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I just got raped (I think?) 2017-01-17 08:41:07 Post No.17966304
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I just got raped (I think?)
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2017-01-17 08:41:07
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So, I'm a guy. I was in my hostel room and this other guy started talking to me. I said that I would marry Trump for his money as a joke, so he asked me if I was gay. I said I was bi (which is the truth). He was behaving kind of flirty, and since he was kind of cute, I just played along. However, things escalated in a weird manner.
He suddenly just dropped his pants and asked me to give him a blowjob. I told him that I am not that type of guy and that I have only had sex with official partners. He became kind of invasive though, and just started touching me. At this point I was simultaneously confused and aroused, and I just kept playing along. I tried to kiss him, but he refused and then he started saying shit like "i'm not gay, I'm just bored, don't fall in love with me or something, let's just have fun...". The way he said all of this was kind of offensive, but by then he was already sucking my cock. Then, he kind of demanded I gave him a blowjob back. I reluctantly did so... and he kept saying offensive shit the whole time. At some point everything just stopped and I said that I could not continue... but he then just kept touching me to get me going.... I was kind of trembling at that point... so after like 20 minutes, he just stood up and said: "we were just having fun... don't try to kiss me later or something"... and he just left the room.
I asked, and he already checked out. I think I will never see him again... but now I'm just confused... do you think this was some type of rape? I'm really confused right now, I think it was kind of harrowing, but I also realize there wasn't much violence involved..
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yes, that was rape anon.
I'm actually sorry that happened to you, he pulled a powerplay over you because he knew he could get away with it and that you couldn't do anything against him about it.
it leaves you feeling defenseless, and he knew it. the fact that you tried to stop it definitely means it was not consensual.
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It wasn't "some kind of rape", it was rape. You were clear about not being on board. You think he misunderstood your very simple and straightforward communication after he dropped his pants? No, he just didn't give a fuck about what you wanted.
I'm sorry this happened to you. Try to get help if only calling to an anonymous helpline. You might be able to talk with someone there about whether or not you want to take any legal steps.
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>>17966304
Hell yeah it was rape.
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is dressing up like a slut is the only way to get attention from guys?
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Take your clothes off and let me put my dick inside you
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Certain guys, yes. But those guys are shit.
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>>17966251
A PhD would get attention from the guys you probably actually want.
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There is a girl who could become my girlfriend, or at least I'm pretty sure that she has had at least passing feelings about me in that way. She's sweet and and petite and loves to bake (she made me muffins once). She gets really touchy with me as well sometimes, often touching my arm or my thigh. Conversations with her are easy. But I'll fuck it up somehow. I'm kind of passive and I've done nothing to reciprocate. Plus, I don't even know if I want her to be my gf. I realize that she sounds good on paper. But I just don't know. Please advise.
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>>17966222
>I don't even know if I want her to be my gf
figure this out first of all
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>>17966227
How am I supposed to do that?
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>>17966395
Ask yourself this, if you were to date her, how long will you be happy for? And how much happiness will she give you? Based on your answers, make a decision
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>be living at home while searching for college
>working fast food jobs
>parents conclude i've wasting my life and send me off to my uncle
>uncle is a total fucking creep
1. makes fuck you...no really...fuck you jokes constantly
2. times me walking in on him
>get back home, tell parents, no one believes me and another year goes by
>hey anon we got you a intern job...you will be staying with your uncle...
what do?
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>>17966213
I feel like ive read this pasta before
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>>17966228
or i just posted the events before
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you have to fuck your uncle
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Is telling a co-worker about the romantic feelings you have for them an inherently stupid thing to do?
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yes don't do it unless you're 100% sure they like you back. they can report you/get you fired. it can follow you as sexual harassment to other jobs.
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>>17966151
This sounds like a very US thing, to be honest.
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>>17966141
DO
NOT
SHIT
WHERE
YOU
EAT
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Good idea to drink to relax before sex? 2017-01-17 07:49:28 Post No.17966088
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Good idea to drink to relax before sex?
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2017-01-17 07:49:28
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I'm a virgin. In a couple of days I'm going to meet a girl and have sex with her.
I'm a bit nervous, and I fear it will affect my performance, that I will not be able to get and maintain an erection.
I have been drinking before. It's easier to relax while drunk. Is it a good idea to drink a beer or two before sex? I don't want to get drunk, just tipsy enough to relax.
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If you're nervous just thinking about it, then definitely yes.
Although you showing up beer-in-belly is going to be very noticeable if you plan on kissing at all and could possiby be a turn-off.
My suggestion would be to bring some alcohol along to share beforehand.
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>>17966088
I was drunk the first time, I've been high other times. I am too rough when I'm drunk.
