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I've been renting a room from this guy for quite a while now. I always leave my webcam on when I'm gone.

Recently I caught pictures of him walking around my room naked. I'm furious and will be moving out as soon as possible.

How do I get payback at this guy?
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Next time, for starters, maybe don't leave the webcam on when you're gone? Maybe he just likes being naked as way to relax in private.
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>>17953157
He's not supposed to be fucking doing it in OP's room though.
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>>17953145
he's not bothering you in any way though. Why do you care

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I'm pretty passive as I am, so why is it that people feel the need to hurt my feelings? I feel like the space I create between us causes them anxiety so they lash out at me in weird ways. People say the most harsh things sometimes and I don't know why.

I think I might start documenting whenever someone says something bad to me. Should I take it up with HR everytime someone is offensive?
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Quit that job, and become a Pokemon trainer instead.
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>>17953053
how exactly do they lash out?
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>>17953060
Yes, that's my ultimate dream but I kinda need money. I like living under a roof with food and internet

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I'm a 5/10 and look like the average /r9k/ poster. I've tried hitting on girls my league but they all rejected me.

Somehow I sometimes get attention from 9/10s . At first I tought they're just joking with me but this keeps happening. They're even the ones hitting on me but everytime I sperged out and missed my chances.

Lately some girl I know from uni (only said hi to her while walking to class nothing more) sat next to me in course a week ago. She introduced herself and we talked for 30 min before class started.

What should I do? Is she being friendly? I'm fat and autistic as shit why are these girls talking to me?

pic related, it's what uni girl looks like
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Most girls want to start with a casual, friendly type of encounter before even considering "dating". Just chill, talk to her, be yourself. If it doesn't spark, don't cling and move on.
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>>17953031
Are they hitting on you or just being nice?
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>>17953031
Similar experience here, can't seem to accomplish shit with 5/10's but last semester my 8/10 friend got me blackout drunk, we fucked, and now we're dating. Just enjoy the ride and don't question it too much.

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I'm a gamer. I collect games. I'm 28 and I've gotten far ahead in my life all thanks to gaming, in terms of education, jobs and social life.

Yet my parents fail to understand all of this. They consider gaming to be a kids thing. They tell me constantly that you should grow up, that's just mindless waste of time. Sell out your old games. Yet they are borderline slot machine addicts, playing for hours upon hours almost daily.

Right now i'm in their house helping to pack up belongings and throwing out old stuff due to an upcoming house sale and brought my PS4 with me. Now, I have put it to their TV, yet they haven't noticed. The only time I feel "ok" to play it is when they are out of the house. This is, to say the least, outright ridiculous.

Any advice or comments on this? I though this would end after I moved out, but even after becoming a selfsustained adult and paying for this stuff on my own, I feel like my parents are acting unsupportive towards my choices.
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>>17953029
You live with your parents at 28 and consider yourself a self sustaining adult?
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>>17953029
How did gaming make you get far ahead?
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>>17953029

This is a generational difference. Gaming is something that didn't exist as such back in when your parents were young. They didn't grow into it. I'm assuming they got your first games/gaming systems for you when you were a kid, so that's why they associate it with childishness. You can't really convince them otherwise, because of your different life experiences. At the best, just say it's your hobby and you'd appreciate it if they let you unwind the way you see fit. There's no point in wasting breath arguing about it.

My boyfriend is 34 and I'm 24. I don't want them now but I'm 75% sure I want kids eventually. I knew he wasn't crazy about the idea but I broached the subject last night and he says in the 4 years we've been together he's not warmed up to the idea at all.

What do I do here? We have the best relationship I've known anybody to have in my life, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him.

