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Mental block on logic thinking. 2017-01-13 01:29:17 Post No.17952779
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Mental block on logic thinking.
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How do I deal with mental block on maths and programming stuff? Shit I just want so much to create stuff. I want to start from minecraft plugins, But I just fucking can't. I have so fucking much ideas, I think about them all the time. But when I try to do something like sit and learn this shit I just feel like I'm in fucking School and I hate what im doing and Im not doing it for myself at all. I don't know. I always sucked and hated maths and I still hate it. But I feel like I just need these skills to accomplish my goals. To do cool stuff. And I fucking hate this new species of hipster-like nerds. Who play heartstone, cs:go, do some shit on I-os or android and think they are better than everyone.
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>>17952779
>Who play heartstone, cs:go, do some shit on I-os or android and think they are better than everyone.
That has nothing to do with your mental block. Do you usually start writing a paragraph and half-way through decide to stop insulting hipsters?
Your problem seems to be focus. I mean, you didn't even finish this paragraph right. Stop focusing on other stuff and focus more in whatever you are doing.
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dunno. This thought just appeared an i said it. I never think about one thing at the same time. I said hipster-like but I guess It wass my inner interpreatation or something. I thought about programming... but than i thought that i don't like some kind of people who have lots in common with programming. I do have another problems than concentration. Sory for this stupid wierd change of subject.
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Shit only if I could edit this last part and remove it. It would change everything. Maybe. I know nothing.
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pls halp
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>>17952664
short answer: no
long answer: no
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Not with the information provided no.
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>>17952664
yes your math homework is possible and easy
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My friend is thinking about getting into the porn industry and I want to convince them not to. She is 18 and graduated highschool, has a kid already and thinks it's the only path that seems viable. I try to tell her she will have trouble getting into a secure relationship because of it and she says I'm just a conservative and that mentality is bullshit. Any advice?
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>>17952663
Yeah, you should fuck her. Just fucking ride that shit until you cum buckets
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Just show her facial abuse and ask her if she'd like that
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>>17952669
Lol this
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Hi /adv, I seriously need your help.
One month ago I asked a girl out, she immediately said yes, and the date was actually great.
Since I work in another city and come home just for the weekends I am forced to ask her out just for fridays and saturdays, and she knows it.
The day after the first date she texted me she was looking forward to a second date.
Here comes the real story.
Around the next wednesday I asked her if the saturday she was free, she said she already planned to spend it with her mom, so I said that it was no problem.
The next week I did similar, and she said she had a dinner with her coworkers.
The last week I asked her out again, and she said she was sick.
Now
What am I supposed to do? I mean, she was happy about the date, she complimented me about the place I brought her, and during the date she talked about what we could do "the next time". But right now I feel like she is finding every excuse to turn me down.
She isn't the type that texts you first, so..what would you do if you were me?
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>>17952616
find a new girl.
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>>17952638
This, shes dodging you. Just go blackout mode, if she doesn't ever text you thats your answer.
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>>17952616
>what would you do if you were me?
Shrug and move on.
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My boyfriend keeps assuring me that he loves me and at times, I feel so happy and content to know I'm loved but other times I feel like he doesn't. I'll pick out the smallest of things that don't mean anything and make something out of them.. like I overthink and make something out of a meaningless text and end up getting sad over NOTHING at all.
What is this? Why do I need constant reassurance please tell me what to do I don't want him to leave me I can't lose him
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I'm sorry if this isn't making sense to you guys I don't know how to put what I'm feeling into words so it may be a bit gibberish
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1) Get rid of your smartphone, this will only exacerbate the situation with you constantly texting him or at the very least get a throwaway phone with a 60 minute limit per month
Do you have any hobbies? You sound like you don't have much else in your life other than your boyfriend.
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If you don't feel loved then either he's doing things that rightfully make you think that he doesn't love you, or there's a deeper issue that only therapy can help you with.
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Why people in relationships can't handle jokes and teasing with past sex partners? Had a wonderful time a few years ago with a lady friend and sometimes I joke about it (in non-offensive manner) but that makes her not contacting me for a long time after it, although she knows that I'm not hitting on her or anything like that, and I don't plan to destroy her current relationship. If she reacted, it would count as cheating in her mindset?