Offer her some wine when you hang out, you should both be a little tipsy if you're nervous. Just don't get shitfaced. Beer makes you fart when you sleep, don't drink it.
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you can have a few drinks but don't go crazy or you'll get whiskey dick
and like this guy said >>17966104 , drink with her, don't just show up sloshed
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Those of you who have chosen to give up on the pursuit of romantic love, how are you holding up? How do you fill the empty spaces?
Any advice on someone just starting out?
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I haven't given up. Im just waiting.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ilKM-2Zd8N8
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>>17966080
I'm on my phone and can't see that.
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>>17966097
what kind of phone lets you post to 4chan but not view youtube videos?
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How does one even go about approaching women? I've legitimately never done it, I've only dated two women, one outright said she liked me and the other I met through tinder, a service I don't really like anymore.
I don't really have any female friends but would like to start meeting women the old fashion way.
My problem is I always get this feeling that I would just be pestering them or come off as really autistic or both. I am a sophomore in uni right now, 19 years old. I feel like I'm not the best looking but dress pretty well and try to take care of myself.
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>>17966062
you are not a burden. its not your job to protect the world from you.
if someone is annoyed or bothered by you, it is their job to remove themselves from the situation. you are not going to be labeled as a bad person for going up and talking to a woman. don't let life convince you that you're somehow 'less' than any other person.
everyone annoys everyone. everyone wants to be left alone, and everyone also wants to be approached. were not universal, and were extremely conflicted.
see a lady, go up and say hi.
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just bee yourself mang
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>>17966067
I will cherish these words of encouragement. Any strategies you can suggest?
>>17966068
REEEEEEEEEEE
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Why can I care about a girl so much when they couldn't give two shits about me?
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>>17966012
Just think, she probably cares the same way about someone who doesn't give a shit about her
Life is cruel
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>>17966012
because we want what we can't have. it strokes our egos. it's why people have orbiters and allow it to happen; it's about our egos.
Learn to find people that returns your attraction and be done with egos.
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>>17966015
I think about her so much and it hurts knowing it's a waste of time
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How can I convince my girlfriend to let me do anal? More importantly, I want her to enjoy it so she will let me do it again.
Background:
>She is very into me
>likes assplay during sex, just rubbing the outside
>has been saying for a year or so that one day she might let me
>says she's 'frightened' by it a little
>did some finger play in first year of dating but said she didn't like it so we stopped (though this was with no other stimulation so I don't blame her)
How do I make it happen this week? Preferably today. I just really want that ass, /adv/.
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How to make her have a good time:
>practice with lubed toys first and use toys before going for the dick
>no such thing as too much lube, and keep in mind you need to re-apply during
>real life anal sex =/= porn anal sex, let her push herself down on you instead of you inserting your dick, let her bounce up and down your dick at least at first so she controls the speed and depth, for some women this is the only anal sex that doesn't hurt and for some you can switch to you being active after that
>make sure she has a vibrator on her clitoris or you/she herself is fingering her
>keep baby wipes near, however she preps or does not prep shit can absolutely happen, don't be a dick about it just discreetly wipe her off or move to the shower if it's too bad
>if you cum in her ass, give her privacy afterwards so she can fart up your sperm in peace
If you want to think in long term benefits, don't spring it on her and want to try it today. Also how to bring it up, just make it very clear to her how attracted you are to her ass, how great you think it would feel etc. If you mention this stuff as dirty talk it comes off as less pushy than "casual" remarks. Make her feel like this would blow your mind and make your dick explode. And obviously keep up the rubbing while you talk about this.
If she doesn't respond quickly enough, just bring it up seriously outside of the bedroom some time and let her know you would absolutely love to try it, have looked up how to make it good for her, you'll stop as soon as she tells you to etc.
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>>17966019
Thanks heaps for the advice. The problem with her being on top is she never likes being on top.
Should i also make sure she has a vibrator on clit when warming up with fingers?
She would be super embarrassed if she shits. What can we do to prep for that preferably without an enema?
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>>17966019
I always talk about her ass and how hot it iss during dirty talk and sex. Is it a good idea to try a finger once during sex? Or should we prep for that too? She's pretty pristine and I know she would be terrified the whole time of me seeing her poop.
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I may or may not have survived a cocaine overdose. I dont know if it was or not and I need an opinion.
>drinking with friend
>after a couple he mentions he could get a 100 worth, done it before so nbd
>yeah sure why not
>100 worth isnt that much, handled it before
>lasts us a good chunk of the night
>tells me hes getting more because hes chasing the high
>gets considerably less this time
>notice he cuts the lines way smaller
>do the line, instant head rush and overwhelmed, space out and stare
>get the feeling of dread and scared shitless, go to the washroom to clear my nose out and not let it sit in there
>tell friend im going home right that second
>lying in bed, hearts racing, it feels really constricted, heads really really foggy
>eyes are seeing black lines all over
>left arm goes numb and i feel really sick
>start crying and saying to myself, im going to die, this is it, this is it oh my god im going to die
Im never doing it again, but i have to know whether i survived an overdose
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>>17965971
No, you probably didn't survive, not your brain at least.
