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I have doubts about my bf. We are together for 1 year and he cares about me and try to make me happy but.
I don't think I can rely on him in critical situations. I think he will prefer his comfort zone over me. He has his issues, I suppose it's because he was hurted by a girl before and he's afraid of being beta or something like that. Also, he really loves his comfort zone. And I'm the person who needs to rely on someone with mutual help and support, I want to trust someone who can also trust me. I can't stop thinking about hypothetical situations, for example, if I need to move out from my current apartment I'll expect my man to help me with moving, help me with stuff and heavy things. I'm pretty sure he won't help me. He has never been in my place because it's too far. He won't go to places which is too far away from his house. But he goes to vacation with his friends, they have these larp hobbies(I'm not into it).
I know, I'm thinking too much but it hunts me down that one day I will need him and he won't be there.
I can't talk to him about such things because it never happened. Am I paranoid? Am I asking too much?
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You've been dating a year and he's never seen your place? That's fucked.
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>>18678715
This. Sounds like you're a side chick to be completely honest, and its only been a year I'd dump and move on with your life
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>>18678727
Hm, is it really a red flag? Honestly, I never asked him to come here though...
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So, I bought weed from a guy I didn't know, and smoked it with a girl I'd recently met, and shortly after, she started "tripping" and panicking and insisted I call EMS, which I then did. She wasn't able to visit the hospital because she's too poor, and she's been in her dorm all day having continued adverse reactions. Still "tripping" and panicking. I'm assuming the medics discovered this, but she told me that what we smoked was K2, or spice. I had no idea, but I will admit I had an awfully strange high, too.
What do I do to help and make this right?
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Either give her some magic mushrooms or MDMA
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I'd kick that mans ass, also I seriously hope she was smart enough not to drop your name to the EMT's. Ride it out dude, unless you are no shit dying I would never want to go to a hospital because of a drug overdose.
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>>18678625
>K2
Did you buy shit that wasn't in nug form?
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I struggle with thinking all the time that I'm not living life the right way.
I'm just working at a job.
I have No close friends or lovers.
I spend most of my time watching shows or reading things trying to stay active when I'm not. I do smoke weed and I drink alcohol occasionally.
I know I'm not doing that bad at life and everyone is always telling me to get a higher paying job, and friends so I could stop being a hermit.
The thing is I think I don't really need in real life friends that much to stay happy. But in honest I feel like I don't deserve them until I have my life in order. I have my shows and video games to keep myself entertained but I'm starting to think anything I do in my free time is pointless, because I know I don't have my own thing going.
Should i just stop criticizing myself? I'm starting to find it hard to like things I used to like.
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>>18678618
>wahhhh i'm so ALOOOONNNNEEEE
>p.s. my friends keep pushing me to do better and i'm not really alone lmao XD
fuck OFF
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You need to get some better hobbies anon. Weed is the fruit of knowledge, it should reveal your true self. Contra to popular belief, it does not make one lazy. I smoke basically 24/7, and when I do it motivates me to workout and read.
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>>18678627
Should i have not even bothered asking advice?
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How do you find the strength to go through 3 hours of driving and 9+ hours of office work as a daily routine? My free time is virtually nonexistent, just like the pay.
I don't know where this is taking me, I'm gaining experience for higher positions, sure, but I don't know if my mind will hold on. Can't even work out anymore.
Needless to say I'm not the most social of creatures, I have the most basic contact with my coworkers, and really I don't expect more since they act like robots.
It feels really lonely, and I have no other options if I want a roof over my head.
This Mongolian silk trading website is the closest thing I have to having open conversations.
>inb4 go neet life
No.
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Get a job closer to home or move closer to your job. Quit making things so fucking hard.
A commute longer then 30 minutes is just stupid.
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>>18678504
This, unless you live in a big city, in which case a 45min-1hr commute is pretty common
1.5 hours is a lot though. Why are you working so far away ?
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>>18678504
>Get a job closer to home
Nothing in my field in the area.