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>>17952565
You're putting her in an uncomfortable position.
While it isn't cheating, talking about the sex you had with a past sex partner, even if just in a joking manner, is definitely inappropriate and might make her partner feel bad.
Stop doing it.
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>sometimes I joke about it (in non-offensive manner)
>she gets obviously offended despite your claim
Really makes you think
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Because you're flirting with her and she doesn't appreciate it
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How to be a successful NEET in Australia? 2017-01-13 10:28:48 Post No.17952517
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How to be a successful NEET in Australia? 2017-01-13 10:28:48 Post No.17952517
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How to be a successful NEET in Australia?
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2017-01-13 10:28:48
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It feels literally fucking impossible, everything is so expensive and overpriced in this humid shithole.
Yet there's no incentive to go out and get a job because there is no demand for someone with no prior experience and it just makes you more miserable than when you were broke.
Centrelink seems absolutely fucking munted as well, and I probably shouldn't rely on that but if there's a possibility to do so, I wouldn't mind.
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NEET life is awful.
If I can't escape soon I'll kill myself.
This country is so shit.
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>>17952517
neet life is unsustainable take any job you can get and work your way up
it's the only way
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oath am 18 outta highschool and trying to get centrelink payments
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How do I become Dexter?
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>>17952499
Is that lil yachty
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>>17952543
It's rich the kid
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>>17952549
Do you enjoy listening to lil boat?
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How would you end someone else's relationship? 2017-01-13 09:22:53 Post No.17952428
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How would you end someone else's relationship? 2017-01-13 09:22:53 Post No.17952428
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How would you end someone else's relationship?
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2017-01-13 09:22:53
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>Desires specific individual
>Individual has boyfriend
How would you "put an end to it"?
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If she's so weak her relationship can be destroyed by someone who can't even think of a way to do it himself, your relationship with her isn't going to last very long, if at all.
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>>17952428
stop being pathetic and move on. find someone else
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Murder. There's no other way to get rid of someone who is superior to you in every way.
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When a person doesn't respond to one of your messages on a dating site should you consider it a lost cause and not bother trying to rekindle a discussion with them
Even if before they were semi-conversing with you
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>>17952411
Maybe nudge them after 2 or more days with only one message, and if after a week or something they don't respond, consider it a loss.
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wouldn't bother with someone if you can't hold a convo for a couple min without getting bored
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>>17952420
That's what I was thinking for the majority who do this to me but one of them just kinda said something unclear and then never got back to me.
Really sucks too cause her in specific I kind of wanted to twist into asking out... Even if I know I didn't have much of a chance since she displayed the common low interest trait of sticking to one liners like "Why" "No" "Yes" "Oh"
By the way this is some rude ass behavior I can only seem to get out of a girl on the internet. It's hilarious.
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I have an odd rationality of confidence, I don't have a problem speaking in front of crowds, but I have a problem drawing close to people. For instance I don't kiss any family members and havn't elementary school, anytime someone can tell I'm depressed I imedeatly reject opening up. I will be 19 soon and I'm still a virgin (short meaningless relationships is all I've had), again I don't have the confidence. The first time I kissed a girl was in 8th grade, because she basically asked me out. I'm like a solid 7/10, lean, with some muscle, average height. I don't feel that virginity is holding me back but each day passes and I don't want to be casted for the revamped "40 year old virgin". What do?
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Go to a psychologist, I'm ADHD (which is not the same problem) but I went to a psychologist. It's been 6 months now and I can comfortable control my emotions and manage my time.
I very strongly recommend you go see a psychologist, if you deem your confidence issue too big to handle it yourself.
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>>17952391
I'm almost 20 and i'm in the same position as you.
Except the closest i've gotten asked out 3 times and had the girl change her mind a few days before the date.
Besides that i've never really spoken to any girls. I've never even kissed a girl.
Maybe it'll get better.
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>>17952396
I'm a college student how affordable are these services, I think they offer counselling but again. But again the same problems I face are the sane ones that make it hard to get help, because I fear opening up. Which is why I resort to 4chan
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Girl I have thought was THE ONE for the past 6 years is officially getting married now. We were close friends, she got a boyfriend, I said something but I suppose I didnt have much of a chance since she was obsessed with him. I know im going to get shit for saying she is the one, but i have tried to find someone else and no one has come close.
