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So I got a job at the women's center of my university, and my stalker ex just happens to work there.

I was not the least bit aware that he works at the center, nor that he's been a regular since 2010. But he's so well liked by everyone. Very chummy. They consider him a committed feminist. And has built a phenomenal reputation over there.

But roughly ten years ago, he kept stalking me after I repeatedly rejected him. And it got so persistent and aggressive that I had to call the cops. But since we were both in high school at the time, they said they couldn't do anything, and let him go. And I hadn't seen him until now.

I don't know what to do about it. I want to tell them what happened, but he's on such good terms, and so well liked by them, that I don't know who to trust. It took me nearly a year to get a job at the center, so I don't want to sacrifice all my hard work. And he doesn't seem to recognize me.

But I feel completely unsafe now. And I feel utterly betrayed that a center dedicated to the safety of women and survivors like me would hire such a man. But that's so intrinsically the case. :(
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So he hasn't done anything? He didn't do anything for ten years? The last time he did anything was at an age too young for it to mean anything? And you want to ruin his reputation over something baseless?
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>>17954815
It was such a long time ago. Maybe he turned things around and became a better person after his run in with the cops. Just try to steer clear of him, and if you do run into him and he makes any unwanted advances, or tries to talk to you after you've made it clear that you don't want to talk, tell someone in charge there.
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>>17954998
this 100% it seems like this guy was just a little hung up over you in highschool, like lots of teens are over relationships at that age, and you want to play the victim and ruin this guy's life over a very minor mistake he made as a child a decade ago. like you want to get him fired, lol though I suppose it would surve him write for being such a weak little bitch man to call himself a femanist. way to fit that femanazzy roll perfectly by the way go after a guy make shit up about him to try to ruin him. class A cunt right here

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My girlfriend goes clubbing.

Should i be concerned?
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>>17954743
Not even memeing. But yeah, she's cheating on you.

Take it from experience. If you were really all that she would rather spend the nights with you. Not rubbing up on some other guys cock.
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And you don't go too why?
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Well, her actions could be out of concern for your feelings. Perhaps she’s excluded you from these gatherings because she’s scouting for a new mate and doesn’t want to do it in front of you.

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A really cute girl is messaging me, and I don't know what to say. What do I do?

Her english is really poor. She's Mexican.
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>>17954733
Talk about each other's interests. Ask her what's she's up to. Keep the English simple.
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>>17954747
She likes anime and spicy chicken.
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>>17954823
Well, considering your OP pic, talk about weeb shit.

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What are some key symptoms of depression?
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>>17954688
Unexplained prolonged sadness, irritability, insomnia or hypersomnia, lack of appetite or significantly increase appetite, anhedonia, lack of motivation.
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>>17954694
>>17954688
...visiting 4chan.

I don't doubt 4chan has way more than it's fair share of depressed folk, clinical or otherwise.
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>>17954694
Well, thats me. I guess I'm depressed.

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Why are certain people so obsessed with japan and its culture even if they have never visited?
What makes them feel so attached?
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I think people like the idea that Japan is so much different then the US. It's a different culture, lifestyle, and area. People love to think that the grass is greener on the other side, and many people think that they should have a better time in Japan
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>>17954682
Because Japan produces a fuckton of really cool and influential art.
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I don't watch much anime or any Japanese shit really, occasional DBZ or samurai movie...

But Japan looks comfy as fuck. It just seems like a cool place. Also a lot of American kids grew up playing games made/influenced by japanese. So it's like a nostalgic majestic video game land for some guys.

The night life looks really cool too.

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Watch this video, every word she says is gold. You really don't need any more /adv/ than what's right here.

