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I have a situation, where i met a girl and we were having a great time together, we become really close in past two weeks, but yesterday she told me she went to a beer with her ex, today when we met and decided to become a couple she told me she slept with him yesterday. Shes very apologetic, says it was her mistake and how she loves me. She asked me to meet her tomorrow. The thing is i have feelings for her i havent felt in long time but that left me devastated. What to do anons?
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>>17967048
You mean?
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>>17967045
if u became a couple 1 day after she slept with her ex u prolly had sex b4 so she cheated on u.. why go in a relationship when she even cheated before..
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How Do I get a ginger gf? 2017-01-17 11:46:13 Post No.17967044
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How Do I get a ginger gf?
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How would I go about getting a ginger girlfriend?
Pic related literally the image of perfection to me.
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They're shit
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>>17967049
Not to me my friend.
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>>17967044
Ask a ginger girl out. Repeat till one accepts.
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>gf already said she doesn't love me anymore, start fights at slight opportunities over trivial shit
>she is too much of a pussy to end the relationship
>i too don't have the balls because I love her and will be a lonely faggot with 0 friends and no one to talk to again
I wish i could press a button and forget her, theres no easy way out without absolute loneliness and despair
Please guys make me grow the balls to do it, and tell me how to get over this as quickly as possible
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Think about how she feels, I know it can be hard as fuck when you are in love with her but if you want it to be easiest break up over text and ask her to block you on everything so you can't see her. Out of sight out of mind, that is probably the least healthiest option though
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>>17967118
>that is probably the least healthiest option though
Why? The quicker to get over it, the healthier imo
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>>17967036
Start talking to another girl. I'm sure you know a couple of girls so just talk to them. Doesn't mean you need to date them. Just talk to other girls. I find that helps the transition out of a relationship.
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PLEASE chime in on this. My female friend:
>started going out with an asshole doctor
>after 9 months, he NEVER asked her for a real relationship, uses her as a fucktoy
>the guy has called her a whore before, prohibits her from hanging out with other males, and has tried to get her into threesomes
>she has changed his sexuality for him, becoming bisexual
>she changed what she was studying in college to be in his profession
>she found cocaine in his drawer and forgave him
>she found him cheating on her and forgave him
>she found him in dating apps three times and forgave him
>she has cheated on him also
>recently he started wanting to cum inside her and she just let him
>now she's pregnant and won't leave him
>she will have his baby
>she can never have a proper conversation with him, he treats her like shit, when she expresses negative feelings he becomes angry
>so she tries to use me as her emotional sock
I have spent nearly a year listening to her ramble on and on about this bullshit and telling her to leave him, to no avail, until she got pregnant. I am done with this friendship, I want nothing to do with it, it's toxic. However, my gf believes I shouldn't abandon her now she's pregnant, and I must support her.
Who is in the right?
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drop that looney
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>>17967028
Its long past time for you to bounce, bro.
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>>17967028
Being friends with someone doesn't mean you're their personal emotional dump. It's a two way street. Does she listen to what you have to say? Do you enjoy activities together? If not, that's not a friendship, it's an emotional crutch.
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My ex dumped me because I was whiny, insecure bitch... After 2 years I self improved, became ripped, confident, with stable job...
Should I get back to my ex?
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No.
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>>17967026
Obviously no
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Ex giving me weird signals
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I'll keep this super short.
>Date gf for 4 years
>Break up a few months ago
>Talked casually. Found out she had a rebound boyfriend and I blew up on her. Called her basic, said she was acting like a child, told her to act her age and get her shit together. (we're both 23. I have a good job, she doesn't. Always stressed about school and doesn't make good money.)
>After I blew up on her she dumped her rebound boyfriend.
>A few days ago I posted a snapchat story of me at a party playing music. I was on acid and I don't usually post on social media. Was wearing good clothes, have a good haircut, was smiling. Basically looked great, much better than I looked when we were dating.
>Ex's best friend views my snapchat story and shows it to my ex (She told me she shows her my stories, my ex always asks to see them when I post them so she won't show up on the viewer list.)
>After I posted it she tweeted "I miss you. I want you back."
>Haven't heard from her since she tweeted that three days ago.
Wtf is this? I'd like to talk to her, but since I got dumped it's wrong for me to initiate contact...but after seeing that tweet it put her on top of my thoughts and I can't get her out.
Stick with no contact? Or does that tweet justify me contacting her with a "hey" text or something..
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>>17966930
It's a trap.
She laid the bait and she's waiting for you to bite.
Women are dirty mongrels like that.
