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people are not generally going to like losing power over you

>>18674439
So just stay the course and it'll eventually blow over?

>>18674434
Learn to distinguish between banter and when people actually try to insult you.

If they insulted you, you angry and they got angey that you got angry, well find new friends

>>18674424
Yes, it is appropriate.
I don't think it is appropriate to get wasted in general, but if you can handle yourself after a beer I don't see the problem with going out for a drink with them either - with our without same gender friends.

Is it you being controlling and shitty or your s/o?
Yes, it's fucking normal to have friends. You don't just drop your friends once you get in a relation unless you're a shitty person.

ask your boyfriend about this

>but 4chan said its ok
isn't gonna fly

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>>18674384
I almost cheated on my boyfriend once. I realized that cheating on them wouldn't make me happy it would just ruin the perfect relationship I have with him. You just need to work on your impulses. Or should have sooner. It's too late now. You fucked up. Hard. Also, did she break up with you? maybe you can salvage the mess you made.

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>>18674411
she already broke up with me. I've already sharpened the knife. It is razor sharp. My hormones destroyed who I was. I never deserve to breath this oxygen.

>>18674416

>I never deserve to breath this oxygen.

Calm the fuck down man. Biologically, this makes sense. Human males are made to impregnate as much women in their life as possible but somewhere along the line this very basic biological need was considered unethical.

Don't fall for a trap.

DIY Crystals: 2017 Edition

>>18674408
i dunno it makes sense

i remember the high school physics demonstrations of getting a crumpled up piece of paper out of the bottle by counterintuitively blowing inside the bottle

>>18674363
Postcum buildup?

Dick feels cleanest?

If a good simple piss doesn't clean out your urethra, there's something wrong with your dick, mate

>>18674296
>50 dollars/day

that's like above average

>Honesty with your father is step one. Don't wait until taxes. Be proactive and have that conversation. Expect the worst and it won't be that bad.
Our life becomes infinitely better the more difficult conversations we have.
>Clinical depression requires therapy and medication
>Situational depression requires lifestyle changes
>Write down goals
>Write down daily to-dos
>Do half and you're still better than nothing
>Sleep well
>Eat well - green foods
>Run or lift or both see /fit

Again, I can't stress enough communication. With your dad, with your buddies, with your anyone you can trust. Work out your head with them. Thank them. Act on it immediately.

>gets paid $500 a month for doing nothing
>still can't make ends meet

I would literally do anything to have a diminishing $8k in my account and $500 from my dad a month. I could make that shit last forever.

>>18674256
"How would you feel about me talking my bosses into sending me to [your city] sometimes soon?"

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God, OP...
She is already into you.
If you ask
>uhh hey would you uhh maybe date me
You're gonna sound like a beta cuck retard. Don't do that.

>>18674674

I've done this, she said something like "I'd love it" but I know the same thing could be said on a friendly level

>>18674821

the problem is i know i can come off as a flirty person, last time i met with a girl who I wasn't interested in with but she thought i wanted to date and it was really awkward for her trying to grab my hand and i'm just like nonononononono i just want to be friends

besides i wouldn't say it like that, i do have some reasonable amount of confidence even if it's a silly question

I know it's disgusting since it's poop but perhaps you can clean it further and isolate the stringy thing which may or may not be a worm? If you meet a doctor they will tell you the same thing, try to get a specimen, clean away the poop until only the worm-like thing is left, then a match is possible.

Have you noticed your buttons is kinda itchy at night when you're in bed?

It's probably worms. See a doctor.

Probably pinworms...

I love philosophy, but I can think of very real practical applications for a job.

I could see it being beneficial alongside history, writing, or something teaching related.

If you're in STEM it could provide something interesting and diverse on a resume.

I think if you can afford it and like it, it won't ever be harmful, but if you could choose a more useful minor it would probably be more valuable.

Philosophy majors usually have some of the highest averages things like the LSAT, GMAT, MCAT, etc...

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>>18674216
Minor? Good. Major? Only if you are a prodigy at an Ivy League school.

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it's gonna be ruff

well, if you're carrying a heavy pack it's a bit of a pain. my last pack was nearly 30kg and at 3500 meters i was in pretty sorry shape after the main ascent over the pass. if you can afford to, buy new ultralight shit and not your fathers gear from 50 years ago like i used...

if you're packing light and staying in hostels rather than a tent, just make sure you're prepared for a day's journey and willing to stay more than one night if you don't feel prepared for the next leg

besides that, you'll probably be going a bit slowly

but overall it sounds lovely and congratulations on being bold enough to give it a shot by yourself! i hope you have a great time.

>>18674231
>>18674231
Thanks for the advice!
>and not your fathers gear from 50 years ago
I... uhh... kinda messed up already on that front. Gonna be heavy.

>>18674283
So you have zero experience in backpacking?

Running isn't going to fix the problems that arise from you not having motivation. So fuck your dad. My father's the same - love is a gift and not a conversation about ideas and interests. Let your mom do as she will. That's a good thing going.

First thing is to start becoming independent. Financially and socially. Start applying to places. Call centers, warehouses, trade apprenticeships - look into trade school. This isn't because you're impassioned it's because you're an adult and that means you're RESPONSIBLE. For everything.

Find a community that isn't anonymous so you can get to know people. IRL is better than anything, but even Tumblr is better than nothing.

Sleep well. Eat right. Exercise, yada yada that's not rocket science, it's the basics. Eat green things and run around the block.

Know that living is fucking expensive and leaving will put you into undue stress. Figure it out. One step at a time.
WRITE IT DOWN.

I believe in you anon. You're going to make your life better

I don't think it's called "running away" when you're an adult. Just apply to grocery stores or fast food restaurants. Get some kind of income. You can't look down on it if you've never done anything and don't have experience to offer. There's pretty much zero chance of something happening if you don't get yourself out there and do something. Volunteer somewhere at least, meet some people and make connections.

>>18674228
>>18674236
I have been applying to places for years now and have at most gotten 10 or so interviews....some don't even give courtesy emails anymore. Why can't I be hired to even the market down the street? Why am I such a failure even when I try?

>>18674203
You are possibly afraid of making her pregnant, yes?

>>18674203
Try not to Jerk off/Have sex for 10 days, while finger/give her head.
Blue balling yourself for a long period is certainly going to help you cum

>>18674229
I have an impregnation fetish and she knows this, she's also on birth control.
>>18674366
10 days? We have sex like every 3 or 4 days

>>18674200
did you just get out of prison or something?

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Been using this tracker for 12years, had 0 problems with downloading 4TB and uploading 9TB of content over the last 12 years.
No virus or malware and some decent rules to keep leeches at bay.

>>18674172

asking, mostly. you can soften the blow with increments, or simply by asking her what her dirtiest desires are as well and offering a trade.

Yuck

>>18674172
You're degenerate, KYS

>>18674148

are you over 18? dont worry the mods dont check beyond the first post. your options change drastically if you are over 18.

>>18674163
I'm 18 in community college.

>>18674176


shes not your best friend, or rather, you aren't hers. you are just some guy she can't seem to get rid of that she didn't mind having around at some point. things 'arent ever going to be the same again' sure, but they never were what you thought they were. even on the platonic level your friendship is almost entirely one sided.

you were just another face in the crowd of her life.

>>18674127

>swipe right on girls you like
>talk to the girls you match with
>transition the conversation to asking them to hang out irl
>dont take them out for anything too heavy in terms of food, this will prevent them from wanting sex after

>>18674143
My trouble so far is transitioning to wanting to hang out. I want to make it clear it's a hookup but without sounding like a douche

>>18674127
Pay for tinder, its pay 2 win now.