>"Why can't I get a gf!?! Why am I such a cuck? Why am I always afraid of women?!?!"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BK5uwpjUWe4

Listen, process, do. Make a list and fix your life. I'm sick of seeing your sad bullshit all over this board, and you are the one responsible for changing your own life. If you don't value yourself, why would anyone else?
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Go shill your shitty self-help videos somewhere else.
Also it's /adv/, not /ADV/.
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why does she talk like a retard
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>>17954660

>t. faggot

>>17954663

Good question. I'm assuming she's from the land of King Arthur.

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Makes sense to me but what do you think? Shes upset because she doesn't like being compared to a hoe for the way she used to dress before she agreed to be more modest for our relationship. I get that but I'm not saying she's a hoe I'm just saying she used to look like one and I didn't like it.
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Pt. 2
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>>17954635
>having arguments with women over text
>coming to 4chan to ask if you're in the right

I don't have to read all that shit to know you're a faggot
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>>17954650
>being open to the fact that i may be wrong and asking people for other perspectives makes me a faggot.

I'm okay with that

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>be 26 years old
>live with parents
>work a crappy warehouse job
>no gf
>never dated
should I kill myself or does it ever get better?
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Kill yourself
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Doesn't matter where you've been, only matters where you're headed.
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>>17954687
but how do you feel positive about where you might be heading in the future when you don't know where you are heading or what could be ahead for you and you don't know if things are just gonna go wrong and suddenly you are in a pit and you are just gonna want to die anyway?

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>26
>finally getting this whole dating/getting with girls/relationships/hooking up thing
>so do I get married and have kids because I'm almost thirty
>or do I fool around and have fun and keep enjoying myself?
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>>17954552
depend do you wanna take the risk of ending up alone ?
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>>17954552
having children is a million times better than fucking randome people. children give life meaning.
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>>17954565

Then why do teenage boys fuck around? I don't want to miss out on playing the field.

>>17954562

Not really, but I don't see how I'd end up alone.

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Is getting a surprise finger in your ass constitute as rape?

Was at school... was super fucking weird.
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You're weird <3
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>>17954551
depend on local laws
but penetration is rape or sexual assault usually
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This again?

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>23
>Friends are now assholes too into weed to hang out with me since I dont smoke
>Hanging with friends was the only thing I enjoyed
>Too socially autistic for normies
>Too normie for the ultra-geeks at the local gameshop
>Have gf but shes a bitch and I would leave if I wouldnt be 100% alone then

Status:
>50k / year job
>Rent my own house
>Workout at home
>Browse 4chan / memes / youtube all day
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What's your job
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>>17954473
Lol you chose career and looks over happy fulfilling relationships, now you have money and no real friends. Either (A) start smoking weed and thinking your gf is amazing or (B) make new friends and date new women. This has nothing to do with social anxiety it's about being not a puss. Because right now you're doing the puss thing which is (C) live with it and be miserable without changing myself or my situation
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>>17954479
Assembly line, I work in a pit by myself.

It lets me browse 4chan on mobile at least, posting from work atm actually

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Girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and 3 months. We used to fuck like rabbits, but things slowed down after the honeymoon phase. We slowly started to argue a lot, and I ended up breaking up with her because of her issues with depression and anxiety. She was making my life a living hell, and I couldn't take it anymore. Mind you, before I broke things off, I kept telling her (for at least 3-4 months) that if she didn't get some help, I wouldn't be able to stay with her.

3 weeks later we get back together. At this point she's on Paxil, and her sex drive is dead. This is a side effect. Meanwhile I'm a 22 year old guy and I'm going insane without any sex. I deal with this for a while, and I eventually couldn't take it anymore, and I started letting her know that I really miss having sex, or just being sexual in some type of way.

Now I'm not a selfish lover. Without getting too detailed (blue board)... I love eating her out, pleasing her, and I constantly try to get better at making her cum and being the best in bed I can be. She still refused to do anything when I asked her. Not even a handjob? Not even a blowjob for her man? Anyways... She stopped taking the Paxil and started acting batshit insane again. I told her if she wanted to be together, she had to take her medicine. For both of our sake. So she said she would get something else that didn't impact her libido as much.

