better than me.

I kind of played a role since I never stood up for myself and played the part all the time until one day I got so distracted and never signed back in.

not sure if this is ghosting OP but now even though I am no longer the butt of jokes and no longer being used as an esteem booster, I now have no friends.
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>>18667091
I cut contact from my abusive parents and it was one of the best decisions I'd ever made. You don't owe anybody anything, it's ok to be selfish.

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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This girl waves at me whenever I pass by, but I'm too ugly and will never have her on my penis. ;_;
What do I do about this?
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>>18666946
next time she waves at you give her a very awkward highfive.
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I'm 24 she is 29. I never had a GF nor did I have sex before.

Will it put her off if we go for it and I tell her before that? She is very mature and successful but I am afraid this might turn her off.

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I'm thinking about getting a nose Job. I hear from many people often that i have a big nose. whats you opinion 4chan?

I hate looking the mirror.
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>>18666734
#2
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>>18666734
You can't hide the Jew, goy.
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>>18666737
#3

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