I ironically forgot to bump my thread. Is there a way to forget stuff? I know you can suppress a memory until your brain no longer has the proper wiring to recall it but that's unhealthy. It's not something traumatic it's jus a bummer and the things I'm trying to forget don't deserve being remembered by anyone.
I've been trying to keep busy but I'm very lonely so it's hard.
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>>17963479
no, unless your body goes through a traumatic experience and is trying to protect itself through a defense mechanism, your mind is most likely not going to let you forget a memory.
you can try behavioral therapy/memory association. any time you think of the memory try associating it with something new/better, so that it doesn't bum you out any more.
don't hide from it, otherwise you'll just be running forever.
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>>17966171
That stinks. I'll probably stop caring in a week anyway but I was hoping there was some way to forget stuff short of having a brain-destroying disease like Alzheimers.
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The "So You Wasted Your Life" General 2017-01-13 02:15:26 Post No.17951443
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Welcome to the "So You Wasted Your Life" General. Have you wasted your life? Let's talk about it because why not.
25 here. Totally wasted my life. Not a single real achievement to my name and no friends left in my life. Just an unstable mother and a shaky roof over my head.
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I didn't get what I wanted out of college and it was my fault.
I wasn't proactive. I was complacent because I wasn't independent growing up at home. I didn't have structure.
I wasted money on escapist shit too. Needed a job before I knew it and now I'm playing catch up with my life.
No girlfriend either because I was so wrapped up with myself.
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There's always time to be the kind of person you want to be
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>25
>wasted your life
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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How often do girls get horny
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I cant be 100% sure because everyone is different, but based on me and girls I know, more than what you expect. Also there are girls with exceptionally high sex drives, and girls who are just not interested in sex. I would say tl;dr it depends
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Why the fuck do I keep attracting white women all the fucking time?
For example I had two equally attractive white and hispanic girls in one of my college classes. I tried talking to the hispanic girl and nothing. The white girl would be on my dick with me not even applying effort. Im really not even interested in white women, half the time they are off coal burning anyway. Im not sure what they are looking for, it;'s a little early to be out searching for a beta provider. Im not even rich, I barely have money for me.
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>think of my dad or my dog
>begin to cry
Why is this?
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>>17967274
...are you sad?
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Are they dead?
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>>17967280
One of them is
Would cutting soda out of your life completely have that much of an impact?
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depends on how much you drink
in short though, yes.
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>>17967191
Depends how much you drink.
If you drink one bottle a day, that's cutting 250 calories a day. That would help if you're gaining or trying to lose.
It's also an assload of sugar.
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>>17967203
This.
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Hey /adv/,
My girlfriend of six years broke up with me a few months ago, because she said I was too depressed and it wasn't fair to her. I thought that was selfish, so I decided to fake committing suicide, and paid a homeless person to call her from my cellphone (as she was my only emergency contact) and pretend to be the officer responding to my death. Now she feels terrible (from what I can tell on Facebook) and she wishes she had never broke up with me. How can I let her know that I'm still alive and that she can stop regretting it without being implicated in this lie?
Thanks in advance.
P.S. I only did it to show her that she was being selfish and inconsiderate. Now that she understands that, there's nothing wrong with it.
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try harder next time
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>>17967136
>that tfw when it's actually not bait, but it's too disgusting to actually pretend that it's real
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>>17967129
You don't ever break that illusion of being dead. If you come back into her life it'll only be for that one time. She's going to be pissed, she's going to wish you were dead, and she's never going to look at anyone else the same knowing in the back of your head that there are sociopaths out there as sick as you.
TL;DR You double fucked yourself OP.
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I was always fascinated about how men are stronger than women. I have this thing in my head where I grab some poor helpless girl and hold her down as she tries her very best get me off of her but she eventually realizes that her body isn't capable of over powering mine. So she stops struggling amd just accepts what is about to come.
When I'm holding her down with my body weight. I remove her clothing, I also remove mine. I rub vaseline all over my penis. I turn her over, I spread her legs and I ram my cock straight up her vagina. Her screams getting louder and louder with each thrust. And then finally, I cum inside her.
Then, I drop her off somewhere completely naked, alone and abused and watch as she limps her way home.
What is this fetish called?
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it's called "you need to go to theraphy" fetish
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>>17967080
women have this fetish too
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I think it's called rape.
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So /adv/ it's been a while since I've come to you for help, but I've finally developed a problem I was always afraid would come. My dick doesn't want to cooperate when it comes times to sleep with my gf. She wants sex a lot more than I'm used to (I've basically done nothing but jerk off to ridiculously specific hentai for the last two years) so this is all really new to me again. I'm not complaining, I love how about the sex she is, I just can't keep up and it's stressing me the fuck out. Not to mention it makes her feel inadequate and unattractive which then makes me feel even worse and continues the cycle.
I'm 99% sure it's all in my head but I don't know what to do. I've stopped looking at hentai, I've stopped jerking off, I just don't know why my dick doesn't want to play ball. I'm only 22 this doesn't make any sense.
Pls help.
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Oh also, I meant to add I'm more than willing to answer any questions to help give a clearer picture of what's going on. It's driving me insane though, I'm basically constantly afraid of the next time she'll want to have sex because I don't know if I'll be able to. I'm pretty on edge about it most of the time. I also have OCD, anxiety, and depression if those matter. I'd imagine the OCD and anxiety are playing into this big time.
