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so going to university to do any sort of creative art is completely useless right?
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Unless youve got an in for a media company or are super talented then yes
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>>17953721
but if you were super talented then how would the qualification help? doesnt seem worth the time or the debt
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>>17953695

not ANY creative art. you have to remember that just because an industry is more competitive doesn't mean that its non existent.

going for acting? probably a waste of time.
going for film editing? not a horrible idea.

going for painting? yeah thats pretty dumb.
going to graphic design? not as dumb.

most people also dont realize that an art degree is good for basic office employment. i got an associates in film and now i run a successful business.

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I want to leave school but also don't want to get fucked. Is my happiness *now* more important than getting qualifications then going to uni then maybe having a fulfilling career? I want to work in electronic design but there aren't really any entry level positions anywhere, not even apprenticeships...

I'm thinking about writing to some companies asking for some sort of opportunity but idk if that's something that people do.. And it's not like I don't have the necessary skills, I know my stuff I just don't have a qualification to back that up (other than my ham radio licences). University is the only route I'm told but I can't waste the next 4 years of my life. I just want to work

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You have to be 18 to post here fag. MODSSS
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>>17953690
Get started on that g.e.d. so they can at least confirm you didnt leave school just because you hate work and tests. This is literally why high school diploma and college degrees are sought out. Because these people did the work assigned and passed the tests. Among other things hiring people below 18 is just bringing in a damned liability to the work place. Stay in school and tough it out if you can. Those might be the best couple years of your life waiting for you if you end up failing to acquire good jobs and good friends.
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>>17953706
Yeah that's the thing. I don't hate work or tests... I'm a straight A student. Academic stuff just bores me to my core even if I'm good at it

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So I know this guy from school (Wish I never met him) and he totally creeps me out. Like, Really bad. He comments on my posts all the time and my parents think I'm friends with him. How can I politely get him to go away? like forever!
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>>17953621
text him that it's too much for you and you want him to back off, or delete him and block him.

When you text him or talk to him you basically give him attention though.
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>>17953621
you are over 18 now. GET YOUR OWN HOUSE!
wont go away because you havent:
>set your FB profile to private.
>is FB stalking you
you need to tell him face to face to fuck off.
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>>17953621
Pay a couple of flaming niggas to rape him in a dark alley

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Can /adv/ give me tips into how become popular on Instagram?
I know being pretty helps, but any other advice?
should i take food pics? upload everyday?
thnx for the help big guys.
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>>17953606

you need to upload every day and the majority of your pictures need to be somewhat porny.

most of them disguise what they're doing by adding inspiration quotes they didn't write and pasting them on to pictures of their taint
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>>17953615
but im not a grill, i can't do porny pics.
I'm a dude who is into rock, i guess.
should i do porny pics?
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>>17953643

you can still get a gay audience, but you need to be particularly fit and all your pics have to be of you in your underwear or doing outrageously manly stuff.

and even then its going to take some luck.

but thats if you'er tryingto be POPULAR on instagram instead of just trying to have an instagram. if you dont know what else you can bring to the table, sex is all you got.

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i don't go to parties and i don't use any kind of drug, i'm also a sperg, how can i fuck a girl that is above 5/10?
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Are you either a 5/6 or rich? Cus otherwise you're only gonna be able to pull with your personality and as an aspie that's hard.
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Not OP here but is there a way to find out how good looking I am on the 1-10 scale?
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If you dont go to parties or use tinder you wont get to fuck.

Tnx tho, so many horny geek girl just jump on my dick.

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My girlfriend was sent these creepy messages by an apparent Muslim guy. She doesn't know him and when she asked him who he was he sent her porn. She blocked him. What do I do? How do I find this faggot?
(I'll post the other messages in the reply)
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Mods j apologize for the nudity but my shitty phone has no means if cropping out or crossing out the photos
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Don't do anything, bro. He's just an idiot and muslims like creeping on hot girls
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>>17953599
But then I'll be a pussy. I Looked Up his profile but it's full of Islamic stuff. I wanna Trace his location

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So, I've had people in the past tell me I'm depressed. Both my father and internet anons have told me this. 25 year old male, dropped out of college 4 1/2 years ago, currently work in security. Diagnosed autism makes me too "slow" for everything else.

Before I start, I'm not diagnosed or anything, but I took a couple of online tests that really spoke to me, even if they're not valid. Here are all the things that appealed to me on some level.