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might it have been something other than cocaine? might it have been cut with something? did he get it from the same dealer, and are they reliable?
I have a friend who was rushed to the hospital and very nearly died from oding on coke, he's told me about the experience and I don't recognize any of this. basically he told me he passed out and next thing he knew he was in bed at the hospital doing fine. of course it might just differ
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>>17965988
This. Also according to my cokefiend friend it is REALLY hard to take too much cocaine.
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what does it take to get a guy into that "if you won't let me fuck you soon i will just have to fuck you anyways"-mode?
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Elaborate
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For the lower IQ not really much
For others constantly teasing them
You trying to make your boyfriend rape you OP? You know all you have to do is ask right?
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>>17965812
teasing and denial
send nudes all day at work, when he gets home play with his dick through his pants.
i get super turned on when a chick is kissing my dick through my pants, and I swear to god if she doesn't get that dick out and start sucking it, she's about to have it forced down her throat until I nut.
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So I took a blow to the head today. It hurt, but it wasn't a very hard hit and no damage is done. However, now it's a couple of hours later and I've been noticing that the vision in my left eye is blurry as fuck.
I have bad eyesight to begin with so at first I didn't notice it, but when I close one eye and then the other, the difference is super noticeable.
I don't have a headache or even any bruising or swelling in the location I was hit so it doesn't feel like anything serious, but I'm still a little concerned about my vision. Is this something harmless that will just go away over time or should I call my doctor?
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Hospital now.
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>>17965788
Why?
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>>17965789
Signs of brain trauma. Definite concussion. Go now instead of asking questions.
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i never regretted something more in my whole life 2017-01-17 06:00:04 Post No.17965769
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i never regretted something more in my whole life
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i've been talking to this girl for like 3 months now, it started off as a friendly thing. when we started talking i had a crush on another girl. It's quite a complicated story so I won't get into that. I got declined anyways. some time passed and i got over it and started talking some more to the first girl, this was around christmas and i realised i quite like her. I didn't think she would be into me as she didn't give any signs and new year's eve came along and we spoke a bit and shit and i wanted to tell her that i like her but i just didn't have the balls to do it i guess. this other dude i hang out with wouldn't let me talk to her and he would follow me around. that was a red flag. i wanted to ask her out after new year's eve but she was in a vacation for a week or so and i couldn't. she came back and i was out and this guy saw me texting her and told the other guy stated above that i'm talking to her and he got mad in a joke kind of away. i went out a few days in a row with these guys and i saw him texting her aswell and they were talking a lot so i just lost hope and i said fuck this shit this is hopeless. she messaged me and i didn't respond and kept sending messages and i wouldn't respond on purpose and she would keep asking why so i started feeling kinda bad and today i told her let's meet face to face and talk it out and we did. i told her i started to like her and i didn't feel like it was mutual and that other dude got involved and i just gave up i guess just for her to tell me that she did like me ever since we talked until very recently. i just felt broken at that time. all my suffering could've ended if i just had the balls to tell her that on new years eve and now she likes the other dude and i asked her for how long she felt this way and she just said for a few days. this is kind of sad and depressing and i should give up on her as she doesen't really deserve it but i like her a lot is there any chance i can fix this shit up. please help me.
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>>17965769
Stop being such a pussy. If you want a chick ask her out. Don't tell her you like her. Women should be treated like film, not theater. Actions, not words.
Go to the gym and work out. And green text this shit next time.
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>>17965790
i fear getting rejected for trying to hard.
treated like film like what
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>>17965790
I'm not OP, but do you ask out a girl that has no interest in you? Or do you tell her your feelings?
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left porn on gfs ipad 2017-01-17 05:27:00 Post No.17965682
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So i live with my girlfriend. Last night i was watching porn on her ipad (incognito mode) and forgot to close the window b4 she came home for netflix.
this morning she went on the browser and saw it. said im a piece of shit and that shes blocking me.
shes on her period
how fucked am i
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pretty unreasonable desu. try to explain that it's a pretty normal thing and watching porn doesn't mean you care for her any less
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>>17965685
>try to explain that it's a pretty normal thing and watching porn doesn't mean you care for her any less
cripes
i hope she dumps your sorry ass op
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>>17965692
>mfw I could jerk off to bbc in front of my gf and she wouldn't give a single shit
feels good man
learn how to express your sexuality bros. never be ashamed of being a man.