Here there's only work for 6-8 months because of tourism, and it's the usual waiter/cook/dishwasher demand 99% of the time.
>move closer to your job
With the current prices using a car is still cheaper by a lot, I think a lot about doing it though, money won't matter if I lose my mind.
On the other hand, my savings would be nearing zero. My goal is to save enough and get the fuck out of this shithole. Might take a while.
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so I was drinking some beers with my (now ex) girlfriend last night, I had about 5 over the course of 3 hours, and my ex had about 13, things got heated and our friend left and my ex started to assault me, I didn't hit her back because I live in commiefornia and they'd take her side if she had so much as a bruise, she did it multiple times and I only put my hands on her to get her off me, my room mates called the police and she got charged with domestic violence(justice for men, finally), what I'm wondering though is should I, or can I get a restraining order against her so she doesn't come to my house and beat herself up to frame me or burn my house down or something. I don't really have much physical proof of her hitting me or starting problems besides the police report but I don't really want her coming around here anymore and since she gets mail here she can legally squat and start shit
tl;dr
should I get a restraining order to keep myself out of hot water and false dvi charges?
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>>18678411
If you honestly think she is going to start shit in general then you can file a restraining order, but you may or have to provide a good enough argument that you need one.
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>>18678411
>hanging out with your ex
You are part of the problem.
And unless you want to waste your and her time with court, you have like 0 reason to do so.
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>>18678411
You better. Had one wave a gun under my nose and this after she hit me with a freezer door, almost knocking me out.
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>Forgot to apply for college
>meant to start next week
>What the fuck to do I do
>England
Pic Unrelated
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>>18678408
You're fucked. Find a job. Try again later.
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>>18678408
>Forgot to apply for college
How could you possibly forget to do something like that?
Anyway - call the college and ask if they will accept late admissions. If not - ask if you can apply for the next semester.
If not call another college and repeat.
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>>18678409
This
Get a job until the next chance to apply
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I've done everything every article has told me to do in terms of moving on.
She's still on my mind.
What now?
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>>18678361
Ice cream.
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Been there took me years to get the girl off my mind. In the end spending time with other friends and focusing on work / school helped me. Having good friends made it alot easier for me
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>>18678414
not OP,but..
>tfw have little to no friends
>tfw shes the only friend I care about or have genuinely good time with
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>what haircut should I get?
Keep in mind my hair naturally curly so any attempts to flatten are pointless.
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get a crew cut or go bald like justin imberlake
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>>18678335
i mean shaved not bald
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>>18678291
you've posted this shit on every board man, like jesus.. look at a males hairstyle catalogue instead of an damn image board.
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How can i stop wasting my time with a girl? I love her, some days she is so kind and treats me like a bf but other days ignores me and i feel like shit. How can i stop thinking about her and focus in other things? is very annoying and im overthinking everytime about it, makes me sad and worthless.
Im not okay, and I want to change my thoughts and dedicate more time to myself.
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>>18678245
Tell us more about her and you. Ages, how long you are dating, her bipolar disorder, your depression, does she even know she is your gf and so on.
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>>18678245
Top kek, she is suckering you in with a classic salesman technique. When she treats you like crap and then treats you very well, the difference between the two gives you an emotional rush that makes you want to stay in the relationship. If she treated you well everyday, you would implicitly get bored or re-ratchet your expectations upward, causing her to have to be ever increasingly nice to you.
Honestly, my best advice is to read some psychology books and to break off the relationship
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nOpN9qHdjLg
nb: this guy is like 40 and unmarried so his viewpoint might be over-the-top for most people
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Been called a rapist (false accusation//even she admits) by a girls bf. Says he has paid bad people to come to the house, family inside. Country with no guns. What should I do?
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>>18678211
So... someone called you a rapist... I've been called a pedo just cause I was socially awkard and look weird. Probably the worst day of my life and I now avoid that suburb, but overall theres lots more stuff in this world to focus on than to be concerned about stuff like that. Unless shes filing criminal charges against you, I wouldnt take it to heart.