>Feel life is not worth living (NOT SUICIDAL, just don't see the point in putting in the effort. If you're going to be miserable no matter what, then why bother)
>Get stressed very easily
>Get depressed at the turn of each season, summer into fall and winter into spring (feel like I wasted time)
>Learning disorder as child and adult
>Have trouble remembering or concentrating
>Lost interest in things I used to enjoy (drawing)
>Live in Northern Hemisphere
>Feel like life is going nowhere
>Have difficulty making decisions
>Feel fatigued
>Feel a need to always change or move around, though I don't have enough money to do so
>Takes great effort for me to do simple things
>Feel guilty about various things and need to be punished
>Feel like a failure
>Feel more dead than alive
>Feel Trapped
>Somewhat depressed when good things happen to me
>Tend to avoid events or getting out of the house except for work and grocery shopping
>Irritable and quick to anger
>Feel discouraged, unmotivated and uninspired.


So, am I depressed, guys? If so, any tips or guides for how to deal with depression?
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>>17953582

>im not diagnosed or anything
>i just took a biased test that tells everyone they're depressed unless they say they are perfect

top kek

>any tips for how to deal with depression

thereapy

>but that sounds hard/expensive

the alternative is a lifetime of misery, so go invest in some insurance, cut a few costs and see a therapist.
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>>17953582

all that being said, you cute? i dig autistic guys desu especially if they have curly hair desu
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>>17953590
Is security a good job?

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I've had a night's sleep to think about this, so I'll ask /adv/ now. Got asked to hang out over at a girl's house. Well, her family's there, there were other guys there so I thought, ok this isn't her just wanting to bang me, not with a lot of other people hanging out there. When I first got there, we were drinking, watching movies. She pulls me up and kisses me. I thought she was just being playful and it was the alcohol, so I just played along.

We stay up really late together, after everyone has gone to bed, just talking, and she says "going to go lie down after this last game". I figure, ok she's gonna go lie on that couch, and I get the other one. I head to the bathroom and when I come back she's laying on the couch, and points for me to lie next to her. Holy shit, I haven't been cuddled this good since I was a baby. I'm a virgin so just kinda going along with whatever she does. She starts holding me tighter and moves my hand over to her tits and I start grabbing them. I don't even know how time passed so quickly when we were lying there. She eventually says "I want you" and asks "are you horny" I say yes of course, but I didn't just come here for that. We just keep cuddling and I have never felt this good in my life, like I said probably since I was a baby.

As I'm leaving, I kiss her and hug hr for a long time and she asks "you still want to see me?" I say yes of course, and then we part ways. She calls me a few hours later to see how I was doing.

Did she just want dick, and not me? She did give me a bj, but I didn't wanna put it inside her. Didn't want any chance of getting her preggers. All I know for sure is I've felt things I've never felt before and I don't know where to go from here, and this girl is tall. Not as tall as me, but almost there. I don't know why I like that so much.


I'll try to tl;dr this

I met a woman and was passionate with her and I don't know if that's all it was or if there's something more to it.
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>>17953480
Like you said, you were in the mood. The alcohol and her just put you in a really cozy mood, it seems.

Hit her up, may be make her dinner or go for a movie. She's obviously not one for going the traditional dating route -- since she literally grabbed your D. So, I'd say be more straight forward about all this and you'll soon find out how she's like and whether she's dating material. (My best is no because she was so openly sexual so soon, but that's just my opinion.)
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>>17953480
>I don't know if that's all it was or if there's something more to it

We aren't mindreaders. You've gotta figure this out with her.
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>>17953486
>My best is no because she was so openly sexual so soon, but that's just my opinion.
Pay no attention to this. I've had sex with all my previous girlfriends before I started "dating" them. (11 months, 5 years and 4 years, respectively)

Some girls know what they want, I don't want to play games. Just be natural with her, you'll be fine.

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I have a lot of friends and I used to ask myself the same thing then I met a new friend a few months ago that I really resonate with on a deeper level and it blew my mind how happy it made me.
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>>17953467
Because you're lonely.

Unless it's chemically drive, go meet a few people or talk to old friends. Or maybe even family. It'll help stave off the loneliness if only for a brief moment.

