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>>17955384
>Why does most advice suck?
Because we can't tell the future and we don't know what's going to happen.

Most advice sucks because people sugar coat it to spare feelings, or the recipient doesnt try to follow advice at all then complains that nothing is working.

One of the few redeeming qualities I have is I always tell my friends the honest truth, it pisses them off but they always thank me months later lol

>>17955384

Are you making a generality out of your bad experience with /adv/ ? I thought people are well intentioned and they helped in many ways.
They can't always excell at every question, you're free to refuse an advice, but don't come telling me NOBODY gave you a good answer to a specific /adv/ you asked. You probably asked a question and dismissed every answer.

Anyway, do you need an advice right now ? Ask your question away, will try to help. I'm doing my best when I come here, student in psychology, try to help most people with bad phases when they get in here, and also a few "practical" advice about studying or life in general.

Oc nobody is going to give you THE advice to make your life, x10 better

Let it go, she's getting married.

Come on, man, don't be that guy. She's getting married. I know its hard but you just gotta let her go.

>>17955345
Do you have autism? Be honest

Did you make it clear that it was a break up? What made it not work out? Cause that might have a lot to do with how he feels atm.

>>17955359
I told him I just can't handle a relationship atm (I was going through a lot of emotional shit at the time) and he said he understands. He's dated people since so I thought we were on the same page. I dunno how I can make myself clearer. When we were dating he would only speak like he was my boyfriend over text, I think maybe I would be open to dating again if he would actually seem like he wants to date me outside of texting.

Ughh, I've been in the guys pov in a similar situation before with a bf of mine. Atleast you gave him a chance. Props.

Anyway, do you mean he didn't do relationship stuff like dates, movies ect. And only just texted? I mean if it's based on that, he might not have the confidence to initiate stuff with you. When a guy really likes someone, sometimes they become to careful to not mess things up.

>>17955365
>> I think maybe I would be open to dating again if he would actually seem like he wants to date me outside of texting
Are you possibly giving mixed signals? It might be the reason why he is still flirting.

Break up with the one you don't want to fuck and be done with it. Or you'll keep stringing him along until he posts here about his cheating girlfriend where we'll give him the advice to dump the whore.

>>17955324
Go with emotional.

You need that more than a good fuck.

>>17955337
But they've been together for half a year anon and he still just doesn't get her!

You have no job and no reference to put down when you apply for another job

>>17955322
Oh that's nothing, was worried about some retarded fine or whatever but cool

>>17955311
some places have the right to withhold your last pay check

By either (1) doing something about it or (2) not caring. You'll be dead by the end of this century for sure and all this will be long forgotten, so who gives a fuck? Find something you enjoy and do it. Waste time then die.

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start over. look at this cute picture of a cute cabbage-hat baby

>If you slept through your 26th birthday, it's too late for you to experience that. It's too late for you to watch "LOST" in its premiere broadcast. (Though, honestly, you didn't miss much.) It's too late for you to fight in the Vietnam War. It's too late for you to go through puberty or attend nursery school. It's too late for you to learn a second language as proficiently as a native speaker*. It's probably too late for you to be breastfed.

>It's not too late for you to fall in love.

>It's not too late for you to have kids.

>It's not too late for you to embark on an exciting career or series of careers.

>It's not too late for you to read the complete works of Shakespeare; learn how to program computers; learn to dance; travel around the world; go to therapy; become an accomplished cook; sky dive; develop an appreciation for jazz; write a novel; get an advanced degree; save for your old age; read "In Search of Lost Time"; become a Christian, then an atheist, then a Scientologist; break a few bones; learn how to fix a toilet; develop a six-pack ...

>Honestly, I'm 47, and I'll say this to you, whippersnapper: you're a fucking kid, so get over yourself. I'm a fucking kid, too. I'm almost twice your age, and I'm just getting started! My dad is in his 80s, and he wrote two books last year.

>You don't get to use age as an excuse. Get off your ass!