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>>18678211
Life isn't a gangster movie. I've been to someone's home to do bad things to them before, and the last thing in the world I'd do is tell them about it first. Particularly as you don't live alone, because even the calmist, most laid back pacifists tend to get a little over excited when you threaten their family. Tel someone you're (or someone on your behalf) going to come to their home and hurt them, chances are you'll walk in the door thinking you're Tony Montanna - right up until you come face to face with 8 big men, 3 pit bulls, 2 crowbars and a sawn off shotgun.
TL;DR - he's bluffing.
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>>18678211
>>18678231
maybe you guys should stop being shady fucks.
stop acting like a rapist/pedo and people won't assume you are one.
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Hey /adv/ I need your help about a girl. So I recently met this girl and we have been talking a lot. She's single but she said that she only sees me as a friend which is fine to me but recently it seems that she is trying to control me
>do this, don't do that
>this looks better than this
Etc.
What's the meaning of this?
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>>18678170
It means she's trying to control you and isa shitty friend
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>>18678184
Why would she though? Who's the shitty friend?
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>>18678201
She is warped in the head lad. I bet her mother was very controlling of her father, and she picked this trait up, and now is more comfortable with what she is familiar with, and so unconsciously does this
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Too picky about company? 2017-09-01 12:23:50 Post No.18678150
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When it comes to forming friendships with people, i'm pretty damn selective, with things like intelligence, interests, personality, and social ability. I can count my friends on one hand. I'm not bothered by this.
But, I've been toying with the idea of perhaps looking to get a girlfirend. Or at least an fwb. But I'm wondering how this can work with how picky I already am with just platonic relationships. I know some girls I could approach, but I have basically no interests in common with them. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to spend time with them and enjoy it.
How do you deal with this? Do relationships have to be necessarily based on friendship? Or can it be just a societal dance that you do, and the traits of the other person doesn't matter, beyond some basic compatibility?
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I'm very similar to you. Basically even if I get along with somebody, if they aren't (somewhat) intelligent, don't share my interests, and don't operate on the same wavelength as me than I don't really hang out with them on a regular basis. I have a few friends but not many as a result of this. But I actually do have a gf who fulfills all of those criterias, she's really smart and intellectually stimulating to talk to, and she even likes dumb anime shit like me. What I'm saying is if you don't mind being alone for a while it is possible to find a gf that fits your high standards, it just requires a fair amount of luck. You can find a gf that you don't share common ground with or don't enjoy talking to, but really that depends on how much you'd be willing to put up with for the sake of getting your dick wet.
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>>18678173
>but really that depends on how much you'd be willing to put up with for the sake of getting your dick wet.
Very aptly put
How did you happen to find/meet her? Did you spend any time looking/trying beforehand?
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>>18678200
I met her online through various friend circles and we kinda just played video games and shit together, not just us two but the whole group I mean. Eventually we became very close friends. One day we just kinda confessed to each other and found out we both had mutual feelings. Pretty happy moment.
To respond to your second question, getting a gf was never really a priority for me. She's my first one and I developed feelings for her because of her personality, not because I was ready to jump on any girl available. That's not to say I wouldn't fuck any woman I found attractive or whatever, but I just wasn't interested in committing all that time and effort. If I'm only dating my gf for the sex I'd rather just spend that time hanging out with my friends. That's just me of course I have no idea how much of a priority it is for you.
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Girlfriend makes fun of me 2017-09-01 10:25:23 Post No.18677962
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Girlfriend makes fun of me
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One week ago my aunt gave me a kitten she had. I named it Andy, just like my name.
When my gf saw it and I told her she started laughing really hard and I didn't like it. She has been making fun of me the whole week and she has been calling him "Melissa" (that's my girlfriend's name) and she won't listen to me despite telling her that 1) the kitten is male and 2) his name is Andy.
How can I make her understand that she has to call my cat by his name?