Personally, I go to stream sites with a built in chat when I get so lonely. It's as if I'm talking to people, getting to know a group personally, without actually exerting much energy that would otherwise drain me if it were in person.
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>>17953467
I'm alone too we are both alone i will not physically exist but i can post i this thread feeling alone is hard to overcome your self just talk to somebody
T. Another lain fag

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How bad of an idea is it to date, or in my case continue dating an incredibly insecure NEET girl? I feel like the life is being choked out of me.
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Benis :DDDD
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>>17953451
What?
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>>17953417
>life is being choked out of me.

Well, sure sounds like a bad idea. But you knew that already.

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How do I stop having this stupid weird envy-crush on a friend's boyfriend?

He's straight and I can neither be him or with him and this is taking me nowhere.
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>>17953415
Stop hanging around him
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Get attention from other men. If it's a crush out of jealousy then I'm assuming you aren't getting the contact you want from other guys.
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>>17953435
Our friend-group is quite tightly knit (she's the sister of the heart of the group, the entire squad would collapse if they cut ties), so avoiding him is pretty much impossible.

>>17953445
I'm not jealous of my friend for having him, really. I'm jealous OF him, he is gorgeous and I am not.

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Why are dudes so desperate when it comes to women and such?

I will admit, I am desperate as fuck. I don't express it though. No idea why I am like this. I guess I just feel like when it comes to dating women... it honestly feels like RNG or a gamble. I feel like I have no real say so I get desperate when I can see my chances to roll the dice get lower.

I see dudes on Instagram posting on woman's pictures like "sit on my face please" or "if you shit in my hand, I would clap". Like what the FUCK? These women looked moderately average too and yet they have hundreds of dudes desperate to get their attention.

The fuck is happening? Why are we as dudes so desperate for women?
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Because we want to fuck them. Our sexual drives are much more stronger and frequent than women.

Explains why men jerk off so much.
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I was the same until I lost my vcard, I do my best to hide it but sometimes I can't help but to turn into a perverse cuck.
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>>17953423
I understand that but being desperate apparently doesn't help that. Like you never see women seriously grobbling for men. You see dudes begging for women a LOT though.

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>Lose a bit of weight
>Face gets that sunken, hollow, model-esque feature where my cheekbones are prominent and my cheeks looked sucked in
>I like it as it reminds me of models
>My friend says I look like an alien
>thinks I'm intentionally doing it on purpose

wat do
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>>17953350

post a pic

fatty cheeks are gross

thin is cool
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>>17953350

Stop worrying about your friends opinion.
As long as you're not going anorexic then who cares?
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Get a job as a Pokemon trainer.

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Any managers out there?
I need advice on:
>getting older workers to respect you despite being young
>walking the line between professionally asserting authority while not being a complete ass
>asking for a raise

I work in an office full of catty old women and was chosen to replace the office manager, but all of the ladies under me are older than me, and some have actually worked there longer than I've been alive. Also, I am grossly underpaid for the amount of work that I do. I've been putting off asking for a raise, but it's time.

Help.
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>smart delegation of workload
be aware of everyone's strengths and weaknesses and delegate accordingly. make sure workpackages are distributed as evenly as possible; gradually pair up colleagues with different strengths so that they can get on the same level
>professional attitude
don't ever try to project a personality type. don't strive to be an authoritarian, nor friends with anyone. there is a time for that, but it's usually when/if issues arise. do the shit out of your job, know what you're talking about and create an environment where getting the job done is the ethos.

what department/industry do you work in?
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>>17953327
I work at an independently owned auto auction. There's no question that I do the shit out of my job (hence why I was offered the position in the first place), but management is very new to me. I worked closely with the people I am now over so there is a friendly, more casual attitude there. I don't want it to seem like I got promoted then immediately turned into a hardass, but I do think you're right in that my attitude should be more professional. I hate to lose the friendships, but I can deal with that.
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You should quit that job, and become a Pokemon trainer instead.

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I'm conflicted. I've always repressed it but I secretly want to be a femboy housewife, take hormones and build a cute physique. On the other hand I'm the oldest son with 4 siblings who look up to me and my parents expect me to become successful and push my way into some position of power (some kind of high position as a public servant). I want to follow my desires and be a submissive little cockslut trap obviously but I feel like that is a selfish cause and have a sense of duty about what I need to do as opposed to what I want to do. This might have been more suited for /lgbt/ but they're incredibly bias.
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>>17953296
I've always wanted to be a ninja.
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>>17953296
Is it your life or is it your parents' life?
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>>17953397
Mine but let's be real what is the greater good? Sure I want to feed into desire but the ultimate good would be public service.

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