I have had girlfriends before, they all didnt seem right. Im almost 30, im starting to panic. I feel like im going to vomit. i want to die
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>>17952372
You've obviously idealized this woman because of familiarity. I'd suggest branching out and finding a new one.
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>>17952373
Its not as though i am not trying. I am meeting some gal for the first time Monday for Lunch. But I am skeptical probally a personality conflict. Im very interverted, I have been forcing myself to be social and women can sense that, so a lot of date failures. I have been in 3.5/ 4 relationships. But all but one didnt last long, I tend to attract girls/women who didnt go to college and end up mostly just wanting money from me.
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>>17952373
Highly suggest this answer, if you really look you can probably find something better
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How do I deal with this? 2017-01-13 08:10:06 Post No.17952362
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How do I deal with this?
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Hi 4/chinz.
I typically lurk between /pol, /x, and /b, and this will be the first time I've ever bothered with /adv, so feel free to deliver.
My wife of 8 years has just been diagnosed with an acute late stage, high grade, carcinoma. The prognosis is as bleak as it could be, but there is some hope in that it hasn't metastasized to elsewhere in her body.
We have two children under the age of 10.
My beautiful lady is 5 months from turning 31.
This situation has turned my entire life upside down, never before have I felt so helpless, so impotent, or unable to protect my woman, than now.
When confronted with such a problem, one would imagine that these feelings would be normal. I accept the logic behind such a statement.
What I want to know is how do I rationalise the coming death of my wife, my partner, the mother of my children? How do I rise above the acceptance of this knowledge that she will never see her son leave primary school, bring his first girlfriend home, have a beer with him on his 18th birthday? How do I reconcile the fact that my 3yr old daughter will never play tea parties, have her hair braided, or tell her mum how she thinks she likes some boy in her teens?
My life learned lessons up until this point in dealing with personal loss (both grandparents, father, brother, aunt, 3 family friends parents) had sustained me through a very tough past decade. But all that loss has not given me any solace in being able to rationalise this loss.
If any of you have been here before, your comment is welcome.
TIA.
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Oh dear. I'mean very sorry, OP. To be perfectly frank this is a little above our paygrade; we mostly deal with people who want to lose their virginity.
I suppose you should try to make the most of your remaining time with her. There is most certainly a support group for people like you; the doctor can probably direct you to some.
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>>17952366
The irony of me posting this on 4chan is not beyond me.
I just went through some of the other stuff in this board, you are truly correct in your summation of what /adv is about.
I have a solid support group of peers, and family, but none of them bar my mother has been in this situation.
I guess I'm just looking for the most logical way to rationalise my absolute worst fears, my own mortality has never been something I have questioned, even after having children. I always figured I'd be the first to go given my extreme lifestyle choices prior to meeting my wife. There is an 8yr age gap between us, and I can;t seem to understand why I can't deal with this problem in the way I have previously.
I fucking hate cancer, and I hate the fact that Big Pharma lobbyists have made it impossible for people like my wife to be able to access proven alternative therapies like whole plant extract cannabis oil. I now have to walk back into being a criminal in order to help her while she deals with the legalised, contemporary, poisons that the government legislated oncologists see fit to dose her up with.
I guess I can deal with her loss, what I'm struggling with is that my kids are losing the one person who means the most to them, the one who brought them into this shitty world.
FML
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>>17952362
Praying for you OP
I did coke on Tuesday and the left side of my chest has been hurting ever since I woke up the next morning, wat do
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>>17952354
its ur heart. just take it easy and wait it out if you do coke alot or hlf history of heart conditions maybe see a doc
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>>17952354
wait a min bro its friday. holy shit yea if its been hurting for a week maybe see a doc cuz it ur heart
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>>17952356
That's what I was worried about, I'll schedule something tommorow. I'm just surprised because I didn't do much
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Why do I cry in my sleep? A lot of mornings I'll wake up with wet eyes and a damp pillow. I'll feel like I just cried.
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These aren't night terrors either. I won't wake up in the middle of the night feeling scared. I'll sleep for a full 8 hours and wake up as said.
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I wish i cried before i woke up, my eyes get so crusty.
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Maybe you drool instead and roll your face in it