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She's trying to indirectly teach you that naming a pet like yourself is fucking stupid
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>>18677967
This.
See, everyone? Even people with severe levels of autism can land a girlfriend.
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>>18677962
Do you have autism? Serious question.
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Need to know im not insane 2017-09-01 10:19:18 Post No.18677953
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Need to know im not insane
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Im getting more and more depressed by the day because people dont really give fucks anymore. I was watching my "alternative" friends snapchats yesterday and Ive come to realize how truely fucked everything is now. They think they are the social outcasts and that they are saying fuck the system like the indie bands of the 80's but they are A C T U A L Y white kids with lots of money and a sense of elitism so fucking up their own asses im pretty sure they cant shit anymore. This is just another example of why im finding it very hard not to like anyone anymore. I kinda wanna bf too but every single gay I come across is the same. Im kinda considering blocking my phone number, deleting my facebook and completely changing who I am. I hate being slightly more (I cringe at this, im self aware) "woke" that everyone else my age. I kinda just wanna die in my sleep but hey hoe. Any advice on either becoming a fucking normie and not helping society whatsoever or being able to block all the feelings and die alone happy? TYSM also any other depressing and relateable stories below would be really appreciated. Im not saying im better than everyone, I dont think everyones evil. Its just cripplingly dishearting how I go out my way to be nice or w/e and if I dont im an asshole. But everyone else can get away with it. Pic not me
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>Faggot posting on a PC discussing his white friends
>"UGH I just can't even. Like, you know?"
>Thinks anyone else has their head up their own ass
kek
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>>18677953
You are just another edgy teen who thinks he has it all figured out, but the hard reality is that you know nothing yet.
Go eat ice cream, read some book, have a fap, focus on school and tell your parents you still love them and then hug them. Try sport and csgo. Your puberty will pass some day. Until then, hang in there.
>wanna bf
Then ask some qtie boy from your class to have ice cream together. Then invite some excuse for him and you to be on some private secluded place and something will happen. Bring condoms or be teen and pregnan!
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>>18677953
>I have a lot of weird friends.
>It suddenly strikes me that they're weird.
>This depresses me.
So get new friends.
Really. Outgrowing friends is a normal part of life, and if you feel you have nothing in common with them any more, seek out people you do feel comfortable with
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Ill try to keep this as short as possible.
I was always sad/depressed/scared (anxiety issues at young age)
>parents knew something was up, didnt get proper help
>teachers noticed behavior problems and put in child protective services
>my parents told me they wanted to take me away, which scared and angered me so i never cooperated with them
>grow older
>more problems occur
>drug problems
>drop out
>cant hold a job
>cant hold a relationship, or friendship for that matter
>become depressed
>start thinking
>realize ive always been the problem
>seek help
>psychologists dont want to deal with my depression/medication but more so with trying to fix my behavioral problems which is now diagnosed as a disorder
>attend sessions, try to get better
>nothing really seems to work, its all to inconsistent
>stop following therapy
>decide to go back because otherwise Ill lose my neetbux
>they try to tackle different problems again
>want to quit again
Ive started to believe that I cant change. Perhaps a tiny bit, but I have so many issues and problems that its impossible to deal with them. And I cant accept them either. There is no changing my entire personality or self, so why bother to change it, seems like a waste of energy/time to me
I rather just get medication so I can bear it and live a quiet lonesome existence without bothering anybody, but it seems ill be forced to attend therapy or constantly going minimum wage jobs till i get fired
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>I'm part of the 15% of the world that has crippling mental problems
>Just like 100% of the people on the internet
>Be given the tools to help yourself
>Reject all of them
You're just an asshole who never developed coping mechanisms.
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>>18677938
Poor babby needs to work or seek therepy ohhh poor baby.
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>>18677957
I cant hold a job.
>>18677952
not going to deny that im not an asshole, Im quite selfish too and only do things in my best interest but
>help
I dont think its helping. theyre helping themselves, there is nothing to be gained