Obviously anyone can SAY it. But what I'm basically asking is this, are maoris one of the races where it is considered okay to say nigger?
Just asking cuz I accidently said the N word when going through my Anti- PC faze a few times. I'm trying to rationalise my actions lol.
>one of the races where its okay to say nigger
yeah no....
You can't say "muh slavery" as an excuse.
Seriously though, you can say whatever you want but remember that everything you do has consequences. There is no such thing as "ok to say". That's just bullshit that the PC crowd made up to justify black people saying nigger and being just as racist as everyone else because they are cucks.
>baited desu
>>17969081
Well By your logic aboriginals can't say nigger. Even though they were classed as ANIMALS until like the 1950s.
If anyone gets to say nigger its the aboriginals.
But I guess you may be right.
Bump
A """friend""" is postinf screenshots of me saying nigger to loads of my other friends.
Help me think of excuses
Posting again as discussing this has been more helpful than expected.
Just started dating (not yet in relationship) a 20yo girl whose parents track her every move via phone GPS and constantly check in with her. Didnt really consider the implications until tonight, first on our possible relationship but 2nd on her development into becoming an independent functional adult. She's extremely shy generally and i think her parents may be at least partially responsible for her introversion.
Idk her well enough yet to encourage her to tell her parents to back the fuck off but their behavior disgusts me.
What should i do? What advice should i give her beyond the obvious that she needs to have a serious talk with them about trust, respect, transition to adulthood, natural development of independence and the harm they are doing?
Also what advice would you give me in attempting to date a sweet girl who happens to be very shy? I think she could be a serious catch if she could escape the grasp of her helicopter parents and get out and experience life without the safety net.
Also I'm an independent 25y.o. male living on my own. She lives on campus/with parents on breaks.
I don't know about your situation OP, but what kind of engine is that? It's beautiful.
>>17969067
Regular old overhead cam 4 stroke gas
>>17969086
>overhead cam 4 stroke gas
Thanks. I kept confusing it with an expanding steam engine
hey /adv/. really in need to vent and for some advice.
So I have bipolar disorder as well as social anxiety disorder and I've gone through the ringer lately with getting my medicine, finding a new psychiatrist, and even having good responsive medication.
Most of the meds i've been on have made little to no noticeable difference to me, constantly having to find a new doctor is so frustrating and all the therapists around me are dolts and barely even listen when i'm explaining my problems.
I just want to know if it's even worth it to get back into the rhythm of things and to get back on medication or to just learn how to live with my conditions.
You're worth it to take meds that are right for you and you would most surely benefit from researching your mood disorder to see how others are managing theirs. You're not alone. Check out local support groups in your area. That's what I do. If I didn't spend time with "my people" who understand me, I wouldn't be managing as well as I am currently.
Yes. Medical science is at its peak right now. There is a solution for you out there.
Do psych Drs actually ever heal anyone? Seems like a massive racket.
Tell me if this makes any sense.
I live in the USA, and I really am not attracted to women here. They seem boring and just a lot of stereotypes about them seem to be true.. however, I'm totally into European women. Maybe it's the accents, I don't know, but I find European girls super attracted. The ones I've met during my travels seemed really cool and interesting. I had a blast just sitting down with them and getting coffee and talking. I've never felt that way about girls here in the US.
>>17968965
I'm the same way, but with girls who grew up in East Asia. It all started in college when I connected with their accommodating personalities, as opposed to the Americanized girls who just wanted to fuck and experiment. I'm happily married to a girl from Korea and am as happy as can be. My friends married to American girls tell me how miserable they are and wish they hadn't gotten married. Some of their stories make me actually cringe.
>>17968984
Stockholm syndrome
>>17968984
I think the problem with American girls stems from our idealization of Hollywood celebrities. It sets unrealistic standards.
But for real, there is just something about European girls that I find so attracted. Not only do they look amazing, but their accented voice sounds so cool, and to me it's so interesting to just sit and talk about everything.
I've always found it difficult to just sit down and have a first time conversation with an American girl, but with the Italian girls I've met, it was so easy to hold a conversation. And it was really interesting!
What the fuck kind of insect is this? Doesn't look like a roach, but the fuck do I know about bugs?
Like clockwork the last 3 days I've found one dead one on my kitchen floor every morning.
Covered my floor in raid, but I can't figure out where they're camped out or what's drawing them.
did it lose a leg?
make a sharper pic
>>17968983
Already disposed of it. Yeah, the other 2 had symmetrical legs. Not sure what happened to old peg leg there. Think there's a spider hiding behind my fridge that's preying on them.
>>17968956
Looks like a black cricky bug [cricket]
I had unprotected sex with a girl 6 months ago.
She said she didnt want to be preggers, that she would take a morning after pill and told me not to worry, she didnt ask for my contact info but i got hers anyway. Now im still worried and looking at her instagram (and those of some of her qt friends lol) way too often to see what happened. She just posts pic of concerts, her face, and some random shit but im still uneasy about it. How do i chill the fuck out?
6 months ago lol relax cunt
>>17968958
you have no idea how i make myself suffer over this
bump
She told me that she didn’t want but he took his head and forced her during only 2 seconds,after that she break up with him.
I feel very bad for her, she is not traumatizing but she was sad when she told me this, I do my best to make her feel good.
So what should I do ?
Is it consider like a rape ?
>>17968945
She got raped dude. Take that fucker out.
>>17968947
Should I break his legs ?