Just keep playing music and dressing nice and dropping tabs and make them bitches jealous.
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You've witnessed for yourself, she's a shallow bitch. Only reason to take her back is so you can dump her yourself the very next day, in the most savage way possible. She dumped you, she should learn her fucking lesson.
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keep doing what you're doing OP, don't go back to her
I cry a lot in my room. The guy in the room next to me and his girlfriend are making fun of my crying, imitating it
I feel horrible now i just want to jump off a cliff
How do i feel better
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Stop crying?
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>>17966823
What you REALLY need is someone who you can talk to. Do you have any great friends who you trust enough to share your problems with? Do you have actual problems that bother you and make you cry?
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>>17966835
I dont really have friends
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Is fapping to cartoon porn damaging to men like fapping to actual porn is?
When I was in High School I fapped to a lot of cartoon porn and my sex drive and performance was incredible with my girlfriend. I feel like it was practicing for actual sex.
Obviously porn has had a bad effect. That's why I cut out fapping to actual porn.
Is cartoon porn bad like real porn is?
Pic unreleated.
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>>17966799
>Obviously porn has had a bad effect
Not really, no.
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>>17966851
Where the fuck have you been?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
http://www.everydayhealth.com/news/erection-problems-this-habit-may-why/
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Yes, because you get used to a sex that you never had and a sex that your gf cant give to you and it will be harder for you to have a nive sex because you fantasy with something it isnt the reality and your gf thinks is her fault
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I’m tired of being a nice guy. Attracting women isn’t the problem; I know how to initiate conversation or plans with girls. Most of time when I attempt to get to know a girl whom I’m interested in I am successful. However I believe I’m constantly screwing up passed the 1-2 month period. I’m pretty sure it’s because I’m nice and caring. This often leads to women devaluing me and losing interest. I don’t blow them up with texts, I don’t act weird. I need to learn the art of being the scumbag who doesn’t care. Because it seems that scumbags are the ones whom women are obsessed with.
Sorry guys but being considerate, caring and protective isn’t what most young women want, or at least those aren’t the kind of guys they want to fuck.
So my question is, how to do I properly adopt an idgaf mentality and how do I properly ignore women to the point that they are throwing the pussy at me.
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The D.E.N.N.I.S system
But seriously, ever thought that maybe youre just going after a certain type?
The last 3 girls I've pursued I feel like that's what's happened to me, but it's not all women, it's just these crazy types I keep picking up
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I think I know what you're talking about. I never only pursue a women because of their looks. They're always 'chill','interesting' or 'smart' in some way. maybe I need to lower my standards and broaden my options.
But yeah these crazy types that are afraid of commitment or someone they're afraid who might hurt them. Most of these girls have some sort of past shitty relationship that still fucks with them to this day.
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>>17966709
A while back I made this post on /biz/ and thanks to the archives I have found it. It doesn't fit you exact situation, but I think it describes your attitude about this decently:
>nice guy
>No, you're not, you're a piece of shit, and let me tell you why. You do things for people only because of what you perceive is in it for YOU. That's the definition of selfishness.
>Your problem isn't niceness, your problem is you're a spineless, gutless, piece of shit who somehow got it into your little, money-grubbing head that being everyone else's doormat would somehow benefit YOU.
>You know why I'm being so hard on you? I am sick and tired of people using "niceness" as an excuse for other personal shortcomings. Niceness in of itself is a positive trait that people should strive to have. Passivity and a lack of assertiveness would be better descriptors for you.
>One last side not about why I'm so butt-blasted by your post. You know "nice guys" that are now universally made fun of? Who act like treating women like basic human beings entitles them to sex? Well you're the same way, except instead of sex from women, it's social (ie. jobs, promotions) or financial (payment for services) gain.
Unlike the guy I wrote this for, I think your issue is more coming off as needy, which is the problem in of itself rather than being "nice and caring". There is a difference.
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Should I even bother too put a bio of sorts on Tinder? Should I leave it blank or just do some one liner that doesn't actually reveal anything about my personality like a lot of chicks do. In my bio I put my current major and like 7 different actually interesting interests I'm into, not like stupid shit like "food" "dogs" or shit that literally everyone else likes. I feel like it might make me more appealing but then again I think it defeats the purpose of just going by looks and having each others personality just unfold naturally kinda like in real life.
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>>17966690
Something like "Searching for fun!" might be a good bare minimum.
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>>17966713
Sounds like I'm trying to get laid, I'm not exclusively that is
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>>17966722
It's Tinder, you fucktard.