>Also, learn about what economists call "sunk costs." If I give someone $100 on Monday, and he spends $50 on candy, he'll probably regret that purchase on Tuesday. In a way, he'll still think of himself as a guy with $100—half of which is wasted.

>What he really is is a guy with $50, just as he would be if I'd handed him a fifty-dollar bill. A sunk cost from yesterday should not be part of today's equation. What he should be thinking is this: "What should I do with my $50?"

>What you are isn't a person who has wasted 27 years. You are a person who has X number of years ahead of you. What are you going to do with them?

>>17955244
write your memories down in detail with each item as you discard it. retain your writings instead of garbage. problem solved.

>>17955256

Not op but this is a brilliant idea, maybe even start a photo album

>>17955256
I wonder though how much paper that would take as surely each memory would take several pages to fill in all the details? And it wouldn't be the same as touching/seeing/smelling the thing in invoking memories.

>>17955215

Oh that's an easy one. Just let other guys bang your girlfriend or one of your bitches.

join clubs. don't feel deterred if they don't want to interact with you at first.

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Dude weed lmao

>>17955193
leave her

>>17955193
Seems like you do not know women at all Anon. She went with the guy to fill emptiness caused by your absence; every girl does that, does not mean she loves him.

Apparently she loves you very much, and you are just a fag for forcing her to end a friendship of hers just for your whim.
Stop being a cuck and have her close to you, just forget what she did for a couple of months. If you can not do that for your childish behaviour, I believe you ought to just plain leave her forever.

>>17955193
>only together for 10 months
>had to take a "break" for 2
>she cheated
>gets mad not wanting to loose touch with him
>threatens to leave you
>then begs for you not to leave her

Jesus Christ ABORT

What do you honestly expect someone to say here? Do you want a detailed step by step guide? Do you want encouragement? Do you want us to call you a faggot?

There's no luck son, if you've done it once then you can do it again.

You are most likely a teenager. It will pass. You will meet many people during your life who will be superior in every way.

You care too much.
Fb is an illusion.
Wait a week and forget this ever happened.

You haven't had anything to do with each other for 2 and a half years, why WOULD he tag you?

>>17955178
Thats true, I do care too much about dumb stuff like this. I'm not sure why

>>17955185
I duno, its a photo of us when we were friends and we didn't have a nasty falling out so I'm not sure why he wouldn't. I guess since we haven't spoken for years I can understand, and that he still speaks to the others friends hence why he tagged them

Mbti is too fickle. Try enneagram instead or the four humours, instead.

Yes. Online MBTI tests are inaccurate as fuck and don't even really explain how MBTI even works. Learn about it yourself, especially the functions. Then read about each type. Be honest with yourself, and you'll be able to see which one you are.

>>17955184
i don't want to read books of jungian psychology just to get an archetype.

>>17955150
Check your bank statements on that account you paid with.

And seriously man, fuck MoneyGram. Go to the bank and pay the extra four bucks so you can have a receipt attached to it. They keep track of that, you have a very obvious paper trail.

As for him saying you didn't do shit...he sounds like a shit.

>>17955174

I don't get bank statements, my balance and transaction history is done through the app on my phone. I found both the payment I made when I bought the money order for that month's rent and the one I made when I bought the money order for the late fee, but I don't think that'll help me at all.

Money orders are free at my bank but I'm a nocturnal person due to my job so I'm never up when they're open. Unless you're referring to a different $4 fee. But would getting money orders from the bank make it easier to track it if something like this happens again?

>>17955198
>I found both the payment I made when I bought the money order for that month's rent and the one I made when I bought the money order for the late fee, but I don't think that'll help me at all.
Why not? Go to the bank and get them to print out a copy for you if you're worried that he won't accept it on your phone

>>17955145
depends on your cultural background really.

>>17955147
I grew up in a wealthy suburb and majority of the people I ended meeting were white, even as Im in college right now.

>>17955145
Races tend to have their own cultures and cultures tend to stick to their own.

Bait

Sounds to me like she has a fat fetish, she also really seems to like humiliation.

Post pics!