At the same time I dont want to turn thirty, decide I really really want kids and have him say no and gave to try and date 10 years past my prime or do it alone without him

any advice? thank you
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what is the state of this world where manchildren can make it to thirty and have a woman ten years younger who is more maternal than them.

i feel this is an exeption to the norm.

you have to red pill his ass. tell him all about the culture war and how whites are being out bred and are set to be race replaced in two generations. tell him you will take his seed and proliferate it along the grand tapestry of history.

if he still says no, call him a cuck, leave him; and if you are 7/10 or above with no genetic disease, then find me and i will impregnate you.
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>>17953044
yikes
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>>17953026
Discuss this with him deeply.
If he's so convinced he never wants kids, just spend some time alone and decide if the possibility of never having kids is fine for you or not.
If your views are irreconcilable, then leave.

I broke up with a guy because of this. It isn't easy. It hurt a lot and it made my life miserable for a long time. It's really hard to leave a relationship you are happy in, but it's the best bet for your future.

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I just want to make a lot of money. I have a Journalism degree. What's the highest paying entry level job I can get, assuming I'm willing to put up with a lot of bullshit?
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>>17953019
Journalism is writing for the noncreative.
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You should become a Pokemon trainer. I hear that pays quite well.
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>>17953051
Creative writing is for people too lazy to research a subject.

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Long story short, I like a girl that friend zoned me awhile back.

I want to try dating her again. Is that I have stuff like a car and a way to get around. Before I had no job and no transport when I had asked her out last. Now I have a good job and a car finally.

The point I am making is that I would like to date her but if she wants to remain just friends, then that's fine too. I like having her as a friend because we get along so well. I have had zero arguments with her. This is also why I want to date her though.

In your opinion, how can I convey this sentence properly "I want to date you but if you just want to be friends then that's fine too".

How do I convey that in a non-turbo Autism way.
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pretty fucking easy anon. break it into two statements:
first:
>hey gril I wanna date you waddayarekon?

then if yes >ok ill see you on date

if no >ok well we can jus be frens then i guess. wanna go do friend thing on date?

if yes >great see you on date

if no >hmm well i guess you are not that interested. whatever then its your loss.

see that aint so hard. its about having self esteem and courage.
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>>17953027
I have low self esteem. How do I fix that? Also, I don't want to creep her out. How do I not creep her out? It seems like girls get creeped when dudes try to explain their feelings to a woman. Even if the dude does it non autistically
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I don't think having a car and a job would change how she feels about you but who knows...

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I've been hanging out with a church group for a few months and I met this girl there that I started to like. She's very nice, smart and pretty but she's very popular and has a boyfried who lives in another city (4 hours away).

I talked to her a few times alone while on the bus and she was nice but she's friendly with everyone.

How do I get her? Does PUA shit work for moral girls (I've read here that all women are the same) ?
I'm fat, ugly face, balding and poor. I'm going to work out and try to get a job but will that help at all?

Should I probably just ask her out and get rejected already before I start obsessing over her like some autist?
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>>17952993
>she has a boyfried
Ye you should get over it one way or another. Unless you just plan on sexing her and fucking her life up the ye PUA is good
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>>17952993
>How do I get her?

fuck off you trolling piece of shit

all you want to do is slam her pussy and them dump her and the fact that she is some "church girl" and already dating somebody else is just more of a challenge to you

i'm so sick of these utter b.s. trolling threads

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Told my best friend to fuck off and die because he took the banter too far, he apologized several time but I remained asshurt and ignored him, I usually never react like that with close friends but it was during finals and I was very stressed
it's been two months now, I don't know what to tell him
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>>17952960
The only thing you can do is admit you were being an asshole and apologize for taking your stress out on him. It's pretty obvious what you need to do
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>>17952966
yes but how do I word this without sounding like a big awkward faggot ? I've never thought I'd be worrying over my presentation in front of him since we've known each other for like a decade but I'm afraid my reaction just changed things permanently even if we become buddies again. Man, uni is becoming fucking unbearable I'm acting like a bitch on her periods
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>>17952960
Ask him to get a pint and pretend it never happened.