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Obviously if you are on any mess that can fuck your erections up. I'm not sure how you feel about her but I've known women that I would not want to fuck just because I respect them too much, this could be your case.
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Why am I so unlovable? 2017-01-17 10:44:15 Post No.17966768
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I try to act as nice as possible, I try as hard as i can to make friends, but I only have one friend and nobody has ever been romantically interested in me. Is it because I have virtually no friends? I have clinical depression and anxiety so that might be it :( I just want a hug ;(
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you don't make friends or find relationships by 'being nice',
you do it by having self respect and being a person of value
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>>17966774
How can I be a "person of value"? I'm sorry that this post sounds desperate but i've been feeling very sad this week.
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Be your own entity instead of being everyone else's slave. If you are a good person, people will naturally want to be around you, unless you're REALLY ugly. IF you have interests, find people who share them. If not, find your passions. Lastly, don't ask 4chan for a hug and complain about your depression. Someone close to me once said that depression is just a sad excuse to not get things done. Instead of crying about how depressed you are, dop something that makes you feel good (except jerking off) and you might actually make something of yourself.
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Only for smart people 2017-01-17 10:18:52 Post No.17966669
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Guys i am in deep shit!!!
I have less than a month to make a flowchart tipe thing that would let a programmer (i am a 0 at programming) create a test that people can use to diagnose their headaches.
This is my data source https://www.ichd-3.org/ and this is an american (not an american) version of such a test www.bontriage.com
I have been using microsoft visio to copy the american test but the problem is that i have no idea how to show the acumulation of variables for the diagnosis without actualy branching my flowchart in to something lightyears in size. There are like 160 diferent headache types and each has their own diagnostic criteria and what not.
Anyone know how i could do this easy? Would be realy apreciated.
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Well, from a programming perspective, I'd say to try and present the data in a form of a tree, ideally a binary tree.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Binary_tree
Put in another way, there must be some variables that are more common to some headaches and some that are common to others.
In an ideal case, say that 50% of headaches have a value A for one variable and 50% have value B for the same variable, that means you could split up the headaches into half with one question. And so on and so on.
Maybe look at some other wiki pages on various data structures and that might give you a clue how to organise the data.
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That's what you get for not taking algebra class seriously.
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>>17966702
The problem with this method is that there are basicaly no variables with only 2 possible solutions. usualy there are like 4 or more. not to mention that there are several diagnostic criteria that are like "2 or more of thease 5 symptoms" and i have no idea what to do with them. Was gona do it like suggested but then realised that it would not work.
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Hey everyone
Since last week, I feel pretty bad. I feel like I'm "no one". If I die right now, my family will be sad, few friens too, rest of my contact shoked, but after a month, it's all like nothing appened.
I miss having someone who can count on me, anywhere, at any time.
The guy you call everytime there is something wrong. The guy you can really trust. The guy that not only help you solve your problems, but make sure that they not come back.
Even if it's not with a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Even just FRIENDS. But no, look like no one need or want you.
Got a lot of gay friends. They are all crying about shit tons of problems. But everytime you ask them if they need something, if they need to talk. No one want your help.
This is killing me. It's my only problem in my fucking life, but it bring my moral to negative.
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I can be your online friend. Im looking for a friend whos impartial and can share my thoughts with. I can listen to you too!
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>>17966613
Same. Let's all text
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>>17966614
I'm interested
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Does age/height matter much?
I'm talking about being the man in the relationship and your gf is about a head taller then you, while also being a few years older.
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age, not necessarily unless it's an obvious extremity.
height definitely matters.
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being a bit older, and taller is usually preferable
but don't get mindfucked over it. confidence is always #1
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>>17966629
Yeah, but it can really bother me sometimes. I already am pretty beta but I'd like to be a classic manly man in the relationship though.
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Applying for political asylum in the US 2017-01-17 09:46:32 Post No.17966548
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Applying for political asylum in the US
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'm an Iranian national who was born in Germany but moved to the US when I was 2 and have been living here since (I'm now 21)
My parents came on a work visa but ended up staying, and so now they have no status.
I'm applying for asylee status, and my interview is going to be next week by an immigration officer. What can I do to improve my chances at passing? The only thing I can think of is due to political and religious reasons, ie I'm irreligious, I believe in freedom of press and freedom of religion, against Islamic theocracy etc. But I'm not sure how I would provide evidence to support this. Like I said I simply grew up here and now am facing the possibility of not having my work visa renewed, at which point I don't know what I'd do.
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I'd be pretty pissed at my parents if they did this
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>Iranian born in Germany
No wonder they so fucking cucked
>inb4 ebin racist
Where the fuck do you think you are?
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>>17966578
The worst part is they left me in the dark and never discussed my citizenship ever, until now
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Where do I unironically go to find a traditional girl that just wants to get pregnant and cook for me?
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>>17966470
christian mingle
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A church. That's basically it.
Most girls have ambitions other than popping out babies and cooking.
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southeast asia, possibly latin america
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Anal Suppository (laxative) 2017-01-17 08:47:51 Post No.17966329
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Anal Suppository (laxative)
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Are anal suppositories painful? It feels kinda weird lodging some shit in my ass. Please help. I have constipation for about 3-4 days already, the laxative tablets I take don't work, I have no choice but to use the above.
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>>17966329
Bump pls help
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>>17966329
Bump
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>>17966329
Bumps