DON'T
LOVE
THE
HOES
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>open relationship
>gf and i are free to see whomever we want outside each other
>we don't have to go into details but we do have to tell each other when we're seeing other people
>we each get one veto
>she meets a former football player
>can't stop talking about him
>spends most of her time over his place
>even missed a few nights
>tried using my veto but she said she is willing to give her up veto rights on me
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Nice cuck LARPING my friend
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Posting in a troll thread
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>>17966685
you so silly thinking this shit wouldn't happen so have no sympathy. why even be in a relationship since you both want to keep dating and fucking other people. Just date
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I'm dating a 19 yr old whose family of zealots forbid her from having a boyfriend
>I'm her first
>she comes to my house every two weeks for the week-end
>she lives alone now, in another city, but her brothers check on her everyday by calling her
>she's currently studying (which was an argument with her family because she had to move and live alone) but normally she lives with her mom
>recently her worst (as in most violent and religious) brother passed by her city for work, and she's now afraid that he might show up again, and asks to see her while she's at my house, in my city.
>sometimes when she's afraid we're found out, she has panic attacks or remains silent for hours
>apart from that she's the greatest gf I ever had
I don't know wwhat to do. I'm often tempted to end it all, both for my safety, and her peace of mind, but she's really great, we get along so fucking well and click on so many aspects. There's also the fact that they evidently did a number on her, and she told me if I leave her she'll be destroyed.
It actually scared me.
Anyway, I suppose the sensible thing to do would be to break it off. I don't want to be the one who makes her break ties with her family, because what if your relationship doesn't work out and she loses them for nothing?
I'm kinda messed up right now. The whole "he might show up anytime, I can't come anymore" is really annoying me.
What would you do?
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>what if your relationship doesn't work out and she loses them for nothing?
Considering what they are like, it'd still be for the best.
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True. And she knows it. Says she's gonna break all her links to them "soon". Thing is she still doesn't, and in the meantime is afraid to be found out like a child who's done a bad thing.
As far as I'm concerned, I basically don't want to motivate her breaking it off. It has to be for herself. But at the same time, keepong my frustration bottled up because I'm trying not to influence her, is actually killing me.
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Dude, how old is she? She sounds like a good but frightened person, you should be the man she can rely on to protect her. If you are not up to the task, do break up.
If you love her and want to help her, you can try to be her violently protective boyfriend to protect her from violently religious brothers. Just tell her you are there for her and there is absolutely nothing to be afraid of. Probably won't come to it, but if it does, do the best you can to protect yourself. The cops take over from the first incident and you are home free.
People like her folks (assuming your tale is true) are about as far as the taliban from real Christians.
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Maybe I was wrong, I don't know. Boyfriend of 3 years thinks he should be able to go through my phone and wants me to be calm about it.
> there should not be privacy between a couple
> you wouldn't get angry if there was nothing hide
I fucked up on a lot of other issues I needed to fix, but I never cheated or flirted with anyone else, has anyone gone through something similar? Either if you agree or disagree
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Unless you handle classified information, I'd say you were wrong.
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completely disagree . have a fucking backbone.
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>>17966517
If you have broken his trust in the past, he is right. He deserves to know whether any trust that he has built is well-placed.
I want a gf. Online dating is cancer. I've been thinking of hitting up bars. What do ya think?
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It's a waste of time unless you're extremely outgoing.
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Femanon here, I was always irritated when a guy would approach me at a bar since going to the bar meant alone time and thinking for me after a long day's work.
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>>17966627
Yeah I'm a guy but I see what you mean. From that alone I'd say it's not a good idea, women at bars usually come there to be alone or they are sluts. Not as bad as raves or clubs but still IO would advise against it. You shouldn't search for the perfect woman, if she exists you will meet her at work or by coincidence, I doubt looking will really help. It's up to god, his discretion.
I have a date with the man of my life in a month.
He's leaving in two months and that's my only chance to see him before he leaves the country.
But... I am failure in person. It's been a year since I left home and I am very, very, very afraid to ruin this meeting and break his expectations because I have no notion of how to interact with someone.
Please help me, /adv/.
What advice would you give me? I know there's still time and I'm anxious, but I can not stop thinking about it. I just want everything to work out.
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>>17966354
Just smile.
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>>17966381
Lol, watch out OP don't do that creepy smile stuff.
Just try be yourself a bit but control it so you don't show everything at once. Just try some little bits about you.
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>>17966620
>Just b urself
She doesn't seem to have the best personality for making those around her interested. In her case, I think it's best to interact reflexively: smile when he makes eye contact with you, laugh at his jokes, and complement his choices from clothes to career.