>>17968949
No she should call 911 or you should dump her.
So I'm in this scenario; I've been with my girfriend (who was a virgin at the time) for three years, and now she says she's confused and want us to take a break (aka having sex with someone else in said break, probably)
My question is; even though it's pretty much over between us from this moment as far as I'm concerned, have any of you ever heard of a situation where this happened and they got back together successfully? I mean without the same shit happening all over again after one year.
>>17968933
I know some couples that reunited after 1/2/3 years, and they are leading happy life right now. Also hoping for reunion with my ex (maybe in next 1.5 year)... Self-improve first mate!
>>17968955
I think I'd always resent her somewhat, I don't think this is for me. Pretty good to know, though, I hope it works out for you.
>>17968933
I did.
Dated my boyfriend 2008-2012, then we broke up and got back together in 2013 after 6 months apart.
We hadn't fucked around tho.
A while back my girlfriend took some drugs. She's always smoked weed despite being vocal against it. But whatever. She was with her friends, and one them gave her psychedelic mushrooms and she asked me if it was okay if she took them, and I said that I'm able to stop her if she wants to, but it would piss me of beyond belief. And she took it, and any time I mention it she gets upset and says "We've already been through this" and "It's the past" and it's fucking my ass bad. And she'll say things along the lines of "Wow, you really say it in a way that makes me feel shit" and I do guess I do it in an uncouth way but I've never dealt with this. I legitimately do love and care for her, that's why I'm struggling to end it. Should I?
Am I some sort of pussy nigga for not liking drugs? Am I wrong? What the fuck inb4 betacuck
If doing drugs becomes a lifestyle thing for her and you can't tolerate it, end the relationship. Tbh most questions about relationships can be answered by "have a honest conversation about it". Same applies here. If you can't talk with her that way, your relationship is shit anyway.
No, you're not a pussy nigga for not liking drugs. You'd be a pussy nigga if you couldn't cope with her drinking or smoking weed once in a while.
>>17968900
You're being a pussy nigga. I had the same problem like you. End it now hang out with people that make you happy and in the end you will feel better.
>>17968900
Why is it bothering you so much? She took mushies with friends one time? And with that she actually asked you if it was okay instead of keeping it from you.
Grow up. If she was taking psychedelics every weekend I'd be concerned but a one time thing that you say happened a while back is a very stupid reason to break up.
Any reason why I shouldn't just kill myself?
>all women are ugly and sluts
>Europe has no future
>no friends, no job
Every time I come to /pol/ I just see more and more reasons to end it
>>17968882
No. Just do it.
>>17968883
>>17968884
Okay, shit, subway's gotta do the trick
What field of study/major should someone pursue if they love:
1. lots of time spending in labs
2. anything dealing with biology on a smaller scale (specifically viruses, bacteria, etc)
2. programming/computer literacy in general (not as important)
3. doing stuff that wasn't done before
as a bonus I speak 4 languages fluently
(english, polish, russian and french) if it's of any significance.
Microbiology. Specifcally virology.
Or Biochemistry.
>>17968918
these and also look into bioinformatics
>>17968868
Genetics
should i keep trying to form a sleep schedule
i cant sleep at the "right time". i spent years going to bed at 3am-4am ish and now im trying to start going to bed at 10pm-12am. it's really difficult. i read everywhere that if i dont go to bed at the right time i should just stay up during the day till the "right time" and fall asleep then
this has made it so im sleeping about every other night. and its exhausting. i stayed up all night and now im gunna be burnt out all day. sure ill fall asleep tonight but tomorrow night i might stay up again
should i just give up? is waking up at "normal times" even worth it? im considering just getting a job as a barback or bartender or something of the same hours. i mean since im gunna be up anyway. i just dont know what to do
try to be a normie or say fuck it and develop a night life?
>>17968862
I adjusted mine by taking small naps
>>17968862
Start waking up early like 6 am. Don't sleep during the day. You'll automatically sleep at 11 pm easily.
t. I've done this
Stay up a whole day, jog and sweat, sleep at 11pm
No computer screens or overly stimulating things an hour before bed
Reserve your bed for sleeping and sex
Sleeping at 2am-3am regularly outs you at risk for a lot of things, like obesity and certain immune system complications
Hi /adv/, I need your help.
I have 3 things: A computer, an internet connection, and free time.
I wanna earn money real quick. How do I? I am ready to do illegal stuff unless it's paying off.
Pic: my keyboard
be a youtuber
>>17968820
Hey, dear. I've started helping my mom with her online buy/resale business and that's pretty fun. Maybe you could give it a shot! Or sell weird fetish tasteful n00dz on soc.
Link porn from other sites and plaster it with ads
No call/no show a couple jobs. One with fast food and a retail job. Is there any way I can get them back? Moved to a different state and would like to know my options.
>>17968818
Bump, bump, bump it up
just find another job
there's plenty of slave labor out there. i mean. minimum wage opportunities
>>17968818
>No call/no show a couple jobs
no chance. look for something different. also dont do that. i know its painful to make that call and i know its just other people, not you, but id say you owe them at least this much decency.
My bloody cat, continues to shit and piss anywhere and everyone but in it's kitty litter!
What's a reasonable way to stop this?
>>17968790
If your cat is male get him fixed. He *could* be territorial. I would take kitty to a vet because it could be an underlying issue on the inside and not a behavior issue.
>>17968790
Kill your fucking cat