A month later, she's on Lexapro. She takes it for like a week and then stops taking it. She kept conveniently forgetting to take it, and when I asked her why she didn't take it, she would say things like "why are you always treating me like I'm crazy? Whenever you're upset about something, you just ask me about my medicine!!!!".

As someone who was laughed at by my family for taking medicine as a kid.. "haha shut up anon! go take your medicine!" .... I would never say something like that to her.

(continued in thread)
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So last night she started freaking out about me watching a re-run of Jersey Shore on my laptop.
>This show is annoying anon! I don't want to her it! Turn it off!
I told her to chill the fuck out, there was only 5 minutes left in the episode. And speaking of that, who throws a tantrum over something so goddamn trivial like a TV show? Anyways, she tells me to leave and I calmly tell her no. She storms out of the room and goes into the bathroom and locks the door. I go to the door to ask her what was wrong and she turns the light off. I used to beg for her to relax, but now I just say "fuck it" and wait for her to finish her childish games. She can't sleep in the bathroom (it was like 11 at night).... She would be out eventually. So she comes out and says she doesn't want me there. Meanwhile I'm being chill and acting like nothing happened. I try to be mature and move past things. She honestly treats me like shit sometimes. But she kept saying things like "things will never get better, etc etc".

And I always say things will get better if she takes her medicine. We never have this issue when she takes her Lexapro. But she ignores me when I say these things.

Anons, am I dealing with a unsolvable issue? She always plays the victim and it's making me resent her. I can't take this shit anymore. She also stormed out of my room once because I played a song by Lady Gaga... "I don't wanna hear that anon. It's trash!... Omg fuck it I'll just leave". I love her so much and I don't want to lose her, but it's like dealing with a 10 year old sometimes. Who has tantrums at 21 years old?
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>watching jersey shore
>watching an episode you've already seen
>seeking out an episode of jersey shore you've already seen
>not just plugging in headphones
why are you such a fucking disgrace?
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>>17954508
She said that. My response was "baby there's only like 5 minutes left. The earbuds I have hurt my ears and give me a headache. It will be over pretty soo-"
>NO ANON, TURN IT OFF I DONT WANNA HESR THAT!!!!
Something about being yelled at by a woman that makes you want to fucking go against her. But I tried to compromise. There was only a little bit left. Was she right to throw a fucking tantrum? Was I wrong for trying to compromise? Also I haven't watched Jersey Shore in literally 7-8 years. It was all new to me again

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>TLDR: How do I get a coworker fired/ to work more

I have reports showing:
>Employee A completes 10 tasks in 40 hours a week.
>Employee B completes 20 tasks in 20 hours a week, they're part time

So Employee A literally works at 25% the pace of Employee B.
>PROBLEM:
Employee A is their managers buddy, and the manager lets Employee A get away with anything.

So do I try to confront my boss about this with the quantifiable evidence (reports), OR write some grandiose email to HR about nepotism and time-theft and attach the reports for them to draw their own conclusions?

>BONUS: Employee C and D also regularly perform at 2-3x the efficiency of Employee A, and would both corroborate my concerns of time theft. Employee A can be documented on reports and cameras clocking in at 730am, but not working until after 11am. Also, stopping work in the afternoon and not clocking out until the evening.
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You should quit that job, and become a Pokemon trainer instead.
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>>17954454
Good advice
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>>17954419
can you encourage employee to get worse ? like hanging with him making him even less productive until they can't deny the evidence

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>get cute autistic girl's number a few hours ago
>don't know what to do

What do I say and when do I start?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGPbRMxJP7E
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>>17954411
Can't believe Alice fucking rejected him
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>>17954411

holy fuck lmao

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How the FUCK do I make pics the right way up when I upload them from my phone?
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rotate them on your phone you fucking caveman
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>>17954407
Download pixil for your phone and then save image and post

Anyone know why this happens?
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>>17954413
Testing

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