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My boyfriend is driving me insane. He is really unprofessional and I can't get along with him. He says I am annoying, controlling, and "not being like a woman" because I care about my career.
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Throw a coffee pot as hard as you can at his head.
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>My boyfriend is driving me insane
>He is really unprofessional
I think you have problems.
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>>17952945
Go to his house and break all his dishes. Unstitch all the crotches in his pants too

I don't where to ask for health advices since I don't lurk outside my usual boards, so I'm asking here because I need an answer kinda fast: A boil just grew on my back yesterday and it's been hurting a little, some people told me to just leave it there until it comes out, other to use some home made products, but I don't really know what to do. The thing is that I have tickets for a gig tonight and I've been waiting for it for months, the crowd in the gig is kinda violent, so my question is: Is it dangerous for the boil to be pushed or punched? Would it burst and have bad consecuences? Should I cure it now? I would really appreciate some help.
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How much time do you have left before the gig? Try to go to an urgent care to get it looked at before you go if you have time. If you do not, bandage it while at your gig and try to see a doctor as soon as you can afterwards. Either make a doctor's appointment or go to urgent care. Not an emergency room situation obviously.
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I would suggest buying some Magnesium paste from your local pharmacy and ask for advice there.
Ideally the paste should draw the boil out. It will heal naturally after a couple of days without the paste but if it's causing pain; that will haste the process.
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>>17952911

you should rub it with alcohol poke it with a pin squeeze the pus blood out put some antibiotic ointment on and a bandage

you should have done that yesterday

somebody punching you in the back may smush the boil the goop will spew out and stain your t-shirt rub with alcohol when you get home put antibiotic etc

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22 year old male, no friends, never gf, and no family for about a thousand miles.only place i don't feel like shit is at work, therefore i want to be at work more.

I work 40 hours a week with 12 hour shifts so i have three days off a week. How would i go about getting a second job? Ive never done it before. Do possible employers care I'm already working? I'm thinking of just picking up a part time shift at McDonald's.
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Become a Pokemon trainer instead
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Become a gamer! It it's a magical world!!!
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>>17952842
Holy shit, how bad is your life that you actually want a job at McDonald. Look for a hobby dude.

But on topic, employers don't give a fuck, if you get there on time they won't have a problem with it.

I'm a college faggot and i need a Part Time jod, what it's the best Part Time jod i can get?
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>>17952838
Pokemon trainer.
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>>17952841
You wish
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Something relevant to your interests

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>California
>Full time engineering student
>3 years in
>No job
>No income
>Took out my first 3.5k loan
>Received 1.7k last semester, should get the other check mid spring semester
>Have been getting financial aid since I started school
>Financial aid has been 1.5k twice a semester
>Part of EOPS (disadvantaged poor people schooling program)
>Financial aid check was $54

I had about 2.5k in my bank, 1.75k was from the loan which will be spent in about 2 weeks getting myself set up for the next year

Will be talking to my financial aid office today, but so far it doesn't look like I'll have enough to cover all my bills in February

Any idea what happened? Any advice?
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Have you tried cutting your own face off with a piece of glass?
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>>17952832
You're an idiot.
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Did you apply to internships
Did you apply to jobs
What kind of engineering

I have 4 friends all doing engineering in Southern California and they all have jobs and one of them is making 70k with commission this year

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Afternoon, basicaly I need some advice in how to initiate a conversation with girls I don't know, strangers really.
There's a friend of an acquaintance that I'm interested in, I think we have some similar interests however I've asked my the said acquaintance to introduce me to her but he's a huge fuccboi and keeps making up excuses.
I could add her to facebook and strike up a conversation but I have no idea how, any and all advice is welcomed.
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>>17952785

Why start working on a girl with 2 degrees of separation?

Hit on someone closer to you.
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>>17952791
Sadly I don't have many female friends, just about 4 and they all got boyfriends and so.
This one however I'm rather interested but doing the jump seems rather tough, any advice?
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You could stalk a bit her fb page or other social media to find put if you have any common interest, or you could just send a random fb message stating: "Do you even PRAISE THE FUCKING SUN?"

In the last scenario if she answers "yes and I'll rekt you in pvp drop the summon u faget" marry her asap

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