Every fucking time. I realized a few months ago that I let people

people are not generally going to like losing power over you

>>18674439
So just stay the course and it'll eventually blow over?

>>18674434
Learn to distinguish between banter and when people actually try to insult you.

If they insulted you, you angry and they got angey that you got angry, well find new friends

>>18674434
>what the fuck might be going on here?
People dont like being opposed, so naturally they will get all defensive. Also if you were introduced as a doormat, then people will treat that way or subsequently try to beat you back into that position.

Maybe explain it to people why its upsetting you or maybe realize some battles are worth getting worked up for and some arent.
Maybe just not hang out with shitty people?

>>18674434
The person you're referring to is a piece of shit who is purposely trying to tear you down to make themselves feel big. You should avoid them as much as possible.

>>18674434
They do that because it's a defense mechanism they do when the person finally calls them out on their bullshit. They hope you're such a weak willed individual that you'll let it go if they state that "it's just a joke"
Some people are just sociopathic assholes who only feel happy by making others unhappy.

>>18674434
Read up about narcissists. These cunts are everywhere and that's exactly what they do. Cut them out of your life like the cancerous tumors they are.